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Soulmate Love

What every conscious, single woman ought to know about...

InsIde thIs GuIde For ConsCIous sInGle Women:✽ the surprising reason you just can’t find any men of quality

✽ the 5 subtle mistakes that most single women are making in their love life and how to turn them around right away.

✽ the #1 mindset you need to adopt to attract reAl soulmate love✽ the real reason why you are still single

You are a conscious single woman who’s looking for your mr. right. We believe that you’re here because you dream of having true love in your life. You know that there’s something special that you’re destined for. You felt it most of your life. You’ve been dreaming of a partner that sees and feels you deeply. And yet…

You’re still single. You may be feeling it’s your fault, maybe there’s something wrong with you, perhaps you’re simply “too much” for a man, maybe you’re destined to be a cat lady your whole life? trust me, I know how you feel, I’ve been there and let me assure you:

It’s NOT your fault you’re still single, there’s nothing wrong with you

My name is lara Fernandez and girlfriend, I’ve been there too. let me tell you, I’ve had some breakups I didn’t think I’d ever recover from. there were times where I just didn’t think that true love would ever find me. I

had my moments where I was sure that there was something broken about me, that something was wrong with me, and if I didn’t settle down - and quick! - I was destined to live alone the rest of my life.

And then there were the times I convinced myself that all the good, quality men out there were gone, taken by other women. At least, in mY area anyway. I got to a point where I thought if yet another man told me that I deserved better than him - I would have just shot him! ugh!

The 5 Subtle Mistakesholding you back from

Hello and welcome,

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more energy, and more money in myself than ever before. I was gonna mAKe this happen!

I became willing...willing to do whatever it took to find my man. And in what sometimes felt like a long journey, and ultimately felt like an overnight blos-soming of a beautiful bouquet of roses, I attracted Johnny Fernandez, the love of my life. Within 3 weeks of our first date, we were in love and planning the rest of our lives together. that was over 13 years ago and now we are living a fantastic life together helping women just like you to do what we did to find each other.

When I say a fantastic life – I mean that I wake up every day to Johnny telling me “good morning woman of my dreams”. We take walks along the water where we live in a beautiful little town in the san Francisco Bay Area of California. We work together on our mission to empower women – helping them attract the love and life of their dreams. And we are totally on the same page in raising our strong, independent, and creative daughter who is surrounded and supported by a strong, committed, healthy love that neither of us experienced in our childhoods, but that we are gratefully providing for her.

After so much dating drama, I almost gave up on soulmate love. After one particularly excruciating break-up, I was lying in the fetal

position on my bed, and it was then I made a deci-sion. A decision that would change the course of my entire life forever.

I decided that I was either going to find my soul-mate, the man of my dreams, and live the life of my dreams with him… OR I was going to be a cat lady. You know what I’m talking about, right? the old lady that lives with 50 cats all her life and then bequeaths her entire estate to her cats in her will when she dies? that was gonna be me if I didn’t find the right man!

In that moment of decision, I knew that I had to get support from somebody who had already done what I wanted to do….

So I hired a Love Mentor, I took personal and spiritual growth workshops and I read tons of books on attracting love and relationships. In short, I became a dedicated student of myself – how and why I did what I did, and how and why I attract-ed the guys I did. I also became a dedicated student of true love and healthy relationships.

And because I REALLY wanted true love for myself, I jumped in with both feet. I invested more time,

Us on our 13th wedding anniversary romantic wekeend

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And the good news is, this is not just a one-time thing, where I happened to “get lucky” to attract Johnny. Johnny and I have been

helping women to step into their power and find their soulmate love for over 9 years now, we did the research and quickly discovered there were plenty of others who have also followed a certain path to love (sometimes without even knowing it). Johnny’s experience as an educator and course creator helped as we discovered each step of the journey then carefully laid out this path so other people can easily follow it.

Regardless of age, career, background, relation-ship history, looks, whatever, when the path is care-fully followed, true love shows up for you - almost by magic! (it's not magic, but can be magical). And now our grateful clients, women just like you from all over the world, follow the same path to love. If I can do it, if they can do it, then YOU can do it. really.

We are so glad you said “Yes” to take advantage of this free love Breakthrough essentials Guide – the Five subtle mistakes holding You Back From soulmate love. By the end of this guide, you’ll know...

Before we do that, I want to talk to you about the biggest mistake you’re almost certainly making on your journey to soulmate love. In fact, if you’ve got this idea in your head, there’s very little chance you’re going to make much real progress.

A lot of people will look at how to fix a bad relationship, how to become the type of woman their man wants or learn how to ‘deal’ with him but the question is…

Why don’t you save yourself the pain and heartache of that and just get the right relationship to begin with?

That’s not to mention the financial and emotional pain of intertwining with the wrong person and then ended up having to get a divorce, etc.

now I’m not saying that you have to be perfect from the beginning, both Johnny and I were in relationships, married and got divorced and a lot of our clients have been in that position, so we understand if you are too. research shows the biggest determinant of your happiness is your

relationship with your spouse or life partner so what we are saying is that NOW is a great time to take your love life a lot more seriously than you have in the past. remember,

listen, you can keep doing things the same way you’ve been doing them your whole life But if you let that happen, nothing will change. You’ll be in exactly the same position you’re in now, single or unhappy 12, 24, 36 months for now.

✽ The surprising reason you can’t find any men of quality✽ The 5 Subtle Mistakes that

most single women are making in their love life and how to

turn them around right away.✽ The #1 mindset you need to adopt to attract REAL soul-

mate love✽ The Real Reason WHY You

Are Still Single

Heartache

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You see, your beliefs positively or negatively shape your circumstances because they determine the actions you take in life and thus, create a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. A self-fulfilling prophecy is simply when something happens because you believed it would happen. For example, if you’ve never tried black coffee but you’re convinced you’re going to hate it, you’re much more likely to balk at it when you do try it.

there is a positive feedback loop between your beliefs and your behaviors. In other words, your behaviors are a manifestation of your beliefs.

It was the 20th century sociologist robert merton who’s credited with coining the term “self-fulfilling prophecy” and formalizing its structure and conse-quences.

In his books “social theory” and “social structure” merton defined self-fulfilling prophecy in the following terms, “when roxanna believes her marriage will fail, her fears of such failure actually cause the marriage to fail.”

now, what does this have to do with finding soulmate love?

The REAL reasonyou can’t find any men of quality

First of all, you need to know there ARE plenty of conscious, single men of

quality out there.

The challenge isn’t that they aren’t around, they are in plain sight, waiting for you...the issue is, you don’t believe they exist, you’re literally (subcon-sciously) IGNORING them. Relax, if

you’re skeptical...

This is NOT in a new-agey spiritual sense, I mean it quite literally.

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Well, it’s likely a lot of your beliefs are false beliefs that are affecting your behavior in a negative way.

If you want to learn more about the 3 specific sets of beliefs that could be holding you back from finding love, keep reading. We’ll share with you how you can not only identify if you have those beliefs yourself, but how to seriously (and strategically) ChAnGe the direction of your entire love life and easily stop your mind’s frustrating downward spiraling love life conversations (based on those 3 sets of beliefs), and then shift to become a magnet for love.

A strongly held belief (a delusion), declared inter-nally and externally as truth, even when it isn’t true, will directly influence your life. For example…

Guys you’ve gone out with in the past may have been influenced by your beliefs, so you may have subcon-sciously pushed good men away, you may have ig-nored a potential soulmate because your self-fulfilling prophecy prevented you from allowing in thAt much good into your life, possibly because you felt you were unworthy of it, or unworthy of him.. You see…

Your self-fulfilling prophecy does not just influence you, but other people as well through your actions. this can have a devastating effect on your love life.

The importance of self-fulfilling prophecy is recog-nizing that your beliefs directly affect your behav-ior so that you can consciously and intentionally influence them to attract your soulmate.

the simplest and most potent belief is arguably to simply, love yourself.

now if you identify with new age or new thought ide-as or are generally spiritual then you probably already recognize that your beliefs affect your behaviors.

You may already make an effort to love yourself, recognize you are fundamentally a good person and feel the same about other people.

doing so is really, really good; its very important and it will make your life better. And often you will grow yourself into a “Great Catch” by cultivating those be-liefs. But there is something more to the equation...

IF YOU ARE LIkE MANY OF OUR cLIENTS YOU MAY ALREAdY BELIEvE “I AM SUccESSFUL, I AM kINd OF A gREAT cATcH” ANd YET YOU FINd YOURSELF ASkINg THIS qUESTION: “WHY AM I STILL SINgLE?”

For example, one of our clients leslie was having fun but definitely not in her soulmate territory...this is her story of how she fixed it:

I was having fun, but definitely not in soul mate territory when I heard about Johnny and Lara’s program. They are two of the most loving, generous people around and they definitely know their stuff when it comes to attracting the right partner. I’m so glad I took a chance. They helped me clarify who I was looking for and what kind of life I wanted to share with him. A few months after taking their program, I met my husband of now three beautiful years of marriage. I didn’t recognize him right away, but he kept showing up in my life in such a powerful way that I had to take notice of what the universe was offering me.

To all of you still looking, never ever settle because it’s absolutely amazing when you meet your soul mate. It doesn’t matter how long it takes—when you find the one, you have won in life. - Leslie *

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You see, the answer is quite simple, beliefs on their own are not enough, you need something much more...

the way this world works is very simple, it is a cause and effect universe and therefore, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. To bring your soulmate into your life you MUST take action. And I don’t

mean just “get out there more”. It goes much deeper than that.

What we’ve discovered after 9 years working with conscious, single women like you is that there are 5 subtle mistakes they nearly always make that prevent them from taking real action toward finally finding their

soulmate...even if, as one of our clients put it, they already have their “sh*t together”. here they are…

that most single women are making in their love life and how to turn them around right away

subtle mistake #1.

manifest mindset: does this sound anything like you?...

You’ve got your vision board up, you’ve got your soulmate list, you’ve got your love altar and you’re praying for your soulmate to come to you. You’ve been doing this for years and years and years and here you are...still single. It’s a great start, it’s just that it's only a START, and alone will have you wishing and wanting, but that’s it. That’s a manifest mindset.

The 5 Subtle

Mistakes

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This does NOT work as a path to soulmate love because frankly, when you’re in that manifest mindset only and

there’s no action, nothing happens.

If you’ve been looking to “manifest” as I described there, or worse, are depending on luck, or “serendipity” to attract the love of your

life...you’re leaving something too important up to chance. that leaves you powerless, leaves you hoping, wishing, waiting, and spending year after year hoping that this is the year lady luck will smile on you, or that your new vision board will be better. You just don’t want to depend on that. It is a huge mistake that will ruin your chances of actually finding true love. so if you have been doing that…

You cannot depend upon the manifest mindset, on luck, on chance or whatever you want to call it to attract the love of your life. You just don’t want to depend on that. It is a huge mistake that will ruin

your chances of finding love. so if you have been doing that…

You want to start taking action, you must put forth serious effort toward attracting your soulmate. You want to deliberately follow a plan. listen, if you’ve been relying on the manifest mindset then you’ve been playing the lotto with your love life.

Some people get lucky with the lotto but the vast, vast majority end up just wasting their money, their time, and their hope. don’t play

the lotto with your love life. It’s too important! the quality of the rest of your life will be determined by the type of primary romantic partnership you have, make it a high priority!

You want to have a plan, just like if you are going to college to get your PhD. You want to take classes and learn from

experts and have mentors to guide you along the way.

You want to put forth serious ef-fort, focus and attention because

this is a part of your life that really matters. Just think, the

person that you spend the rest of your life with, the person you’re closer to than anyone else in the world isn’t that worth some at-

tention, or at least more attention than you’ve been giving it?

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Thinking You Will Attract true love Because You Are “successful”: If you know you are successful,

thats great. many of our clients actually self-identify as successful and while that means something different for everybody, it’s safe to assume you have some things really together in your life...

okay, so you may have a college de-gree, you may even have a Phd, have a great career where you are well respected and well compensated, you may own your own home or two or three of them, you may have a great body and on and on...cool, hi5 to you sister. here’s the thing...

When it comes to finding your soulmate though, don’t lead with your resume. Many “successful

women” do, and it’s a huge mistake.

Instead, you want to lead with your passion, with your heart, with what makes your heart sing so when you are going out there in the

world it’s about what just really feeds your soul because when you share that with a potential date or boyfriend, you will know very quickly if he’s the right man that will light up when You light up.

You see, quality men (with an emphasis on QuAlItY men) aren't looking for a woman who has a sexy resume, they are looking for a woman who is lit up about her life, about herself, and can then be lit up by what he can contribute to your life, and you to his.

What you want to do is start to learn about the beliefs and behaviors that you have about men,

about yourself, about love and relationships so that you relax more into being yourself, your true self, and then you can shine your light so bright that your soulmate cannot be held back from you.

Just to be clear, in no way am I telling you to play small when you’re out on a date with a man. no way, you definitely wanna be shining

your light bright.

It’s just that for attracting your soulmate, it’s not about your resume. It’s just not. that’s one nice little interesting piece of who you are but your career or your business is not all of who you are. so remember that when you are out and about and you are in the process of attracting your man.

subtle mistake #2.

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You’re “too much”, you’re “too creative” for a man to love, you’re “too old” for a man to love you, you’re “too young” for a man love you,

you’re too <insert excuse> for a man to love you.

that’s terminal uniqueness where you - your specific life situation, your past, your relationship history, whatever, makes you unlovable. or how about this? maybe you have a disability and so that might be how you frame it in your mind as “I have a disability so no man could love me”. And let me tell you that all of that’s simply not true, okay?

You really want to throw away the “terminal uniqueness” cloak, you may have been using to protect yourself from even trying, from even going for your dreams anew now, and start to do a reframe on your life, on who you are and why “heck, if it can happen for her it can happen for me, too.”

so you want to actually shift your thoughts around being able to attract a man.

For example, we have a client that has a disability and she was very clear when she came into our program that her disability was what held her back from attracting her soulmate and I told her:

she’s been with her soulmate for years now and he has shared with her that her disability has helped him open his heart even more and become a more patient man with her and everybody in his life. that, my friend, is true soulmate love.

so I encourage you right now to begin to let go of your terminal uniqueness and embrace that your uniqueness is your blessing and that it will attract the right man - not just any man, the right man for you. Also, I’m going to invite you to do another reframe here.

Terminal Uniqueness: When you think you are so special, so unique that no man could love you because…

subtle mistake #3.

You know what, your soulmate will love you exactly as you are and I’m gonna promise you that with

the right man your ‘disability’ will become a blessing and I don’t know how it’s gonna be but I just know

that the right man will love you for exactly who you are” and that’s

exactly what happened...

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Instead of looking at your story, your unique situation, and framing it as “this is why I can’t attract my soulmate” why don’t you

look at models of people around you with great relationships - Johnny and I for example, that you know that intentionally attracted their soulmate and ask yourself “What are the common denominators that made these couples end up together? - do they have a similar attitude, did they have a similar approach to dating, daily habits or a specific way of BeInG in a relationship?”. then you can really start to reframe and model yourself

after those commonalities in attracting soulmate love.

of course, you’re unique and of course you are special and I would never ever suggest that you tone that down in any way.

Just don’t use your specialness to block love from you, don’t use your uniqueness as an excuse for why you can’t find love, just model your beliefs and behaviors after people who intentionally have attracted their soulmate to them.

Globalizing Your Experience: Have you ever... Been dating a man for a little while thinking you

have a committed relationship and then he goes and cheats on you and as a result, you start thinking that maybe All men must be cheaters? or…

have you dated a man (or two or three) who was afraid of commitment, or said that he just wants to have an open relationship and then, as a result, you feel that All men must be afraid of commitment?

That’s globalizing your experience - when you decide based on ONE or two experiences, that something is ALWAYS a certain way, that ALL men are ____.

If, after reading this section, you’ve discovered that you’ve been globalizing your experiences with men, this is good news! Why? Because AWAreness is the first step to ChAnGe. Congratulations! You’re now aware of something you may not have been before, or that you may have suspected was a problem. And more good news: You’re not alone. mAnY of our clients used to do this, too. once they started to shift the direction of their love lives, using our teachings, their love lives started to change for the better. they are with their soulmates now, and if they can do it, so can You.

subtle mistake #4.

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Listen, there are dozens of feel good life coaches out there that decide that being a love coach is a great niche to get into even though

they are not in an relationship themselves.

Simply put, though they are nice and usually well-meaning people, these are the wrong men-tors. At least they are for someone who wants to attract a life-long monogamous, committed partner or husband. to them, having that in their life is just a theory, an idea, it's not reAl to them, so how can they make it reAl for you?

Instead, doesn't it make more sense to learn from somebody who has already personally achieved what you’re trying to accomplish? In this case…

You need a mentor who has consciously and

intentionally attracted their soulmate

and has been with them for a long time.

Johnny and I have been happily married for over 13 years now. I consciously and intentionally attracted him, I’m grateful and proud to be his wife, and we have helped others do the same for their mr right. so I know from personal experience how to show you how to consciously and intentionally attract your soulmate.

Johnny and I have been teaching and inspiring conscious single women for over 9 years now. the women we mentor are finding their soulmates, get-

ting married, having babies, blending families...and it’s a beautiful thing. every time we turn around we are getting an email, card, or phone call from a client who just got engaged, married, found their soul-mate, had a baby, all sorts of good stuff. now…

this book could just be packed with all our success stories but that’s not why we are here, we’re here for you to finally have what You desire, to teach you exactly how you can attract Your mr right.

Of course, learning from no mentor whatsoever is also a huge mistake because without any direction you’re unlikely to get anywhere

substantially different than where you are right now. now, maybe you’ve picked up a book here or there and... you know, kind of half gone through it, done a couple of exercises and then you just put it down...

subtle mistake #5.

Having The Wrong Mentor or No Mentor at all: Not all mentors are created equal...

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or maybe you’ve just been talking to your girlfriends about relationships; your single girlfriends who haven’t intentionally attracted their soulmate. these are not very good mentors.

If you’ve been picking from a hodgepodge of sources or always looking for the cheapest free thing - that’s also the same as having no mentor, no plan, and just hoping to get lucky. haven’t you been hoping to get lucky for years? years? and more years? that’s stressful, it’s a waste of time and money, and it hurts your heart to watch your life slipping away like that.

Doesn’t it?

To be successful in finding your soulmate, the best way is to follow a proven path to get there and the best way to do that is to find a mentor.

If you haven’t found a mentor, please know that Johnny and I would be honored and would loVe to be your love mentors. We have forged the path to soulmate love for you... all you have to do is walk that path with

a plan in mind...

of course, you can have an entire step-by-step plan laid out in front of you and yet, stIll fail to get what you want. If this sounds like you,

then you need to know…

The #1 Mindset we invite you to adopt to attract REAL soulmate love

the number one mindset we invite you take on to attract the love and a life of your dreams is...are you ready? here it is….

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Most women have been taught to just sit back and just wait on their life, wait for luck, wait for

chance, wait for destiny. No!

Be a Rebel!Become a reBel, think differently.

This is what it’s going to take, my sister, to live that extraordinary life and to attract that extraordinary love that you long for.

Why do I say “be a rebel!” when I’m also saying “follow a proven path”? Because the masses, most people, mass media, tV, all that does

not encourage you to stand in your power and

attract healthy life-long love. they want you to keep wanting it but never get it. As your love mentors, Johnny and I will teach you, show you the path, and lift you up, reveal to you your power, help you get in touch with, reach for, and attain your dreams for your life. most people don’t have love mentors. have you seen the state of love and relationships in our society for the masses? ‘nuff said.

You do not want to think like the masses do. I doubt you do or you wouldn't be still reading this. You do not want to do what the masses do. The masses are miserable, they’re sitting around being programmed and brainwashed by silly tV shows, popular movies and well-meaning but clueless friends that send the message that life long, committed, monogamous love just isn’t possible. so it isn’t...for them. Now what about YOU?

Forget that passive, clueless, hope-to-get-lucky approach, raise your standards for yourself, raise your expectations for yourself and your life. You deserve more.

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What you want to do, girlfriend - is grab the steering wheel of your love life, of your entire life and don’t just leave it up to chance or “destiny”. listen, your destiny is determined by your decisions and your ac-tions, nobody else makes them for you, it’s up to you!

As a rebel, you do your very best not to care what others think, be loud and be proud of your strong intention to attract your extraordinary love and your

extraordinary life. this is what it’s going to take to stand in your feminine power and get anything that you desire in your life.

As a rebel, you don’t subscribe to society’s fairytale conditioning that your fairy godmother is going to sprinkle her fairy dust and prince charming is going to come and rescue you if you just sit on the couch and do nothing and wait long enough. stop waiting!

Be Your Own

start doing the work to bring your beliefs and behaviors into alignment so that you can find that extraordinary love that’s out there just waiting for you.

With that rebel mindset, and expert mentoring and guidance (maybe... from Johnny and I?) you won’t be able to keep your beloved away from you.

so far, you’ve learned that having a manifest mindset, lead-ing with your resume, terminal uniqueness, globalizing your experience about men, and having the wrong or no mentor are subtle mistakes that hold women back from love.

And now you know how to change your mindset and start taking action towards finding soulmate love, so let’s talk about....

The One Last Surprising Reason You’re Still Single

You know, the real reason that you are still single is maybe that you are subscribing to the myth that you just need to “get out there more...”

You just need to kiss a hundred frogs to get your prince, that type of approach. Well, no, that’s just not the case here. the truth is you actually want to get IN more. What do I mean by getting In more?

Fairy Godmother!

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You want to start focusing on the internal attractors to love first, not the external factors like most people are taught in sound bites and quick tips on tV and magazines. to increase your internal attractors you want to explore and change your beliefs and behaviors around yourself, your beliefs and behaviors about yourself,

your beliefs and behaviors about men and about love and relationships.

That is what’s going to change your destiny.

that kind of inner work is great for you and I am a big fan of meditation retreats and workshops and growing yourself, I have done it myself and continue to do so.

But the problem is that it’s usually too general because most of those retreats and such are not focused specifically on your inner attraction factors for soulmate love. they are often not led by someone who has soulmate love. so you don’t just want more general inner work, but instead you want inner work that is specific to every part of your internal make-up that deals specifically with love and relationships.

You want to focus on, feed, and basically open up that part of you so that you can shift and change your beliefs and behaviors around yourself, men, and relationships. that will help you go beyond just being a generally happier person, and make you a powerful invitation to love and the conscious relationship that you desire and deserve.

Then your whole self-fulfilling prophecy will start to become a positive one and from that place your WHOLE life will improve. We have so many clients who, once they commit to themselves at a whole deeper level, and join us for one our programs they begin to see everything in their life start to get better.

one of the first things they often see is that their health or even their finances start to become more abundant. Why is that? you ask, why would two completely different areas of their life feed off each other like that?

simply because they showed the universe that they matter by investing in themselves. You matter. You see, the universe will respond at the level of commit-ment that you display to yourself first.

So, now you may be saying, “Well Lara, I AM getting in more.

I’ve been doing all the meditation retreats and

EVERYTHING” but here’s the deal:

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When you commit to yourself, you whole life starts to shift for the better and you will feel internally

guided to get out there more in the RIGHT way, the way that will attract your soulmate.

Your beliefs and behaviors become the self-fulfilling prophecy of your life so you must discover what exactly they are then learn to

control and direct them toward the life of your dreams.

the key is not to “get out there more”, the key is to get In to yourself more, to discover then learn to in-fluence your beliefs and behaviors with the support of the right mentors and a supportive community of

like-minded women who are on the same path.

When you do, you start to shift your beliefs and behaviors and take conscious action toward your soulmate and that’s the reAl fairy dust, thats the reAl “magic”. that’s where you become your own fairy godmother and magic and miracles can occur for you.

You CAN Do This!

here’s what i want you to

Do NextIf you’re serious about consciously and

intentionally attracting your soulmate then you’ll want to know the following...

After over 10 years of helping conscious, single women like you live the life of their dreams with their soulmate by their side, we’ve learned that eVerYthInG you need to be successful in this area can be simplified into 5 Cs.

there is actually a 5 part formula, like a recipe that has 5 ingredients that once you learn and apply in your life it will make the process of magnetizing soulmate love to you as easy as pie.

each ingredient of the recipe starts with the letter C... and these “5 Cs” are the secret to your creating the sweet and inviting yummyness that will begin magnetizing your soulmate - the man of your dreams, to you.

Now if you thought discovering the 5 subtle mistakes that are holding you back from soulmate love was helpful, I encourage you

to register for our popular free video series Men OF Quality Do Exist. As a bonus for registering today, we’ll send you our downloadable audio recording, The 5 c’s of Love, where Johnny and I will walk you through the simple 5C’s of the recipe for magnetizing love to you.

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This is core curriculum that we’ve shared with thousands of women around the world. But never like this, never so

much, so succinctly laid out for you so you can easily just get it. It’s what we share with our advanced clients as well.

We’ll walk you through each of the c’s, the five ingredi-ents and show you which to FoCus on FIrst because just like when you bake a cake, if you skip one, or add them in

the wrong order (like if you add the vanilla or water before you fully sift the flour, baking soda, chocolate and all that) you’ll end up with nothing but a not-tasty, not-really-cake

mess, something wrong entirely.

click here to find out more about the Men OF Quality Do Exist Learning course

Thanks for reading! I hope you got some value...and I hope you can see now that there is a safe and sure part to avoid staying single And to find your mr right...

it’s just a matter of learning the right way of going about magnetizing your true love to you!

If so, I’m excited to help you! It would be our honor. If not, we wish you well on your journey and we are here for you if

and when you are ready to take it further.

“P.S. You should be aware that we’re offering this course at this awesome launch discount for a limited

time only, so if you want to learn more from us, NOW is the time to register.”

To your soulmate success,Lara Fernandez *