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Editor’sLetter

Welcome to issue two of Absolute Bridal!

Winter is a beautiful time of year to be a

bride, and a great time to plan for your

wedding whatever time of year. We love

winter here at Absolute Bridal, and can’t get

enough of snow-covered scenes, which is

why we love this issue’s real weddings.

Nicole and Tim tied the knot last year at the

Reid Rooms, and Vanessa and David

enjoyed thick snow on their day last

December. If you’re more accustomed to

warmer weather, we have some great

features on weddings abroad, with

inspiration from real wedding couple Sara

and John, who wed in Italy last year. Besides

that, we have pages and pages of bridal

fashion, fab ideas for cosy weddings indoors

in our Emporium, and pages of inspirational

venues and photography. I’m delighted to

announce my own engagement too! I will

be joining you real brides-to-be in the all the

planning, excitement and stress of

organising my own big day. There are now

THREE brides-to-be at Absolute Bridal- all of

us very different, but all of us thrilled to be

sharing your journey.

Happy reading!

Kath

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TheTeamThis issue, we asked the team: What would

your ideal honeymoon destination be?

Director- Vanessa ChakirCaribbean - every time for me (still not beenbut I am for my honeymoon!) I go for relaxation, sun, sea and s.... sand of course! Ithink a honeymoon should be a special memory of a fantastic place for you both toenjoy the beginning of your marriage...what away to start.

Director- Linda GrantIt has to be the Maldives Four Seasons Resort-ab fab. White sand, green/blue sea, blue sky,the beach more or less to yourself… Fantasticfood and wine, and fantastic (but very expen-sive) accommodation. All you need is the rightman! I had my 25th wedding anniversary there.We looked at it for our 40th and the cost is now£12k B&B! How I wish I could go back…

Art Direction and Design- Hannah LastWe had booked Santhiya resort for our honeymoon, but unfortunately we had to cancelat the last minute: a five star exclusive beachapartment on a remote part of Koh Phanghan inThailand. Lush tropical forests, crystal clear bayand private beach…Instead, six months later weembarked on a Caribbean cruise for 10 days. Wesoon found out that it’s not our idea of Bliss! Asexperienced travellers we should have knownbetter!

Editor- Kath EastoeMy ideal honeymoon would be Italy. I’d visitVenice and Florence for the art, zoom aroundRome on a moped and learn to cook in Tuscany.I’d wake up in a VW Campervan overlooking theolive groves, and enjoy plenty of red wine…bliss!

Sales Executive- Jay MehmetMy ideal honeymoon destination would be BoraBora Island in Tahiti. Discover true paradise andluxury in stunning blue waters, pure white sandbeaches and the preserved nature of your veryown private island boasting a unique botanicalgarden, 360 degree panoramic views, luxurioussunsets, and an incredible coral garden. OMG Iwant to be there now.

Geraldine Spencer & Amanda PriorAdmin and Exhibition Assistants

Gillian RichardsCredit Controller

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Contents

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8. News- What’s hot now in the world of weddings

10. Real Wedding - A Winter’s Tale

15. The Wedding Dresser- Inspirational Big Day Style

17. Serena Bridal- Get to know one of Essex’s best bridalboutiques

19. The Occasion Room- Beautiful designs for bridesmaidsand page boys

20. Big Day Beauty- Our expert gives us tips for winterwedding looks

23. Perfect Hair- hair ideas from expert Tina Crossley

25. Shedding for the Wedding? Get the best diet advicehere!

29. Bridal Style on a Budget with our high street hits

31. Essentials- Wrap up warm with our winter wonders

32. Essentials- Get the English Roselook with these must-buy acces-sories

35. The Essex Wedding Awards arecoming- find out how you can getinvolved

39. Competition time! Win a fabulous wedding cheesecake

40. Emporium- Sweet Treats for youand your guests

45. Create a stunning top table with ourcatering and table ideas

49. Wedding Show Guide- come and say hello atone our fabulous wedding shows in your county

53. Prestige Venues- some of the region’s finestvenues can be found on these pages…

57. The best of the Rest- More stunning settings foryour big day

58. Hanbury Manor- this issue we focus on this stunning Hertfordshire venue

61. Perfect Venues- out pick of theregion’s venues for every budget

63. Real Wedding- See how Vanessaand David’s Christmas Wish cametrue

69. Photography- Find yourwedding photographer in ourthree-page photographydirectory

75. Here Come the Girls-Ideas for a hen do you’ll never forget

79. Competition- Win yourWedding music with AKN Disco

80. Absolute Grooms- Theone-stop style guide for yourman

83. How to Write a Speech- Indispensableadvice for the men in your wedding!

87. Travel- Destination Weddings to take you faraway from the dreary winter weather

92. Real Wedding- Sara and John travelled toSorrento for an intimate Italian wedding

98. A Day in the Life of a Registrar- Go behind thescenes of the wedding industry

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1. Annabel Jenkins comes to EssexTop bridal designer Annabel Jenkins haslaunched her own range of cutting-edge bridalwear- and is stocking it in Essex. Annabellaunched her own range of bridal gowns in 2011after designing for some top London bridaldesigners , and her first collection shows greatpromise and flair for design. The London Collegeof Fashion graduate’s collection can be seen atSilk Rose Studio in Lavenham, Suffolk and atSerena Bridal in Wickford. www.annabeljenkinsbridal.co.uk

2.Urban Retreat spa comes to you!The world famous Urban Retreat spa at Harrodsis now available for the first time in your ownhome. Based in Buckhurst Hill, the award-winning Urban Retreat team is now offering theirluxury treatments at home, ideal to get gorgeous in time for your big day. The team areon hand to give you a full consultation over thephone, then bring their well-known brands andpampering packages to your home for the ultimate spa treatment. They think of everything-lighting, music and even a spa robe and slippers! Book the Ultimate Grooming packagefor a pre-wedding boost.www.urbanretreat.co.uk/athome

3. Jon Richard exclusiveJewellery designer Jon Richard is unveiling his2012 bridal collection with a gorgeous shoot-and we have the behind-the-scenes imagesright here! The 2012 bridal brochure showcasesjewellery across Bridal by Jon Richard, JonRichard made with SWAROVSKI ELEMENTS andthe 2012 Alan Hannah ‘Devoted’ range. This collection “is the most precious yet, keepingto the exclusive look of Alan Hannah’s existingranges yet at fabulous retail prices,” accordingto our source. Buy online atwww.jonrichard.com, or in Debenhams storesnationwide.

4. Olivier Laudus Bridal AccessoriesOne of AB’s favourite accessories designers,Olivier Laudus Designs, has now opened anexclusive bridal accessories studio. The studio isbased within award-winning hair salon JordanBurr and enjoys an enviable central Londonlocation, just a few minutes’ walk from BondStreet tube. Brides-to-be are able to bookappointments to discuss their accessory requirements and, more importantly, view andtry pieces on from the Olivier Laudus online boutique. The brainchild of Sangeeta Laudus,you’ll be able to view Olivier’s beautiful collections of jewellery, hair accessories andhandmade, unique bridal pieces. www.olivierlaudus.com

5. Hetty Rose Ready to WearEssex-based Hetty Rose has created a range ofready-to-wear shoes following her success producing bespoke shoes for brides. Madefrom upcycled Japanese kimono fabrics,each pair of beautifully handmade shoes areunique and have graced the pages of wedding and fashion magazines alike. Pricesstart at £180 for the ready-to-wear collection,which is a bargain for a pair of unique shoesthat you’ll treasure forever.www.hettyrose.co.uk

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Despite being married for a year, Mr and Mrs Dean have onlyrecently begun married life. That’s because for most of the year,Tim is known as Sergeant Tim Dean of the Third Regiment RoyalHorse Artillery in the British Army. Based in Germany, he metNicole Jarman at nightclub CM20 in Harlow while on leave,although their mums lived just around the corner from each other.“We had a few dates before Tim flew back to Germany, thenwhen he was on block leave he came back and we spent everyday together,” says Nicole. The couple had a few dates inLondon, but Nicole struggled with the distance and decided tomove to Germany.

Just before Nicole moved, she and Tim had a date ice skating atSomerset House, in November 2009. “I always wanted to go iceskating there, so I booked it and it looked magical with the hugeTiffany Christmas tree. We were sat underneath it admiring thejewels and decorations and the next thing I know Tim is down onone knee!” remembers Nicole. “I thought he was joking genuinely! But he said ‘do I look like I’m joking?’ so of course Isaid yes.” Nicole moved out to Tim’s camp in Hohne, Germany in April2010- not the ideal place to plan an Essex wedding from. “My

mother-in-law did pretty much everything,” explains Nicole. “She would send me three pictures of a bouquet and ask me tochoose, and even found decorations for the venue.” Finding thevenue was a little easier. “I looked on the internet at a fewplaces, then my sister moved in just behind the Reid Rooms,”Nicole recalls. “I loved it- it looked so cute. And they let me bringin my own caterers, drink and let us bring in anything we liked.” Aswell as the flexibility of the venue, Nicole and Tim loved the cosyfeel with the fireplace and lounge area. “Our ceremony tookplace in the ceremony room- with the beams it really felt like aspecial room. Then we walked across the courtyard for mulledwine and canapés”

Decorated with holly and fairy lights, Nicole loved the seasonaland subtle touches that decorated the venue, “there were poinsettias dotted around and a huge Christmas tree- it waselegant and lovely.” However, the winter weather played havocwith the carefully-laid plans. “It had been snowing heavily threedays before the wedding- so I had to cancel my hen do,” Nicoleadmits. Tim also had to cancel his stag do, thanks to the weather.“Lots of the lads I asked were coming from up North, and couldn’t make it down for the stag or the wedding,” he says. Thesnow also caused the band to cancel. However, the night beforethe wedding, the snow stopped falling, and the couple wereblessed with sunshine on the big day.

Nicole and Tim Dean married at the Reid Rooms in December last year, aftera relationship forged across two countries

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On the big day, Nicole wore adress she had found on eBay,that she had altered to fit perfectly, and had it customised to her taste.“Everything I found in bridalshops was too much like a‘prom’ dress; I wanted something plain and elegant,”

Nicole explains. She also ruledout bridal tiaras for the samereason, and chose a jewelled headpiece from Glitzy Secrets.Tim wore military dress for theoccasion- a rare opportunityto wear the ‘number one’blue’ uniform reserved for veryspecial occasions. Decorated

with gold braids and his sergeant stripes, Tim lookedevery inch the handsomehero, while his ushers worenumber twos - the green military dress. “The best man Ioriginally asked was deployedto Afghanistan- and couldn’ttime his RnR time with the

wedding,” Tim explains. “So right at the last minute, I asked my cousin to stepin - he had three days to writea speech!” A civilian, he didn’t wear uniform, butNicole and Tim were thrilledwith their best man.

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Doing it Their WayThe flexibility of the hiring TheReid Rooms as a venue meantthat Nicole could choose herown touches. Chicks Cateringwere hired for the weddingbreakfast of Leek and PotatoSoup, Chicken Chasseur withdauphinoise potatoes and adessert trio of apple pie, Etonmess and caramel fudgebrownies. “Chicks were brilliant, they served our owncanapés and drinks, and created a menu which was justwhat I wanted,” says Nicole.“They did so much more for usthan we expected.” A friend baked the traditionalfour tier cake as a weddingpresent, and they hired a toastmaster for the day- ChrisWebb. “He was fabulous- hewas young, funny and everytime I need something, he wasthere,” Nicole says. “He sortedeverything from the buttonholes, and even sourced a ceremonial sword to cut thecake with!”

“Despite the chaos, the snowwas amazing on the day,” saysNicole. “My dad drove his classic car all the way fromSuffolk with no roof! The thoughtof him wrapped up in gogglesand scarves is hilarious!” In theend, the couple posed with thecar but didn’t use it- so Nicole’sdad drove it all the way home

again! “It’s hard work being amilitary wife,” says Nicole. “Aswell as the worry of Tim beingaway on tour I have got usedto being by myself. Now he’shome I have to share my homewith my husband!” Tim continued his training forAfghanistan straight after thewedding, so the couple stillhaven’t honeymooned, andstarted married life ten monthsafter their wedding. “We’rethinking about going toMontego Bay for a honeymoon,and to celebrate Tim’s 30th andhis achievements inAfghanistan.” And with theirwhole lives ahead of them,what a way to start.

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Makeup MasterclassSam Easter from A Beautiful You talks us

through her favourite products to create a flawless wedding look

Your wedding will probably be your most photographedday of your life and the photos that are taken will be treasuredfor many years and, perhaps, by many generations. So yourmakeup should be classic, simple, and timeless.

• Primers Use face and eye primer to help your makeup last

longer. Consider something like Smashbox’s Photo Finish Primerto help your makeup last all day long.

• Foundation Choose makeup that is long-lasting. There are

many long-wearing foundations on the market that provide

beautiful, flawless coverage that won’t look heavy, but will last

the day. I like Estee Lauder’s Double Wear, for normal to oily

skin or Chanel Vitalumiere foundation for dry skin, followed by

setting powder.

• Matte Makeup Winter time makes everyone want to get out

the shine and the glitter, but beware of this for your wedding.

Though glitter and shimmer are beautiful, they can

photograph badly, and may make you look greasy. Stick to

neutral shades of matte makeup. For your cheeks, bronzer

shades will give you a healthy glow back in the colder months.

• Eyes One of the most important aspects of bridal makeup is

the eyes. Smokey eyes work very well for autumn, deep tones

for winter. I recommend using shades of brown, taupes, golds

or mossy green tones. Neutral

pinks, purples and silvers are also

classic wintery, timeless colours.

Choose eyeliner that is smudge-

proof and waterproof, as your big

day is an emotional event!

Likewise, choose mascara that is

waterproof. You are likely to shed

some tears at your wedding, and

you don’t want to end up looking

like Panda eyes! I like Yves SaintLaurent waterproof mascara, and

Lancôme Hypnôse waterproofmascara.•Lips Even if you never wear it, do

use lip liner to help your lipstick last

longer. Be sure it’s in a colour that

is similar to your own lip colour,

making sure you fill in all the lip

area, then using natural colours of

pale pinks or hues of browns. Apply

a lip gloss over the top to create

the perfect photo finish.

Sam’s Top Wedding Beauty

Products1. Smashbox Photo FinishFoundation Primer, £29,Debenhams2. Lancôme HypnôseWaterproof Mascara,£20.50, John Lewis3. Estée Lauder DoubleWear Stay-in-PlaceMake-up SPF10 foundation, £26.50,Debenhams4. Chanel VitalumiereAqua foundation, £31,Debenhams5. MAC Styledriven ProLongwear Lip Pencil,£14, Debenhams

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Ask The Expert

“I would advise that, unless yourveil is an heirloom, you have a

hair trial to explore thepossibilities for your weddinghair before you actually buy

your veil, this will ensure you arenot too restricted on your

hairstyle. The length, fullnessand placement of the veil will

all have a bearing on the suitability of certain styles.”

A: Veils come in various guises but, if you havedecided to wear onethere are some pointsto consider. The mainthing is that the veil,hairstyle and of coursethe dress, need towork well together.

“If you want to wear your hairdown, it is important to considerthe weight of the veil as, with alonger, heavy veil, a half-up domight be better because therewill be a foundation to anchor ittowhich will prevent it from slipping. A glimpse of long luscious waves and big curls canlook stunning under a veil butremember that the hair shouldnever hang lower than the veilitself.”

“Veils are traditional but manyBrides are choosing to wearthem in a less traditional way. Forexample placed at the back ofthe head either under a high bunor on top of a low nape design.Single tier veils work well withthese looks as the hair and anydetail on the dress can still beseen without the final look beingtoo cluttered. So remember, ifyou are going to wear your veillower down the back of yourhair, your veil should stop eitherabove or below any detail onthe back of your dress (such aslacing or embellishments), butnever cut through the middle ofit.”

“Vintage looks are so popular atthe moment, short bobbed hairlooks fabulous with a short shoulder length or birdcage veilto emphasise the vintage themewith the hair finger waved or setin pin curls. Longer hair is bestworn up with these types of veil,either a pleat, a low nape roll,twist or even a big side bun.”

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So you’re engaged!And you’ve foundthat perfect dress ina sample sale… theproblem is it’s toosizes too small. The Busy Bride Haven’tgot time to calorie count orcook Thai broths for your lunchhour? A programme that has tailor-made meals delivered toyour door might be the answer.Lighter Life is a weight loss programme that does just that- with some seriously appetizing food. There are twoLighterLife programme options– LighterLife Total for those witha BMI of 30 or over andLighterLife Lite for those with aBMI of 25-30. When anindividual reaches their

weight-loss goal, first theirLighterLife counsellor will helpto gradually reintroduce a fullrange of food during the‘Management Phase’ of theprogramme and create a balanced, healthy eating plan.Therefore brides to be willhopefully stay slim after thewedding and throughout married life! Combining weeklymeetings with a counsellor andnutritionally balanced foodpacks, it’s a programme that’sgreat for busy people withlong-term goals. Some example food pack optionsinclude Porridge, Banana orstrawberry shakes, shepherd’spie, chilli con carne, chickensoup and nut fudge bars. www.lighterlife.com

Also try…MY Food- luxury delivered diet boxes www.myfood.co.uk

The Serious SlimmerThe Dukan Diet has beenhailed as THE diet for 2012, andwas incredibly popular lastyear. Based on phases, it has avaguely scientific approachthat seems to work- membersof the Absolute Bridal teamrave about it! All I can sayis…French women never getfat so this MUST be good. Four‘phases’ are targeted throughout the diet, which wascreated by Frenchman DrDukan. You can eat as muchas you like of certain foodsthroughout each phase; thefirst phase relies on protein andis the ‘attack’ quick weight lossphase, followed phase 2 whichadds more foods. Phase three‘consolidates’ the diet, to helpavoid the dreaded weight gainas you increase your caloriesand the final phase offersonline support to help youkeep the weight off. Luckily,the diet is tailored to you,according to your body type,weight loss goal and lots ofother factors, so it’s very flexibleapproach to eating. www.dukandiet.co.uk

Also try…For a range of dietsand online support, trywww.tescodiets.com

The Instant Inch Loss FixSo your hard work still hasn’tpaid off, and you’ve got thatlast six pounds to lose…

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Whether you need to lose 7lb or two stone,

never fear, Absolute Bridal is on hand to

help you lose enough weight to fit into your

ABSOLUTEh e a l t h

Sheddingfor theWedding!

Dr Dukan

LighterLife

dress, and maybe even get fit for life!

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Euro Diet is perfect for kick-starting weightloss and based around all sorts of clever science. Here’s what they say: “Our bodytends to fuel itself primarily with carbohydrates, but if your carbohydrateintake is reduced it will look for othersources of nourishment. Both Phase one andtwo of Eurodiet are low in carbohydratesand this is why after about 72 hours of following the diet, your body will start to produce ketones and enter a state of ketosis. Being in a state of ketosis encourages your body to use its fat andmuscle stores as its primary sources of energy in lieu of carbohydrates. However ifadequate levels of protein are consumed during this process, muscle tissue can be maintained, allowing yourbody to keep its hard earned muscle andlose the unwanted fat! Euro Diet has takenthis established method of weight loss onestep further. With the help of respected andrenowned chefs and nutritionists, theirexpert team has developed a range of delicious quality protein meals and snackswhich contain the vitamins, minerals andhigh quality proteins to stay healthy whenlosing weight.” The spokesperson doesn’trecommend following this for more than afew weeks, so it’s ideal of you’ve got a fortnight left to shift the last few pounds. www.eurodiet.co.uk

Also try…Bridal boot camp is great for dropping a dress size quickly. Trywww.newyoubootcamp.com

The Celeb SolutionGwyneth Paltrow is looking her absolutebest at the moment. Reportedly she hasditched the macrobiotics and is now a fanof the Alkaline diet. Along with Kirsten Dunstand Billie Piper, celebs have been keep trimby avoiding higly acidic foods to maintain ahealthy PH balance in the body. Proponentsof the alkaline diet advocate a careful balance of acid and alkaline-forming foodsfor optimum health – namely a diet of 75-80per cent alkaline and 20-25 per cent acidicfood. Acid-forming foods such as meat, dairyproducts, processed grain foods like breadand pasta and sugars are mostly a no-no,while nutrient-rich fruit and vegetables, pulses and green super-smoothies are theorder of the day. The diet is supplementedwith daily green super smoothies rich in barley grass – nature’s own alkaliser – tohelp nourish and balance the body, and


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Well, since I got engaged a few weeks ago, all I can think about is

losing weight! I put on a LOT of weight when I was pregnant, and

have found it difficult to lose. Before having my son I was 9st7lb,

and when I weighed myself last January I was 11st3lb! So I’ve

decided to try and lose some weight. I’m technically overweight,

and would like my BMI to be a healthy measurement, so ideally I’d

like to lose a stone and half before my big day, and try and get

down from a 12/14 to a healthy size ten. I had success earlier in

2011 with Cook Yourself Thin- the books and diet club online, as well

as regime of regular exercise. As a busy, working mum I don’t have

the time for the gym so I used the Nintendo Wii Fit Plus for 30 minute

a few times a week, and it made me feel like I was doing my body

so much good. Annoyingly, I put all the weight back on throughout

a summer of cake, booze and BBQ food. So now it’s time to shape

up. Out with the cake, in with the green tea and rice cakes! I will

base my on healthy plan (I find ‘diets’ too restrictive with my busy

life) on high protein, low carbs, and try and cut down on fats and

snacks. I have downloaded the My Fitness Pal calorie counter app,

which is great for keeping check on what you’re eating. Team AB is

also trying the Dukan Diet and Slimming World, so we will keep you

updated. The wedding’s in June, so I will need everyone’s support

to get me thin again! Wish me luck,

Kath x

support a healthy digestive system andintestinal flora. Try Lifestream’s OrganicBarley and Wheat grass powder as a wonderful supplement for the diet,£17.99 from Health food shops. www.phmiracleliving.com

Kath’s column

Also try…Supplements can help your body stay healthy.For a weight loss boost, try Alli- an over-the-counter fatburner to help you along the way www.alli.co.uk

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Whether you’re trying to savesome money or simply need a

wedding dress quickly, the highstreet has a fresh wave of gorgeous

and glamorous gowns for savvybrides. And it doesn’t stop there;

cakes, shoes, and flowers can all begrabbed last minute

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AbsoluteE s s e n t i a l s

Create a bridal look full of texture andglamour with faux fur and feathers this

winter. Cosy up with fur shrugs, addsplashes of bold colour, and add heirloom

style with feathered accessories

Winter

Red makes a dramatic statement.Marabou feather shrug, £115,Biba at House of Fraser

Add some glam with feathers.Headband, £32, Rock and Rose

Wonderland

A feathered motif is just aschic as the real thing.

Bangle, £30, Glitzy Secrets

Perfect for wet winterdays- umbrella, £25,High Society Bride

This nude marabou stoleis perfect for vintagebrides, £65, J by JasperConran at Debenhams

The soft suede and delicate feather on these beautifulshoes is so stylish. £POA, Emmy

Monochrome is a fab colour palette forwinter weddings. Clutch bag, £355, Emmy

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Come rain, snow or shine, these weddingtons are a winter bride’s best

friend! Silk Rose

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Absolutee s s e n t i a l s

Delicate, timeless and beautiful, the rose is an enduringemblem for winter weddings. Just co-ordinate with a red

rose bouquet for instant glamour

EnglishRose

Dazzle with this rose tiara,£64.50, Glitzy Secrets

Earrings, £6,Rock and Rose

A corsage looks good on everything! Shoes, £199,

Diane Hassall

Hair comb,£39.99, OlivierLaudus Design

The rose appliquémakes this cosy clutchperfect for winter weddings, £120, notonthehighstreet.com

Perfect foradorning bolerosand bags.Brooch, £14,Accessorize.

VitaminSmoothieAntioxidantLip Colour,£13.50,Clinique

Bolero, £45, PerUna at Marks &Spencer

Dress is by Kelsey Rose

Thrrrob cheekpowder, £21.15,Benefit

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Family-Run Business with over 30 yrs experience. We offer an impeccable service,with internal designers to meet your every need; whether it is a traditional, modernor bespoke design you will find we are very competitive in price.Clients are treated with the warmest welcome and professional personal service andhave included celebrity clientele.

Contact us in confidence, and be sure to be greeted with thewarmest welcome: 07984 048590 or email us at [email protected]

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Check out our website today

www.essexweddingawards.co.uk

The Essex Wedding Awards are coming!!Save the date29th November 2012

If you are a weddingprofessional or a coupleplanning your BIG day inEssex, be part of our BIG day - and you could be a winner!

For more information please contact the Essex wedding teamt: 01622 623 164 e: [email protected]

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Following the fantastic success of TheKent Wedding Awards, the organisersare now bringing their magic to Essexto seek out and reward those extraspecial companies, who go the extramile to provide fantastic weddingproducts and services for the couplesof Essex and, as part of this process,one lucky pair will be crownedEssex’s Most Romantic Couple!

On offer will be a fabulous overnightstay for two in an Essex Hotel, with dinner and champagne provided,plus use of all the spa facilities. For your chance to win this excellent,free to enter prize, all you need to dois write in and tell us your own lovestory!! We want to hear all the soppydetails - was it love at first sight or didit take a little longer? Was it plain sailing, or were there problems toresolve on the way? Are you a

second time around couple, orteenage sweethearts? Whateveryour story, if it sums up the essence oftrue romance, then we want to hearabout it along with a few photos of you and your partner.All stories will be judged by our teamof independent romantic expertsand the winning couple will alsohave the opportunity to have theirstory published within Absolute BridalMagazine!

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Please visit www.essexweddingawards.co.uk todownload your entry form and start writing today! Allentries will be acknowledged and all finalists will becontacted. The judge’s decision is final and no cashalternatives or prize exchanges are offered. If youwould like to stay in touch, you can also follow us onFacebook or twitter and read all the latest weddinggossip plus chat to other brides and grooms to be!

The Essex Wedding Awards will be staged on 29th ofNovember 2012 and is supported by three fabulousEssex based businesses, first is...

Michael Frank Jewellery, a name associated withstyle, superior workmanship and affordability. Ownedby the recently married Michael and AmandaStapleton, they pride themselves on bringing the‘Hatton Garden’ experience to couples in Essex.Next is the Heritage Leisure Group, which includesPontlands Park Hotel in Great Baddow and Heritageon the Hill in Margaretting which is home to BestWestern Ivy Hill, Furze Hill and the award winningBartellas Restaurant.Lastly, we are proud to annouceGaynes Park as our most recent sponsor, This elegantand contemporary wedding venue is set admidst astunning historic country estate in Epping and isavailable for Civil Ceremonies, Civil Partnership

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We specialise in:

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cchheeeesseeccaakkee!!Cheesecake…the divine

wedding cake alternative!

All eyes should be on the bride to be on her on her bigday and barring the dress, the pièce de résistance formany weddings is the cake! Traditional fruit cake with

marzipan is SO yesterday why not opt for a cheeky, funalternative? This is where the English Cheesecake

Company comes in with their range of divine, scrumptious wedding cheesecake creations - which

are lovingly handcrafted by expert chefs and made toorder just for you. They also double up as your dessert!Luxury dessert provider, English Cheesecake Company,

is offering one lucky winner the chance to add thewow factor to their wedding by winning a delicious

three tiered cheesecake creation. With an enormousrange of flavours to choose from even the fussiest

bride-to-be is certain to be satisfied. Lovingly crafted by our gourmet dessert chefs, English

Cheesecake Company offer a unique service for thosewho are after something a little bit special. Rich and

creamy fillings and truly indulgent toppings are order ofthe day, for a totally irresistible wedding pud!

All wedding cakes are available to order online atwww.englishcheesecake.com

To win a wedding cheesecake from TheEnglish Cheesecake Company, just answer this

question:

What is a traditional wedding cake covered in?A) Butter cream frostingB) MarzipanC) Hundreds and thousandsSend your answer, along with your name, address and email address,

on a postcard to Absolute Bridal, No 4 Whitbreads Business Centre,Whitbreads Farm Lane, Chatham Green, Chelmsford CM3 3FE or

email your details to the editor [email protected] by 28/2/2012.

Terms and Conditions: Competition closes 28/2/2012. Winner will bedrawn at random and notified by email with details how to claim

your prize. Editor’s decision is final. No cash alternative will be offered.No responsibility will be taken for entries lost during submission. Entries must be received by midnight on 28/2/2012. Main Event

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Indulge your sweet tooth

with these delightfully retro finishing touches

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EmporiumSweet Treats

An edible sweet tree makesa unique and delicious centrepiece, £29.99, SweetTree by Riviera www.notonthehighstreet.com08452591359

Pop a jar of retro sweets oneach table to get everyonesharing and talking, £8 byCandy House, www.notonthehighstreet.com08452591359

The candy colours on thiscanapé sticks will make anymouth water. £1.99 for 20,www.confetti.co.uk

Lovehearts make the perfect wedding favour- retro, romantic andpacked full of sugar! £9.99 for 625g(approximately 55 tubes),www.confetti.co.uk

Rossi’s Ice Cream is synonymous with sweet treatsin Essex and they have plenty of ways to help celebrate your big day. As well as a stunningantique ice cream cart and trikes, the Southend-based team now produce personalisedice cream tubs with your own message, date andeven face on it! The mini tubs can be made up inany of the famous Rossi flavours, with your veryown label on it- think wedding date, photos of thebride and groom or even a message to say ‘thankyou’- the perfect wedding favour!

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Parry’s Vintage Ice Cream Bike is a must for country weddings,come rain, snow or shine. Come on, who doesn’t love an icecream? Adam travels throughout Essex, and further afield onrequest. [email protected] 07872008497

Need a sweetand stylishcanapé? Trythese cake pops,£19.95 for eight, www.notonthe-highstreet.com08452591359

Bags ofcolabottlesandwhitemicewill makethe mostadorable wedding favour,and these stripedbags have personalised stickerseals. £25 for 25 bags,from Hello Pretty Studio on Etsy. www.etsy.com/shop/helloprettystudio

If you love the idea of the ice cream carts by Rossi, you’ll lovethis…Such Sweet Memories bring an Edwardian sweetie cart toyour wedding- loaded with enough sweets for all your guests!Dressed in a straw boater with striped sweet bags and enamelbuckets filled with your favourites, the cart can be customised to you colour scheme. www.facebook.com/SuchSweetMemories or call Kim on 0791774775

Create your own finishing touches with Everything Alice:The Wonderland Book of Crafts,for big kids and not-so-big kids, £14.99 (Quadrille)

Can’t resist the pick and mix? Thenarrange for Candy Campers to bring youthe sweet shop in a sunshine-yellow vintage VW Campervan. www.candycamper.co.uk

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Cupcakes & ConfectioneryGrahams

T. 01376323587 M. 07584655121 [email protected] Coldnailhurst Avenue , Braintree, Essex Cm7 2sl

We offer a completely bespoke wedding service.Choose the flavour, icing, colour and style and we will create a cake to your exact specifications.

Whether you want a traditional cake or a cupcake tower we can make it for you.

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Making your wedding unique and memorable is something that is a wonderful creative challenge for everybride-to-be. You want your big day to stylish, individual and yet somehow personal to you and your husband. Sowhere do you start? First, build a colourscheme or theme. Inspiration boards,mood sheets and wedding planner diariesare a great place to start. Blogs and websites (as well as magazines) are wonderful inspiration, and websitePinterest (www.pinterest.com) is a perfectplace for brides to seek and record inspiration that you can access from anywhere. Stuck for ideas? Then read on…

Setting the sceneAs well as a place to sit and indulge yourculinary fantasies, the table is a great wayto express your style. Using floral centrepieces is a classic way of dressing avenue, and you can get creative with jamjars and vases, or use a company to create beautiful centrepieces and displaysfor you. Wedding Simplicity is a companythat offers everything under one roof from hiring giant martini glasses as centrepieces, to arranging flowers anddecorating the venue for you. Table decoration from Wedding Simplicityincludes table linen and chair covers, fishbowl and bird cage centrepieces, table

planners and stationery and even achocolate fountain. Natalie Douglas, whoruns the business, says “it’s ideal for peoplewho are short on time- it’s a one-stop wedding shop.” With two options available: DIY (hire only) or Set-up (fulldelivery and venue-dressing), it’s suitablefor any budget. “We started the businesswith budget in mind- you can hire beautiful quality chair covers etc. withoutpaying over the odds,” Natalie says.Wedding Simplicity is based in BishopsStortford and travels across Herts andEssex. Flowers are a simple yet effectiveway of decorating tables. Choosing acolour scheme is simple, choosing an arrayof contemporary floral designs and bloomswill be the hard bit. At the moment, vintage roses in teapots or wild flowers injam jars are hugely popular, but contemporary floral displays can create astunning centre piece. Rosanna’s Florist ofDistinction in Watford creates some uniquearrangements that will get your guests talking. Most venues or caterers have white chinaplace settings included in the hire price,but if you’re looking for something a littledifferent there are several companiesoffering vintage china hire- perfect for anEnglish garden party or tea party theme.Idyllic Days offer beautiful china and prophire across the South East- from teapots to

Create a Top TableCreate a stunning table themeand mouth-watering menuwith our top table ideas

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Premier Crew Hospitality Premier Crew Hospitality

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cake stands, and even offer event andwedding styling. Similarly, Vintage Flairsupply beautiful vintage china, cutlery andlinen for hire and can also come and styleyour venue for the big day, with free delivery across Essex and Kent. For a fullvintage tea party set-up, contact PlumFairy, who can provide afternoon tea andcupcakes as well as china, bunting andprop hire.

Wedding favours are a wonderful way to

thank your guests, and unleash your

creative juices. Homemade favours are

easy to do if you’re a great cook or

baker- biscuits or cakes can make lovely

personal gifts, while retro sweetie bags are

hugely popular. However, if you want

something truly British, why not hand out

personalised seaside rock? The RockPeople make bespoke rock for wedding

favours and place setting. First, choose

your picture for the label (something

romantic, maybe?) then choose the

colour, flavour and a personalised centre

with your names! Fun, retro and let’s face

it, who doesn’t like rock? Another fun

option is mini things. Tiptree jams are world

famous, so why not bring a bit of Essex to

your wedding? Wilkins & Sons have

launched a wedding favour range of tiny

jars of delicious preserves. Choose from

Orange and Whisky Marmalade or

Strawberry and Champagne jam, and

even have them delivered to the venue

by their Red Moped delivery service.

Southenders Rossi Ice Cream are also

introducing personalised ice cream tubs,

perfect for wedding favours and pudding

after the wedding breakfast.

Gastro GuestsThe biggest expense at your wedding isthe food and drink, and it’s also the focusof your table decoration. The weddingbreakfast should reflect your tastes andtheme, as well as be good value formoney. Most caterers offer sample menuson their website, but arrange a meetingwith them or a tasting evening so you canget a better idea of their menu. PremierCrew Hospitality offer a bespoke catering service, and a bar service, but they’remore than just a caterer. “We can helpplan everything from finding a venue, tobooking entertainment and other suppliers,” says Naomi Pitt Roche ofPremier Crew. “Even on a shoestring youcan have the wedding of your dreams.”The company can offer a complete wedding planning service, and havetaken embryonic ideas such a ‘medieval’or ‘James Bond’ theme and createdunique and personal events. And when itcomes to catering they are also as flexible

creative.” We recently did a very Englishwedding, with quail’s scotch eggcanapés, followed by a Ritz-styleafternoon tea then a bangers and mash

buffet in evening.” Get in touch with thedelightful team to discuss ideas andthemes for your budget. Premier Crewhave recently been nominated in the Eastof England category at the WeddingAwards 2012 a proud accolade.For a more informal gathering, which stillhas the ‘wow’ factor, a hog roast is alwayswelcome! Who can resist slow-roastedpork with crackling and apple sauce? TheFat Pig offers not only spitroast pig, but allkinds of BBQ, perfect for outdoor weddings, but also delicious as a winterwarmer. Toby Margetts and his team bringThe Fat Pig to you, and are so friendly andfun they’ll make any wedding breakfast orbuffet go off with a bang (and crackle!).“Eating casually and informally in the location grounds, or served on propercrockery in a more formal environmentaround tables, the ‘theatre’ of a turninghog roast is a great ice breaker at anyevent,” says Toby. “We arrive on siteapproximately seven hours before servingtime, ready to set up and start cooking ourpig – which takes approximately six hoursto cook from fresh,” he adds. “We thenserve the pork in a bap, along with freshlymade salads – of which we have a selection of 20 for the client to choosefrom, and some hot potatoes fried in herbsand butter. Nice ! We also arrange for devilishly creamy desserts to finish themeal off with a treat!”For some classic and stylish catering,Splinters Outside Catering, based inSudbury, have several impressive menus tochoose from and even customise for yourwedding day. The family-run business hasbeen creating gorgeous food for over 30years, and works closely with venues toproduce exclusive menus, or can offersomething from their jaw-dropping choiceof courses for a moveable wedding dayfeast. With beautifully presented food created lovingly for you, Splinters offer asimple and chic wedding day cateringservice, as well as offering other weddingday services such as bar, mobile toilets,and even flowers. We dare you to resisttheir mouth-watering dessert menu…

Do us a FavourThe Rock People

Wilkins & Sons

Wedding Simplicity

Contacts•Splinters Outside Caterers, Sudbury Tel: 01787 373 153 www.splintersoutsidecaterers.co.uk

•The Fat Pig Company, EssexTel: 07402 432567 www.thefatpig.co.uk

•Premier Crew Hospitality, Essex Tel: 01371 821045 www.premiercrew-hospitality.co.uk

•Wedding Simplicity www.weddingsimplicity.co.uk

•The Rock Peoplewww.therockpeople.co.uk

•Wilkins & Sons www.tiptree.com or www.redmoped.co.uk

•Rossi Ice Cream Tel: 01702 467532www.rossiicecream.com

•Rosanna’s Florist of Distinction, WatfordTel: 01923 229726

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Maidens BarnHigh Easter - Chelmsford

Maidens Barn, a stunning choice foryour wedding venue in Essex, is theperfect place for a country wedding.

With the help of our friendly familyteam, your wedding at Maidens Barnwill be one of the most memorable

days of your life.

The Barn has a lovely garden with views over the open countryside. It also has a wedding

arbour – a very special place for outside wedding ceremonies.

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Telephone: 01245 231363 [email protected] www.maidensbarn.com

A charming manor house with12 gorgeous bedrooms exclusively

yours for your wedding.

11:30am – 4:00pm £1 to Essex Air Ambulance

Hotel: 01376 573300 Spa: 01376 573399 [email protected] www.prested.co.ukFeering, Colchester, CO5 9EE, A12 Kelvedon exits (B1024)

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PRESTED HALL – Sunday 15th JanuaryPrested Hall, Feering, Colchester, CO5 9EE

WOOLSTON MANOR – Sunday 22nd JanuaryAbridge Road Chigwell, Essex, IG7 6BX

IVY HILL HOTEL WEDDING,HEALTH & BEAUTY SHOWSunday 5th FebruaryFASHION SHOW 12pm & 2pmMargaretting, Chelmsford, Essex, CM4 0EH

GILWELL PARK – Sunday 12th FebruaryChingford, London, E4 7QW

PARK INN PALACESOUTHEND – Sunday 26th FebruaryFASHION SHOW 12pm & 2pmChurch Road,Southend-on-Sea, Essex SS1 2AL

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CANON’S BROOK GOLF COURSE –Sunday 25th March Elizabeth Way, Harlow, Essex CM19 5BE

MAIDENS BARN - Sunday 1st AprilHigh Easter, Chelmsford, Essex CM3 1HU

THE REID ROOMS – Sunday 22nd AprilMarks Hall Lane, Margaret Roding, Essex CM6 1QT

GT HALLINGBURY MANOR -Sunday 4th MarchBishops Stortford, Great Hallingbury, CM22 7TJ

HUNTERS MEET – 11.00AM - 4.00PMSaturday 10th MarchChelmsford Rd, Hatfield Heath, Bishop's Stortford,Hertfordshire CM22 7BQ

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LETCHWORTH HALL – Sunday 29th AprilLetchworth Lane, Letchworth Garden City, HertfordshireSG6 3NP

BEST WESTERN WATERMILLHOTEL-Sunday 27th MayBourne End Hall,London Road, Hemel Hempstead,Hertfordshire HP1 2RJ

HINTLESHAM HALL –Sunday 13th MayHintlesham, Ipswich, Suffolk IP8 3NS

DOVE BARN –Sunday 4th MarchCastlings Hall, Groton, Sudbury, Suffolk CO10 5ET

HANBURY MANOR – Sunday 15th April - FASHION SHOW 12pm & 2pmA Marriott Hotel & Country Club, Ware, Hertfordshire SG12 0SD

WATFORD FOOTBALL CLUB -12th FebruaryVicarage Road Stadium,Vicaarage Rd, Watford WD18 OER

ROSE & CROWN–25th MarchEast Street, Colchester, Essex CO1 2TZ

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Hedingham CastleUpon booking, each couple is introduced to their own personal

Wedding Coordinator who will work with them in the months

leading up to their wedding to ensure every detail of their day

is perfect! Several options are available, starting with the

ceremony in the magnificent Banqueting Hall in the Castle

Keep, where candlelight provides a stunningly romantic setting.

The ceremony is then followed by a reception in the Mansion

House, with several rooms to celebrate in. The Castle can

accommodate 100 people seated for a ceremony with a

further 30 guests standing in the Minstrel’s Gallery, above the

ceremony floor. A marquee can accommodate up to 200

people for the evening reception or for a more intimate dinner,

The Ashurst Room will seat up to 50 people. Alternatively, for

smaller parties, the Dining Room can accommodate up to 16

people. The drinks reception takes place on the beautiful

Terrace overlooking the lake, or, in the winter months, in the

Grand Hall with its sweeping staircase and roaring log fire. The

exclusive cottage bridal suite and lodge can accommodate

guests comfortably overnight.

www.hedinghamcastle.co.uk Tel: 01787 460261

This winter, choose fairy tale

castles, halls and manor houses

fit for a princess

Layer Marney TowerOne of this country’s most dramatic buildings, Layer Marney Tower stands

within the Essex landscape, commanding views to the River Blackwater and

beyond. Built in the reign of Henry VIII, it is now a stunning wedding venue,

open throughout the year. Weddings take place throughout the year in the

Corsellis Room, with the wedding breakfast a short walk across the

courtyard to the Long Gallery an impressive 79ft long Tudor brick building.

The Long Gallery can seat up to 140 people. There is a massive Jacobean

fireplace which is lit for winter weddings and with curtains closed and the fire

crackling, the Long Gallery is transformed into a fabulous room. At Christmas

time Layer Marney Tower is decorated with a sparkling wonderland of trees.

As well as including a chauffeur-driven Rolls Royce and red carpet

treatment as part of the wedding package, the bride and groom are also

able to stay in the luxurious honeymoon suite.

www.layermarneytower.co.uk Tel: 01206 330784

Located on the Sussex/Suffolk border

Hedingham Castle is the

ultimate in winter wedding venues


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Gosfield HallGosfield Hall is a stunning Georgian manor

house set in picturesque rural Essex and offered

exclusively to you for your wedding day.

Formerly a Royal residence, the Queen

Charlotte's Oak paneled gallery with a 120 ft

long aisle is perfect for wedding ceremonies

and the newly licensed carriageway is a

stunning location for outdoor ceremonies on

sunny days. The Marquis of Buckingham's

former ballroom provides an exquisite setting

for the reception meal for up to 110 guests and

there are also several grand and ornate

reception rooms for you and your guests to

enjoy. Gosfield Hall offers exclusive use of the

entire house so you can also invite up to 250

guests for the evening reception and party.

www.countryhouseweddings.co.uk Tel: 01787 472914

picturesque rural Essex

stunning location, exquisite setting

Leez PrioryWinner of Wedding Ideas Magazine ‘Best Wedding Venue’ two years in a row, this magnificent Tudor mansion is one of the most

sought after wedding venues in the country and has nearly twenty years of experience in providing perfect wedding days. Set in 40

acres of parkland, complete with lakes, lawns and a sweeping driveway, Leez Priory is offered to you exclusively for your wedding

day. Civil ceremonies can be performed in any of five licensed settings including the stunning Great Tower which stands adjacent to

the main house and outside beneath the carriageway for a truly unique setting. The stunning Great Hall can seat up to 80 guests for

the Wedding breakfast and the newly converted Coach House can seat up to 110 guests. As the venue offers exclusive use of the

entire house you can also invite up to 250 guests for the evening reception and party.

www.countryhouseweddings.co.uk Tel: 01245 362555

‘Best Wedding Venue’ two years in a row


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Parklands Quendon HallThis stunning listed mansion and grounds can be exclusively yours for the day for a romantic countryretreat wedding on the Essex/Herts border. The venue has several settings for civil ceremonies, includinga pretty gazebo, and can seat up to 130 guests in the banqueting room for ceremonies. With a dedicatedwedding coordinator for you day, the sumptuous drawing room with its roaring log fire is perfect for winter receptions, and the venue has a few options for parties- catering from 30 to 450 guests in the silk-lined pavilion. Check the website for last-minute winter offers, many of which have accommodationincluded in the 21 beautifully decorated rooms. Tel: 01799 543800 www.quendonpark.co.uk


The Bestof the rest We pick some of our

favourite venues thatare perfect for winter

weddings…

Spains HallThis Elizabethan House and converted stable block is a suitably grand venue for your wedding, set in the heart of the Essex countryside nearthe picturesque village of Finchingfield. It is licensed for weddings and civil partnerships and is a stone’s throw from various parish churches.The Stables can accommodate 130 guests for a meal, and 180 for dancing in the evening. Smaller weddings can utilize the hall itself, takingin views of the grounds from the Elizabethan drawing room and tapestry room. The venue is offering an exclusive package for mid-weekweddings throughout May, June and July 2012 for only £6,150 including VAT for 50 guests, plus 20 additional evening guests.Tel: 01371 811596 www.spainshall.co.uk

An elegant boutique hotel in historic Bishop’s Stortfordprovides contemporary chic for couples wishing tomarry on the Essex/Herts border. Four locations for civilceremonies cater for parties from 65 to 150, with 120guests for a wedding breakfast in the Lakeside ormore intimate parties can be accommodated in OakRoom and Gallery. Great Hallingbury Manor is currently offering an amazing winter wedding pack-age including venue hire, toasts, meal and DJ (plusmuch more) for 50 guests for £4,500. The offer runs untilApril and includes Saturdays. Tel: 01279 506 475 www.greathallingburymanor.com

Great Hallingbury Manor

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Hanbury Manor, nestled inthe Hertfordshire countryside just outside Ware,is a five-star venue for yourwedding day.A former country manor, thenconvent school, the impressive 18th century mansion is now a Marriotthotel and country club, andoffers a choice of settings foryour big day. Overlooking abeautiful golf course andsweeping landscapedgrounds, Hanbury Manor ischock full of original features,such as the impressive formerchapel, Poles Hall, whichmakes an awe-inspiring ceremony room and banqueting hall for a wedding. The vaulted oakbeam ceiling and stainedglass gives a grand feel, andthe Victorian style courtyardis a pretty setting for reception drinks. Meanwhilethe garden room, surrounded by a stunningVictorian walled garden, is aspecial little hideaway forsmaller weddings, with thelight and welcoming conservatory the setting for arelaxed wedding breakfast.An in-house wedding plannerhas expert knowledge of themanor, and is on hand tohelp with everything from planning the wedding breakfast, to organising

colour schemes and a schedule for the day; youeven have your personalisedweb page for planning yourbig day! There are four mainareas used for weddings inthe manor’s grounds. PolesHall was originally the chapelof the house, it can seat upto 120 for your sumptuouswedding breakfast. TheThundridge suite offers flexible seating with up to 180guests for a reception, whichopens onto breath-takingviews of the golf course.

Garden Court is an elegant,self-contained area for weddings of around 80guests, licensed for civil ceremonies and with anadjoining walled gardenideal for pictures and reception drinks. Lastly, thedrawing room and conservatory offer more intimate surroundings withgrand ceremony room withstone fireplace and oak panelled walls, and the conservatory can accommodate 40 guests fora reception. On top of all thischoice is the hotel’s five-staraccommodation, with abeautiful oak room for afternoon teas, an a la carterestaurant with two AArosettes, and an extensivespa area with luxury

treatments available. Whynot book in for a long weekend, enjoy a Decléorfacial in the spa, then spendthe night in one of their luxurious suites? The groomcan unwind with a round ofgolf while the bride visits thehair salon or has a relaxingswim, and your guests will be comfortable in their rooms,and you’ll all be relaxed andready for the big day!Hanbury Manor offers threewedding packages: gold, platinum and diamond,andyou can build your weddingday around these, remembering to add extrafor the ceremony and registrar’s fee. The packagesare extensive- and all includethe wedding night suite forthe bride and groom and a three-course wedding breakfast. The food, as onewould expect, is sumptuous.The three course weddingbreakfast includes interestingtakes on British food, whilethere is a choice of extrasincluding canapés and anevening buffet.

Hanbury Manor, Ware,Hertfordshire SG12 0SD Tel: 01920 487722 www.marriotthanburymanor.co.uk

Hanbury ManorThis Hertfordshire venue is the ultimate country club retreat

A former country manor, then convent

school, the impressive 18th century mansion

is now a Marriott hotel and country club.

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Braxted ParkThis historic Queen Anne building is set in acres of private parkland licensed for civil ceremonies. The venue can cater from 50 to 300 guests, andprides itself on its impressive catering. As well as civil ceremonies in the house andorangery, there is a church within the estate so that you can celebrate all aspects of yourbig day on site. They also cater for Asian, Greek, Jewish and Caribbean weddings, andhave an option for venue hire only as well as packages including a weekday weddingpackage. Check the website for late availability and inclusive package deals from £9,500or visit Braxted Park at their open day on 26th February. Tel: 01621 892305 www.braxtedpark.co.uk

Heritage on the HillHeritage on the Hill, incorporating Best Western Ivy Hill and Furze Hillhas long been a favourite venue for couples getting married inEssex. The two venues are next to each other, yet offer differentwedding experiences. Victorian architecture and beautiful landscaped grounds are the treasures at Ivy Hill, with four differentsettings for your big day along with 33 beautifully-appointed hotelrooms. On site is Furze hill, a self-contained function suite that is light,welcoming and wonderfully flexible. Catering from 10 people to250, Ivy Hill is a classic wedding setting, while Furze Hill is adaptableand large. Winter weddings for 2012 start from £50 per person,check the website or order a Heavenly Weddings brochure.Tel: 01277 353040 www.heritageonthehill.co.uk

East Mersea HallA private, stunning 16th century manor house, East MerseaHall is surrounded by a medieval moat and acres of gardens and woodland on Mersea island. The venue islicensed for civil ceremonies in the Terrace or historic DiningRoom, while during the summer months the beautiful pavilion can ccommodate up to 150 for dinner and dancing. St. Edmund’s Church is accessible from the hall’sgardens, and the owners are happy to arrange a tour ofthe premises for all bride and grooms-to-be. Tel: 01206 383499 www.eastmerseahall.co.uk


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Baddow Park This impressive Victorian manorhouse is a wonderfully private andflexible venue, with seating in thehouse for 50 guests, 250 in a marquee on the lawn or up to2,000 in the expansive grounds.Owner Anne is on hand to organise everything from caterersto flowers for you, in an inclusiveand utterly personal service. Thevenue has recently won an accolade from Condé Nast Brides magazine, and is steadily becoming one of Essex’s finest venues. Tel: 01245 473 969 www.baddowpark.co.uk

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From Husbandto Wife

REAL We d d i n g

Vanessa Husband first met David Gordon at University, whenVanessa was a first year and David was in his second year. Davidplayed football with Vanessa’s housemate when the pair wasintroduced, though Vanessa was already in a relationship. “Wewere friends for a few months, but my relationship broke down, Imade the first move and we’ve been together ever since!” saysVanessa, now 28. After a few years of studying abroad, and forging the relationship across their time at UEA in Norwich,Vanessa’s home in Brentwood and David’s home in Richmond,Surrey the pair finally moved in together in 2008. “David proposedin the bath!” Vanessa laughs, after a romantic day at home. “It was very sweet,” Vanessa remembers.

Winter Wishes“I always wanted a winter wedding,” says Vanessa, “Winter 2009was too soon after we got engaged to plan for.” So the coupleprepared to marry on 18th December 2010, 18 months afterDavid had proposed. The couple chose Newland Hall, in Roxwell.“We looked around a few places, but this venue felt welcomingand the staff were lovely,” Vanessa says. The year-round permanent (and heated!) marquee was a big draw, as they had120 guests in mind. “There were lots of opportunities for photosaround the venue, too,” the couple remembers.

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Vanessa and David enjoyed a white

wedding last December, when the

snow fell on their big day

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They chose photographer Gavin Woollard for his versatility, whowas enthused by the snow. “It hadn’t snowed at all before that day, and I was completelystressing that it’d snow the night before,” says Vanessa. “I wokeup to perfect winter day which was frosty and sunny. As wewent through the day the snow started to come down. It gotheavier and heavier and I thought: ‘Ah’.” Despite some of thewedding cars getting stuck at the venue and some people notmaking the wedding at all, Vanessa didn’t mind the snow at all. “It’s funny how little it actually mattered on the day,” she says.

Vanessa’s dress was simple and elegant, and showed off herpetite frame perfectly. “I knew I wasn’t looking for a meringuedress, but still wanted something dramatic,” Vanessa says. “Itried on a few styles and my mum’s reaction said it all- theywere all wrong!” Vanessa ended up with something totally different- a fishtail gown from Confetti and Lace at Lakeside.“The dress was very fitted, and I had off-the-shoulder strapsmade, knowing that strapless does not suit me at all.” Davidchose his suit, and those of his best man Chris and four ushers,from Anthony’s in Billericay. David didn’t want tails, so chose along jacket with a waistcoat and deep red cravat, which

matched the bridesmaid’s Pronuptia dresses. Dressing the venuewas a seasonal and handmade selection of snowy, sparklytwigs, with Christmas card table numbers, Place names werealso Christmas cards nestled in pine cones, bringing the glistening snowy day inside.

Spiritual DayDavid and Vanessa had a civil ceremony, stripped back to itsbare bones, followed by an inter-faith blessing. “I’m Catholicand David’s Jewish, so we wanted to combine elements of bothtraditions,” explains Vanessa. “We wanted to keep a religious, spiritual aspect to the day, andthis really felt like a real wedding ceremony.” The couple foundan inter-faith minister to perform the ceremony, but it didn’texactly go to plan. “[The minister] lost her voice on the day!”says Vanessa, “so our best man stepped in.” Having no idea ofthe chaos that was going on behind closed doors, Vanessa andDavid just carried on regardless, and say the inter-faith ceremony meant an awful lot to them. Throughout the wedding breakfast of beef bourguignon, magician Paul Clancy entertained the guests. “My dad is atoastmaster, so he recommended Paul Clancy; he was very,very good.” After apple pie for pudding, the guests danced untilmidnight, despite the snow. “Once we came out of the ceremony, the ground was thick with snow,” remembersVanessa. “If we had the wedding any later [than 1.30pm], halfthe guests would not have made it.” Continued overleaf...

Dressed for the occasion


REAL We d d i n g


Venue: Newland Hall, Roxwell, Essex (01245)231010 www.newlandhall.co.ukBride’s outfit: Confetti & Lace, Lakeside (01708)890353 www.confettiandlace.comGrooms, Best Man and Ushers’ outfits: AnthonyFormalwear, Billericay (01277) 651140www.anthonyformalwear.co.ukBridesmaid’s dresses: Pronuptia www.pronuptia.com for your nearest stockistEntertainment: Paul Clancy (01375) 380632www.prestige-conjuring.co.ukPhotography: Gavin Woollard (01277) 824104www.reportagephotography.comTransport: Aristocars, Billericay (01268) 293100www.aristocars.co.ukFlowers: Halo Blossom (01279) 504567www.haloblossom.co.uk

David and Vanessa’sLittle Black Book


Lasting Memories“The main thing I remember is the feelingof nerves that suddenly hit me,” saysVanessa. “I had to walk from the mainhouse to the ceremony in the marquee,through the thick snow and didn’t knowwhere these nerves came from!” However,

once she saw her groom, the nerves melted away and the couple grinnedthroughout the whole service. “All five ofmy bridesmaids meant an awful lot tome- though I thought I’d never have so

many bridesmaids,” Vanessa says.

On the wedding night, the couple stayedat Channels Lodge in Chelmsford before

flying off to Antigua on their honeymoon.Now the couple have become three, withthe birth of their baby boy in October. Sodoes it seem strange for Miss Husband tonow be a wife? “Now it seems strange ifI’m called by my previous name, I got usedto being Mrs Gordon very quickly!” And itsuits her down to a tee.


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Photography DirectoryCapture those special moments with stunning photography

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1. Indulge your sweet tooth with aCupcake Decorating Party. Spend theafternoon baking and sampling delicious cupcakes and whoopiepies, then have fun decorating them- the perfect wedding favourand ultimate girlie baked treat! Finishoff the workshop with a tutorial onhow to shake the perfect cocktail-the chocolate martini, mmmmmmm.And you even get to take home yourhandiwork, not so impressive after allthat Champagne… From £45,www.adventureconnections.co.uk

2. Hen Heaven offer some of the mostthrilling, audacious hen party activitiesfor the hen weekend with a difference. Why allow the boys tohave all of the fun, when you couldbe screeching around corners in amud buggy, white-water rafting, oreven careering down a hillside in agiant PVC ball? And that's just the tipof the iceberg, the activities are guaranteed to titillate the most intrepid of thrill seekers and provide ajolt to the wildest of adrenalin junkies.

One night packages start from£79. www.henheaven.co.uk

3. Become your hubby-to-be’svery own pin-up girl with a burlesque hen party. Learn tostrut, pose and work a featherboa, while boosting your confi-dence and becoming a sexy pin upgirl! Jem Ayres runs Burlesque Belle inWitham, and holds dance courses allover the county, including Harlowand Bishops Stortford. www.burlesquebelle.co.uk

4. Whatever happened to relaxingbefore your big day? Head toHanbury Manor in Ware to experience a gentler hen weekend.The spa facilities are luxurious, with anew Decléor Life Radiance facial treatment guaranteeing a gorgeousglow for the wedding, and you canenjoy a posh afternoon tea in thegrand surrounds of the 17th century manor house hotel. And if you fancysome more strenuous activity, the hotel has a stunning golf club where

you can take lessons- he’ll be so jealous! Hanbury Manor, Ware (01920) 487722

5. Always wanted to be a pop star?Then it’s time take your karaoke tothe next level! Sing your hearts out, fora night to remember, at theacclaimed professional recording studio Iguana. The Vocal Factorypackage includes three hours recording time with a professionalproducer, your hit CD with editingand backing track as a permanentmemory of your time as a pop star,and cocktails in the gorgeous studiolounge. So who cares if you sound likemore like a cat being drowned thanKaty Perry? Prices start from £45 for aminimum of eight people.www.vocalfactory.co.uk

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6.Feeling demure? Plum Fairy catersfor elegant and decadent tea parties, with vintage china and delectable cakes. She’ll come andset up at your hen party and waitingstaff can be arranged- perfect forgarden parties and to keep the mother-in-law happy… www.plumfairy.co.uk

7.Get in the spirit of winter with a tripto the gorgeous snowy wilds ofEastern Europe. Redseven’s ‘WinterWonderland’ weekend in Krakow isthe perfect choice for any discerninghen seeking a once in a lifetimeexperience and a hen weekendyou’ll never forget. Not only will youmeet the adorable huskies, you’lllearn all about them, and even learnabout how to drive the sled. After a magical sled ride, you’ll all go snowtubing; a thrilling new activity,guaranteed to raise a few laughs.Don’t forget your uggs! From just £164per hen www.redsevenleisure.co.uk

8. Crafting is the new rock and roll,apparently, and Make, Do & Mend inChelmsford has truly embraced this.Offering workshops on everythingfrom bunting to bookbinding, crafterextraordinaire and owner HannahElgie also offers hen parties. Threepackages are available, including agroup bunting workshop- ideal formaking the decorations for your wedding! If you are a smaller group,Hannah runs courses and workshopson knitting, crochet, sewing, and felt-making, and even curtain-makingand jewellery making. www.makedomend.com

9. If you’re a budding fashionista, whynot give hat-making a try? You andyour hens could treated to a fabulous fashion party, where hatcouturier to the stars KatherineElizabeth hosts a ‘Mad hatters’millinery soiree. You and your henscould create the perfect hat for Wday, whilst you sip champagne and

learn about hat etiquette. Extrasinclude a Benefit makeup masterclass, vintage tea party settings and ahat box to take your bespoke creation home with. From £48 perperson.www.katherineelizabethhats.com

10. Fancy a trip away from the wintergloom, but haven’t got the budgetfor Cuba? Then head to the medinstead. Tenerife is set to be 2011’smost popular destination for hen parties this winter, and with winter sunand VIP treatment, who can resist?Redseven is offering a ‘Purely Partypackage’ for hen parties with champagne and cocktails included,as well as exclusive nightclub entryand three night’s accommodationfrom just £79. The ‘Set Sail and Party’trip includes a catamaran trip withdolphin and whale watching, plusoodles of champagne and VIP nightclub entry. www.redsevenleisure.co.uk

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AKN Disco, run by DJ Alfie Norman,provides complete entertainmentpackages in some of the finest venues, across Essex and Hertforshire.Friendly, approachable and aboveall professional, Alfie is on hand toguide you through all the music foryour big day, from the ceremony tothe late-night party and even themusic for your drinks reception andwedding breakfast. With literally thousands of tracks to hand and top-of-the range equipment, AKN Discoscan give you a top-quality entertainment experience for yourwedding. And they’re offering thechance to win it! The prize packageis a Free Disco worth £650.00 (StarCloth Trusting, DJ Booth, NightclubLighting and 3.1KW Sound System)

• Ceremony Music• Wedding Breakfast Music

• Mic for Speeches • Evening Entertainment

As well as all this, the happycouple will meet with Alfie to

discuss their playlist, andchoose the tracks themselves

from a huge music library.

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‘AKN Disco competition’ as the subject,along with your name, address, email andtelephone number. Alternatively, send your

answer and details to Absolute Bridal magazine, No 4 Whitbreads Business

Centre, Whitbreads Farm Lane, ChathamGreen, Chelmsford, ESSEX CM3 3FE.

Competition closes 28/2/2012.

Terms and conditions: Competition closes 28/2/2012. Winner will bedrawn at random and notified by email with

details how to claim your prize. Editor’s decisionis final. No cash alternative will be offered. Noresponsibility will be taken for entries lost during

submission. Entries must be received by midnighton 28/2/2012. Main Event Wedding Shows Ltd

has the right to withdraw the competition at anytime. Personal data will be collected, but will

not be passed on to any other companies.

ABSOLUTE Bridal hasteamed up with AKN Discos tooffer one lucky reader thechance to win their weddingdisco, and music throughout the big day

ABSOLUTE BRIDAL Magazine 79Contact Alfie Norman for more information M. 07791360941 E. [email protected] www.akndiscos.co.uk

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• Tom Ford is the firstword in classic men’sstyle, so douse yourselfin Tom Ford Eau deToilette, £45, on the bigday to grab some ofthat Clooney-esquechic.

Big day stylingand stag saviours

• Although wearing a wedding ring is the dream of manya groom, that ring should be sleek, stylish and timeless.And in many cases, hard-wearing too. Maskell Jewelleryhas over 30 years of experience creating bespoke wedding and engagement rings, and has a wide rangeof ideas including gold, platinum and titanium rings. If youhave something in mind but want to make it hard-wear-ing for work or play, Maskell can also rhodium-plate yourrings for just £20 in time for the big day. Check out theirwebsite for bespoke tie and cravat pins, cufflinks andother beautiful gifts for your best man, or just to makeyour morning suit unique. www.maskelljewellery.com

• Need help getting dressed? Website My Tuxedo hassome great ideas for winter weddings. “It’s more thanlikely to be cold so opt for decent wool to keep thechill at bay. A good thing about winter weddings isyou can get away with wearing a tuxedo – so if themore fitted, short jacket style suits your shape better,it’s a perfect option.” The site has a selection of lastminute suits for every style- perfect if you’re on abudget or time limit. “Chat through colour schemeswith your bride. My Tuxedo has a vast range of waistcoats in all kinds of shades, so whatever yourbride is after, you’re bound to find the shade that fits.”www.mytuxedo.com

• Forget ‘Team Stag- Groom’ t-shirts on the big day- this Stag teewill look great even after the stag do…especially when you’rehandcuffed to that lamp post in Krakow… Stag T-shirt, £26.99,www.moretvicar.com

• Need help writing a speech,tying a bow tie or just want helpplanning the honeymoon? Visitnew website www.iamstaggered.com. The staggered site is an onlinehaven for grooms of bridezillas.So that’s ALL grooms, then. GROOMS

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There is nothing that fullyprepares you for the fullterror of standing up infront of a roomful of people to make a speechon one of the most important days of your life.If you’re the groom,you’ve just got married tothe love of your life andwant to impress your newfamily. If you’re the fatherof the bride, you want to

tell everyone how wonderful your daughter isand how lucky the groomis to be marrying her. Ifyou’re the best man, youwant to tread the linebetween praising andhumiliating your closefriend, the groom.

As a veteran best man(three times so far), I knowjust how scary the thought

of making a speech canbe, but when it actuallycomes down to it, the reality is never as bad asthe expectation. The onething that helped me morethan anything was knowing what I was goingto say. It sounds simple buta lot of people go wrongwhen they try to wing it.

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If you’ve not thought about what you’re goingto say, what makes you think you’ll suddenly findinspiration in front of a hushed audience of 100or more?

Not that you should memorise what you’regoing to say or read it verbatim from a sheet.Mumbling in monotone whilst peering down atlengthy notes isn’t going to win anyone over. Ididn’t know any of my speeches word for word,but I did know what I wanted to say and had a

structure to my speech, so one point led toanother and I never had that terrible panickyfeeling of not knowing what I was going to saynext. Don’t get me wrong, it was still as dauntingproposition, but I felt comfortable enough that Iwouldn’t completely dry up and once you getyour first laugh or round of applause, you’ll feelyour confidence grow. And once it’s over youcan relax, have a drink and enjoy the rest of thenight.

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1. Plan: Fail to prepare and you prepare to fail.

Have your wedding speech planned at least a

week before the big day

2. Practise: In the week before the wedding,

rehearse your speech. You’ll find out what parts of

it work best and what might need a bit of

tweaking plus it’ll make you comfortable with

what you’re saying and you’ll be less likely to dry

up.

3. Use cue cards and props – anything to help you

along and liven up the speech is good. This can

be especially useful for the best man. I’ve seen

Powerpoint presentations at weddings before, but

this may be going a little too far!

4. If you do use cards or a prepared speech,

don’t just stare down and read it out. Project your

golden words!

5. Remember, you’re among friends. They want to

like your speech and laugh at your jokes, so take

heart from that.

6. Don’t be too reverent (don’t do too much

creeping), don’t be too irreverent (don’t be

crude).

7. Remember the things you have to include as

part of your speech. For the groom, it’s praising

your new wife. For the father of the bride, it’s

praising your daughter and welcoming your

son-in-law to the family. For the best man, you’re

supposed to say how lovely the bride and

bridesmaids are and read out any messages from

those who can’t attend

8. Don’t go on too long. Some people’s

speeches ramble on and on. Don’t let this

happen. Don’t speak for more than five minutes.

9. As tempting as it might be, don’t have too

much to drink before your speech. A little Dutch

courage is no bad thing, but you don’t want to

be slurring your words, forgetting what you’re

going to say or dropping your cue cards!

10. Finish with a flourish. Try to end your speech in

style and aim for tears of joy rather than anguish

from the audience.

And remember to toast the happy couple!

for your wedding speech

• The Wedding Singer (1998) Adam Sandler woos

Drew Barrymore in this classic 80s-set romcom

• Wedding Crashers (2005) Vince Vaughan and

Owen Wilson show us how it shouldn’t be done in

this brilliant comedy

• Four Weddings and a Funeral (1994) Classic Brit

comedy, with the bumbling Hugh Grant falling for

Andie MacDowell

• The Hangover (2009) Brides- don’t watch this

the night before your wedding. Four blokes lose

the groom during a drunken stag in Vegas

• Bridesmaids (2011) Hilarious bridesmaid antics

when a bridezilla picks an oddball bunch of

bridesmaids. Not to be missed!


Need some inspiration?Check out our top fivewedding films…

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Photography By Gavin Woollard www.reportagephotography.com

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Destination WeddingsIf you’re sick of the British winter weather and want an

a destination wedding could be for you. You can take as many or as

few guests as you please, and have guaranteed sunshine

intimate wedding with a stunning backdrop, then

and honeymoon built in

Ibiza Amante beach club (Amante t rans lat ion: lovers) i sset over three levels , s tepping down the c l i f f to pr ivate beach Sol Den Ser ra. The magic cont inuesonce ins ide the venue with chic and sty l i sh décorcomplement ing the natural grace and uniquebeauty of the spectacular sur roundings. Amantewi l l custom-des ign the per fect menu to su i t yourwedding so i ree, and welcome dr inks can be provided on ar r ival or post-ceremony. You canchoose t radi t ional cava, champagne, cocktai l s orgo for an adventurous sangr ia or Mart in i se lect ion.Amante are on hand to help plan everyth ing f romf l ights to photographers . Thei r exper ience of organis ing weddings and events in Ib iza wi l l ensurethat your wedding day i s as per fect as the seaview f rom Amante. Amante Beach Club i s locatedabove Sol Den Ser ra beach, just outs ide SantaEular ia. www.amanteibiza.com

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South AfricaSouth Africa is known as the ‘Rainbow Nation’ with a vastarray of different cultures and staggeringly beautiful multi-coloured landscapes. Owned by Virgin’s very own Sir RichardBranson the 5V Ulusaba Private Game Reserve is one of themost luxurious and exclusive game lodges in the world.Located amidst the breath-taking landscapes of Sabi Sand, itcombines excellent service and sumptuous accommodationwith superb safari experiences. A luxury wedding package atUlusaba starts from £649 (excluding the holiday package)including a single tier wedding cake, French champagne,game drives in the bush, 30 minute massage for the bride andgroom, honeymoon breakfast in bed, and a private dinner fortwo on the evening of the wedding. www.virginholidays.com

MaldivesFor far- f lung fantasy weddings,you can’t beat The Maldives.As wel l as luxur ious honeymoondest inat ion i t a l so offers idy l l ic ,sun-drenched weddings. H i l tonMaldives I ru Fush i Resort andSpa has two exci t ing packagesavai lable, and the resort ’s dedicated wedding plannersare committed to creat ing amemorable and unforgettableMaldiv ian wedding exper ience. The Beach SunsetWedding Package i s set on thepr i s t ine white sands of theis land against the spark l ingturquoise backdrop of theIndian Ocean, whi le the LovePavi l ion Wedding Packageover looks the lagoon in a pavi l ion set up by the oceanand makes a spectacularvenue. With two Bodu Berumus ic ians ( t radi t ional Maldiv ian‘big drums’) to lead theentrance to the wedding andan exot ic bouquet for thebr ide, the v ibrant colours andenchant ing mus ic of the i s landhelp to make the bless ing ceremony a Maldiv ian t reat.Seven n ights at H i l ton MaldivesI ru Fush i f rom £1799, includesreturn internat ional f l ights ,Beach Vi l la wi th Jacuzz i , breakfast & seaplane t ransfersthrough T rai l f inders : 0845 050 5892

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MexicoThe Car ibbean coast l ine of Mexico i s a long success ion ofwhite sandy beaches and clear turquoise seas, wi th large spectacular resorts to host a wedding. V i rg in Hol idays haschosen the quieter parts of th i s g lor ious coast for i t s wed-ding and honeymoon packages – enjoy evenings of internat ionalcuis ine including authent ic Mexican cooking with cheeryMar iachi bands to serenade the happy union. At the 5VDreams Tu lum, soft whi te sands and lush mangrove forestsmake for a g lor ious sett ing. There are two beach weddinglocat ions or an indoor chapel seat ing up to 20 guests . Aluxury wedding and renewal of vows package starts f rom£619 (excluding the hol iday package). www.virginholidays.com

St. LuciaDesigned exclusively for couples, the Rendezvous Hotel is anidyllic and intimate Caribbean hideaway, perfect for a destination wedding or to celebrate a memorable honeymoon. Set on a beautiful two-mile stretch of whitesandy beach and surrounded by seven acres of tropical gardens, there are a number of different locations for an elegant and discrete wedding ceremony. As well as offeringthree wedding packages, couples are able to personaliseother aspects of their wedding and honeymoon, includingcouples spa treatments and pre-wedding spa experiences.Caribtours offers seven nights at Rendezvous, Saint Luciafrom £1,750 per person staying in a Garden Room on AllInclusive. Price includes return scheduled flights, privatetransfers and use of a private lounge at Gatwick.www.caribtours.co.uk

Absolute Bridal’s Top Tips for Destination Weddings:-•Las Vegas, Antigua and Barbados are ideal destinations for couples looking to tie the knot quickly!

•For something more off the beaten track choose Bali, Thailand or Kenya but be prepared to stay that little bit longer as some countrieshave minimum residency periods.

•Pack your original wedding documents and wedding attire in your hand luggage for safe keeping.•Check the legal requirements and make sure that you have the documents needed. Travel to some countries requires a visa.

(Source: www.virginholidays.com)•Expect a simple ceremony. It will be quick and informal. Most registrars are happy to include a reading that is special to you.

(source: Kuoni)

ItalySor rento, on I ta ly’sNeapol i tan R iv iera, of fers abeaut i fu l , dramat ic backdrop for couples marry ing abroad. The formerclo is ters of San Francesco i sthe ceremony venue, wi tht ra i l ing v ines and plenty ofphoto opportuni t ies in thearches. A t rans lator wi l l beon hand to guide youthroughyour ceremony, and theO’Parruchiano restaurant haslong hosted weddings, popular thanks to i t s s tunningwedding feast in the courtyard amongst thelemon groves. Kuoni of fersf ive n ights on room andbreakfast bas i s at the GrandHotel Excels ior V i t tor ia,Sor rento in a c lass ic gardenview room, including f l ightswith Br i t i sh Ai rways f romGatwick with pr ivate t ransfers in resort and alounge in Gatwick on departure. Pr ices for 2011are f rom £866 per personbased on two shar ing. Kuoniweddings in Sor rento costf rom £1290 per couple.www.kuoni.co.uk


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When Sara and John Hall married in June last year, they chose thebreath-taking Neapolitan Riviera for their stunning destination wedding

Police officer Sara Eastoe, 27, married her swimming pool builderbeau John Hall, 26, on 11th June, 2010, after a four yearcourtship. They met in 2006, when John worked in the warehouseattached to Sara’s offices. “He used to bring the post in everyday- I thought he was a bit of alright but wasn’t looking for a relationship as I was going travelling,” says Sara. After her friendsgot his number, she persuaded herself to text him and he invitedher over to his house for a curry! “After that we saw each otherevery day. I was impressed by his flash motorbike!”

They moved in together in January 2007, and he proposed atDanbury lakes in October 2008. “We didn’t want a traditional

English wedding,” Sara recalls, “John had been to a few andfound them boring. We wanted something different, and morepersonal.” The couple had initially considered a long haul destination, like Mexico or the Caribbean, but decided onEurope so that family and friends could travel there easily andcheaply. “We picked up the Kuoni weddings brochure andSorrento seemed like a nice location that was reasonablypriced,” says Sara. “I checked out the hotel and wedding service on Trip Advisor, and there were some really good reviewsfrom brides, so we went for it- 18 months after we got engaged.”The couple chose to marry on a Friday in the San Francescocloisters- a crumbling façade with plenty of photo opportunities.John’s best man Dan was a travel agent, so organised hotelrooms for the 30 guests and booked them a Kuoni wedding co-ordinator. Sara found a restaurant for the party of close family and friends to have the wedding breakfast herself.

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“I looked up a couple of restaurants recommended by Sorrento brides onTrip Advisor, and found a perfect wedding package at O’ Parrucchiano.”The restaurant made their impressivelemon bombe wedding cake, and created a chic table setting set in thelemon grove terrace outside.

Sara chose her dress just as easily as shechose her wedding destination. “I wentto lots of wedding shops in Essex, andtried on loads of styles, but in the end Ifound something that was just what Ihad imagined.” Sara found her empireline, chiffon San Patrick dress at TheBespoke Wardrobe at their January sale,and the groom and best man foundtheir navy suits at a formalwear shopthat was closing down. The champagne-coloured bridesmaiddresses came from Lakeside- and wereperfect for the hot summer’s day thatawaited them in Sorrento. “Once we arrived in Sorrento, we had ameeting with the wedding rep who wasalso to act as translator for our ceremony. She sorted out bouquetsfrom a local florist and booked our carsfor us.” The couple had already sortedtheir paperwork at the travel agents inthe UK, so everything was ready forthem on the big day. “We barely had toplan anything,” Sara says.

After an early ceremony-11am- the couple stayed at the cloisters for anhour to take pictures, while it was opento the public. “I was glad it was early, asit was so hot that day,” remembersSara. The party then walked through thecobbled streets up to O’Parrucchiano,while the locals threw sweets andcheered and clapped...

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The Big Day - twice!


Venue (Italy) and Travel (Kuoni):www.kuoni.co.uk/weddingsUK Venue: Benton Hall Golf Club, Witham (01376) 502454www.theclubcompany.comBride’s dress: The Bespoke Wardrobe,Ingatestone (01277) 355787UK Photography: AVB PhotographyColchester 07947 984686 www.avbphotography.co.ukBridesmaid’s Dresses: TwobirdsBridesmaidwww.twobirdsbridesmaid.co.ukTransport: Cool Classic Cars, Rayleigh 0800 468 1950 www.coolclassiccars.co.uk

Sara and John’s LittleBlack Book


...them on their way to married life. “Atthe restaurant we had our own waiter,who was so funny. It was like having amaster of ceremonies,” Sara laughs. “He lita sparkler that played music and put in itour wedding cake- we had to kiss until itwent out!” After a long lunch of Italianclassics, speeches and toasts, the partymade the most of the hotel and had aswim and dinner before bed.

A week later, John and Sara had a reception for family and friends at BentonHall Golf Club in Essex, with an eveningbuffet, disco and live singer for their firstdance- to ‘Secret Smile’ by Semisonic. This time, the bride and her two maids gotready at the Channels Lodge inChelmsford, before travelling to BentonHall in a 1940s hot rod. The couple

danced the night away before setting offChinese lanterns to celebrate their marriage.

Mr and Mrs Hall honeymooned six monthsafter the big day, after asking for travelvouchers for their wedding present. Theychose Kenya for their honeymoon destination: five days safari through theTsavo National Park, staying at variousgame lodges, followed by seven days all inclusive beach holidaying at the VoyagerBeach Resort in Mombasa. “My lasting memory is of the whole daybeing very laid back- there were no

nerves really,” Sara says, which suited hergroom down to a tee. “Marriage hasn’tchanged our relationship at all, whyshould it? We’re still the same people,”Sara says. “We would love to go back toSorrento and renew our vows on our tenthanniversary. We hardly planned a thing,but it went so smoothly, and it was abeautiful location.” For this Essex couple, marrying abroadmeant a small, intimate wedding in a stunning setting that they could combinewith a holiday. The nearby Amalfi coast isa must-see for Sorrento brides, and thecouple made the most of their Italianjaunt- not forgetting the friends and familyby throwing a party on their return. Itseems that for the Halls, Italy was just thejob.

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“I open up the diary on mycomputer to glance at myday’s appointments. Thismorning, my first appointment is due in at9am, here they are now!The couple have come toplace their intention tomarry at a venue outsideour district and as theyboth live in our area theyhave to present their birthcertificates, passports andshow proof of their residence with us as we aretheir local Register Office.I interview them separatelyand print out each of thema Notice of Marriage whichthey check and sign.I then sign the notice whichis then displayed on ournotice board in our districthead office for the next 15days. This is the time atwhich anyone wishing toobject to their marriagemay do so. After this period their marriageauthorities are printed andare sent to the RegistrationOffice responsible for theirmarriage ceremony. Markworks as a lifeguard; Susanworks as a nurse. They arevery excited about theirforthcoming marriage andit is always a pleasure tosee the excitement on theirfaces as they book thelegal proceedings. I taketheir fee and wish thembest wishes for the future as

husband and wife and thephones rings to remind memy next appointment iswaiting.

I have a marriage ceremony to conduct atthe end of the morning.My colleague has met thecouple and taken themthrough their pre-marriageinterview and I go andmeet them before theirceremony. Fred and Maryare both 70 years old andboth widowed. They havebeen together for manyyears and they havedecided to finally make it‘legal’! Fred is shaky andnervous and Mary notmuch better. I reassurethem about the declaration and contracting words whichthey will repeat after meand admire their rings theyare to exchange. Fred ishard of hearing and I haveto speak louder. TheirGrandson andGranddaughter are to bewitnesses and they havepassed my colleague a CDof Elvis singing ‘Only FoolsRush In ’and Tina Turner’s‘Simply the Best’ to beplayed as a surprise in theirceremony! Mary has tearsin her eyes and has to holdonto Fred’s hand to stop itshaking as they exchangetheir rings and promises to

In the first of a new series looking at theother side of the wedding industry, registrar

Sylvia Wye talks us througha typical civil wedding ceremony

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A DAY IN THE LIFE…

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each other. Off they gowith their families to their‘local’ for a long awaitedcelebration.

I have been a registrarworking for this district for11 years now and previously worked as a registrar for a LondonBorough for five years. Mywork can sometimes seemrepetitive but I really doenjoy meeting different

people from all walks of life.My day can be a rollercoaster of emotion andthere is never a dull day inmy job! If I feel sad onemoment registering adeath, I am compensatedby registering a beautifulbaby the next or meet ahappy couple registeringtheir marriage…. I can honestly say I enjoy being aRegistrar!”

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