happiness workshop iii: the importance of mindset
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Events do not make us happy. Happiness comes in large part by the perspective that we take to life -- through the application of a mindset. This presentation explores the ways in which a person\'s mindset frames one\'s approach to life. Our mindset is a central determinant not only of our propensity toward happiness, but also our ability to develop all aspects of ourselves.TRANSCRIPT
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The Happiness ProjectThe Happiness Project
The First Church of Salem, Unitarian
Workshop III:
MINDSET MINDSET
A Key to Cultivating a Good Life
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A Brief ReviewA Brief Review
1. Happiness is not merely “pleasure”1. Happiness is not merely “pleasure”
Pleasure fades fast…Pleasure fades fast…
2. Happiness is 2. Happiness is notnot a a thingthing to be attained to be attained
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A Brief ReviewA Brief Review
Happiness as Happiness as processprocess and and judgmentjudgment
Self-CultivationSelf-Cultivation: The process of working : The process of working toward my goals and values; becoming a toward my goals and values; becoming a better better personperson..
AppreciationAppreciation: Appreciating what is good in : Appreciating what is good in who you are and what you have right who you are and what you have right nownow. .
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Happiness is about Happiness is about Cultivating and Appreciating Cultivating and Appreciating
A A GoodGood Life Life
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my “best self”
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Appreciate new attendees andmake them feel wanted
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
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2 Reflecting onMy Actions
Make new attendees feel welcome
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
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Appreciate: What is good about… this moment?Cultivate: How can I continue to improve?
Reflecting & Appreciation
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
1
2 Reflecting onMy Actions
Welcome new attendees
Appreciate: There are some interesting people here
Cultivate: I’m nervous; but it’s about them, not me…
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Three Areas of Three Areas of AA Good LifeGood Life
Work/Contribution
Health/Self-Care
Love/Relationships
A Good Life
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Happiness isHappiness is
Work/Contribution
Health/Self-Care
Love/Relationships
Cultivation & Appreciation in Each Domain
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MindfulnessMindfulness
One element of self-care is One element of self-care is mindfulnessmindfulness: : being aware of what is happening in the being aware of what is happening in the present momentpresent moment..
BREATHINGBREATHING is an act of is an act of centeringcentering
focuses our focuses our awareness awareness that can be done that can be done anytime, anywhere anytime, anywhere for immediate re-for immediate re-centeringcentering
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Exercise I:Exercise I:Simple Breathing MeditationSimple Breathing Meditation
1.1. Close your eyesClose your eyes
2.2. Clear your mind of everythingClear your mind of everything
3.3. Attend to your breathingAttend to your breathing
4.4. When your mind wanders (and it will), bring it backWhen your mind wanders (and it will), bring it back
5.5. Let’s do this for one full minuteLet’s do this for one full minute
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Now is the time for the most important Now is the time for the most important question for cultivating happiness:question for cultivating happiness:
What does this moment What does this moment have to offer? have to offer?
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Exercise:Exercise:What does this moment have to offer? What does this moment have to offer?
1.1. Close your eyes and clear your mindClose your eyes and clear your mind
2.2. Attend to what feels good about your Attend to what feels good about your breathing. Consciously appreciate it.breathing. Consciously appreciate it.
3.3. Ask: Ask: What does this moment have to offer?What does this moment have to offer?
4.4. AppreciateAppreciate
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CULTIVATING THE PRACTICE OF SELF-CULTIVATION
Reflecting upon and Developing Your MINDSET
Cultivating my best self
AppreciationReflection for Cultivation
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MindsetMindset
How we think of the process of our own How we think of the process of our own learning and developmentlearning and development
Carol Dweck (New York University)Carol Dweck (New York University)
FixedFixed versus versus GrowthGrowth Mindsets Mindsets
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Learn this and it can change your lifeLearn this and it can change your life
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Really.Really.
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I kid you not.I kid you not.
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FixedFixed versus versus GrowthGrowth Mindsets MindsetsTheory of
Intelligence, Competence
or Ability
My Goals What I Do
Fixed •Seek Positive Evaluation•Avoid
NegativeEvaluation
•If I believe I have ability, I persist, seek challenge,mastery •If I believe I do not haveability, I am helpless/avoidchallenge/ do not persist
Incremental Increase Competence
•Seek challenge that fosters learning•persist, persist, persist
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Ability
See, I think of my ability as a fixed lump of coal in my head. It’s innate. Or God given, or sump’n like that. There’s nuffin’ I can do ‘bout it!
Joe Fixedhead
Thick shell around encased “ability-as-thing”
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Growth Mindset
Ability is not a fixed thing; it is a set of skills that can be and must be developed
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Fixed MindsetFixed Mindset
I am my abilitiesI am my abilities My self-esteem is tied to my abilitiesMy self-esteem is tied to my abilities My abilities are fixedMy abilities are fixed
If I succeed, I feel good about myself!If I succeed, I feel good about myself! If I fail, I feel bad about myself.If I fail, I feel bad about myself.
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Fixed MindsetFixed Mindset
If I If I believebelieve I have high ability, I persevere I have high ability, I persevere and work hard. This is because I know I and work hard. This is because I know I will succeed. will succeed. No threat…no fear…and no No threat…no fear…and no courage needed…courage needed…
When I succeed I will feel good about When I succeed I will feel good about myself.myself.
I will have status, self-esteem, esteem I will have status, self-esteem, esteem from others…from others…
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Fixed MindsetFixed Mindset
If I If I believebelieve that I have LOW ability, my self- that I have LOW ability, my self-esteem is threatened. esteem is threatened.
Failure means I’m Failure means I’m dumbdumb. I will see myself . I will see myself as dumb. You will see me as dumb. as dumb. You will see me as dumb.
I feel I feel shameshame, low , low self-esteemself-esteem I will avoid the challenge; choose an easier I will avoid the challenge; choose an easier
task. I may devalue the task. task. I may devalue the task. Since I do not put forth the effort to meet the Since I do not put forth the effort to meet the
challenge, I do not improve. challenge, I do not improve.
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Smart and dumb are Smart and dumb are simply beside the simply beside the point, thank youpoint, thank you. They don’t come up.. They don’t come up.
Conceptions of high and low ability are Conceptions of high and low ability are simply beside the point, thank yousimply beside the point, thank you. They . They don’t come up. don’t come up.
If they do, well, low ability simply means: If they do, well, low ability simply means: I I better work extra hard. better work extra hard.
Growth MindsetGrowth Mindset
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Growth MindsetGrowth Mindset
I am not my abilities; I am not my abilities; I am a processI am a process; I am a ; I am a work in progresswork in progress. .
Intelligence and ability – no matter what it is Intelligence and ability – no matter what it is – is not fixed; it must develop– is not fixed; it must develop
Any “ability” – set of skills – requires Any “ability” – set of skills – requires effort effort and hard workand hard work in order to develop. in order to develop.
My self-esteem is not tied “fixed ability”; it is My self-esteem is not tied “fixed ability”; it is tied to the tied to the process of becomingprocess of becoming – to my – to my progressprogress relative to where I was or am. relative to where I was or am.
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Growth MindsetGrowth Mindset
My GoalMy Goal: To learn; to : To learn; to develop; to improve; to develop; to improve; to take the next step. take the next step.
If I put forth effort, I will improve. (I can’t help but to improve!)
And baby steps count.
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This, of course, naturally brings us to….This, of course, naturally brings us to….
NapkinsNapkins
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Critical Feedback Critical Feedback and the Growth Mindsetand the Growth Mindset
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Failure and the Growth MindsetFailure and the Growth Mindset
FailureFailure doesn’t mean I lack a fixed ability. doesn’t mean I lack a fixed ability. It means that I haven’t developed the skill yet.It means that I haven’t developed the skill yet.
Failure means I need to put forth more effort to develop the skill.
If I adopt a growth mindset, failure need not threatened my self-esteem
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Ability
Joe Fixedhead
Criticism and Critical Feedback Criticism and Critical Feedback
Joe, I think that the diagram you made may need a few changes.
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Joe Fixedhead
Criticism and Critical Feedback Criticism and Critical Feedback
WAH!!! YOU DON’T LIKE MY CHARTS. YOU DON’T LIKE ME.
WAH!!! DON’T YOU KNOW THAT I AM MY DIAGRAMS?
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Incrementally Improving Irma
TAKE TWOTAKE TWO
Irma, I think that the diagram you made may need a few changes.
Hmm… What can I learn from this?
Esteemed Boss
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A Mild Digression to a A Mild Digression to a Complex IssueComplex Issue
This is not to say that people do not differ This is not to say that people do not differ in their abilities or dispositions. They do.in their abilities or dispositions. They do.
BUT!BUT!
AbilityAbility: She is able to do this.: She is able to do this.
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Does this baby have the Does this baby have the abilityability to do mathematics? to do mathematics?
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Does this baby have the ability Does this baby have the ability
to do mathematics?to do mathematics?
Of course not.Of course not.
This child will need to put forth a lot of This child will need to put forth a lot of effort and activity to learn how to add, effort and activity to learn how to add, subtract, do algebra, etc. subtract, do algebra, etc.
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But, all things being equal, But, all things being equal,
this baby….this baby….
may be more (or less) may be more (or less) predisposed to developpredisposed to develop
mathematical skills mathematical skills in the futurein the future… …
……than this babythan this baby
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Regardless of their Regardless of their dispositionsdispositions, they can both , they can both learn math, and will have to exert effort to do so.learn math, and will have to exert effort to do so.
All skills develop over time. All skills develop over time.
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Abilities Abilities andand Dispositions Dispositions
Abilities aren’t fixed; they developAbilities aren’t fixed; they develop
People differ in People differ in dispositionsdispositions……
But dispositions are not But dispositions are not abilitiesabilities……
Abilities aren’t abilities until the person Abilities aren’t abilities until the person
is, well, is, well, ableable!!
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my “best self”
1Make a pretty napkin
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
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2 Reflecting onMy Actions
Make a pretty napkin
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
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2
Appreciate: What is good about my napkin? {It stands up; It looks like a fan}Cultivate: How can I make it just a tiny bit better?{Make it tighter next time}
Reflecting & Appreciation
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The Happiness ProcessThe Happiness Process
Everyday LifeCultivating my best self
1
2 Reflecting onMy Actions
Welcome new attendees
Appreciate: There are some interesting people here
Cultivate: I’m nervous; but it’s about them, not me…
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Cultivating my best self
Appreciate the MomentTake the Next (Baby?) Step
Happiness as Happiness as Appreciation and CultivationAppreciation and Cultivation
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GOALSTATE
Look at how far I have to go! How overwhelming! I’ll never get there! Never, never, never!
I’m a failure…
How Not To Cultivate a SelfHow Not To Cultivate a Self
Don’t judge yourself simply in comparison Don’t judge yourself simply in comparison to where you want to be…to where you want to be…
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Yes, it’s important to know where you’re going…Yes, it’s important to know where you’re going…
GOALSTATE
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But don’t judge yourself on how far you’ve But don’t judge yourself on how far you’ve got to go, but instead on got to go, but instead on how far you how far you have come. have come.
GOALSTATE
Just last week I needed help just to stay on my feet!
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Mindfulness: Mindfulness: Appreciate the present.Appreciate the present.
GOALSTATE
I have farther to go, but I appreciate where I am.
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Mindfulness: Mindfulness: Cultivate the future.Cultivate the future.
GOALSTATE
I’ve got my eye on the NEXT STEP
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Some Cultural Illustrations:Some Cultural Illustrations:
American Self-EsteemAmerican Self-Esteemvs.vs.
Chinese Self-CultivationChinese Self-Cultivation
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The US-Chinese Learning GapThe US-Chinese Learning Gap
ChineseChinese Students outperform Students outperform AmericanAmerican students in students in mathematicsmathematics (and science) at (and science) at all ages and grade levels beyond the age all ages and grade levels beyond the age of 4of 4
AmericanAmerican students outperform students outperform ChineseChinese students on students on somesome open-ended tasks open-ended tasks and and tasks involving tasks involving creative outcomescreative outcomes
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US Approach to Learning US Approach to Learning Self-Esteem/Task/Ability FocusSelf-Esteem/Task/Ability Focus
I am motivated to enhance my I am motivated to enhance my self-esteemself-esteem. . My intelligence and abilities are fixed.My intelligence and abilities are fixed.If I do well, I am If I do well, I am smartsmart and feel good and feel goodIf I do poorly, I am If I do poorly, I am dumbdumb; I feel bad; I feel bad
GoalGoal: Focus on : Focus on tasktask; do well to show ; do well to show ability and enhance self-esteemability and enhance self-esteem
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Life-Long Process of Life-Long Process of Self-PerfectionSelf-PerfectionImprove the Self to Bring Improve the Self to Bring HonorHonor to Family to FamilyLearning as MoralLearning as Moral Process; Filial Piety Process; Filial PietyDiscipline, Concentration, Hard WorkDiscipline, Concentration, Hard Work
Chinese Chinese Self-CultivationSelf-Cultivation
GOALGOAL: : FocusFocus on Learning, Improvement and on Learning, Improvement and
Self-PerfectionSelf-Perfection
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Alternative Approaches to LearningAlternative Approaches to Learning
USAAbility Orientation
CHINAVirtue Orientation
•Self-Esteem•Ability Focus•Task Focus•Outcome Focus
but•Rampant “Me-ism”
•Moral Self-Cultivation•Incremental Life-Long Learning•Academic and Moral Discipline•Love of Learning •Modesty in Success but•Threat of Familial Shame
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Development of “Hao-Xue-Xin” (China)“Heart and Mind for Wanting to Learn”
Jin Li, Brown University
USA CHINA
Need for Self-Perfection/Spiritual Power
.15 .79
Information/Facts/Skills/Understanding
.95 .32
College Students: What is Learning?
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Perceptions of Source of Success/FailureJin Li, Brown University
Nation Content
USA •Ability•Learning as Task to be Performed•Creative Strategies
China •Diligence•Persistence•Concentration
Preschoolers: Finish the story…Bird who tries hard and succeeds in learning to fly...
Bear who tries but fails to catch fish…
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The Point of this Cultural Analysis
…is NOT to say: the Chinese are happier than the Americans
It is simply to say:
Effort and Reflection Bring Development
What values determine your developmental path?…Identify them
…cultivate them,…and appreciate the moment and the movement..
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Serenity PrayerSerenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can;courage to change the things I can;and wisdom to know the difference.and wisdom to know the difference.
The Serenity Prayer acknowledges that we cannot change everything; that we must accept situations that we cannot change, and even forgive ourselves our trespasses…. And then, work toward the changes that will make for a better life.