going back in order to go forward: part 3 genesis 50: 15-21
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Going back in order to go forward: Part 3
Genesis 50: 15-21
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Families- we all have ‘um!
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We are pre-wired by God that 5 basic needs be met for healthy development - Pesso
-- need for “place”-- need for nurture-- need for protection-- need for support-- need for limits
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CriticismCriticism Abuse of
Abuse of authorityauthority
Lying
Lying
Emotion
al
Emotion
al
with
hold
ing
with
hold
ing
Breaking pro
mises
Breaking pro
mises
Intimidatio
n
Intimidatio
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Blaming
Blaming
DenyingDenying
SecretsSecrets
Press
ure
Press
ure
tacti
cs
tacti
csShaming
ShamingPut d
owns
Put downs
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LoveLove
JoyJoy PeacePeace
PatiencePatience
Goodness
Goodness
KindnessKindness
Gentleness
Gentleness
Self Contro
l
Self Contro
l Faithfulness
Faithfulness
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Iceberg modelWhat lies beneath the surface?
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‘Trauma’“A startling
experience which has a lasting effect
on mental life!”
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1. Recognize the iceberg in you from your family
3 Practical Applications
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1. Recognize the iceberg in you from your family
2. Discern the good God intends “in, through and, in spite of,” your family and past
3 Practical Applications
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You intended (PLANNED) to harm me, but God intended (PLANNED) it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Genesis 50:20
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”
Jeremiah 29:11
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And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28
Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.
Proverbs 19:21
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1. Recognize the iceberg in you from your family
2. Discern the good God intends “in, through and, in spite of,” your family and past
3. Make the decision to do the hard work of discipleship
3 Practical Applications
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1. Recognize the iceberg in you from your family
2. Discern the good God intends “in, through and, in spite of,” your family and past
3. Make the decision to do the hard work of discipleship
3 Practical Applications