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Thursday, November 14, 2013

“No Mentor Available? Mentor Yourself!”

Dr. Saundra McGuire, Director Emerita of the Center for

Academic Success and Retired Professor of Chemistry, Louisiana

State University

Dr. David Harwell, Assistant Director, ACS Careers

Thursday, November 21, 2013

“Giving Thanks for the Water Bath:

Sous Vide Cooking for the Holidays”

Dr. Douglas Baldwin, Author, Sous Vide for the Home Cook

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Getting the Most out of

Your Mentoring Relationships

Slides available now! Presentation available ONE WEEK after the webinar:

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Dr. Dave Harwell

Assistant Director,

ACS Careers

Dr. Donna Dean

Executive Consultant,

Association for Women in Science

Getting the Most Out

of Your Mentoring

Relationships

Donna Joyce Dean, Ph.D.

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What are characteristics of good

mentoring relationships?

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What are the Differences? Mentors, Advisors, Coaches, Sponsors, Supervisors . . .

A mentor is a wise and trusted person who guides,

protects, and promotes the protégé’s (mentee) career.

An advisor is someone who offers advice, from a

perspective of wisdom or authority.

A coach helps with specific skill and ability development,

often on a fee basis.

A sponsor advocates and provides tactical support for

your advancement.

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A supervisor (‘boss’) has the official task of overseeing

your work.

An important point is that a mentor is not by definition the

Ph.D. advisor or postdoctoral supervisor, although

many graduate and postdoctoral advisors/supervisors are

mentors in the best senses of the term.

What are the Differences? Mentors, Advisors, Coaches, Sponsors, Supervisors . . .

Tools that Can Help Us

Self Analysis

Mentoring

Networking

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Self Analysis (Introspection)

(graphic from ORWH/NIH)

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career

community

personal life

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Audience Question

What is your primary need for mentoring?

o career preparation

o personal matters

o career and life conflicts

Ponder your

own personal

priorities,

values,

interests,

aptitudes.

Seek your

own best ‘fit’.

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• What are my most critical career concerns now?

• What have been the positive and negative aspects of

my previous mentoring relationships?

• What do I need from mentors now?

Mentoring

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Achieving Your Goals

Identify the key areas for which you need

mentoring

What do I need from mentors?

. . . enhancing my skills and abilities in certain

areas such as public speaking, scientific

writing, or setting priorities?

. . . understanding the best workplace to

pursue my professional interests?

. . . help with work-life issues, life-partner

issues, or adapting to unfamiliar cultures or

geographies?

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Remember: one mentor will not

meet all needs of a mentee

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How you got started in your career

What you do and do not like about your

particular field

Advantages and disadvantages of particular

career choices

What you would ‘do over’ if you could

What can mentors provide?

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Learn how the mentor got started in her/his

career.

Seek information on what your mentor or

mentee does and does not like about her/his

particular field.

Discuss the advantages and disadvantages of

particular career choices.

For both of you, what would you ‘do over’ if

you could?

For a first conversation with a

(potential) mentor/mentee . . .

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Achieving Your Goals

Focus on critical concerns at your current

career stage

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Critical Questions

What must I stop doing?

What must I start doing?

What must I continue doing?

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Achieving Your Goals

Develop action steps to keep your mentoring

needs on track

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Action Steps - 1

Get to know each other so that you can

mutually set goals to accomplish during the

mentoring relationship.

Set guidelines for how you would like to

proceed (including mode of interaction and

topics that may be “off-limits” during the

mentoring experience).

Mutually agree upon a regular meeting or

contact schedule.

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Action Steps - 2

Stick to agreed upon schedules.

Give and receive positive feedback.

Set goals and have a plan.

Review goals, outcomes, and

accomplishments on a consistent basis.

Ask questions and be an excellent listener.

Seek out new resources and opportunities.

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Achieving Your Goals

Understand the do’s and don’ts of mentoring

relationships

Be yourself (thoughtfully)!

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Never embarrass your mentors/mentees or

put them in an awkward position.

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Have an (appropriate) sense of humor.

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Recognize that your actions, whether good

or bad, will often have consequences.

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Seek the unwritten and inside rules.

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Achieving Your Goals

Keep expectations realistic

Mentors are not ‘miracle workers’!

You both have the responsibility to:

be honest,

confront painful realities forthrightly,

not try to redesign the past,

follow through,

close the loop.

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You should expect your mentors to:

help you identify the balance between personal

fulfillment and professional success that is right

for you.

question you on the level of satisfaction you feel

with the work-life choices you are making.

understand your current situation and the

systems in which you live and work.

help you to recognize your strengths and

weaknesses.

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Critical Concerns

Is it time to ‘move on’?

Have I developed the skill sets that I need?

Am I focusing my efforts in the most

productive manner and directions?

Do I know what I need to be doing in

preparation for my next career phase?

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Helping you let go of what you “should” do or

want

Positive reinforcement for the change you are

contemplating

Transitional goals similar to yours

Peer to peer mentoring

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Mentoring Helps With:

• Acquiring the appropriate professional

credentials

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Mentoring Helps With:

• Recognizing opportunities

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Mentoring Helps With:

• Learning from mistakes and missteps

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Mentoring Helps With:

• Dealing with own misconceptions and

biases

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Mentoring Helps With:

Developing a sense of one’s career directions

and timing

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Mentoring Helps With:

Selecting appropriate role models

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Mentoring Helps With:

Meshing one’s values with the right workplace

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Mentoring Helps With:

Obtaining a healthy balance in life

Personal Work Personal Work

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Mentoring Helps With:

Creating opportunities for others

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Mentoring Helps With:

Knowing when to move on

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Mentoring Helps With:

Stretching beyond normal comfort zones in

taking strategic risks

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Audience Question Who Should Be Your Primary Mentor?

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o My professor

o A colleague

o A family member

o A friend

o I don’t know right now

Be approachable

Be persistent

Be a liaison

Be a sponsor

Be authoritative

Be trustworthy

Be a role model

Be a teacher

Be inspirational

Be motivational

Be a friend

Be reliable

When YOU are a Mentor:

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Achieving Your Goals

Identify the key areas for which you need mentoring

Focus on critical concerns at your current career

stage

Develop action steps to keep your mentoring needs

on track

Understand the do’s and don’ts of mentoring

relationships

Keep expectations realistic

Mentoring

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Purpose: “Why?”

Goals/Outcomes: “What?”

Plan: “How?”

Schedule: “When?”

acswebinars.org/mentoring-relationships

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Getting the Most out of

Your Mentoring Relationships

Slides available now! Presentation available ONE WEEK after the webinar:

http://acswebinars.org/mentoring-relationships

®

Contact ACS Webinars ® at [email protected]

Dr. Dave Harwell

Assistant Director,

ACS Careers

Dr. Donna Dean

Executive Consultant,

Association for Women in Science

How has ACS Webinars benefited you?

Be a featured fan on an upcoming webinar! Write to us @ [email protected]

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“Keeping me informed and entertained on

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Jim Vitsas,

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11/6/2013

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Upcoming ACS Webinars www.acswebinars.org

Thursday, November 14, 2013

“No Mentor Available? Mentor Yourself!”

Dr. Saundra McGuire, Director Emerita of the Center for

Academic Success and Retired Professor of Chemistry, Louisiana

State University

Dr. David Harwell, Assistant Director, ACS Careers

Thursday, November 21, 2013

“Giving Thanks for the Water Bath:

Sous Vide Cooking for the Holidays”

Dr. Douglas Baldwin, Author, Sous Vide for the Home Cook

Dr. Sara Risch, Director of R&D and QA, Popz Europe

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Getting the Most out of

Your Mentoring Relationships

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®

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Dr. Dave Harwell

Assistant Director,

ACS Careers

Dr. Donna Dean

Executive Consultant,

Association for Women in Science

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Dr. Saundra McGuire, Director Emerita of the Center for

Academic Success and Retired Professor of Chemistry, Louisiana

State University

Dr. David Harwell, Assistant Director, ACS Careers

Thursday, November 21, 2013

“Giving Thanks for the Water Bath:

Sous Vide Cooking for the Holidays”

Dr. Douglas Baldwin, Author, Sous Vide for the Home Cook

Dr. Sara Risch, Director of R&D and QA, Popz Europe

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