Getting His Hand In Getting His Hand In MarriageMarriage

Carmen GilfillanCarmen Gilfillan

If you've been with your man for what If you've been with your man for what seems like an age and you haven’t yet got seems like an age and you haven’t yet got his hand in marriage, avoid getting too his hand in marriage, avoid getting too heavy about the subject... heavy about the subject...

……Brow-beating your man about a matter Brow-beating your man about a matter as significant as marriage can be as significant as marriage can be disconcerting for some men... disconcerting for some men...

……Try therefore, to keep things light and Try therefore, to keep things light and remain positiveremain positive

Bring up the subject of marriage casually Bring up the subject of marriage casually every so often in conversation, then talk every so often in conversation, then talk about something else... about something else...

..This approach works best if you’ve ..This approach works best if you’ve previously talked about the subject previously talked about the subject openly…openly…

..With this matter-of-fact approach, the ..With this matter-of-fact approach, the subject of marriage becomes less and less subject of marriage becomes less and less unfamiliar to both of you…unfamiliar to both of you…

……and you may find yourself engaged and and you may find yourself engaged and married in less time than you anticipatedmarried in less time than you anticipated

Another approach is to find out what's on Another approach is to find out what's on his mind and tease out any doubts he his mind and tease out any doubts he might have about getting married... might have about getting married...

……Talk about successful marriages that Talk about successful marriages that are working well in case he's worried that are working well in case he's worried that your marriage may eventually collapse... your marriage may eventually collapse...

……Using this sort of ‘third party’ approach Using this sort of ‘third party’ approach will help you over time discover whether will help you over time discover whether he really wants to marry you…he really wants to marry you…

……Once these deep-seated inhibitions Once these deep-seated inhibitions have been revealed they can be discussed have been revealed they can be discussed and resolved and resolved

No matter what happens, No matter what happens, make strides to see things through his make strides to see things through his

eyes and offer supporteyes and offer support

Most of all just be your authentic self... Most of all just be your authentic self...

……You want him to marry you for you not You want him to marry you for you not for a representation of you that you’ve for a representation of you that you’ve devised... devised...

……So always be yourself and show him So always be yourself and show him that your self esteem is high...that your self esteem is high...

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