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Conv ersation started Nov ember 14, 2013 11/14, 12:27pm Abby Rae Dugas Hey! Are you guys home? Nov ember 14, 2013 11/14, 7:05pm DrRandy Ernst Sorry, got this late. I know you and tj share a phone, but do u share fb? Does anyone else share ur fb?? 11/14, 8:24pm Abby Rae Dugas No... Why? 11/14, 8:34pm DrRandy Ernst So we can talk 11/14, 8:50pm

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Page 1: FB Started November 14

Conv ersation started Nov ember 14, 2013

11/14, 12:27pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Hey! Are you guys home?

Nov ember 14, 2013

11/14, 7:05pm

DrRandy Ernst

Sorry, got this late. I know you and tj share a phone, but do u share fb?

Does anyone else share ur fb??

11/14, 8:24pm

Abby Rae Dugas

No...

Why?

11/14, 8:34pm

DrRandy Ernst

So we can talk

11/14, 8:50pm

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Abby Rae Dugas

Oh well duh

11/14, 8:53pm

DrRandy Ernst

Whats up, honey?

11/14, 8:55pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Oh nothing! Just got back from having dinner with aunt Gini

What about you?

11/14, 9:12pm

DrRandy Ernst

Thot you needed something. You asked me if we were home earlier

11/14, 9:13pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Well yes you said you'd be home this week so I was just checking in. Didn't know if we could get

together tomorrow maybe

11/14, 9:24pm

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DrRandy Ernst

Fb sucks sometimes. What would u like to do together?

11/14, 9:36pm

DrRandy Ernst

Going to bed. Fb in am. Maybe we can work something out.

11/14, 10:17pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Ok then. Nighty night

Nov ember 15, 2013

11/15, 7:06am

DrRandy Ernst

Now, tell me what you need.

Nov ember 15, 2013

11/15, 2:02pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I need some help getting my license back

11/15, 4:47pm

DrRandy Ernst

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Quid pro quo

11/15, 4:54pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Huh?

Never mind I googled it lol

11/15, 5:56pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Tomorrow morning?

11/15, 6:01pm

DrRandy Ernst

Ive already made a downpayment. No more incentive before action. This requires a plan. What

do you suggest?

11/15, 7:48pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I can't make a serious plan until I have my license back bc it would require TJ driving me....

11/15, 8:11pm

DrRandy Ernst

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Im being conned

11/15, 8:53pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Definitely not

I wouldn't do that

I'l l show you the paperwork

11/15, 9:58pm

DrRandy Ernst

I dont want to see the paper work. I want to see other things

11/15, 10:37pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Lol ok

Nov ember 16, 2013

11/16, 8:48am

DrRandy Ernst

How r u getting around without a license?

Nov ember 16, 2013

11/16, 12:01pm

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Abby Rae Dugas

Tj obv

11/16, 2:18pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Could you come to my work & that way we can talk in private? I'l l be there all night after 3:30

11/16, 5:06pm

DrRandy Ernst

Auntie and i just got home from a neat botox seminar in Boston that i may end up doing. So, no, I

cant come over tonite. But maybe I can swing it later this week. What nites do you work? And the

next move is yours. Make a suggestion.

11/16, 6:02pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I work Sunday, Monday & Wednesday. And a Botox seminar?!?

Nov ember 17, 2013

11/17, 6:21pm

DrRandy Ernst

Look, l ittle missy. What exactly do you need to get your l icense back? I need immediate

gratification and carte blanche. Can you deliver?

Nov ember 18, 2013

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11/18, 6:50pm

DrRandy Ernst

Are my demands too difficult to understand? If I decide to,show up at your workplace, what do I

get?

11/18, 8:44pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm just not sure we're on the same page... You can certainly come to my work whenever (as long

as I'm working haha), I love visitors!

Nov ember 19, 2013

11/19, 2:50pm

Abby Rae Dugas

To be totally honest, I'm trying to get some ducks in a row so that I can make some serious life

changes. No bullshit. Getting my license back is number one. Saving up some money so I can

get my own place is number two. Rebuilding relationships & finding me is the goal.

Nov ember 20, 2013

11/20, 6:44pm

DrRandy Ernst

Proud of you. I think you're gonna make it after all.

11/20, 6:45pm

Abby Rae Dugas

If I don't do this I might as well say goodbye to everyone

Nov ember 21, 2013

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11/21, 7:00am

DrRandy Ernst

What is it you feel you must do? Leave tj?

11/21, 9:40am

DrRandy Ernst

Btw, I don't know whether or not you have plans for thanksgiving, but if you're alone goin to be

alone, please spend it with us and the Sullies at our house.

11/21, 12:37pm

Abby Rae Dugas

To answer your first question, yes I think that's the best decision for me. I'm 25 & I need to start

taking my life more seriously. There's much more out there for me then what I have settled for in

the past few years.

And for your second question, we're having turkey day at our house with just Carol & TJs sister

Kathy

Nov ember 21, 2013

11/21, 6:15pm

DrRandy Ernst

You know i'l l support any decision you make s long as its healthy. We love you very much.

Please keep me posted. Forget about my sil ly requests from before!

Nov ember 29, 2013

11/29, 10:37pm

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Abby Rae Dugas

Did you guys have a nice thanksgiving?

Nov ember 30, 2013

11/30, 8:34am

DrRandy Ernst

Had a great time only wish u had been there to make it perfect. Going to cut down the tree this

am. Again, wish you were here to join us at the tree farm and The Restaurant! XXXOOO Durd

Nov ember 30, 2013

11/30, 12:32pm

Abby Rae Dugas

That makes me sad!!

Nov ember 30, 2013

11/30, 6:11pm

DrRandy Ernst

Don't be sad. Be there, or here. We love you.

December 1, 2013

12/1, 5:32pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I love you guys! I don't wanna settle anymore! I want to be able to be home For Christmas

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12/1, 6:18pm

DrRandy Ernst

Cant think of a better xmas present for us to have you with us.

We're going to mexico with Bap this wed for ten days. Did I tell you already? We'll be home sat

pm, 12/14. Bap will be home 12/17.

12/1, 6:22pm

Abby Rae Dugas

No you didn't tell me!

That's awesome! Can we meet up sometime before that? You said you would help with getting

my license back which is the number thing on my to do list for my new life

12/1, 6:29pm

DrRandy Ernst

I know it sounds like we're rich, but I'm really kinda struggling now. If something doesn't happen

in the next two days, we willbe short of any spending money. Aunt Mary is kinda freaking. If I only

have a little $, I dont want you to spend it on something else.

12/1, 6:32pm

Abby Rae Dugas

You are rich!

I wouldn't do that

12/1, 6:37pm

DrRandy Ernst

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You'll have to find a way to get to the office tuesday before 2pm. I don' have enough for you tho.

12/1, 7:11pm

Abby Rae Dugas

What is "enough for you"

Il l take whatever & put it towards my fund lol

December 2, 2013

12/2, 5:33pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Text me in the am & we can figure something out please

Love you xoxo

12/2, 6:39pm

DrRandy Ernst

I cant meet you anywhere but at the office. Mary and I will be there ti l 4:30. The we're going

shopping for a little while. Cannot get away tomo evening.

12/2, 7:06pm

Abby Rae Dugas

So il l come to manch sometime during the day then?

Do you know what your schedule is l ike? We can meet wherever & you can say you're getting

coffee or something

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12/2, 7:33pm

DrRandy Ernst

Why dont you want to come to the office

12/2, 9:11pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I thought you said I couldn't come to the office

I just figured bc TJ will be with me. He has to drive me obv

December 3, 2013

12/3, 6:32am

DrRandy Ernst

10:30am @ burger king in hooksett right off exit 9 South. I may be late, busy morning. You walk

to my car. Does tj always know I give you $$??!!

December 3, 2013

12/3, 5:47pm

DrRandy Ernst

Ok, I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume Tj was not happy with your meeting

me. But it was incredibly inconvenient for me to help you out today, and your level of gratitude was so disappointing. Thats $460 in the recent past and nothing in return. Please promise me

something in return.

12/3, 6:25pm

Abby Rae Dugas

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I'm very thankful!!! Idont know if i can promise you the types of things in return that we've talked

about in the past but I can promise you that I am making serious changes in my life. I know that

doesn't mean shit coming from me but once you see then I hope you'll have faith in me again.

12/3, 6:58pm

DrRandy Ernst

Ok, good enough. Love you, durd

December 12, 2013

12/12, 2:58pm

DrRandy Ernst

So excited about your new life. Please tell us where and when ur moving. You sound different.

Please come home for christmas if you can. Cookie decorating anyone?

12/12, 4:27pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I would love to Decorate cookies & be home for Christmas. I'm moving out early next week if all

goes as planned. The apartment is so beautiful!!! Can't wait for you to see!

December 16, 2013

12/16, 6:30pm

DrRandy Ernst

So proud of you. Decorating cookies on saturday...wont be the same without u. Il l pick u up if

necesary. Christmas day dinner at our house ...want u there. Could b less stressful.

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12/16, 7:12pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I have to work all day on Saturday we can't do it Friday ?

And it depends what time on Christmas bc my dad asked me to go to auntie mads. I thought

everyone would be together but I guess not. Hopefully I can do both

December 17, 2013

12/17, 9:33am

DrRandy Ernst

Haley, John, Claire, Jeff, Uncle Jr and Kathy are all coming saturday. Sorry, sweetie. But we'd

love to see you Christmas day. Maybe you can come over for dessert or somethin. We're having

the Demy's over, plus Haley, John, and hopefully Claire. Too many people for Auntie Mad to

accomodate. Bap will be at Auntie Mad's for Christmas dinner. Christmas eve party at Bapcha's .

Let me know. I'm dyin to see ya. Love, love, DURD

12/17, 9:41am

Abby Rae Dugas

Are you guys & auntie mad having dinner at the same time or something? What happened to our

families being together on Christmas? It never used to be "too many people" for one house.

December 17, 2013

12/17, 6:28pm

DrRandy Ernst

Long story. Started last year with probs between aunties mary and mad. No comment here.

Suffice it to say that the sisters don't see eye to eye lately. So we decided to do our own

christmas dinner with other friends and family. Much less stressful. Go where you're comfortable.

No judgements.

December 18, 2013

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12/18, 6:53pm

DrRandy Ernst

hey,do you need a phone? Auntie Mary has a droid she's not using.

12/18, 8:56pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Possibly. What service?

December 19, 2013

12/19, 9:56am

DrRandy Ernst

Virgin mobil ...pay as you go, no contract. $35/mo, unlimited/unlimited

12/19, 11:30am

DrRandy Ernst

Hey, are u doing anything tonite? I may be able to get away for a meet!

December 19, 2013

12/19, 3:26pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm actually off tonight!

12/19, 4:18pm

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DrRandy Ernst

Is that a date?

12/19, 4:18pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Idk that's up to you! What do you have in mind?

12/19, 4:32pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Auntie must have plans with Bap? Wanna come see my new place & get dinner?

12/19, 4:36pm

DrRandy Ernst

Yep. How do I get there?

12/19, 4:38pm

Abby Rae Dugas

113 palm st. Take exit 5 (east I think, the second one towards downtown ya know?), go down

Kinsley, past st joes & take a right onto palm. It's a White House with a porch off the front &

second floor too. What time are you thinking?

12/19, 4:50pm

DrRandy Ernst

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Did u get the time? 5:45ish? Do you have any booze? Dying for a drink

12/19, 4:51pm

Abby Rae Dugas

5:45 is perfect & no I don't lol I have oj & milk haha

We can go right down the street to estabrook tho if you want

December 20, 2013

12/20, 12:00am

Abby Rae Dugas

Just saw your comment...

December 20, 2013

12/20, 7:36am

DrRandy Ernst

Which comment, cutie?

Btw, did I say something about 500 more?

12/20, 7:45am

Abby Rae Dugas

Your comment said to message you ASAP! And i don't think you did...

12/20, 7:48am

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DrRandy Ernst

You're already up?! That comment was before I saw you. 500 more incentives. Got ice!?

12/20, 7:49am

Abby Rae Dugas

I know right? I went to bed early I guess! Lol not yet but I will I'm sure

12/20, 8:02am

DrRandy Ernst

Did u get last post? Doesn't look like it. My times are kinda limited as u know. Today mary and

bap have hair and sunday they're doing perogies

12/20, 8:07am

Abby Rae Dugas

No I didn't... Both those tomes are impossible for me bc I'm working

12/20, 8:41am

DrRandy Ernst

Perogie time is around 12:30 or so sunday. How early do you work? I can take u to work

12/20, 10:34am

Abby Rae Dugas

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We open at 12 on Sunday, Richie picks me up around 11 & then we have a bagel breakfast date

12/20, 12:22pm

DrRandy Ernst

Ok pumpkin, let me know .

December 20, 2013

12/20, 5:59pm

DrRandy Ernst

Hey, i forgot to mention how awesome your hair looks! Love it long

12/20, 6:43pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Lol thank you I need a cut really bad

December 20, 2013

12/20, 10:21pm

DrRandy Ernst

Hives?allergic rxn? R u allergic to me ?!

12/20, 10:48pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Idk what it was! Thinking something I ate..??

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Took some Allegra & laid down for a bit & I was good

December 21, 2013

12/21, 8:52am

DrRandy Ernst

I was gonna pay PSNH and comcast with the 500 incentives. Then I thought, nahh. I think I'l l

save it for u. Maybe 600. I'l l be around.

December 23, 2013

12/23, 6:33am

DrRandy Ernst

I really hate messaging sometimes. It seems like only 75 per cent or so ever get thru. Am I doing

something wrong? Anyway, do u need a ride to merrimack tomo?

December 23, 2013

12/23, 12:56pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I don't think you're doing anything wrong... I wonder if its our Internet connection or something.

Very strange.

And idk about a Ride yet... I'm working but we're closing early. Not sure what time tho. Il l find out

later

December 23, 2013

12/23, 9:01pm

DrRandy Ernst

Ok sweetheart

December 24, 2013

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12/24, 12:30pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Hey can I bring some laundry over?

December 25, 2013

12/25, 8:37am

DrRandy Ernst

Yes, you can being your laundry, fruitcake

December 27, 2013

12/27, 1:20pm

DrRandy Ernst

I understand there was so controversy the other nite at the Kerrs'. Care to explain? Wanna talk?

I'l l l isten without judgement, ya know.

December 28, 2013

12/28, 2:22am

Abby Rae Dugas

There's nothing to explain. I got blamed for something that I didn't do.

December 29, 2013

12/29, 6:03pm

Abby Rae Dugas

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Hellloooo

12/29, 8:36pm

DrRandy Ernst

Wtf. I just sent a long reply and it doesn't show up. R u mad at me? U wouldn't eve n look at me

the other nite. Mary and I have a xmas gift of $100 for u. We were hoping u would come back

over so we could give all you kids a gift. Sorry this didn't happen

12/29, 8:38pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I wish I had come back over but everyone cleared out of there so fast & I needed the ride home

from my dad. I wish we could get together some night this week maybe...

You don't need to give me any gifts tho! And no I'm not mad at you - I was just worked about rhe

whole Christmas thing to begin with ya know?

12/29, 8:41pm

DrRandy Ernst

Would love to get together. Not sure when. Whats ur schedule. Do u need some incentive again?

12/29, 8:42pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm working every night until Thursday.. I hope we can get Together at some point

12/29, 8:45pm

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DrRandy Ernst

Lets aim fir thurs around 5:30

December 30, 2013

12/30, 2:09am

DrRandy Ernst

Text me or im me on thurs afternoon and tell me you have a severe ear infection or something

and ask me if I can bring u some antibiotics or drive u to the pharmacy. I need an excuse to come

down!

December 31, 2013

12/31, 5:30pm

Abby Rae Dugas

What's the change of plans?

December 31, 2013

12/31, 11:40pm

DrRandy Ernst

Stil l wanna get together? Forget the ear infection thing. I'l l try to get out another way if you're

game

And happy new year, sweetheart

1/1, 12:28am

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm game. And happy new year to you too!

January 1

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1/1, 9:35am

DrRandy Ernst

Sexy new years dress? Can u wear it thurs?!

January 1

1/1, 9:27pm

DrRandy Ernst

And, hows 5:15-30?

1/1, 10:04pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Thats fine! What are we doing anyway?

January 2

1/2, 8:07am

DrRandy Ernst

Maybe we should rethink and go for a later date?

Btw, is the new profile significant? R u dating Rich now?

1/2, 10:31am

Abby Rae Dugas

Any are you saying to rethink? I was relying on this... And no I'm not dating Ritchie's

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Richie *

1/2, 11:55am

DrRandy Ernst

Ok. I was relying on it too. See u a ltti le after 5 then.

January 3

1/3, 10:04pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Did you take some pills from my bathroom? I had two subs & now I can't find them anywhere

1/3, 10:11pm

DrRandy Ernst

I would NEVER take your pil ls. I haven't taken ANY drugs in 7and1/2 years

Btw, what r "subs"

1/3, 10:19pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Suboxone

I didn't think you did I just had to ask bc no one else has been in my apt. I maybe just lost them

I'm just upset bc that was my way out. And I don't know when il l be able to find them again

1/3, 10:27pm

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DrRandy Ernst

Sorry,dear, i would not never do that, i know what withdrawal is l ike.

1/3, 10:28pm

Abby Rae Dugas

It's fine. I probably dropped them or something

1/3, 10:28pm

DrRandy Ernst

Go to the clinic and get off pain meds asap

1/3, 10:30pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I don't want to go to the methadone clinic tho. I'd rather get subs on my own

1/3, 10:31pm

DrRandy Ernst

Subs r much better than methadone. Pills suck as a rule

1/3, 10:44pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Yeah well heroin sucks even more

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January 4

1/4, 2:40pm

DrRandy Ernst

Hey, don't you have a court date coming up? R u suppose to pay anything then? Would u like me

to take u if its possible? Not sure, when is it?

1/4, 2:49pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I think it's on the14th but I have to double check. Il l let you know th o

January 4

1/4, 8:39pm

DrRandy Ernst

Think thats a tues. Let me know asap. Might not be poss

January 5

1/5, 9:38am

DrRandy Ernst

Shit, tues the 14th doesnt work for me. Im sorry if i got ur hopes up. Talk to me when u go. See if

i can help.

January 5

1/5, 5:29pm

DrRandy Ernst

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Hey, is the $1000 deal sti l l on the table? Let me know so I can start saving!

1/5, 6:43pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Lolll l idk

1/5, 9:29pm

DrRandy Ernst

Mary and I might go to FL next week. Not. Def. If I'm home, we'll talk about court.

January 7

1/7, 9:10am

Abby Rae Dugas

Hey what are you doing today?

1/7, 9:44am

DrRandy Ernst

Why do u ask?

Working ti l 4

1/7, 10:15am

Abby Rae Dugas

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Bc I needed a little help with something but I'm sure you wouldn't be able to

1/7, 10:21am

DrRandy Ernst

Able to what?

1/7, 10:22am

Abby Rae Dugas

Help me... I'm taking the next few days to detox but I need to get more subs to do so

1/7, 10:23am

DrRandy Ernst

Where do u get the subs and how much r they?

1/7, 10:26am

Abby Rae Dugas

I get them from a friend & I need like $100. They're $25 each...

1/7, 10:28am

DrRandy Ernst

Pro quid quo

Thats, quid pro quo !

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1/7, 10:44am

Abby Rae Dugas

Baha that's fine

1/7, 11:22am

DrRandy Ernst

For a little more, we can accelerate this program

January 7

1/7, 4:17pm

DrRandy Ernst

Cant get away ti l thurs. Is that good with u? And you didnt respond to my last suggestion.

1/7, 4:46pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I was sure how to respond & Thursday is fine as far as I can tell

1/7, 5:23pm

DrRandy Ernst

Just keep an open mind little missy

January 8

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1/8, 8:54am

DrRandy Ernst

Hey, if ur really serious about detoxing, you'l l need more than 4-5 subs. Even one per day

requires at least a week. I really hope ur really really serious. Drugs suck so bad!

January 9

1/9, 12:36pm

DrRandy Ernst

Do u stil l want me over there later? Is another day better?

1/9, 12:36pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Yes they do. I'm hoping I can get more than a couple by this weekend...

Weird I was just messaging you. I'd appreciate it but that's up to you

1/9, 12:38pm

DrRandy Ernst

We were messaging at the exact same minute!! Can do, but must be a little earlier, l ike 4:30

1/9, 12:44pm

DrRandy Ernst

Is that ok?

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1/9, 12:51pm

Abby Rae Dugas

That's fine

January 11

1/11, 2:17pm

DrRandy Ernst

Can i come over and play with you next week?

January 11

1/11, 6:33pm

DrRandy Ernst

Im thinking that by your hesitation to respond, not a good idea. Some other time, sweetheart.

January 11

1/11, 9:46pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Relaxxxxx will ya??

January 12

1/12, 6:51pm

DrRandy Ernst

"Leave it to me to ruin the last good thing in my life?" What does this mean?

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1/12, 9:08pm

DrRandy Ernst

Hope you're ok. Don't need details. Call if u need help.

January 26

1/26, 6:42pm

DrRandy Ernst

If u can message, please talk to me. How can aunt mary and I help? You WILL be ok. I know. Ive

been there too. Everything in the past is forgiven and forgotten. Please forgive me. I should have

been more helpful. I love you, we love you. Come home well.

January 27

1/27, 8:30am

Abby Rae Dugas

I don't know what you guys can do... That would be something to talk to Auntie Mad &/or my Dad

about.. I will be here for 30 days & then would like to go to another treatment facil ity somewhere

else. Or maybe sober l iving, but I think I will need more than just 30 days. If you guys want to

send me mail, that's really helpful too to keep my spirits up. Anyway, I'l l call you guys when I can

love you

1/27, 8:35am

DrRandy Ernst

You sound better. Maybe we can help with living arrangments temporarily after you finish all the

rehab. Don't really know what you'l l want or need. We're always here for you. Love, durd

January 28

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1/28, 8:37am

DrRandy Ernst

Hey, pumpkin. Feeling better at all? Do you want aunt Mary to "write" you a hand written letter, or

email you?

1/28, 8:39am

Abby Rae Dugas

Write one please!!!! I cant get into my email bc I changed my password & can't remember it...

plus, gmail doesnt really work here anyway

1/28, 8:42am

DrRandy Ernst

Okidoke. Love you. durd

1/28, 8:42am

Abby Rae Dugas

Love you too!

January 28

1/28, 5:32pm

DrRandy Ernst

One letter on the way!!

January 31

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1/31, 8:27am

DrRandy Ernst

If u would like us, or just aunt mary, to visit, please call auntie at home. How are things! Feeling

any better? I pray everyday for your happiness, and thinking of u often. Love, durd

February 6

2/6, 6:41pm

DrRandy Ernst

If u cn fb, please just tell me ur ok. Aunt Mary and I just want to hear from u. I feel out of the loop.

February 7

2/7, 3:57pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm fine.

2/7, 4:47pm

DrRandy Ernst

Which means your not fine. Whats going on?

2/7, 5:15pm

DrRandy Ernst

And...why haven' you asked us to come visit? I know you can only have two visitors a week, or

something like that. How do we get on the guest l ist?

February 8

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2/8, 12:08pm

Abby Rae Dugas

My dad has been kinda monopolizing the visits...

February 8

2/8, 4:38pm

DrRandy Ernst

Don't burn your bridges, esp with Aunt Mary. She IS your ONLY mother on earth.

2/8, 6:46pm

Abby Rae Dugas

There are no bridges being burnt!!!

February 9

2/9, 10:01am

DrRandy Ernst

Ok, pumpkin. I may have misinterpreted your tone. Sorry. We just miss u and want to know that

ur ok. Love you

February 11

2/11, 3:51pm

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm ok, just busy gettin better!!

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February 14

2/14, 4:54pm

DrRandy Ernst

Auntie wants to know if u received her letter?

February 14

2/14, 9:39pm

Abby Rae Dugas

Yes I did! There's 35 people in this house now so phone calls are a little sparse

February 23

2/23, 6:39pm

DrRandy Ernst

I don't know...call me insecure. In 25 words or less. Why haven't you ta lked to me and auntie at

all? Feeling unimportant. However, hope you are doing great.

March 1

3/1, 6:04pm

DrRandy Ernst

Its been one week since i Im'd you. I understand you're getting al sorts of visitors, yet for some

fucked up reason Aunt Mary and I are being shut out. Do you want a relationship with us or not,

Abby? After two months of sobriety, you should be able to include us on some level. Wtf?

March 3

3/3, 11:11am

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Abby Rae Dugas

I don't even know how to respond to this. I DO want a relationship, however, I have some things I

need to work thru first. I'm not sure how you can act l ike nothing ever happened between us but

with my sobriety comes clarity & I'm realizing that I'm not "ok" with a lot of things that have happened. I have to focus on myself right now & in order to do that I have to keep my circle small.

There are people who have stepped up & been supportive of me in many ways & as far as I know

beside these messages & a couple letters from Auntie, you haven't been very supportive.

3/3, 11:12am

Abby Rae Dugas

I'm sorry but right now I cannot keep in contact with you & act l ike everything is fine.