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Practical Tools for Positive Parenting
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Workshop One
Positive Parenting
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Valuable Parenting Qualities
Caring Good Listener Flexible
Loving Trustworthy Consistent
Patient Creative Playful
Follow-Through
Structured
1.1
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Parents Contribute Great Strengths & Valuable Experiences
Fid one person and share a story
1. Tell a brief story of something that worked well.
2. Share 3-5 “Valuable Parenting
Qualities.”
1.2
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Workshop Topics
Workshop 1: Positive Parenting
Workshop 2: Creating Confident Kids
Workshop 3: Communication that Works
Workshop 4: Creating Structure for Achievement
Workshop 5: Discipline - Practice for Success
Workshop 6: What Children and Teens Need to Succeed
Workshop 7: Parents Engaged for Academic Success
Workshop 8: Graduation
1.3
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Vital Parenting Partners Outcomes
1.4
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Parent Roles Skit
What are some of your Dreams and Goals for your children?
What are the Risk Factors your children face that could prevent them from reaching these goals?
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Parent Roles – Building a Framework for Success!
1.5
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Parent Roles in Student Achievement
1.6
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Encouraging
•Building an achievement Identity
•“Can Do” Spirit
•Positive Self Image
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Supporting
•Children and Teen’s Learning & Development
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Creating Structure
•Family routines
•Boundaries for time and behavior
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Communicating
•Talking together
•Expressing high expectations
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Leadership
•Advocating
•Parents as leaders at home, school, and community
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Modeling
•Lifelong Learning
•Reading Daily
•Enthusiasm for Education
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Partnering
•Connecting Home to School
•Monitor School Work
•Plan for Further Education
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Collaborating
•Working Together for School Improvement
•School and Community Networks
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Research Demonstrating Parent Engagement Outcomes
1.7
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Research Links Family Roles in Education with Indicators of Student Achievement
1.8
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Best Practices in Parent Engagement from Research
1.9
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Implementing Best Practices in Parent Engagement
1.10
Positive Parenting Examples Include:
• Reading Together• Playing Together• Showing High Expectations• Talking together about a student’s
career and educational aspirations
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Recognizing & Affirming Strengths
1.11
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Workshop Two
Creating Confident Kids
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Paper Heart Skit
Words that wound the hearts of our children
2.1
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Paper Heart Skit Critical Comment Strips
2.1
1. Never mind- I’ll do it myself! Why are you always so slow? (Impatience.)
2. I know I said I would do it, but something came up that’s really important. I’m sure you don’t mind. (Not keeping your promises.)
3. That’s stupid! I can’t believe you did that! (Overreacting.)
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Building Up Our Childs Heart
3. I am so proud of you! Look at how much you’ve improved!
17. You mean the world to me.
34. You’re a very considerate person.
49. I trust you take care of that. You’re very Responsible.
77. Wow, that’s exciting!
84. I understand.
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Identity Destroyers
Yelling
Critical; never seeing good
Conditional acceptance
Not forgiving
Ignoring; being too busy
Not listening
Failing to Discipline
Parental Fighting 2.2
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Identity Builders
2.3
Say “I love you” every day.
Give your child hugs!
Do special things with each individual child.
Give your child choices.
Listen to your child’s feelings and honor those
feelings.
Encourage your child.
Praise your child.
Let them teach you new things.
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Identity Builders
Honor them in the presence of family and friends!
Allow your child to make decisions.
Accept you child's differences in temperament, interests, abilities.
Make promises you can manage.
Allow your child to sometimes fail as well as succeed.
2.4
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The Power of Words
Words for Encouraging
Words for Affirming Character
Words for Listen Well
2.5
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The Power of Words
Positive RestatementWorksheet
What gets in the way of parents using our words in a positive way?
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Power of Words - Restatements
Think of how each of your children may hear these words.
How will they make each child feel?
Positive Restatement: How would you rephrase it to be more positive and effective for your child?
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Positive Identity:Self Esteem Treasure
It’s really exciting to guide our children in acquiring the
valuable treasures of positive self-esteem. At the same
time, we also instill values that steer our children in using these treasures to make positive contributions in society.
Discovering the Treasures
of Self-Esteem!
2.6
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Revealing our Childs True Value
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Revealing our Childs True Value
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Who was there for
you?
Who made a positive impact in your life?
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Constellation of Support
2.7
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Workshop Three
Communication That Works
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Practice Hearing Your Child’s Feelings
Distracted vs. Listening with Full Attention
Role Play #1: Distracted
Role Play #2: Full Attention
3.1
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Practice Hearing Your Child’s Feelings
Fixing vs. Listening Fully
Role Play #1: Interrupting - Fixing
Role Play #2: Hear Them Out Listen Fully
3.2
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Practice Hearing Your Child’s Feelings
Preoccupied vs. Listening
Role Play #1: Distracted
Role Play #2: Full Attention
3.3
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Listen: Heart, Ears & Eyes
3.4
Soak it up! Sponge!
Absorb what the child is feeling.
Listen with full attention and without judgment.
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Hearing Children’s Feelings
Principle:
Parents Lead by Listening
3.5
•Listen first so your children will talk.•Model listening so our children will listen.
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Hearing Children’s Feelings
3.5
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Large Group Skit
HOT and COLD GAME
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Untangling Mixed Signals
3.6
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3.7
Clear Instructions
Direct Communication
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Workshop Four
Creating Structure For Achievement
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The Argument Trap
Five Reasons Why Kids & Teens Argue
4.1
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Why Kids Argue
4.2
Kids want to be in charge but Parents are the Leaders!
We are not leading and they are not learning.
If we turn overcontrol of our children…
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Screaming Put Downs Yelling
Throwing Things Hitting
Exploding in Anger
The Erupting Volcano
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Creating Conflict-Free Routines
4.4
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Ending Arguments & Setting Boundaries
Stand Strong
• Use few words
• Don’t engage
• Repeat like a broken record
4.5
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Practicing with the Shield
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Don't Take the Bait!
4.6
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4.7
Creating Structure for Achievement
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Workshop Five
Discipline: Practice For Success
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The Difference BetweenDiscipline & Punishment
• Training or learning that develops character, self-control, and moral capacity.
• Training that empowers a person to learn from mistakes and be equipped for success next time.
Discipline:
Punishment:
5.1
• Imposing a penalty for breaking a rule or the law; often in retaliation.
• Dealing with roughly or harshly; castigating.
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The Eight Characteristics of Discipline and Punishment
Discipline1. Provides direction and
correction.
2. Values learning from mistakes.
3. Focuses on the future.
4. Attitude of love and support.
5. Directed at the behavior.
6. Promotes security and self-control.
7. Parents invest time and effort.
8. Manageable for parent and child.
Punishment1. Inflicts a penalty.
2. Requires perfection.
3. Focuses on the past.
4. Attitude of anger and retaliation.
5. Directed at the individual.
6. Promotes fear, resentment, and anxiety.
7. Dismissive. Not investing time.
8. Overwhelming.
5.1
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DisciplineChild Learns:
• Responsibility
• Self-control
• To be a learner
• To recover from mistakes (Resilience)
• To see self as a winner
• To see self as okay
• Positive Self-identity
PunishmentChild Learns:
• Not to get caught
• To avoid punishment
• To lie and be sneaky
• To manipulate the system
• To see self as a failure
• To see self as not okay
• Negative self-identity
The Difference Between
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Discipline is Practice for Success
5.2
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Consequences Are Training Tools
What are the Consequences?
• They are training tools that give children the mental and moral capacity to develop positive actions and habits.
• They are the weight room that builds thestrength to act morally and to successfullyget along with others.
5.3
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Two Types of Consequences
Natural
• Happens naturally.
• Parent stays out of the way.
• Nature takes its course.
Logical• Generated by parent.
• Parent sets up consequences.
• Parent follows through.5.4
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Practice Using Natural Consequences
• Problem 1: School Lunch
• Problem 2: Teen Money Choices
• What are some other examples or stories from your own experience?
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Practice Using Logical Consequences
• Problem 1: Coloring on Walls
• Problem 2: Toys All Over the House
• Additional examples:• Cleaning the Room
• Getting Up for School
• On Time for Dinner
• Homework First
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Eight Guidelines for Setting Logical Consequences
5.5
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Case Stories
Mark which of the Eight Guidelines for Logical Consequences were violated.
Case Story 1 Case Story 3
Case Story 2 Case Story 4
5.6
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What is the Logical Consequence?
5.7
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Teaching Through Positive Discipline and Consequences
5.8
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Building Character and Responsibility
5.9
What sometimes keeps us from following through with consequences?
Follow through is finishing the race!
What are the skills needed to finish well?
What outcomes resultfrom finishing well?
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Parents Ignore the Polls
5.10
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Be the Parent Now or Later
5.11
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Workshop Six
What Children and Teens Need to Succeed
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Parenting Styles: Effective Structure & Support
6.1
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Highway to Success
6.2
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Results of the Engaged Family System
6.3
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Parent Roles in Family –School Partnerships
6.4
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Partnering
•Connecting Home to School
•Monitor School Work
•Plan for Further Education
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Collaborating
•Working Together for School Improvement
•School and Community Networks
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Leadership
•Advocating
•Parents as leaders at home, school, and community
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Join the Parenting Partners Team to train the next group
of parent leaders!
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Your leadership will benefit more parents and children!
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Workshop Seven
Parents Engaged For Academic Success
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Success in School Starts at Home
Workshop 7 Choices &
Extension Workshops
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Level 1
• Top Study Skills: Empowering Students to Succeed
• Family Literacy:Building Reading Power (Modeling)
7.1
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Level 2
• The Family Meals Challenge: Powerful Health and Literacy Practices
• The Parent/Teacher Connection: Productive Parent /Teacher Conferences (Partnering)
• Building Blocks of Success:Youth Development Assets (Encouraging)
7.1
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Level 3
• Innovation Parent Leadership: Advancing Parent Engagement (Leadership)
• Leading Powerful Workshops:Parent Empowerment that Create Sustainability (Collaborating)
7.1
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Level 1: Top Study Skills
7.2
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Level 1: Family Literacy
7.3
Tools for Talking Together• Family Literacy in Early Childhood• Family Meals and Traditions that
Build literacy
Tools for Reading Together• Early Literacy Development
through Environmental Literacy• Connecting to their Interest, and
Reading Traditions
Tools for Connecting Home and School• Parent Engagement that Boost Learning
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Level 2: The Family Meals Challenge
7.4
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Level 2: The Parent/Teacher Connection
7.5
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7.6
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Graduation
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Team Hoyt