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a perspective onEmotional Intelligence

Life Living skill

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What is Life ?

W

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EMillion definitions

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Common denominator

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life

destinedMade to meet

accidental

chanced up on

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L is hoping from

encounter toencounter

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Every encounter

has 5 + 1 hurdles

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Forming

Coming together Made to come together

Forced to come together Structured to come together Volunteered to come together

.Destined to come together ?

Any way its a formationwanted or other wise

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Storming

Mind gets agitatedSeveral questions crop up

Comfort zone disturbedDoubts come inComparison takes placeContrasts show up

Social Hierarchical PositionsPermutations and combinationsCombinations questioned

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Norming

3 Guide lines are formed

Rules are formedBoundaries establishedMeasurements are decided

Limits get setWho when where how aredecided Alignment

Inter connected ness established

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Performing

4 The process begins

There is wowThere is excitementIts all happenings

Mind and Body are in Tune

Real Inter dependency

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Adjourning

5 Scores are settled

Compliments exchangedInter dependency withwithdrawn

Encounter ends

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ComfortZone

+ 1 Minds withdraws body settles

Lethargy complacency sets inNumbness in body & mind

Most dangerous state

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Storming

NormingPerforming

Adjourning

Comforting Zone

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Life growth requires tool for managing passing thru theseencounters

Intelligence

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Human being means

PhysicalMentalEmotionalSpiritual

J o u r n

e y o f

l i f e

Intelligence

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IQ=Sure shot Failure

Life Progress Indicator

MentalIntelligence

IQ

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Life Progress Indicator

EmotionalIntelligence

EQ

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IQ=Gr Failure

IQ + EQ = Success

IQ+EQ+ SQ= S + Happiness SQ

Life Progress Indicator

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SpiritualIntelligence

SQ

Life Progress Indicator

Forest and Tree

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Me

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Q

Spiri tual

Devine Intel l igence SQ

Emotional

Heart intel l igence EQ

Body

Mind

. Excellence is applying 4 Intelligences aptly

Soul

Heart

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Emotional Intelligence

EI/EQ

J B P

M

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Aristotle

I am sure all of us

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Anyone can become angry-that is easy.

But to be angry with the rightperson, to the right degree,at the right time , for theright purpose, ANGER 1.MPG

and in the right way -that is not easy. Aristotle

http://anger%201.mpg/http://anger%201.mpg/http://anger%201.mpg/http://anger%201.mpg/

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Fight or Flight response

Is there an alternative way

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E HijackYour internal hijacking Madness

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E Cancer

Back bitingAlways talkingabout a person who is not present

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E Trance

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E Fixation LockAbout people things

hardened mind set

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All the answers we classifiethem into four categoriesRe routing

Collected at Home Rerouted in Office

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All the answers we classifiethem into four categoriesAvoidance

Oh I cant just face it

Try all strategies toavoid facing the situation

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All the answers we classifiethem into four categories

uppressing

Suppression is more of an habit and worst of all strategies

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CompetitionReroutingAvoidance

Suppression

Handling

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Emotional Intelligence is a sum total of

Self Awareness

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Self Management

NT

http://self%20mgt.avi/http://self%20mgt.avi/

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Emotional Intelligence is a sum total of

Social Awareness

RelationshipManagement

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http://discrimination.flv/http://discrimination.flv/

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Emotional Intelligence is a sum total of

Social Awareness

RelationshipManagement

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