eleven tips to build your succesfull body language
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Andre J. Vonk MBA
ELEVEN TIPS TO BUILD YOUR
BODY LANGUAGE SKILLS
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Remember:
Our brain relies on snap judgements to categorize anotherperson and predict whether they are;*Trustworthy*Threatening*Competent*Likeable*Valuable
PREAMBLE
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Here are :
ELEVEN TIPS TO BUILD YOUR BODY LANGUAGE SKILLS
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No: 1
Leaning back too much:
“You come off lazy or arrogant”
Leaning forward:
“Can seem aggressive, aim for a neutral posture”
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No: 2
Breaking eye contact too soon:
“Can make you seem untrustworthy or overly nervous.Hold eye contacts a split second longer, especiallyduring a handshake”.
Looking up or looking around:
“Is a natural cue that someone in lying or notbeing themselves. Try to hold steady eye contact”.
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No: 3
Nodding too much:
“Can make you look like a bobble head doll! Even if you agrees what’s being said, nod onceand then try to remain still”.
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No: 4
Chopping or pointing with your hands:
“Feels aggressive”.
Fidgeting:
“Instantly telegraphs how nervous you are.Avoid both at all costs”.
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No: 5
Crossing your arms:
“Makes you look defensive, especially whenyou’re answering questions. Try to keep yourarms at your sides”.
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No: 6
Holding your hands behind your back(or firmly in your pockets:)
“Can look rigid and stiff. Aim for a natural, hand at your sides posture”.
Standing with hands on hips:
“Is an aggressive posture. Like a bird or a dogpuffing themselves up to look bigger”.
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No: 7
Staring:
“Can be interpreted as aggressive. There is a fine line between holding someone’s gaze and staring them down”.
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No: 8
Failing to smile:
“Can make people uncomfortable, and wonder if you really want to be there. Go for a genuinesmile especially when meeting someonefor the first time”.
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No: 9
Stepping back when you’re asking for a decision:
“Conveys fear or uncertainty. Stand your ground, or even take a slight step forward with conviction”.
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No: 10
Steepling your fingers or holdings palms up:
“Looks like a begging position and conveysweakness”.
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No: 11
Checking your phone or watch:
“Says you want to be somewhere else. Plus it’s just bad manners”.
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So what should you do?
“Aim for good posture in a neutral position, whether sitting or standing”.
CONCLUSION
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Stand with your arms at your sides, and sitwith them at your sides or with your hands in your lap.
Pay attention, so that you naturally holdeye contact, smile and be yourself”.
CONCLUSION “CONTINUED”
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Andre J. Vonk MBA
If you discover you have a particular problem with one or more of the tips on the list, practice by yourself with a mirror or with a friend who can remind you every time you do it, untill you become aware of the bad habit yourself.
CONCLUSION “CONTINUED”