Running head: ADLERIAN ASSESSMENT OF THE DEVELOPING LIFESTYLE 1
Adlerian Assessment of the Developing Lifestyle of Children Using Art and Play
A Master's Project
Presented to
The Faculty of the Adler Graduate School
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In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for
the Degree of Master of Arts in
Adlerian Counseling and Psychotherapy
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By:
April Bergstrom
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Chair: Erin Rafferty-Bugher
Reader: Susan Dannen
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December 2017
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Abstract
The purpose of this paper is to present a new Adlerian assessment of the developing lifestyle of
children. The assessment consists of a set of art and play directives that art therapists and play
therapists can use to gather lifestyle information. A review of the literature on how children
communicate demonstrates children prefer to communicate in holistic ways, using art and play.
Art therapy and play therapy are presented as developmentally appropriate therapies for children.
Adlerian play therapy is discussed as a well-designed, empirically-validated model for working
with children. Using techniques from Adlerian play therapy, art therapy, and questions from
formal Adlerian Lifestyle Interview templates, an Adlerian lifestyle assessment was created to be
developmentally appropriate for children and is intended for use by art therapists and play
therapists. This assessment can assist therapists in identifying maladaptive aspects of a child’s
developing lifestyle.
Keywords: art therapy, play therapy, Adlerian, lifestyle, assessment, children
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Table of Contents
Abstract ........................................................................................................................................... 2
Adlerian Assessment of the Developing Lifestyle of Children Using Art and Play ...................... 4
How Children Communicate .......................................................................................................... 5
Therapy with Young Children ........................................................................................................ 7
Brain Development ..................................................................................................................... 7
Art Therapy with Young Children .............................................................................................. 8
Play Therapy Techniques ............................................................................................................ 9
Tracking ................................................................................................................................ 10
Restating content ................................................................................................................... 10
Setting limits ......................................................................................................................... 11
Returning responsibility ........................................................................................................ 11
Using metaphors ................................................................................................................... 12
Blending Art Therapy and Play Therapy .................................................................................. 12
Adlerian Play Therapy .............................................................................................................. 13
Adlerian Lifestyle Interview ......................................................................................................... 15
Eckstein ..................................................................................................................................... 15
Bartholow, Willhite, Brokaw, and Wolf ................................................................................... 16
Discovering the Child’s Lifestyle ................................................................................................. 16
The Garden................................................................................................................................ 17
Kinetic Family Drawing ........................................................................................................... 19
Kinetic School Drawing ............................................................................................................ 20
Family-Centered Circle Drawing .............................................................................................. 21
Self-Ideal/ Fictive Goal ............................................................................................................. 22
Early Recollections ................................................................................................................... 23
Conclusion .................................................................................................................................... 25
References ..................................................................................................................................... 26
Adlerian Assessment of the Developing Lifestyle of Children .................................................... 32
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Adlerian Assessment of the Developing Lifestyle of Children Using Art and Play
The Adlerian Lifestyle Interview is used by Adlerian therapists to gather lifestyle
information from their clients which can be used to re-orient their lifestyles to be more functional
and socially useful (Carlson, Watts, & Maniacci, 2012). The Adlerian Lifestyle Interview is
typically used with adults, but by incorporating art therapy and play therapy into the interview, it
can be tailored to the needs and abilities of children.
Finella, Hampton, and Poulsen (2011) identified a need for more mental health services
tailored to the expressive abilities and needs of young children. One barrier to mental health
services, found by Finella, Hampton, and Poulsen, is the ability to identify young children who
need therapy services. Another identified problem to consider is that most traditional therapies
depend on the verbal expression of ideas and emotions and are not appropriate for young
children. This poses a problem in the accurate assessment of a child’s mental health needs.
Assessments that depend on the linguistic ability of the child may be invalid (Finello, Hampton,
& Poulsen, 2011). Art therapy offers a unique solution to the problem of assessment in that it is
based on non-verbal therapeutic experiences (Lusebrink, 2010). Play therapy also offers children
the opportunity to communicate in a way that comes naturally to them, through play (Willis,
Walters, & Crane, 2014). Both art therapy and play therapy support the non-verbal process for
expression and are necessary to consider for accurate assessment in child mental health.
Neuro-biological researchers Ryan, Lane, and Powers (2017) concluded interventions
that integrate sensory experiences, such as art making and play, are developmentally appropriate
for young children. However, many art therapists feel they lack the specific skills and
techniques needed to work with young children (Metzl, 2015). In contrast to art therapy, play
therapy utilizes specific models, skills, and techniques appropriate for young children (Kottman
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& Meany-Walen, 2016). Many art therapists working with children integrate play therapy
techniques into their practice (Mezl, 2015).
Adlerian play therapy is recognized by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services
Administration as an evidenced-based practice for working with children (Kottman, 2016).
Adlerian play therapy uses art and play directives to assess and re-orient the child’s lifestyle
(Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). Traditional Adlerian therapists typically ask direct questions
about the client’s childhood experiences, familial relationships, and early memories (Carlson,
Watts, & Maniacci, 2012). Adlerian therapists may also utilize a formal Adlerian Lifestyle
Interview template to gather lifestyle information because it offers a standard, comprehensive set
of questions. The Adlerian Lifestyle Interview takes about two to three 45-minute sessions to
complete (Carlson, Watts, & Maniacci, 2012). An alternative version of the Adlerian Lifestyle
Interview template, utilizing children’s preferred methods of communication, would allow art
and play therapists to gather lifestyle information in a more comprehensive way.
How Children Communicate
Zubrick, Taylor, and Christensen (2015) found the linguistic abilities of young children to
vary widely and change quickly. They assessed the language ability of children at age 4, 6, 8,
and 10 years. Low language ability at age 4 was not an accurate predictor of language ability at
age 10 (Zubrick et al., 2015). This study highlights the crucial consideration of language
abilities of young children. The verbal expression of children is unpredictable at these ages and
should not be looked at as an accurate predictor of a child’s trajectory for language development,
nor used as a clinical indicator of delay for the purpose of mental health assessments (Zubrick et
al., 2015).
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Children often prefer to communicate in nonverbal ways. Rice and Hoffman (2015)
found nonverbal intelligence in early childhood (3 to 5 years old) to be an accurate predictor of
future vocabulary growth and language ability. Nonverbal intelligence was measured using the
Columbia Mental Maturity Scale, which asks the child to look at several pictures and point to the
picture that is different. The child must formulate a rule for organizing the pictures based on
color, theme, and subtle relations between pictures to select which picture is different. Rice and
Hoffman suggested this nonverbal assessment may be a more accurate indicator of executive
functioning in young children than intelligence tests requiring language ability (Rice & Hoffman
2015).
Young children naturally use visual representations of their ideas to supplement verbal
expression (Guo & Mackenzie, 2015). Children use their drawings as a visual symbol or
“created sign” (p.82) to express ideas before they have mastered written language (Guo &
Mackenzie, 2015). Similarly, play is a symbolic activity that allows children to freely express
themselves by acting “as if” they are something or someone else (Šagud & Sočo, 2014).
Creative expression has been incorporated into early childhood education for years. The
Reggio Emilia approach, developed in Italy in the 1950’s, incorporates art and play into early
childhood education to encourage more meaningful expression of the unique ideas of children
(Santin & Torruella, 2017). Researchers continue to encourage early childhood educators to use
the Reggio Emilia approach (Edwards & Willis, 2000; Santín & Torruella, 2017). Similarly,
Chang (2012) demonstrated how creative expression can enhance learning in a science class.
Children were better able to express their ideas and demonstrate their understanding of science
concepts by using drawings to communicate (Chang, 2012). Researchers are finding that
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children prefer to communicate in a holistic way, utilizing their art and play abilities. Tailoring
mental health services to children requires incorporating art and play expression.
Therapy with Young Children
According to Ryan, Lane, and Powers (2017) there is a need for more mental health
services tailored to young children. They stress the importance of early intervention of mental
health issues. Art therapy and play therapy are developmentally appropriate for young children
because they integrate sensory experiences, targeting the lower areas of the brain, and utilize the
natural abilities of children to express themselves through art and play (Ryan, Lane, & Powers,
2017).
Brain Development
Gaskill and Perry (2014) explained the brain develops from the bottom up and all areas of
the brain are connected by neurological pathways which originate at the bottom of the brain.
The development of the lower areas of the brain, such as the brainstem and diencephalon, effect
the development of the higher areas of the brain, such as the limbic and cortical areas which are
responsible for social, emotional, and cognitive functioning. Trauma in early childhood can
cause structural changes to lower areas of the brain, effecting the development of higher areas of
the brain. Children who have experienced trauma or attachment issues early in life may display
problematic behaviors, develop a dysregulated stress response system, have difficulty regulating
emotions, and lack appropriate social skills. To effectively treat these problems, the lower areas
of the brain need to be targeted first. These areas are activated through sensory stimuli such as
touch, vision, and sound (Gaskill & Perry, 2014). Early intervention, using therapies that
integrate sensory experiences, such as art, music, and play, can reorganize neurological pathways
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and regulate stress response systems thereby creating an integrated and optimally functioning
system. (Ryan, Lane, and Powers, 2017).
Art Therapy with Young Children
Hinz (2009) described how art therapists can target lower areas of the brain and stress
response systems through kinesthetic and sensory experiences, such as pounding clay or finger
painting. Hinz also suggested incorporating rhythmic music during the art making to add the
sensory dimension of sound. The Expressive Therapies Continuum, developed by Hinz, can be
used by art therapists as a framework for targeting the lower areas of the brain with sensory and
kinesthetic experiences and then moving up to the higher areas of the brain with perceptual and
affective experiences and finally cognitive and symbolic experiences (Hinz, 2009). The
therapeutic properties of art making are supported by research (Gaskill & Perry, 2014; Ryan,
Lane, and Powers, 2017; Hinz, 2009). However, Metzl (2017) pointed out that art therapists lack
specific models, skills, and techniques needed to work with young children.
There are several well-designed research studies showing the effectiveness of specific art
therapy models with adults. Monti et al. (2013) found a mindfulness-based model of art therapy
to significantly improve the mental health of adult breast cancer survivors. Montag et al. (2014)
found open studio art therapy followed by group processing to significantly improve the mental
health of adults with schizophrenia. Kongkasuwan et al. (2016) studied the effects of art therapy
on adult stroke patients, using specific art therapy directives designed to benefit cognition,
physical state, emotion, communication, social relations, or spirituality. The art therapy
intervention improved the stroke patients’ mental health significantly. These studies all included
a specific model of implementing art therapy and provide evidence for the effectiveness of art
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therapy with adults. When reviewing the literature, there are very few studies that examine the
effects of art therapy on young children.
Ziff, Ivers, and Shaw (2016) studied how creative art making effected stress levels in
elementary school children. Researchers studied 149 children ranging in age from kindergarten
to 6th grade over a time span of two years. Children participated in an open studio art group for
40 minutes once per week. Children were free to make what they wanted with the materials
provided. Researchers concluded the children showed a decrease in stress levels, measured via
body temperatures before and after the art activity (Ziff et al., 2016). This study suggested
making art lowers the stress levels of children. However, there were no art therapy directives or
processing of imagery and stress was assessed only via the child’s body temperature.
Art therapists surveyed by Metzl (2015) reported frustration over the lack of research on
using art therapy with young children. They identified a need for more clarity and understanding
about the different skills and techniques needed for working with young children in contrast to
working with adult populations. In contrast, play therapy models do specify basic skills and
techniques that are effective when working with children. Metzl found that art therapists
working with young children are incorporating play therapy techniques into their art therapy
practice to provide more age appropriate services.
Play Therapy Techniques
Play therapists are trained in basic skills and techniques that are effective and
developmentally appropriate for young children specifically. Kottman (2011) presented a
comprehensive description of the necessary basic skills for working with young children
including tracking, restating content, reflecting feelings, setting limits, returning responsibility,
and working with metaphors. This is only a short summary of basic play therapy skills.
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Tracking. Kottman (2011) described tracking as a technique in which the therapist
verbally narrates what is happening by either describing what the child is doing or what the play
object is doing in a matter of fact way, without labeling the object. An example would be “You
picked that up,” or “It is moving up and down” (p.113). This shows the child that you are paying
attention to their actions (Kottman, 2011). Malchiodi (1998) described a similar technique used
in art therapy in which the therapist makes statements about what is happening in a child’s
drawing such as “I see a person looking out of the window…” (p. 50).
Restating content. Kottman (2011) described restating content as paraphrasing what the
child says and repeating this back to the child. This shows the child the therapist is listening to
and understanding their words. It can also give the child a chance to correct the therapist’s
understanding of the child’s meaning (Kottman, 2011). Tracking and restating content are
similar to the basic counseling technique of reflective listening, or mirroring, often used to
ensure the therapist clearly understands what the client is expressing (Arnold, 2014). In art
therapy, mirroring can manifest in non-verbal ways. Moon (2009) described creating artwork
alongside the client, mirroring the client’s behaviors by using similar materials, movements, and
techniques as the client. This gives the therapist a deeper understanding of the client’s physical
and mental state and also shows the client that he or she is not alone in the process (Moon,
2009).
Reflecting feelings. Kottman (2011) explained children may have a difficult time
finding the words to express their feelings. Rather, they may express their feelings through their
facial expressions, posture, behavior, and play. The therapist can reflect on feelings expressed
by the characters in the play, or the feelings expressed directly by the child. The therapist can
make a tentative statement such as “You seem really sad right now,” (p.129) or by describing a
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pattern of feelings such as “I have noticed you seem sad whenever you talk about…” and then
observe how the child reacts. By reflecting feelings, the therapist can help children identify
their feelings. Therapists can also teach children new words to describe their emotions by
incorporating a wider variety of feeling words such as “depressed” or “ashamed” instead of
always using “sad.” It is especially important when working with young children to avoid asking
why they feel a certain way because they typically will not have an answer (Kottman 2011). The
technique of reflecting feelings is used by many therapists to help clients become more aware of
their feelings and attitudes (Arnold 2014).
Setting limits. Although there is a wide range of how strict or permissive play therapists
are with limits, Kottman (2011) suggested therapy with children requires some basic limits to
ensure safety. The most common limits set in the play room include not allowing any behavior
that could cause physical injury to anyone, not allowing the child to damage the play room or
toys, not allowing the child to leave the therapy room during the session without permission, and
not allowing the child to take toys out of the playroom. Additional limits and rules can be set at
the therapist’s discretion. Kottman suggested creating limits with the child as a team to share
power and responsibility and encourage learning (Kottman, 2011). Limit setting is a basic
technique used by parents and teachers when working with children. A study by Lengua et al.
(2014) concluded limit setting to be extremely important for a child’s development of self-
regulation abilities. The researchers suggested incorporating limit setting into prevention
programs for young children (Lengua et al., 2014).
Returning responsibility. Kottman (2011) described how therapists may feel drawn to
take care of young children and help them whenever they are struggling, even if the child is
capable of doing the task alone. It is important to return responsibility to the child by
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encouraging children to solve problems on their own. When children are successful in
completing a task, they will feel more capable and confident. If the problem is too difficult for a
child to complete on his or her own, solve the problem as a team instead of taking over
completely (Kottman, 2011). This technique is derived from an Adlerian concept to never do for
children what they can do for themselves (Dreikurs, 1964). This type of encouragement is used
throughout Adlerian therapy to instill in the client a “Yes, I can” attitude (Carlson, Watts, &
Maniacci 2012).
Using metaphors. Both play therapists and art therapists use metaphors in therapy.
Kottman (2011) described how using metaphors in play therapy allows for a safe emotional
distance from the subject matter behind the metaphor. Using metaphors makes it easier for
children to communicate difficult experiences and feelings (Kottman, 2011). Similarly, Moon
(2009) discussed how talking about the aesthetics of the artwork, such as describing a drawing as
“ragged around the edges” (p.193) can facilitate a deep, meaningful connection without forcing
the client to translate the creative metaphor into reality. Art therapists might ask a client what it
would feel like to be inside the artwork or how a character in the artwork is feeling (Malchiodi,
1998). Similarly, play therapists often communicate with a child through the child’s play
metaphor, by commenting on what a toy is doing or how a toy might be feeling. A play therapist
may have a conversation with a toy, looking at and speaking directly to the toy and allowing the
child to answer through the toy (Kottman, 2011).
Blending Art Therapy and Play Therapy
As art therapists incorporate play therapy methods into their practice (Metzl, 2015), play
therapists are also incorporating art therapy methods into their practice. Kottman and Meany-
Walen (2016) discussed several art therapy directives to use with young children in a play
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therapy setting. Some traditionally art therapy directives that play therapists are using in their
practice include the Kinetic Family Drawing, Draw-A-Person, House-Tree-Person drawing, and
Family-Centered Circle drawing (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). This crossover between art
and play therapy leads to more informed and developmentally appropriate practice.
While there is much overlap between art therapy and play therapy, they are two separate
practices and are grounded in separate theories. It is important for therapists to not engage in
therapy practices or procedures that are beyond their competency and to seek supervision if there
is any doubt (American Psychological Association, 2017). At the same time, therapists are
expected to incorporate empirically-validated techniques into their practice (Carter & Goodheart,
2012). Since play therapy, such as Adlerian play therapy, is an empirically validated practice for
working with children, it is ethical to incorporate play therapy techniques that are within a
therapist’s scope of practice, or to pursue education and supervision in order to become
competent in play therapy skills and techniques.
Adlerian Play Therapy
Adlerian play therapy has been recognized by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health
Services Administration as evidenced-based practice (Kottman, 2016). Taylor and Bratton
(2014) argued that Adlerian play therapy is the most developmentally appropriate therapy for
preschool age children. Because of the strong evidence base and thoroughly developed
methodology of Adlerian play therapy, it is best practice when working with young children to
incorporate Adlerian play therapy.
Stutey, Dunn, Shelnut, and Ryan (2017) studied how Adlerian play therapy effected the
problematic behaviors of students in the classroom. At-risk children between the ages of 3 and
5, who were identified as exhibiting problematic behavior, participated in this study. The
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children attended 7 individual Adlerian play therapy sessions followed by 7 group sessions
which incorporated techniques involving puppets, sand trays, and art materials. The model for
Adlerian play therapy includes (1) building an egalitarian relationship with the child using basic
play therapy skills such as tracking, reflecting feelings, restating content, and setting limits, (2)
exploring the child’s lifestyle using puppets, sand trays, and art materials to gather lifestyle
information, (3) gaining insight into the child’s lifestyle, and (4) re-orienting and re-educating.
After 14 weeks of Adlerian play therapy intervention, all the participants improved significantly.
The teachers of the participants rated the intervention as moderately to highly effective in
reducing problematic behaviors in the classroom (Stuey et al., 2017). Similar results were found
in a study by Meany-Walen and Teeling (2016). Meany-Walen and Teeling examined behaviors
of children in kindergarten to second grade. The children participated in 10-12 individual and
group Adlerian play therapy sessions. The therapy was effective for all participants in reducing
problematic behavior and improving social skills (Meany-Walen & Teeling, 2016).
An important aspect of Adlerian play therapy is exploring and gaining insights into the
child’s lifestyle (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). When Adlerian therapists explore the
lifestyle of an adult client, they may utilize the Adlerian Lifestyle Interview, a set of questions
that assesses the client’s lifestyle in a standard, comprehensive way. However, the Adlerian
Lifestyle Interview is inappropriate to use with young children because of its length and
dependence on verbal expression. Instead, it is more appropriate to use art therapy and play
therapy techniques to gather the same information. Identifying a set of art and play directives
that gathers lifestyle information allows for a more standard and comprehensive assessment. To
identify art and play directives that gather similar lifestyle information, traditional Adlerian
Lifestyle Interview templates will be used as a reference.
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Adlerian Lifestyle Interview
According to Carlson, Watts, and Maniacci (2012), the Adlerian life style interview
typically takes two to three 45-minute sessions to complete. The interview can be broken down
into two main sections: information related to the family constellation and the collection of early
recollections. The family constellation section includes questions about the sibling constellation,
family values, family atmosphere, parental behavior, and the role each child played in the family
(Carlson, Watts, & Maniacci, 2012, p.115).
Early recollections are collected as part of the lifestyle interview to get an idea of how the
individual’s lifestyle functions (Carlson, Watts, & Maniacci, 2012). Adler found that clients
unconsciously select certain memories that represent the client’s life story and pertain to the
client’s current life situation (Ansbacher & Ansbacher, 1956/1964, p. 351). Several lifestyle
interview templates have been created by Adlerian psychologists to offer clinicians a
standardized form for completing the interview.
Eckstein
Daniel Eckstein (2003), a student of Rudolf Dreikurs, created an in-depth interview
template that can be broken down into three main sections. The first section includes questions
about current situations, wellness, challenges, strengths, and how clients interact with the world.
Clients also rate their current satisfaction with five life tasks: work/school, friendship, love, self-
esteem, and spiritual/existential. Clients are then asked to identify specifically how their life
would be different if their problems were resolved.
The second section consists of questions about childhood, family, siblings, parents, and
community. They are asked to describe each sibling and how they compare to the client. They
are asked how the siblings interacted. Clients are asked to describe their childhood likes,
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dislikes, fears, traumas, hopes, and dreams. Clients are asked to describe their parents, their
parents’ relationships to their children, and how they affected the client. They are also asked
about other role models who affected them. Questions about culture and identity are also asked
(Eckstein, 2003).
The third part involves collecting three early recollections from the client. From these
early recollections, the clinician and client together identify how the early recollections are
connected to the client’s current life and if there are any patterns. Clients are also encouraged to
talk about how they would change a recollection if they could (Eckstein, 2003).
Bartholow, Willhite, Brokaw, and Wolf
The lifestyle interview template originally created by Bob Bartholow and Bob Willhite,
and later revised by Sue Brokaw, and Jodi Wolf (2011), is similar to Eckstein’s interview,
although it delves further into early recollections and mistaken beliefs. It also included questions
specifically about how the child interacted at school and got along with peers to get an idea how
the child functions outside of the family. Bartholow et al. also include further analysis of the
early recollections such as discovering the client’s self-concept, self-ideal, environmental
evaluation, and ethical convictions. At the end of the interview, Bartholow et al. included a
section used to identify a universal goal, fictive goal, and mistaken beliefs.
Though there are variations of the lifestyle interview, the main concepts are always
included. Shulman and Mosak (1995) summarized the purpose of the lifestyle interview into
answering these five questions: 1. What is the client’s self-concept. 2. What is the client’s world
view? 3. What are the client’s ethical convictions? 4. What is the client’s self ideal/fictive goal?
And 5. What are the client’s methods for achieving this goal?
Discovering the Child’s Lifestyle
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According to Adler (2012), the child’s lifestyle begins to form within the first year of life
as they receive feedback from their environment. Children learn which movements, sounds, and
emotional expressions are appropriate and begin to get an idea of what they need to do in order
to belong (Adler, 2012). The child’s developing lifestyle and world view typically becomes fully
established between the ages of 5 and 8 (Even & Armstrong, 2011). At the same time, the child
begins attending school and both families and teachers develop a fixed idea about who that child
is, reinforcing the child’s lifestyle (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016). Therapists working with
young children have the unique opportunity to discover maladaptive mistaken beliefs that are
affecting the child’s developing lifestyle and redirect them toward a more socially useful lifestyle
while they are still malleable (Even & Armstrong, 2011). The following set of art/play therapy
directives allows the art therapists and play therapist to gather information about the child’s
lifestyle similar to information gathered from the Adlerian Lifestyle Interview. The directives
included do not require administrator qualifications, but are intended to be used by therapists
who are familiar with creative metaphors. This set of directives is intended to be used by art
therapists and play therapists from their educated perspective. An assessment template utilizing
the following directives can assist art therapists and play therapists in identifying maladaptive
aspects of the developing lifestyle of children (see Appendix).
The Garden
The Rosebush technique has been used by school counselors and play therapists to gather
information about the child’s inner world (Ray, Perkins, & Oden, 2004). The Rosebush
technique asks children to imagine themselves as a rosebush. This metaphor allows children to
express their inner worlds and emotions without answering direct questions about their actual
situation, which can feel threatening (Ray et al., 2004). An alternative version adapted by
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Kottman uses the imagery of a “plant” rather than a “rosebush” (Kottman & Meany-Walen,
2016). Using a plant instead of a rosebush allows for further individualization of the drawing
and is more sensitive to the child’s culture. Different cultures have different associations with
roses which may impact the child’s drawing. In Kottman’s adaptation of the Rosebush
technique, called The Garden, the therapist first engages the child in a short relaxation exercise.
Then, the child is instructed:
Close your eyes. Now I’d like you to imagine you are a plant in a garden. Become one
of the plants in the garden and find out what it’s like to be a plant. What kind of plant are
you? Are you very small? Are you large? Are you wide? Are you tall? Do you have
flowers? If so, what kind? They can be any kind you want them to be. Do you have
leaves? What kind? What are your stems and branches like? Do you have any thorns?
What are your roots like? Or maybe you don’t have any- you get to decide. If you do,
are they long and straight? Are they twisted? Are they deep? Look around you and see
if there are any other plants in the garden [pause]. If there are other plants, what do they
look like? Are there only a few of them or are there lots of them? Are the other plants
the same as you or are they different? Do the other plants have leaves… flowers…
stems… roots… thorns? How close are the other plants to where you are? Are they the
same size as you or bigger or smaller? Where is the garden? Is the garden in a pot or
growing in the ground? Or through cement? Or even inside somewhere? Look around
you… what else do you see? [pause] Are there statues in the garden? Animals? People?
Birds? Is there anything around you like a fence? If there is, what does it look like?
Does someone take care of you? Does that person also take care of the other plants?
What’s the weather like for you right now? What is your life like? How do you feel?
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What happens to you as the seasons change? Be aware of yourself as a plant in a
garden… look carefully. Find out how you feel about your life in the garden. In a few
minutes, I’ll ask you to open your eyes and I want you to draw a picture [or make a
sculpture or do a sand tray] of yourself as the plant and the rest of the garden. Then, later
I’ll ask you a few questions, and will want you to talk about the picture as though you are
the plant in the garden [longer pause] … When you are ready, open your eyes and draw
[or make a sculpture or do a sand tray]. (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016, p.180-181)
These detailed questions allow the child to fully imagine the self as a plant before the
therapist asks the child to open his or her eyes and draw what was imagined. Because this
technique uses a metaphor instead of asking direct questions about the child’s life, this is a good
directive to start with. When processing this directive, it is important to stay in the metaphor
instead of asking the child direct questions about his or her family. Kottman and Meany-Walen
suggested re-asking many of the questions asked during the guided meditation to allow the child
to respond to these questions verbally. This technique gathers a wealth of information about the
child’s self-concept as well as the child’s family atmosphere (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016).
Kinetic Family Drawing
The Kinetic Family Drawing (KFD) directive developed by Burns and Kaufman (1972)
can be used to collect information about the client’s family constellation (Cook 1991; Kottman &
Meany-Walen, 2016). The KFD asks the client to “Draw a picture of everyone in your family,
including you, DOING something. Try to draw whole people, not cartoons or stick people.
Remember, make everyone DOING something- some kind of action” (Burns & Kaufman, 1972,
p.5). Kottman and Meany-Walen suggested modifying this directive to exclude the direction
“Try to draw whole people, not cartoons or stick people.” They suggested encouraging the child
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to draw whole people, but not to prohibit stick people because this could discourage the child
from completing the drawing. Kottman and Meany-Walen also suggested an alternative to the
KDF using a sand tray and miniatures. In this alternative version, the child is given a wide
selection of miniatures to choose from and is asked to use the figures to represent each family
member engaged in an activity and to create a scene in the sand tray (Kottman & Meany-Walen,
2016).
When the kinetic family drawing (or sand tray) is completed, the therapist can reference
the creation when asking the child about his or her family. Cook (1991) suggested asking the
questions “Who are the people in your picture and how old are they?” “How would you feel if
you were to enter this picture?” and “What do you see in the picture?” (Cook, 1991, p. 523). The
answer to these questions give the therapist information about the client’s family atmosphere and
family constellation. Cook found that what her study participants expressed in the kinetic family
drawing was 90-94 percent similar to the participant’s answers to Adlerian Lifestyle Interview
questions (Cook, 1991). Additional questions from the Adlerian lifestyle interview can be asked
while referencing the KFD such as: Who is most like you? Who is the most different from you?
Who is most like each parent? Who gets in trouble the most? Who gets spoiled the most? Who
plays together? Who do you get mad at the most? These questions are similar to the questions
asked in the Adlerian lifestyle interview templates by Bartholow et al. (2011) and Eckstein
(2003).
Kinetic School Drawing
The Kinetic School Drawing is similar to the KFD. The child’s experiences and
behaviors at school form the child’s concept of self, others, and the world outside of his or her
family (Brooke, 2004). The therapist directs the child by saying “I’d like you to draw a school
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picture. Put yourself, your teacher, and two or more students in the picture DOING
something…” (Knoff & Prout, 1985, p. 54). Again, a sand tray scene could be used in place of a
drawing. After the child is finished, the therapist can ask the child to describe what is happening
in the picture and what each figure is doing (Brooke, 2004). This picture can then be used as a
reference when asking the child further information about his or her life at school. The therapist
could incorporate some questions from the Adlerian Lifestyle Interview template by Bartholow
et al. (2011) such as: How do you feel about school? What is your favorite subject? What
subject do you like the least? What are you really good at? What are the boys in your class like?
What are the girls like? How do you feel about being a boy or a girl? Do either boys or girls
have an advantage over the other? What are your friends like? How do you feel about your
teacher?
Family-Centered Circle Drawing
The Family-Centered Circle drawing, developed by Burns, symbolizes the parent-child
relationship (Brooke, 2004). The Family-Centered Circle drawing begins by giving the client a
piece of paper with a large circle already drawn. The client is instructed to “Draw your mother
in the center of a circle. Visually free associate with symbols around the periphery of the circle.
Try to draw a whole person, not a stick or cartoon figure” (Brooke, 2004, p. 92). To make this
directive more appropriate for young children, the directive could be changed to “Draw your
mother in the center of the circle. Doodle whatever you want around the edge of the circle.”
The directive is then repeated for the father and then for the self. Other parental figures such as a
child’s step-parent, grandparent, or other primary caregiver can be used in place of a mother
and/or father in situations where using mother and/or father is not appropriate. Burns believed
the size of the drawn figure represents the amount of energy invested in that person. Burns
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considered symbols repeated in both the self and parent drawings to be especially important.
Burns also suggested any symbol drawn directly above the drawn figure to be of great
importance (Brooke, 2004). When processing this drawing, the therapist can incorporate
questions from the Adlerian Lifestyle Interviews by Bartholow et al. (2011) and Eckstein (2003)
to get an idea of how the child relates to his or her parents: What is important to your parents?
What is important to you? What makes them happy? What makes you happy? What makes
them angry? What makes you angry? How are you like each parent? How are you different?
Do they ever fight? What do they fight about? What do you think it’s like to be a parent?
Self-Ideal/ Fictive Goal
A simple art directive that can be used to gather information about the child’s self-ideal
and fictive goal is to ask the child to “Draw yourself as you want others to see you” (Sutherland,
2008). This image may give the therapist a better idea of the child’s mistaken beliefs about what
they have to do in order to belong.
A similar directive suggested by Watts and Garza (2008) is to ask the child the miracle
question in the form of an art directive. The therapist could ask: “If you magically changed into
the person you want to be, what would be different? If I were watching a movie of your life,
what would be different?” The therapist could then ask the child to draw that person and ask
specific questions such as: “How would you be dressed? What would you be doing? What
would you see happening around you? If we could see inside your thoughts, what would they
look like?” The product of this drawing shows the child’s goals. Those goals may be
appropriate socially useful goals for therapy, or they may express additional mistaken beliefs and
socially useless goals (Watts & Garza, 2008).
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Early Recollections
The collection of early recollections is an important part of the Adlerian Lifestyle
Interview. People unconsciously select memories that represent their life stories and present the
memories, often altering them, to fit with their fundamental view of life (Ansbacher &
Ansbacher, 1956/1964, p. 351). The early recollection is a distilled snapshot of how the client’s
lifestyle functions. It gives context to the information already gathered in the Adlerian Lifestyle
Interview. Kottman and Meany-Walen (2016) suggested having children use drawings, dolls,
puppets, or sand tray figures to express early recollections.
Even and Armstrong (2011) describe how to use a sand tray scene with children to collect
an early recollection. The scene begins with the prompt “Make a scene in the sand of something
you remember,” the child should be encouraged to use “as few or as many figures as needed to
complete the scene” (Even & Armstrong, 2011, p.396). The therapist should allow for as much
time and space as the child needs to complete their three-dimensional picture of their memory
without interruption. After the child is finished, the therapist can begin processing the child’s
creation by asking the child to “Tell me about your memory in the sand” (Even & Armstrong,
2011, p. 396).
When processing the sand tray scene, Even and Armstrong (2011) suggested “working
with the metaphor” (p. 398), a technique in which the therapist uses the child’s metaphor when
discussing the scene by talking about what the characters are doing, thinking, and feeling. It’s
important to pay attention to what the child calls each character and use those labels when
referencing a character in the scene. Talking about the scene metaphorically instead of asking
the child direct questions allows the child to keep a safe distance from the subject matter of the
memory (Even & Armstrong, 2011).
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Even and Armstrong (2011) also suggest asking the child how the memory feels. To get
a more specific idea of the feeling, the therapist can ask the child to describe the color, and shape
of the feeling and where the child feels it in his or her body. Even and Armstrong suggested
staying in the “here and now” by asking questions like “Tell me what it’s like for you right
now,” (p. 398). After the scene has been processed, Even and Armstrong suggested closing the
activity by asking the child to give the scene a title. The title captures the essence of the scene in
a short description (Even & Armstrong, 2011). These play therapy techniques described by Even
and Armstrong can be applied to any metaphoric expression of an early recollection, such as a
drawing.
Rotter, Horak, and Heidt (1999) suggested asking the child to “Draw a picture of
something you remember,” they also suggested asking “What part do you remember most about
this memory?” and “What feelings do you remember having then?” (p. 319). The information
gathered from the early recollection gives the therapist an idea of how the child would answer
the questions: “I am… Others are… The world is... Therefore…” (Rotter et al., 1999, p. 324).
The child might instead want to act out a memory using puppets or other toys. Kottman
and Meany-Walen (2016) suggested asking the child to choose a doll or puppet to represent each
member of the family. Then ask the child to describe each character and how they selected each
character. The therapist can encourage the child to act out a memory or situation. The child can
use the puppets to express thoughts and feelings about typical family interactions. Again, the
therapist can work with the child’s metaphor to gather information about the child’s
interpretation of the scene by being curious about what each character might be feeling or
thinking (Kottman & Meany-Walen, 2016).
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Conclusion
Ethical treatment of mental health issues includes incorporating current research and
evidence-based practices (Carter & Goodheart, 2012). Adlerian play therapy is supported by
current research and has been labeled “evidence-based practice” for working with children
(Kottman, 2016). Therefore, incorporating Adlerian play therapy into art therapy practice
provides a more ethical, developmentally appropriate treatment modality. This set of art and
play directives can be used to gather Adlerian lifestyle information from children. These
directives include The Garden, the Kinetic Family Drawing, the Kinetic School Drawing, the
Family-Centered Circle Drawing, the self-ideal and fictive goal drawings, and the collection of
early recollections. The authors of these directives did not set requirements for administrator
qualifications. They are intended to be used by therapists familiar with using creative metaphors,
such as art therapists and play therapists. This art and play based Adlerian assessment of the
developing lifestyle is intended to be as comprehensive as the formal Adlerian Lifestyle
Interview and is designed to be developmentally appropriate for use with children (see
Appendix).
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Appendix
Adlerian Assessment of the Developing Lifestyle of Children
Client name
Date
Therapist
The Garden:
Offer the child a variety of drawing materials or a selection of miniatures to use in a sand tray.
Directive: “Close your eyes. Now I’d like you to imagine you are a plant in a garden. Become
one of the plants in the garden and find out what it’s like to be a plant. What kind of plant are
you? Are you very small? Are you large? Are you wide? Are you tall? Do you have flowers?
If so, what kind? They can be any kind you want them to be. Do you have leaves? What kind?
What are your stems and branches like? Do you have any thorns? What are your roots like? Or
maybe you don’t have any- you get to decide. If you do, are they long and straight? Are they
twisted? Are they deep? Look around you and see if there are any other plants in the garden
[pause]. If there are other plants, what do they look like? Are there only a few of them or are
there lots of them? Are the other plants the same as you or are they different? Do the other
plants have leaves… flowers… stems… roots… thorns? How close are the other plants to where
you are? Are they the same size as you or bigger or smaller? Where is the garden? Is the
garden in a pot or growing in the ground? OR through cement? Or even inside somewhere?
Look around you… what else do you see? [pause] Are there statues in the garden? Animals?
People? Birds? Is there anything around you like a fence? If there is, what does it look like?
Does someone take care of you? Does that person also take care of the other plants? What’s the
weather like for you right now? What is your life like? How do you feel? What happens to you
as the seasons change? Be aware of yourself as a plant in a garden… look carefully. Find out
how you feel about your life in the garden. In a few minutes, I’ll ask you to open your eyes and I
want you to draw a picture [or make a sculpture or do a sand tray] of yourself as the plant and the
rest of the garden. Then, later I’ll ask you a few questions, and will want you to talk about the
picture as though you are the plant in the garden [longer pause] … When you are ready, open
your eyes and draw [or make a sculpture or do a sand tray]”
Description of
“self” plant
Description of
“other” plants
Description of
garden
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Kinetic Family Drawing:
Offer the child a variety of drawing materials or a selection of miniatures and a sand tray.
Directive: “Make a picture [or sand tray scene] of everyone in your family, including you, doing
something. Try to draw whole people. Remember, make everyone doing something- some kind
of action.”
Record the names, ages, and description of each person depicted. (family constellation)
Name Brief Description
Father
Mother
Other parental
figures depicted
Siblings Brief Description
What would it feel like
to be in this picture?
Who is most like you?
In what ways?
Who is the most
different from you? In
what ways?
Who gets in trouble
the most? For what
reasons?
Who gets spoiled the
most?
Who do you play with
the most?
Who do you get mad at
the most?
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Kinetic School Drawing:
Offer the child a variety of drawing materials or a selection of miniatures and a sand tray.
Directive: “I’d like you to draw a school picture [or make a sand tray scene]. Put yourself, your
teacher, and two or more students in the picture. Try to draw whole people. Remember, draw
yourself, your teacher, and two or more students doing something.”
Who is in the picture? What is each person doing?
Self
Teacher
Student
Student
Student
How do you like school?
What is your favorite
subject in school? How
did you pick that one?
How do you get along
with your teacher?
What are the boys in
your class like?
What are the girls in
your class like?
How do you feel about
being a boy/girl?
Do boys or girls have an
advantage over the
other?
How do you get along
with the other kids?
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Family Centered Circle Drawing:
Offer the child three or more pieces of paper with large circles already drawn.
Directive: “Draw your mother in the center of the circle. Doodle whatever you want around the
edge of the circle.” (substitute another guardian or caregiver when appropriate)
After finishing first drawing: “On another piece of paper, draw your father in the center of the
circle. Doodle whatever you want around the edge of the circle” (substitute another guardian or
care giver when appropriate)
After finishing second drawing: “On the third piece of paper draw yourself in the center of the
circle. Doodle whatever you want around the edge of the circle.”
Reference all three images when asking the following questions:
What is important to your mom?
What is important to your dad?
How are you like your mom?
How are you like your dad?
How are you different from your
mom?
How are you different from your
dad?
What can you do that makes your
mom happy?
What can you do that makes your
mom mad?
What can you do that makes your
dad happy?
What can you do that makes your
dad mad?
Who makes you feel better when
you are hurt or sad?
Do your parents ever fight?
What do they fight about?
How do they make up after a
fight?
What do you think it’s like to be
a parent?
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Self-ideal/ Fictive Goal
Directive: “Draw yourself as you want others to see you”
Tell me about your
drawing?
How did you decided to
draw yourself in this way?
What does this drawing tell you about what he/she has to do in order to belong?
______________________________________________________________________________
Directive: “If you magically changed into the person you want to be, what would be different?
Draw yourself as that person.”
How are you dressed in
the picture?
What are you doing in the
picture?
What is happening around
you?
If you could look inside
your thoughts, what would
they look like?
What does this picture tell you about the child’s goals?
______________________________________________________________________________
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Early Recollections
Offer a variety of drawing materials, a sand tray and miniatures, and/or puppets and dolls.
Directive: “Draw a picture of something you remember.”
Or “Make a scene in the sand of something you remember. Use as many figures as you need.”
Or “Choose a doll or puppet for each member of your family and use them to act out a memory.”
Tell me about
your memory.
[or act out the
memory]
Tell me about each person in the picture/scene. What is each person doing?
Name of person Description of person and what they are doing.
What part of the memory
do you remember the most?
Referring to the character that
represents the child in the
memory, ask: How does
he/she feel right now?
What color and shape is
that feeling?
What made him/her feel
that way?
How are the other
characters feeling?
Tell me what it’s like for
you right now.
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Summary of the lifestyle
Use the information gathered from this assessment to fill in the following charts. Make note of
dysfunctional aspects of the developing lifestyle needing intervention.
Family Constellation
My role in the family..
I am the one who…
Oldest, middle,
youngest?
Family Atmosphere
The climate of the
household,
Interactions between
family members
Family Values
Family rules,
Cultural values,
What is important
(religion, school..)
Gender Guiding Lines
Beliefs about what it
means to be a man,
women, or other
Self-Concept
I am…
I like…
My self-image
Self-Ideal
I should be…
(or not be)
My ideal self
World View
Life is…
Men are…
Women are…
Ethical Convictions
Moral beliefs
What is proper
Right and wrong
In order to belong/ be significant, I must be ________________________________________ (fictive goal)
Therefor I must always/never/only ________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________ (mistaken beliefs)