Par defini*on: Equal to the Standard We will play the game with the Standard of Peace & Righteousness
PAR Coalition
Will we be on PAR?
To ensure that we are,
we are asking for 4 pledges.
We pledge to take actions to support…
1. Happy and Healthy Marriages
2. Strong Families
3. Build Conflict Resolution Skills
4. Freedom (Use it so we don’t lose it!)
Marriage We pledge to support marriages.
!7 Secrets to a Happy!& Healthy Marriage! !1. We work on our marriages !Regularly and deliberately !!
2. We learn to positively resolve conflict !
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3. We practice loving one another & try to
understand and speak in the Love Language
our spouse understands: Gifts, Touch, Words of
Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service !
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4. We work to improve the Love Growers:
Expressing Affection, Finances, Communication,
Children, Transparency, Extended Family,
Companionship, Respect, Home & Family Care !
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5. We work to reduce the Love Eroders:
Disrespect, Lack of Honesty, Selfishness,
Excessive Activities, Anger, Annoying Habits !
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6. We learn to develop good Sexual Relations,
paying attention to our appearance !
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7. We work to create proper balance between
freedom & boundaries, using wise principles of
marriage governance such as these secrets!
ACTION I will sponsor my married people & spouse to an annual banquet. There they will hear about the principles above plus they will hear couples share about their marriage journeys. The couple will be encouraged to commit to building a healthy marriage using these principles.
ACTION
Families We pledge to support families.
Dad Mom Brother Sister
Grandpa Grandma Uncle Aunt Cousin In Laws Out Laws
1. We love and honor one another. 2. We pracHce Love Growers, considering the unique Love Language of each. We reduce Love Eroders. (see Marriage Secret Sauce) 3. Provision and Family ResponsibiliHes. We provide for those family members wherein we have responsibility; addiHonally, we help meet each other’s needs. We share in responsibiliHes. 4. RecreaHon and Fun. We enjoy each other and life together. 5. Family Governance. We work to create proper balance between freedom & boundaries. We learn to posiHvely resolve conflict. 6. Life Moments. We build memories and tradiHons and together celebrate important moments in life. 7. Extending Family. We honor our extended family.
Solid Principles ~ Built to Last
Strong Families
Are BUILT
I will sponsor my people & their families to an annual dinner. There they will hear about the principles above plus they will hear people share about their family journeys. Everyone will be encouraged to commit to building healthy families using these principles.
Conflict Resolution We pledge to improve our conflict resolution skills.
Work to build skills now Conflict Resolution principles and process can be found at
www.AdministeringPeace.com
ACTION I will identify resources who will be trained in conflict resolution.
I will take advantage of conflict resolution training that will be
offered though out the community in 2014.
Freedom We pledge to support freedom.
ACTION To honor the original spirit and intent of the Bill of Rights, I will implement a Freedom of Speech Policy.
Freedom of Speech Policy (Example) Speech outside of work.
Company matters: We believe that responsibility and authority need to be matched. We have responsibility for the
reputation of our company and the confidentiality required by various company matters. We ask that when you are
speaking in public about our company, that you speak with respect and use good judgment regarding confidentiality.
Other matters: We also believe in the original spirit and intent of the Bill of Rights. This means we honor your
right to Free Speech outside of the workplace on non-company related topics.
Freedom It isn’t FREE. Use It or Lose It.
PAR in Marketplace Responsibilities We pledge to strive for excellence in the Marketplace.
PURPOSE
We determine and strive to fulfill our purposes in Vision, Mission, Core Values, Tasks and
PROFITABILITY.
PEOPLE
We serve all of our publics: customers, workers, neighbors, community, nation. We
affirm character counts & shared identity is helpful.
PLAN - We plan our work and work our plans.
PRINCIPLES - when applied by agreement, are standards
We strive for excellence, using right standards, conducting ourselves with integrity,
using just measures and providing good value.
PRIORITIES - We learn what needs to be done, when it needs to be done and strive
to do it with good business ethics.
PROCESSES - We strive for complete and thorough administration, good governance in
roles and responsibilities and skilled conflict resolution.
PRACTICES - We use and develop skills: diligence, discipline (good habits). Preferences
We choose how, when and where to serve.
POWER - We establish roles, responsibilities and resource allocation.
PLACE - We understand who and where we serve.
*A dream without a plan is a wish.
Civic Social
Market Sacred
PAR We pledge to strive for PAR Excellence in our marketplace
responsibilities. I will take actions to support
1. Happy and Healthy Marriages 2. Strong Families
3. Build Conflict Resolution Skills
4. Freedom (Use it so we don’t lose it!)
Choose YOUR level!
I will take action on…
ONE = a BRONZE Member
TWO = a SILVER Member
THREE = a GOLD Member
FOUR = a PLATINUM Member
Contact us:
Phone: (302) 827-7271
Facebook/parcoalition
PAR A DREAM with a PLAN*