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How to Deal with an
Mother
Bearing
Over
1.She has her reasons
2.Work on setting boundaries
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3.Practice this phrase:“I love you but…”
How’s the Weather? [hous] [stressed thee; unstressed before a consonant thuh] [weth-er] phrase
A phrase used by teenage girls to secretly inform each other that their tops are too low.
girl 1: Hey Claire, how’s the weather?girl 2: Crap, its fine now I think
4.Consider writing a letter
5.Thank your mother for the suggestions
6.Strive to seek self approval
7.Opt for caller ID
8.Try to call her back within a day
9.Be appreciative
10.
Refrain from guilt
! Ignore the gnawing suspicion that your mother is trying to live her life through you. Even if she is, the urge to control is her baggage, not yours.
! If your mother persists in knocking down your boundaries, consider seeking family therapy. The relationship may improve in more ways than one.