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Giving and Receiving Bad News
Lessons I learn
Rhonda Fishel MD, MBA, FACS
February 2009
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Rhonda Fishel, MD has no relevant financial relationships with commercial interest and will not be discussing non-FDA approved uses of any drugs.
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• Identify societal beliefs and clinical experiences that influence the health care provider’s ability to formulate, translate and appropriately convey bad news.
• Discuss the emotional and physical toll on the healthcare provider due to living in the midst of disease, death and dying?
• Recognize how serious illness of a health care provider can lead to a re-evaluation of life choices and priorities.
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Helping patients and families hear, learn, and begin to accept bad news is the responsibility of everyone on the health care team.
It’s one of the most difficult and painful tasks we have and one of the most important, yet in spite of experience, there is always room for improvement.
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• communicate in small sound bites
• have a winner or loser mentality
• are bombarded with shows about miracles
• believe the last rite is CPR
What Can Get in the Way
The Society in which We Live
As Americans We...
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What Can Get in the Way
• Personality issues • Training and indoctrination • Time constraints • Fatigue • Fear of failure if your patient
dies
All impair our ability to give bad news well
As Health Care Providers we struggle with...
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Everyday, healthcare workers see and discuss terrible
things as casually as we pass the salt and
pepper shakers.
Our emotional well being requires
us to have varying
degrees of emotional
import.
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Patients and families focus on what they can control because they cannot bear to
face what is out of their control.
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Johns Hopkins 1977
• Teenager with anemia, thrombocytopenia, leucocytosis
• “Fascinating” bone marrow aspirate- acute leukemia
• Diagnosis given without translator
• Course of action not explained
The Epiphany
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Surgical Internship- 1979 • What’s wrong
with being on call every other night?
• Average 100-130 hours a week
• Were we made of the right stuff?
Call me if you need me, need me if you call me and remember it is a sign of weakness
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Internship
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The Line
We all have had “our Line”
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• Efficiency at a premium
• Paranoia not uncommon with sleep deprivation
• Trying to remember where the idealism went
• Care and compassion
Balance
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Confidence in one’s skills
Confidence in one’s knowledge
Belief in what we say
Sometimes right
Sometimes wrong
but, NEVER in doubt.
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What is the difference between God and a doctor?
God does not think that he is a doctor
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Bad News is
Sometimes Delivered
in a FLASH
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Giving Bad News: Sudden Death
• Envision yourself receiving this news
• Go in with another member of the team
• Everyone sitting • Do not beat around the bush,
use “dead” or “died” • Allow time for questions • Consider leaving team member
to ask further questions
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End of Life Issues • Establish and nurture a rapport with
family • Assess level of religious / spiritual
feelings • Beware of giving statistics • Hanging crepe • The patient has trusted that the family
speaks for him • Prolonging death rather than life- a
virtual line
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Watch Out for Predictions
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“Cure sometimes, relieve often, comfort always”
Dr. Edward Livingstone Trudeau!
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…The Vigil
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Empathy is your pain in my heart Luccock
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Giving a Bad Diagnosis • If other data suggests a bad diagnosis, hang
crepe before biopsy • Do not beat around the bush • Give hope- you can be their strength • Stop and wait for them to absorb your
information • Broadly outline the next step, do not do details
that day • Arrange for another appointment in 2-3 days
with family / significant others
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Tell all the Truth but tell it slant- Success in circuit lies Too bright for our Infirm Delight The Truth’s superb surprise As Lightning to the Children eased With explanation kind The Truth must dazzle gradually Or every man be blind
Emily Dickinson
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SERVICE Rachel Remen, “My Grandfather’s Blessing”
Providing help is not necessarily service. Help shows our strength which may diminish those we aid.
We serve with everything that we are and everything that we know
Our weaknesses may be of service. Take it personally, let lives that touch yours, touch you.
Service is not a relationship between an expert and a problem. It is two people bringing their full resources to the table and sharing them.
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SPIKES Protocol • S -Setting and listening skills • P - Patient’s perception of condition and seriousness • I- Invitation from patient to give information • K- Knowledge- giving medical facts • E- Explore emotions and empathize • S- Strategy and Summary
Bailes and Buckman
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Doctor Speaks:
Your father has a pleural effusion and we’ll probably need to perform a thoracentesis. His ejection fraction has deteriorated and we may need to float a pulmonary artery occlusion catheter. His BUN and Creatinine have increased and we are worried that he is becoming coagulapathic. This clinical picture may represent SIRS or sepsis or this could be adrenal insufficiency. Further laboratory analysis is needed. A cortisol stimulation is pending.
TAKE 1
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What the Family Hears...
NOT MUCH
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Doctor:
Your father has fluid on his lung and we may need to drain the fluid. We do this at the bedside and he will be given medication so it doesn’t hurt. His heart is not as pumping as strong as it should and we may need to put in a special IV so we can follow this closely. His kidneys are also a little worse but we think we can fix it. His blood does not clot right. If you put this all together it may be that he is fighting a bad infection that makes his whole body sick. Sometimes all of this happens because a little gland above the kidneys is not working right. We are going to do some tests to figure this out.
TAKE 2
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It is far better to sound intelligible than intelligent.
Avoid IDB: Inadvertent Disempowering Behavior
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When the bad news hits home
Age 45- Breast Cancer
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Clinical Features
• 4.7 cm invasive lobular carcinoma
• Disease- both sides • 4 positive lymph nodes • Ovarian micro
metastasis
• 6 months of chemotherapy
• Post mastectomy radiation
• Anti-estrogen
Disease Treatment
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Cancer takes a Holiday...
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Fall of 2005
• Turned 50-vegetarian,no ETOH, cigarettes, gym rat
• Loss of energy, pain • Surgery, critical care,
administration, teach • MBA • Family obligations • Larger ? fibroid in
uterus
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Uterine Sarcoma
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Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma
• 5% of uterine cancers are sarcomas
• 5% of uterine sarcomas are endometrial stromal sarcomas
• High grade Stage IV, poor survival
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Decisions
• Opinions – Sinai – Sloan Kettering – Harvard – Hopkins – Mayo – MD Andersen
• Would it be indolent • Down side of
chemotherapy
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“It’s always darkest before it goes pitch black” Author unknown
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January 5 CT Scan
• Multiple metastases in both lung fields • Lesions near pericardium and aorta • 2 cm lymph node in left pelvic side wall • CXR 6 weeks prior was clean
The Future Fades From View
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CT Scan January 5, 2006
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The Treatment Plan I Chose Rodrigo B Erlich, M.D.
Sinai Hospital of Baltimore Lapidus Cancer Institute
2401 W. Belvedere Avenue Baltimore, MD 21215
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Chemotherapy Regimen • Week 1
– Erbitux – Avastin – Taxotere – Gemcitabine
• Week 2 – Erbitux – Taxotere – Gemcitabine
• Week 3 – Erbitux
6
Cycles
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Chemotherapy Side Effects • Fatigue
• Neutropenia
• Flu-like symptoms
• Alopecia- HDD
• Constipation
• Eye problems
• Rash/ Nose bleed
• Finger tip- splits
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The Dream Causes – Exhaustion – Doubts about
life/career – Thoughts about
dying alone – Aging as a
surgeon, person
The Choice- Accept that the future is unknown
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For every door that closes, another opens
• Having your career pulled out from under you
• Understanding the flow of energy
• Absence of anger and the kindness of others
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Chi Gong
• Healing aspect of Tai Chi
• The Chi Gong Master • 10 Friends- 2 day
seminar • Quantum touch • The litmus test • The bowl experience
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Acupuncture
• 5000 year old practice
• Aligning energy (chi)
• exam • Needles do hurt • Herbs-
– Rei Mushroom tea
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The Rest of the Regimen
• Moderate work • Moderate exercise • Faith/prayer • Guided imagery • Desiderata • Serenity prayer
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Pet Scan - May 25, 2006
Remission !
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Treatment Regimen Continued
IV Medication for another year and then oral drug-Tarceva
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July 25, 2007
14 months of remission
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November 2007
Re-occurrence – Metastatic Sarcoma in the Lymph Node Iliac Chain- Toricel
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What Happened to my Extended Cancer Warranty ?
• Lots of Chemo
• No Hair
• Fatigue
No More Cancer
Guaranteed !!!
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My Treatment Plan
Daily Radiation Therapy for 5 Weeks
Camp Chemo-weekly
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IVC Filter
Good News….. Bad News … February 2008
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June 2008:
My PET Scan shows a lesion in the left lung.
You have about 6 months to live…
Biopsy is negative…Never Mind.
April 2008:
Mickey has reoccurrence…multiple mets to liver and bone.
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Summer 2009
Treatment Regimen:
Doxirubicin
Topotecan
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Winter 2010
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Cancer asks
Would You Like to have this Dance?
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Who’s Winning Today?
As they break away from the gate it’s Cancer - 2 lengths behind Good Health…..
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Some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity…
Gilda Radner
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Remission
Re-occurrence
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… is “hanging on” between PET Scans
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… is a journey without a map
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… is a clock without time
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… disrupts the natural rhythm
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… begins with attention to basic needs
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… requires doing things smarter.
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… forces choices
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Attitude and the Tibetan Bowls
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It’s a legacy mightier than a concert. Make music with what remains. Complete the song left for us to sing. Transcend the loss. Play it out with heart, soul, and might with all remaining strength within us.”
Rabbi Schulweis
“It’s my task to make music with what remains”
Yitzhak Perlman
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What are our Limits? • We all have a limit- the
end of life is death • That limit is likely not
what you thought • The limit is probably a
moving target • I have not reached my
limit yet • If and when I get there, I
hope that my decision can be accepted and supported This story is not about ME….it’s about US.
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Progression of Hope
Hope for cure Hope for long remission Hope for short remission Hope for comfort Hope for a good death Hope for a legacy Dunn G
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Indigo Girls – Closer to Fine
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I went to the doctor, I went to the mountains. I looked to the children, I drank from the fountains, we go to the doctor, we go to the mountains, we look to the children, we drink from the fountains, we go to the bible, we go through the workout, we read up on revival and we stand up for the lookout, there's more than one answer to these questions pointing me in a crooked line. The less I seek my source for some definitive the closer I am to fine, the closer I am to fine
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The End ?
…or the Beginning