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Emotional Intelligence
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CONCERN: EMPLOYEE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM
A Benefit for Employees and Families
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CONCERN: EAP Services• Work/Life Benefits
– Parenting and Childcare Resources– Eldercare Services– Financial Counseling– Legal Consultations
• Short Term Counseling 1-8 visits per issue per 12-month period
• Free Confidential – 24/7 800 number answered “live”
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Getting Started
• Call for an appointment 6:30 AM to 5:00 PM (Pacific Time) Monday through Friday
• In crisis situations, call 24/7 for immediate telephone support
• For more information– Ask your HR/Benefits Department– www.concern-eap.com– Call CONCERN at (800) 344-4222
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Emotional Intelligence
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Objectives
• Define Emotional Intelligence & recognize some of your personal EQ strengths and challenges
• Pinpoint situations at work that trigger strong feelings and recognize your personal responses to ‘hot buttons’
• Develop strategies for increasing EQ through self regulation, self-awareness and empathy
• Understand how to increase EQ through self regulation and self-awareness and empathy
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What is EQ?
• EQ is the capacity for recognizing our own feelings and those of others, for motivating ourselves and for effectively managing emotions in ourselves and our relationships– According to Emotional Intelligence expert Daniel
Goleman
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Basic elements of EQ
• Social Skills• Self-awareness• Self regulation• Motivation• Empathy
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Why is EQ important?
• 75 % of careers are derailed for reasons related to emotional incompetence– Inability to handle interpersonal problems– Unsatisfactory team leadership during times of
difficulty or conflict– Inability to adapt to change or elicit trust.
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EQ and You
• What has been your own experience with EQ, either personally or through observation of others in the workplace?
• How much has EQ contributed to, or detracted from, your own job success?
• How important do you think EQ is to success in your workplace?
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Self - Assessment
• How do I rate on Emotional Intelligence?
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What determines success?
• Intelligence• Expertise• Education and training• Self-management
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• We are being judged by a new yardstick: not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also by how well we handle ourselves and each other-– Daniel Goleman ‘Emotional Intelligence at Work’
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EQ at work is your capacity for:
• Self-Awareness-– recognizing feelings and behaviors
• Self-Regulation– managing feelings and behaviors
• Self-Motivation– staying motivated through setbacks
• Effective Relationships and Empathy– building rapport and understanding
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Situation and Emotion
• Situations at work that can trigger strong feelings?
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5 unpleasant emotions at work
• Fear• Anger• Feeling ‘down’• Guilt• Insecurity
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Self Awareness
• Recognize your feelings as they occur• Identify ‘hot buttons’ (situations, events and
people) that trigger emotional responses
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Recognizing Emotions
• What emotions tends to be the strongest ones for you at work?
• How do you ‘feel’ that emotion in your body?• How do you behave when you experience
that emotion?
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Self-Regulation
• Manage feelings, moods and thoughts• Cope with physiological changes that occur
as a result of emotions• Control behavior to avoid acting impulsively
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• What we invest in gets stronger. What we don’t invest our energy in gets weaker-– Tony Schwartz - ’The power of engagement’
• What do you choose to invest your energy in?
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Managing unpleasant emotions
• Buy time• Calm yourself• Analyze the situation from a different
perspective / Ask ‘is there another way to view this situation?’
• Decide on the action you want to take
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Select an Option
• Do nothing; let it go• Confront the situation• Remove yourself from the situation
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Confronting Situations
• Set the stage• State the problem in objective way• Indicate the impact of the problem on
business needs• Ask for other person’s point of view• Ask for resolution for situation
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Self-Motivation
• Recognize connection between emotions and performance
• Stay motivated in spite of setbacks• Focus on problem solving as opposed to
blaming others• Use emotions for positive purposes such as
reaching goals
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Empathy & Rapport
• Be sensitive and understanding of others• Listen and acknowledge feelings• Offer support and help• Build rapport and collaborate
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EQ at work
• Develop self awareness, self-regulation and self-motivation for yourself
• Develop empathy, rapport and collaborative skills with others
• Which competency do you want to improve? What strategies will you use?