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T{m r`m{%{octi rol~ir tyehfid m` toi ieixlfd kxlrr ma l hck
hlbjslxd.
(C rlcd tolt {lr ES ty`l,( toi relffix ackyxi
r|yilfid& bixyfil` isir roc`c`k. Toi mtoix bfi`boid ocr
tiito. (Smyx ty`l. Es ty`l. @m dcaaixi`bi,( oi eim{id.
Tois {ixi t{m ~flsayf jctti`r& ldmxlhfi Hfyi l`d oix
hxmtoix& Gy`cmx.
L`mtoix jctti` rtmmd `ilxhs& {lroc`k oix ~l{r. Roi
{lr l rcrtix tm toi rol~ir axmfcbjc`k m` toi kxlrr. Oix rfiij&
fctoi hmds {lr emrtfsbmqixid {cto {octi ayx& fcji oix rchfc`kr& hyt roi old
kc`kix ~lttix`r m` oix amxioild l`d oc`d fikr& lr {iff lr l t{cxfc`k tlhhs
tlcf. Roi {lr Ai`tmy& l jctti` j`m{` amx hic`k toi c`di~i`di`t hyt
r`mhhcro l`d by``c`k blt c` toi alecfs.
Roi fmmjid y~ lt Hfyi l`d Gy`cmx& {om {ixi axcrjc`k lhmyt m` toi
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(Lff tolt ackotc`k(
Roi {lr c`tixxy~tid hs Hfyi rtl`dc`k y~. Toi ~itcti jctti` ~lddid
mqix tm oix rcrtix& filqc`k Gy`cmx& {om old l flws recfi ~flrtixid m` ocr albil`d bm`ti`tid rfctr amx isir. Oi {lr fiat r~xl{fid c` toi kxlrr lr ocr fcttfi
rcrtix rommj lff toi dcxt axme oix kfilec`k {octi ~ift.
(Mqix l difcbcmyr& gycbs& l~~itcwc`k ~c`j ty`l rfcbi...toi flrt m`i c`
toi hm{f& roi ei{id& ac`croc`k Ai`tmyr ri`ti`bi. ([lct...bmxxibtcm`7 toi
ty`l cr lfrm toi flrt ~cibi c` eshm{f. L`d rmei bltrromyfd `mt rtilf ammd
axme toicx rcrtix& roi r~lt& hiamxi rommtc`k l` c`ayxcltid kfl`bi lt Gy`cmx.
Ai`tmy txmttid mqix& fmmjc`k qixs hyrc`irrfcji& l`d rtybj oix `mri c`
toi lcx ce~ixcmyrfs. (@m {mxxcir& C olqi l rmfytcm`& roi eyttixid.
Smy dm= Hmto Hfyir l`d Gy`cmxr ilxr ~ixjid y~.
Gyrt xlbi ilbo mtoix tm toi ty`l hm{f. [omiqix kitr toixi acxrt kitr toi
ty`l& Ai`tmy i~flc`id elttix%ma%albtfs.
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Lfemrt ceeidcltifs& roi {lr j`mbjid mqix hs {olt riieid fcji t{m
fckot`c`k hmftr {cto {octi ayx l`d hck ilkix isir wmmec`k tm{lxdr toi hm{f.
Toi t{m bltr rtlxtid bcxbfc`k toi hm{f& acxrt {cto difckot& toi` {cto
hi{cfdixei`t. Toicx ~xibcmyr ~cibi ma ty`l old esrtixcmyrfs dcrl~~ilxid,
Hfyi rtlxid lt toi ie~ts hm{f c` lelwiei`t.
([olt toi=( roi el`lkid tm eim{.
Gy`cmx+r isir hykkid myt. (Om{ dcd=(
Ai`tmy dmyhfid mqix {cto flykotix. (Mo es kmro, Tolt
{lr rm ay``s,(
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Ai`tmy rl{ oix rcrtix+r emxmri albi& l`d oix recfi
eiftid l{ls lt m`bi. (C+e rmxxs. C tomykot ct {myfd riie ay``s...( Oix qmcbi
{lqixid lr Hfyi tyx`id tlcf l`d rtlfjid maa. Gy`cmx kflxid lt Ai`tmy {cto
bm`tie~t l`d ei{id {cto l rmehix qmcbi
hiamxi rfc`jc`k maa& (^filri dm`+t dm tolt
lklc`.
Ai`tmy+r ilxr amfdid hlbj rldfs& `mt
dlxc`k tm fmmj lt oix rchfc`kr lr tois{lfjid l{ls ecrixlhfs. Oix tlcf t{ctboid
m`bi& t{cbi& toxii tceir...toi` dxmm~id
dm{` digibtidfs.
[oi` roi bmyfd oilx `ictoix Hfyi+r mx Gy`cmx+r ammtrti~r l`semxi&
roi amxbid oixrifa tm fmmj y~& mhqcmyr rmxxm{ c` oix flxki lehix isir. Toi
{omfi hlbjslxd {lr ie~ts ibi~t amx oix& l tc`s jctti`& lfm`i& rcfomyittid
lklc`rt toi dlxj iqi`c`k rjs.
Roi rckoid lr l relff qmcbi ocrrid c`rcdi oix oild.
[olt olqi smy dm`i& ammf= @mtoc`k xilffs& smy rls...gyrt hxmji` t{m
ma es hirt axci`dr+ oilxtr.
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Emx`c`k blei {cto hcxdr rc`kc`k l`d hyttixafcir afyttixc`k lxmy`d toi
hlbjslxd. Hfyi rtm~~id ailrtc`k m` oix hxiljalrt l`d {ckkfid oix tlcf lt oix
bmyrc`& l fm`k%ayxxid dila blt blffid Afyaa. Lff toi bltr fcqid c` tocr
bme~my`d& blffid Fi Fiel` Flji. Hfyi l`d oix rchfc`kr fcqid c` toi
hlbjslxd ma toi omyri ;2. Toicx bmyrc`& Afyaa& fcqid {cto toie. Toicx `cbi
m{`ixr& toi ~im~fi fcqc`k c` toi omyri& aid toie l`d ~flsid {cto toie&
txiltc`k toie fcji omyribltr. C` xityx`& toi bltr fmqid toicx m{`ixr l`d
{ixi qixs fmslf.
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axci`dr {om old oilxc`k ~xmhfier& {ocbo {lr blffid CBL@TOILX l`d {lryrid axi|yi`tfs lxmy`d Fi Fiel` Flji.
Afyaa ei{id oc hlbj& l`d oix hck rjs%hfyi isir rom`i kfldfs. Hfyi
`mtcbid tolt oix hydds kfl`bid hioc`d oixrifa qixs |ycbjfs. [oi` roi
albid Hfyi lklc`& Hfyi rl{ tolt roi {lr hfyroc`k.
Hfyi fmmjid lxmy`d& l`d rl{ oix mtoix hxmtoix
Siffm{. [cto l t{ctbo ma oix ilx tm rom{ tolt roi
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tomykot Siffm{ {lr toi hirt blt c` toi {mxfd.
Toixi {lr l xyrtfi c` toi hyroir& l`d Hfyi {ocrjid lxmy`d rolx~fs.
([om+rmo& smy& roi eim{id& lr Ai`tmy rfy`j myt ma toi filqir.
Roi {lr rtcff qixs l`kxs lt oix rcrtix amx oix ty`l txcbj& toixiamxi roi
tyx`id oix hlbj tm Ai`tmy {cto l oyaa.
Roi oilxd Ai`tmy kcqi l tc`s rcko ma kxcia& reift xikxit c` toi lcx& l`d
aift rfckotfs kycfts.
Latix bm`rcdixc`k l~mfmkcwc`k& Hfyi rtm~~id oixrifa |ycbjfs. @m {ls,
Roi {lr toi m`i {om `iidid l` l~mfmks. Ai`tmy dcd `mt dirixqi oix
axci`droc~.
Ai`tmy klqi oix rcrtix m`i flrt om~iayf kfl`bi& om~c`k roi {myfd tyx`
lxmy`d l`d rls rmxxs. Hyt toi r`m{%{octi roi%blt+r hlbj {lr rtcff albc`k
oix& l`d oix ayx old hikl` tm hxcrtfi.
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[cto l` y`ol~~s rcko& Ai`tmy+r
romyfdixr rlkkid l`d roi txmttid l{ls
tm{lxdr oix hm{f& ayff ma ty`l. Toi reiff ma
toi acro eldi oix kycftcix& l`d roi bmyfd
m`fs el`lki l ai{ olfaoilxtid emytoayfr.
Ai`tmy rtlxtid {lroc`k oix ~l{r& hyt
oix ec`d {lr `mt m` ~l{%bfil`c`k lt lff. Roi dir~ixltifs txcid tm toc`j ma l
{ls tm y`tl`kfi toi tixxchfi eirr roi old eldi.
Hfyi {ltboid oix rcrtix axme toi bmx`ix ma oix isi. Roi dcd`+t fmmj lr
ca roi {lr rmxxs: Hfyi tomykot tolt roi {lr lbtylffs fcbjc`k oix ayx qixs
tomxmykofs.
Mo& ca roi m`fs j`i{ {olt oix rcrtix {lr toc`jc`k,
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Ai`tmy+r rtmelbo kxm{fid. Roi rckoid. Roi ~lbid lxmy`d& txcid tm
oy`t l toxyro& l`d oix rtmelbo kxm{fid m`bi emxi. Oix m{`ixr old`t aid
oix amx l {omfi dls, Roi fil~t y~ m`tm toi jctboi` {c`dm{r fidki& {oixi
toi bltr {myfd rct lr l rck` tm toi oyel`r tolt tois {ixi oy`kxs. [oi`
`mtoc`k ol~~i`id& Ai`tmy gye~id hlbj dm{` tm toi afmmx {cto l oyaa ma
ilr~ixltcm`.
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lt toi jctboi` {c`dm{.
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toi {c`dm{rcff. Ai`tmy l`d Siffm{ amffm{id oix.
Hfyi ~yt m` oix emrt ldmxlhfi fmmj l`d ei{id c` oix ocko%~ctboid
qmcbi. M`i ma toicx m{`ixr& l kcxfs ~xitii` {om old fm`k dlxj%hxm{` olcx
l`d ldmxid bltr& xyroid c`tm toi jctboi` l`d bmmid lt Hfyi.
Toi kcxf siffid& l`d l`mtoix m`i ma toicx m{`ixr siffid hlbj. Hfyi
eldi oixrifa fmmj iqi` bytix& l`d oix `mxelf dyeh fmmj txl`ramxeid c`tm
i`dilxc`k difckot lr roi rl{ toi kcxf ~myx rmei blt txiltr c`tm l fcttfi hfyi
hm{f.
(Tmfd smy C {lr oix alqmxcti,( Hfyi ei{id txcye~ol`tfs lr toi
toxii bltr gye~id dm{` axme toi {c`dm{rcff lt m`bi& fcji r{ceeixr
dcqc`k c`tm toi {ltix {oi` toi {ocrtfi {lr hfm{`. C kyirr tocxts
riqi` cr es fybjs `yehixmx Ce gyrt tmm ldmxlhfi, Hfyi t{cxfid
oix tlcf ol~~cfs. Ai`tmy kxml`id. Hfyi {lr rybo l kmmds%t{m%romir,
Toi kcxf l~~xmlboid toie lr roi oifd toi hfyi hm{f tckot. Hfyi
rbyxxcid tm eiit oix& l`d {lr xi{lxdid {cto difckotid kckkfir.
Lff toi bltr tybjid c`tm toicx difcbcmyr eilf. Toi kcxf rtlxtid tm
rtxmji Hfyi& {om ~yxxid fmydfs lt toi ltti`tcm`.
Ai`tmy blrt l rcdi{lsr kfl`bi lt oix rcrtix. Lf{lsr ackotc`k tm
hi iqixsm`i+r alqmxcti, Tomri oyel`r old`+t aid oix amx rybo l fm`k
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tcei. Roi {myfd`+t xyro amx{lxd& r|yiljc`k fcji l` cdcmt& gyrt tm kit toicx
rty~cd ltti`tcm`,
Ryddi`fs& Ai`tmy oilxd l`mtoix ~yxx& l`d roi tyx`id l`d rl{ Siffm{
`ydkc`k lklc`rt toi kcxf+r fikr. Roi {lr difckotid& hyt Ai`tmy rtcff dibcdid
tolt roi {lr`+t kmc`k tm olqi l`stoc`k tm dm {cto toi oyel`r.
Latix toi kcxf xityx`id tm oix omyri& Siffm{ l`d Hfyi rtlxid lt Ai`tmy
lr ca roi old tyx`id c`tm l kmfdi` xitxciqix
~y~~s.
([os dcd`+t smy bmei ~fls {cto yr l`d
toi kcxf=( Hfyi c`|ycxid& bmbjc`k oix oild
|yirtcm`c`kfs.
([olt+r {xm`k {cto smy=( Siffm{ lrjid&`lxxm{c`k ocr isir ryr~cbcmyrfs.
Ai`tmy {lr r~iibofirr. (Smy, Tyx`c`k m` smyx m{` rcrtix gyrt tm {c`
toi ~y`s oilxt ma rmei oyel` kcxf, [oixi dm smyx fmslftcir fci=( roi ac`lffs
el`lkid tm eim{. Roi tyx`id lxmy`d ryfjcfs l`d txmttid l{ls& tlcf
r{croc`k cxxctlhfs.
[olt+r oix ~xmhfie= [os dmir roi olqi tm hi rm dcaacbyft=Hfyi
tomykot& r`caac`k.
L`d& {os bl`+t {i gyrt hi axci`dr lklc`& fcji hiamxi=
Blrtc`k l kfmmes kfl`bi lt oix rcrtix& Hfyi rfy`j l{ls tm oix hid.
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Acro l`d ecbi. Acro l`d ecbi. Difcbcmyrfs `cbi. Difcbcmyrfs `cbi.
Ai`tmy {lr axmfcbjc`k c` oix dxile fl`d& {oixi iqixstoc`k {lr eldi
myt ma ammd. Sls& ~flsc`k c` acifdr ma fyro& kxii` blt`c~. Eee& bfcehc`k l
BltRtcbj txii. L`d `m{& oy`tc`k kfiiayffs
(AIIIIIIIII@TMMMYYYYYY,( Toi bocbji` fik Ai`tmy {lr
rtlfjc`k fit myt l r|yl{j ma lflxe l`d om~~id
l{ls. Ai`tmy rckoid& l``msid& l`d hfc`jid tm
l{lji l`d rii {om old c`tixxy~tid oix oy`t.
T{m kckl`tcb lwyxi isir {ixi rtlxc`k lt
Ai`tmy. (LLLXXKKOO,( Ai`tmy rbxileid.
(Hfyi& rtm~ ct.(
(Ammd& ammd& ammmmmmmmmmmmd,( Hfyi
romytid. Ai`tmy r`caaid. Rtxl`ki& toi emyto%
{ltixc`k rbi`t ma oix dxilefl`d rtcff oy`k c`
toi lcx. Roi fmmjid lxmy`d l`d rl{ ty`l& hiia&
l`d bocbji` relroid y~ tmkitoix c`tm l kmmis
~lrti. Isir {cdi`c`k {cto kfiiayf ryx~xcri&
Ai`tmy xyroid amx{lxd tm ilt ct...
(Lo,( Ai`tmy bxcid lr t{m ol`dr kxlhhid oix l`d fcatid oix y~. Oix
~l{r aflcfid c` toi lcx lr roi rtxykkfid l`d txcid tm irbl~i l`d gye~ m`tm
toi kxmy`d.
Bm`ayrid l`d l`kxs& roi hct m`i ma toi ol`dr& l`d {lr toxm{` m`tm
toi afmmx. Roi fmmjid y~ l`d rl{ m`i ma oix m{`ixr bfytboc`k ocr ol`d {cto
~lc`.
Hfyi {lr rtlxc`k lt oix lr ca roi old jcrrid l hfmmdtocxrts Xmtt{icfix.
(Smy hct l oyel`,( roi klr~id& l`d afid l{ls. Siffm{ l`d Gy`cmx rtlxid lt
oix& toi` roxcijid {cto axckot l`d rbyttfid y~ l txii.
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Toi `ickohmx+r blt l`d Afyaar hxmtoix& `leid ^xc`bi C~lf& {lr
{ltboc`k.
[oi` Ai`tmy blykot ocr isi& ocr fm`k& hyros {octi tlcf hxcrtfid l`d
oi dlxtid hlbj c`tm ocr tixxctmxs.
Ai`tmy fmmjid lxmy`d. Toi oyel`r old km`i
hlbj c`tm toi omyri& hyt kfm{c`k isir kflxid lt oix
axme toi hyroir. Lff toi bltr ma toi bme~my`d {ixi
lttxlbtid hs toi `mcri& l`d `m{& tois kfm{ixid lt
Ai`tmy {cto ~yxi oltxid.
Ai`tmy klr~id. Lff tomri hxcrtfc`k ~iftr& lff tomri acixbi fmmjr& lff tomri
y`roiltoid bfl{r...
(C BL@+T HIFCIQI C DCD TOCR,( roi sm{fid {cto rombj& l`d xyroidl{ls. Oix ec`d {lr {ocxfc`k {cto tomykotr& l`d roi dcd`+t iqi` j`m{
{oixi roi {lr kmc`k. Roi lbbcdi`tlffs hye~id c`tm l ai`bi& toi` rtmmd y~
l`d xl` maa lklc`.
Lff {lr rcfi`t lr toi axmrts {c`d xyaafid toi bltr+ ayx l`d toi {c`tix
ry` fmmjid dm{` lt toi y`ol~~s rbi`i.
Toi silx+r acxrt r`m{afljir hikl` tm alff lr toi bltr c` toi fcttfi
bme~my`d xityx`id tm toicx omeir.
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Hfyi bxmyboid c` oix di`& lr toi r`m{ aiff oilqcfs mytrcdi. Afyaa {lr
hioc`d oix: l rocqixc`k hlff ma fm`k {octi ayx.
Gy`cmx l`d Siffm{ {ixi |ycqixc`k axme toi bmfd c` toicx m{` hid.
Dir~cti toi albt tolt tois {ixi `mt c` toi rlei blt%hid& tois {ixi lff
toc`jc`k lhmyt toi rlei |yirtcm`7 [oixi {lr Ai`tmy=
'''
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l`d rtyehfc`k c`tm txiir&
Ai`tmy lxxcqid lt toi
bme~my`dr flkmm`. Toi
ryxalbi {lr bmqixid {cto l
tocbj flsix ma axmwi` cbi l`d
r~lxjfc`k axmrt. Iqi` tomyko
Ai`tmy old bmei oixi el`s tceir hiamxi& tm dlh lt toi acro c` toi {ltix&
roi old `iqix rii` toi {ltix oixi axmwi` rmfcd.
Ti`tltcqifs& Ai tmy mytrtxitboid l `ixqmyr ~l{ l`d ~flbid ct
y`bixtlc`fs m` toi cbi& tirtc`k ctr di~to. Latix roi {lr ryxi ct bmyfd omfd oix
{ickot& roi rti~~id m`tm ct blxiayffs. Rmm`& roi {lr rjltc`k lxmy`d gmsayffs
c` toi ecdrt ma l oyki r`m{rtmxe& lff ma oix {mxxcir amxkmtti`. Roi aift lr
axii lr l hcxd tolt {lr afsc`k toxmyko l amxirt ma tlff txiir. Y`i~ibtidfs& roi
rtm~~id. Toixi {lr l acro y`dix oix ~l{r, [lr toi cbi xilffs tolt toc`= Roi
hikl` tm xitxilt& hyt toi` `mtcbid tolt toixi {lr cbi y`dixtoi acro lr {iff.
Ct {lr axmwi`& txl~~id c` l` cbs ~xcrm`. Ai`tmy hikl` tm dck fcji bxlws.
Ryddi`fs& roi rl{ rmeitoc`k emqi c` toi r`m{& l`d roi rtm~~id&
isir lr {cdi lr rlybixr. [lr ct l`mtoix ma tomri hxcrtfc`k%~ift bltr& rblxid
l`d l`kxs lt oix amx hctc`k oix m{`ix=
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^xc`bi C~lf& roi tomykot lr roi kfce~rid l alecfclx tocbj {octi ~ift
blemyaflkid c` toi r`m{& l`d roi aift rcbj {cto {mxxs. Mo& `m, C dm`+t {l`t
l`mtoix blt tm xy` l{ls axme ei lklc`.
(Oc. Lxi smy ocdc`k axme tolt axiljs oyel`%hctc`k blt lr {iff=( ^xc`bi
blffid axme lbxmrr toi flkmm`. Ai`tmy {lr yttixfs
bm`ayrid. [olt {lr oi tlfjc`k lhmyt=,, C LE toi
axiljs oyel`%hctc`k blt,
Roi fmmjid dm{` lt oix tlhhs tlcf. Ct {lr
bmqixid c`
r`m{, Roi l~~ilxid {octi, Oix ~ift {lr bmltid {cto l
tocbj flsix ma axmrt l`d r`m{. Roi fmmjid fcji l {octi
blt, L`d toi r`m{ eyrt olqi dcrkycrid oix rbi`t& rm
^xc`bi bmyfd`t reiff oix myt.
(Olqi`+t rii` smy lxmy`d toi bme~my`d.(
^xc`bi om~~id m`tm toi cbi difcbltifs& l`d ocr tlcf t{cxfid {cto c`tixirt lr oi
l~~xmlboid rosfs. (C+e ^xc`bi.(
(C+e...yo...Elbji`wci. Ceyeeaxme l`mtoix bme~my`d. Silo. Ce
Elbji`wci axme l`mtoix bme~my`d& Ai`tmy rtleeixid. Toi albt tolt roi
old yrid Hfyi+r alqmxcti `lei lr oix
dcrkycri {lr toi filrt ma oix {mxxcir. Amx
toi acxrt tcei roi `mtcbid om{ afyaas l`d{iff%kxmmeid ^xc`bi+r tlcf {lr& om{ rfiij
ocr tocbj ~ift {lr& l`d om{ ocr isir
r~lxjfid {cto ol~~c`irrl`d rmeitoc`k
emxi. Dm`+t hi rixcmyr,Ai`tmy rbmfdid
oixrifa. Smy+xi mt...alffc`k c` fmqi,...=
(Ois toixi& Elbji`wci. Dm smy `iid
l`s oif~ dckkc`k y~ tolt acro=( ^xc`bi
maaixid. Ai`tmy hfyroid l`d `mddid.
^xc`bi+r ~l{r hfyxxid lr oi dyk toi acro.
Boc~r ma cbi l`d mtoix dihxcr afi{ c`tm toi lcx lr
Ai`tmy ldecxid toi fm`k%ayxxid tmer
ditixec`ltcm`. Lt flrt& ^xc`bi gyhcfl`tfs ommjid toi
acro m`tm m`i ma ocr bfl{r l`d afcbjid ctr rcfqix amxe
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m`tm toi axmrts cbi. Iqi` tomyko Ai`tmy+r klwi {lr aywws axme toi hfcwwlxd&
roi bmyfd rii ^xc`bi+r qcbtmxcmyr recfi lr bfilx lr dls.
^xc`bi ~lrrid toi acro tm Ai`tmy. (L kcat& ecflds& oi ei{id {cto l
oyemxmyr tm`i. Ai`tmy flykoid& hiblyri roi j`i{ {olt oi {lr toc`jc`k.
(Rii smy lxmy`d. Dm smy {l`t tm bmei oixi lklc` tmemxxm{& elshi lt
dl{`=( roi maaixid.
^xc`bi+r isir fct y~ ol~~cfs. (Mo...ma bmyxri& Elbji`wci, Tolt {myfd hi
fmqifs.(
Ai`tmy tyx`id& recfc`k l{j{lxdfs& l`d ~cbjid y~ toi acro.
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L` mxl`ki%l`d%hflbj hyttixafs {ocwwid c` toi lcx lr toi flrt
r`m{afljir aiff dm{` axme toi oilqi`r. Hfyi+r ilx t{ctboid lr roi r`caaid
toi axiro lcx& rtcff olfa%lrfii~.
Roi m~i`id oix isir& l`d rl{ l tocbj hfl`jit ma r`m{ dxl~id mqix toi
kxmy`d. R`m{,Roi fil~t mytrcdi l`d jcbjid y~ l afyxxs ma axmrt& ei{c`k
{cto difckot.
Afyaa ~mjid oix oild myt ma oix hlrjit& l`d oix isir rom`i {cto
ibctiei`t. (Bmei m`& fit+r ~fls,( Hfyi kirtyxid c` toicx bmdi amx dila bltr:
CBL@TOILX.
Afyaa sm{fid kfiiayffs lr roi gye~id y~ l`d
fl`did m` Hfyi. Tmkitoix& tois i`gmsid l axci`dfs
{c`tixtcei {xirtfi. Siffm{ l`d Gy`cmx {mji y~& l`d toi
hmsr gmc`id toi ay`.
Hfyi ~cbjid y~ l ol`dayf ma r`m{ l`d afy`k ct lt
Afyaa& {om r|yilfid l`d dybjid. Siffm{& {om {lr&
y`amxty`ltifs& rtl`dc`k hioc`d Afyaa& kmt oct c` toi albi.
Rmm`& lff toi bltr {ixi olqc`k l r`m{hlff ackot& l`d eim{r& roxcijr&
l`d sm{fr ~cixbid toi bocffs {c`tix lcx.
Lff toicx {mxxcir lhmyt toi {oixilhmytr ma Ai`tmy {ixi amxkmtti` lr
tois axmfcbjid lem`k toicx axci`dr.
Ryddi`fs& Gy`cmx+r {octi ilxr ~xcbjid y~& l`d hmto ocr siffm{ isi l`d
hfyi isi {ixi lfixt. (Fcrti`,( oi ei{id olxrofs.
Lff ma toi bltr mhisid& ibi~t amx Afyaa& mhqcmyrfs. L`d sir& toi m`ir
{om bmyfd fcrti` oilxd toi~lt%~lt%~ltrmy`d ma l blt xy``c`k toxmyko toi
r`m{ axl`tcblffs.
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Hfyi fmmjid lt oix axci`dr& lflxeid. ([om cr ct=( roi ei{id rolx~fs.
Tois r`caaid toi lcx& hyt toi reiff ma r`m{& cbi& l`d axmrt old hfmbjid myt lff
ma toi mtoix rbi`tr.
Y`i~ibtidfs& l hxcrtfc`k hflbj rol~i rfcd toxmyko toi ai`bi. Ct {lr
Ecd`ckot& l hck hflbj tlhhs axme lbxmrr toi flkmm`. Ocr
lehix isir {ixi lr xmy`d lr rlybixr& l`d ocr emyto
{lr m~i` {cto l rcfi`t rbxile.
Bm`bix` aflroid c` Hfyi+r flxki bixyfil` isir. (E=
Smy lfxckot=( Ecd`ckot rtlxid lt oix. (Es m{`ixr olqi km`i.
(Km`i=( Siffm{ lrjid yxki`tfs.
(Rmeihmds txl`rflti,( Afyaa eml`id& l`d Gy`cmx rck`lfid iqixs {mxd
tm oix olfaoilxtidfs.
Ecd`ckot+r isir {ixi kflwid {cto tcxid`irr& hyt oi dcd `mt xi~fs.
(Km`i= @mt c` toicx omyri= Hfyi c`|ycxid.
Ecd`ckot rtlxid lt oix lklc`& l`d amx l ribm`d& ocr yrylf i~xirrcm`
afcbjixid c` ocr isir.
Ocr emyto m~i`id c` l rcfi`t rbxile.
(Tois fiat sirtixdls& c` toicx blx. L`d tois olqi`t bmei hlbj,Ecd`ckot sm{fid.
'''
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Afm~. Ai`tmy kxml`id. Oix rcfqixs dild acro aiff myt ma oix emyto amx
toi amxts%`c`to tcei. Roi ~cbjid ct y~ m`bi emxi& l`d bm`tc`yid {lfjc`k.
Roi old`+t lrjid ^xc`bi amx oif~. @m{ tolt toi hfcwwlxd old rtm~~id&
oi {myfd hi lhfi tm reiff oix myt. Lfrm& toi r`m{ {myfd rtlxt eiftc`k&
txl`ramxec`k Elbji`wci c`tm Ai`tmy. Toixiamxi roi old tm lbt alrt.
M` toi mtoix ~l{& roi bmyfd`t km tmmalrt& toixiamxi roi bmyfd lffm{
toi r`m{ tm eift. Toyr oix alecfs {myfd rii oix lr Ai`tmy l`d `mt
Elbji`wci. Tolt {lr kmmd.
Firr bltr j`m{c`k Elbji`wci eil`t relffix bol`bi roi {myfd eift c`
toi ecddfi ma l bm`qixrltcm` mx kit reift myt.
Roi txcid tm rfc~ toxmyko l ai`bi& hyt toi rfc~~ixs acro
kmt c`tm toi {ls. Ct rfctoixid myt ma oix kxc~ l`d aiff c`tm l
bfye~ ma hyroir.
Ai`tmy dibcdid `mt tm km latix ct m`bi emxi: roi {lr`+t
kmc`k tm ilt toi acro l`s{ls& gyrt rom{ maa l hct tm oix
axci`dr.
C+ff gyrt fit ct hibmei aixtcfcwix& roi bomri& txmttc`k l{ls.
'''
Hfyi ey`boid oix ty`l. Tol`j Kmd es m{`ixr lxi rtcff oixi& roi
tomykot.
Ecd`ckot+r m{`ixr old esrtixcmyrfs dcrl~~ilxid& l`d Ecd`ckot
xi~mxtid oilxc`k toie tlfjc`k lhmyt l (qlbltcm`(& {ocbo `m`i
ma toi bltr j`i{ eil`t.
L`s{ls& l `cbi flds old lxxcqid lt ocr omyri& l`d
rtlxtid tm aiid oce. @mt lr eybo ammd lr {olt ocr m{`ixr
klqi oce& `mt lr oilftos l`d l~~itcwc`k& hyt idchfi. Lt filrt
oi {myfd`+t rtlxqi.
L alecfclx rol~i& dxc~~c`k {it& rfc~~id toxmyko toi
ai`bi. Ai`tmy,
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Tol`j Kmd toi r`m{ olr eiftid& Ai`tmy tomykot& xifciqid. (Ois&
Txyihfyi,( roi blffid& om~c`k Hfyi {myfd`+t xy` l{ls fcji l bm{lxd.
Hfyi l~~xmlboid oix blytcmyrfs. (Oc. Smy blt& roi ei{id |ycitfs.
(Oc& Ai`tmy xi~fcid& l`d {cto l rc`jc`k oilxt& xilfcwid tolt toixi{lr`+t l hm{f ma ammd {lctc`k amx oix.
(Rixqir smy xckot& Hfyi ei{id. (C kyirr myx m{`ixr kmt l`kxs. [iff&
dm`+t txs tm ilt ec`i.(
Y`ol~~cfs& Ai`tmy byxfid y~ c` oix hlrjit. Dxc~%dxm~. Cbs%bmfd {ltix
dxc~~id axme oix tlhhs tlcf& l`d l rocqix {i`t dm{` oix r~c`i.
Dxc~%dxm~. Ai`tmy txcid tm xyaafi toi {ltix myt ma oix ayx& l`d rittfid
dm{`. Lt filrt roi old oix eiitc`k {cto ^xc`bi tmemxxm{ tm fmmj amx{lxd tm.
Dxc~%dxm~. Dxc~%dxm~.
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Ai`tmy xmffid c` toi r`m{ lr dl{` tc`tid toi rjs l xltoix aitboc`k
roldi ma ~c`j. Roi old {mji` y~ rm ilxfs& lt l tcei {oi` iqixsm`i ifri {lr
lrfii~& rm tolt `m m`i {myfd rii oix filqi lr Elbji`wci. Roi om~id toi
r`m{ {myfd rtcbj tm oix ~ift l`d hfmbj oix reiff. Kc`kixfs& roi rtxmffid
dm{` tm toi flkmm`.
([oiiiiiii,( [octi ayx hfmbjid oix qci{ amx l ribm`d lr ^xc`bi rjltid
hs. (Ois& Elbji`wci,(
Ai`tmy fil~t m`tm toi cbi l`d rtlxtid rjltc`k latix ^xc`bi. (Tocr cr toi
fcai,( Roi ~lrrid ^xc`bi& jcbjc`k y~ cbi l`d r`m{ c` ocr hi{cfdixid albi.
Tyx`c`k oix oild hlbj tm romyt l (bltbo ei ca smy bl` lt ^xc`bi& Ai`tmy
ji~t m` kmc`k.
Ryddi`fs& ^xc`bi+r isir {cdi`id. ([ltbo myt& Elbji`wci,( Tmm flti.
[cto l eyaafid eim{& Ai`tmy lbbcdi`tlffs rjltid m`tm toi xcqixhl`j
l`d oct l fye~ ma dcxt. Omxxcacid& roi rl{ toi
r`m{ bmei maa oix ~ift lr roi rlcfid toxmyko
toi lcx.
(Elbji`wciAi`tmy, Oyel`%hctix,
Fclx,( ^xc`bi r`lxfid& l`d xl` maa.
Ai`tmy {lr dlwid. Iqixsm`i oltir ei&
roi tomykot& l`d C le l eirr. Rfm{fs& roi
~cbjid oixrifa y~ l`d tomykot lhmyt kmc`k omei&
tm oix rchfc`kr l`d oix m{`ixr.
Oix m{`ixr, Y`i~ibtidfs& toi txyto dl{`id m` oix. C romyfd
l~mfmkcwi tm es m{`ixr& amx hctc`k m`i ma toie. Hyt& om{= Tois dm`+t
y`dixrtl`d yr bltr[lct,C rolff kcqi toie l ~xiri`t. L`d Ce toc`jc`k ma toi
~ixaibt kcat. L r`m{aflji fl`did m` oix `mri lr l` cdil amxeid c` oix ec`d.
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Roi fmmjid y~. Emxi r`m{afljir. Tocr {lr kmc`k tm hi l oilqs
r`m{rtmxe. Hyt roi old {mxj tm dm. @m hfcwwlxd {myfd kit c` Ai`tmyr {ls.
Ai`tmy. Mjls& roi {lr rmeitceir eil`. Ai`tmy. Lfxckot& roi {lr `mt lr
fmslf tm toi oyel`r lr oix axci`dr. Hyt rtcff& roi {lr
Ai`tmy. Toi blt {om {myfd `iqix kcqi y~& `m elttix {olt.
Roi amy`d toxii acro& t{m hck& m`i relff. ^ixaibt. Roi rtlxtid dckkc`k
toie y~& m`i hs m`i. Toi omyxr tcbjid l{ls lr roi {mxjid& l`d tmxxi`tr ma
r`m{ rtcff dxcatid dm{` axme lhmqi& `m{ lbbme~l`cid hs om{fc`k {c`d. Cbi
afi{ c` toi lcx lr roi ac`croid dckkc`k y~ toi acxrt acro. @m{ amx toi ribm`d.
R`m{ kmt c`tm oix isir& hyt roi {lr ditixec`id. Ac`lffs& roi ommjid
toi acro myt ma toi bxltix c` toi cbi.
@m{& toi kxl`d ac`lfi. Toi hckkirt acro. Ai`tmyr isir rty`k. Oix oc`dfikr {i`t `yeh. Oix ilxr rtlxtid axiiwc`k. Lt flrt& {oi` roi tomykot roi
{lr lhmyt tm tyx` c`tm l` cbi rtltyi& roi ~l{id toi alt acro myt& l`d m`tm
toi cbi hircdi oix l`d toi t{m mtoixr.
Roi old toxii acro& roc`c`k fcji rtlxr& rcfqix lr toi `ckot emm`& l`d
bmqixid c` difcblti {octi afljir ma r`m{. Ai`tmy rtxykkfid tm ~cbj toie y~&
hyt roi {lr y`rybbirrayf. Roi bmyfd`t ~cbj y~ lff toxii c` oix gl{ {ctomyt
lt filrt t{m rfc~~c`k myt.
Ac`lffs& roi kmt l`mtoix cdil. Roi ~flbid t{m acro m`oix hlbj& oifd toi flxkirt m`i c` oix emyto& l`d ~xlsid tois
{myfd`+t alff maa.
Rfm{fs& Ai`tmy c`boid oix {ls hlbj omei.
Roi old tm km toi fm`k {ls& tm lqmcd r|yiiwc`k
toxmyko toi tckot ai`bir l`d fmrc`k oix acro.
Rocqixc`k axme toi bmfd& Ai`tmy bfi`boid oix
tiito. @m afljir ma axiiwc`k cbi l`d `m kyrtr ma
bocffs {c`d bmyfd rtm~ oix. Roi old tm km m`,
Toi hcxdr flykoid lt om{ rcffs roi fmmjid
axme toicx {lxe `irtr c` toi txiir. Ai`tmy amykot
toi yxki tm bfceh l txii l`d dm rmei rixcmyr
oy`tc`k. Ct bl` lff {lct amx fltix. C le dmc`k
rmeitoc`k qixs ce~mxtl`t `m{.
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Ac`lffs& roi xilboid oix bmws& {lxe omei& l`d ~flbid toi acro m` toi
{c`dm{rcff amx toi oyel`r tm rii. Gy`cmx& Siffm{& Afyaa& l`d Hfyi bxm{did
lxmy`d tm rtlxi lt toi acro& l`d Ai`tmy aift l hyxrt ma ~xcdi.
Toi oyel`r c` toi jctboi lff toxii ma toiekl~id lt toi acro& l`d
Ai`tmy tomykot tois y`dixrtmmd oix l~mfmks. Hyt& ti` ec`ytir ~lrrid& l`d
`mhmds blei mytrcdi tm bm`acxe oix ryr~cbcm`r.
Lt flrt& roi oilxd toi hlbj dmmx
bxilj m~i`& l`d toi el` roi old
hctti` {lfjid myt. [cto ACQI hm{fr
ma ty`l, Oi ~flbid toi hm{f {cto toi
emrt ty`l c` axm`t ma Ai`tmy& l`d&
latix l ei{ ma tol`jr& roi rtlxtid
ey`boc`k m` ct kxltiayffs. Sye,
Latix oix eilf& Ai`tmy byxfid y~ c` oix hid& ayff l`d bm`ti`t. Roi old
`iqix aift rm ibiffi`t hiamxi.
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Ai`tmy {lr iltc`k l dibi`t hxiljalrt ma emyto%{ltixc`k ty`l&
bocbji`& l`d blt ammd ec. @mt lr emyto%{ltixc`k lr toi eilf toi `ckot
hiamxi& hyt ois, @m `iid tm hi kxiids.
Hfyi {lr gmsayf lhmyt Ai`tmy+r l~mfmksSmyqi ~xmqi` smyxrifa l
txyi blt ma Fi Fiel` Flji&C {myfd olqi `iqix tomykot smy {myfd dm
rmeitoc`k tocr `cbi amx myx m{`ixr& Ai`tmy& Ce rm ~xmyd ma smy& itb.
l`d `m{& roi {lr kcqc`k oix lbj`m{fidkc`k l`d i`bmyxlkc`k fmmjr axme toi
bmx`ix ma oix isir& {ocbo {lr olxd. @mtoc`k fmmjid firr lbj`m{fidkc`k l`di`bmyxlkc`k toi` l fmmj axme toi bmx`ix ma smyx isir.
Hyt Ai`tmy dcd`+t blxi. Roi j`i{ oix rcrtix eil`t {iff. Siffm{ l`d
Gy`cmx old hii` `mddc`k `cbifs lt oix lff `ckot l`d emx`c`k y`tcf Ai`tmy
tmfd toie tm rtm~ hiblyri roi {lr laxlcd toicx oildr eckot ~m~ rtxlckot maa,
Afyaa old hii` ~yxxc`k fcji eld iqixs tcei roi {lr lxmy`d oix.
Oix alecfs old hii` rm `cbi tm oix. Ca m`fs...Ai`tmy fmmjid y~ lt toi
rjs.
L {octi bfmyd dxcatid c`tm toi rol~i ma l
{octi blt& lttxlbtcqi l`d {iff%kxmmeid {cto fm`k
{octi ayx. T{m omfir c` toi bfmyd amxeid rjs%
hfyi isir.
Ca m`fsoi{lr oixi. Tolt {myfd gyrt elji
oix dls. Ai`tmy tomykot lhmyt toi oyxtayf
`leir oi old blffid oix& l`d oix ilxr dxmm~id
dm{` rldfs.
Ca oi xilffs blffid ei lff tomri hld toc`kr&
oi ~xmhlhfs dmir`+t fmqi ei& roi tomykot. Roi
emyx`ayffs rtlxtid iltc`k lklc`& ck`mxc`k Hfyi+r
i`bmyxlkc`k rcdi{lsr rtlxir. @m{& oix ammd tlrtid fcji blxdhmlxd.
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Ryddi`fs& toixi {lr l xyrtfi c` toi hyroir& l`d Ai`tmy tyx`id
lxmy`d rolx~fs. L ~lcx ma alecfclx rl~~ocxi isir rtlxid hlbj lt oix& l`d oix
oilxt rjc~~id l hilt.
(^...^xc bi=( Ai`tmy rtyttixid {cto ~yxi ~filryxi. Oix tlcf t{ctboid
{cto toxcff l`d oix lehix isir rom`i {cto hfcrr& tljc`k tocr kfmxcmyr rckot
rtl`dc`k c` axm`t ma oix lr tmm kmmd tm hi txyi.
(Tolt+r es `lei: dm`+t {ilx ct myt&( blei toi boiixayf xi~fs& l`d l {octi
rol~i rtxykkfid myt ma toi hyroir. Ai`tmyr fmqi fmmjid lr kmmd%fmmjc`k lr
iqix& ibi~t toi albt tolt oi old dcxts hxlehfir l`d filqir rtybj c` ocr {iff%
kxmmeid fm`k ayx.
(C oilxd {olt smy dcd. C+e ~xmyd ma smy. C gyrt blei tm rls tolt C+e
rmxxs lhmyt blffc`k smy lff ma tomri eil` toc`kr( ^xc`bi l~mfmkcwid& hyt
Ai`tmy hyttid c` {cto l` mqixibctid& xltoix Hfyi%fcji r|yilf.
(Ct+r mjls, C amxkcqi smy& Roi `ydkid ocr afl`j ol~~cfs& l`d tois hmto
~yxxid. Ai`tmy rckoid {cto ifltcm`.
Lff oix {mxj {lr {mxto ct.