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BEFORE “TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF.”

Larry Stybel

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GOALS

• Why this topic can help you kill your competition.

• Primary Research.• Secondary Research.• Brain Body Calisthenics.• Follow Up Techniques.

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Healthy Competition is Good;No Competition is Better.

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PRIMARY RESEARCH

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TURN THEIR RECRUITER INTO YOUR BEST FRIEND.

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• You know your client better than me. I may or may not get the job. I do not want to alienate them and make you think, “I’ll never present this person to another client of mine again!” What do I need to know to avoid touching third rails.

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“There are no third rails, but………”

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Two Types

Open Systems• Hospitals.• Universities.• Town Government.

Closed Systems (Dunkin’ Donuts)

• Everything Else!!!

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• I have one question. On a scale of zero to ten, what number would you give to the following question: “I would recommend this company as a place to work if asked by a friend.”

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WATCH their reaction!!!

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0-3: openly hostile.

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4-7: neutral

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8-10: Advocate

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Ask 4-6 Times

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Dunkin Donuts Primary Research

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• Write some ideas to yourself how you might operationalize these ideas in your next interview.

• Discuss with others.

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PRIVATE COMPANY

• Dnb.com• Lexis Nexis• News.google.com• Linkedin.com departures• Bbj.com

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Exercise: Glassdoor.com

• Southwestern Airlines and American Airlines are both in the commercial airline business; both are public companies; and both have headquarters in the Dallas-Ft. Worth region.

• Glassdoor.com• Utube.com

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Brain Body Calisthenics.

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Prof. Amy Cuddy, Harvard B School

• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc

• Measured stable states of cortisone and testosterone levels.

• Had males and females assume “power” positions for two minutes.

• Had males and females assume “low power” positions for two minutes.

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Larry in the Bathroom

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How to Kill Your Competition

• It starts before you walk into the interview room.

• It requires discipline.• Primary Research• Secondary Research• Brain Body Calisthenics

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• Want a copy of these slides?• Want an mp3 of this talk?• Want a link to “Platform for Success,” the

Stybel Peabody column on leadership in PSYCHOLOGY TODAY magazine?

• Give me your business cards.

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