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What is a…
Cross your arms…
Are Habits Good or Bad?
Are Habits Good or Bad?
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Habits
A habit is something
you do without thinking about it.
Which would make you EFFECTIVE?
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Effectiveness…
…is habitually doing SEVEN things that help you get great results over and over again.
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SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE TEENS
HABIT 1: BE PROACTIVE
HABIT 2: BEGIN WITH END IN MIND
HABIT 3:
PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST
Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 1: Be Proactive
¨ I AM THE FORCE.¨ I am a responsible person. ¨ I take initiative. ¨ I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods. ¨ I do not blame others for my wrong
actions. ¨ I do the right thing without being asked,
even when no one is looking.
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Proactive vs. Reactive
Can-Do People No-Can-Do People
Take initiative to Wait for something tomake it happen. happen to them.
Think about solutions Think about problems and options. and barriers.
Act. Are acted upon.
Where do you fall?
VeryReactive
VeryProactive
Can you CHOOSE to be more PROACTIVE?
“It sort of makes you stop and think, doesn’t it?”
Tool:
Event Do
Practice:
You have a group project but no one is doing anything…
You see people making fun of
someone
Your parents said you could not take the car out alone.
I’ll divide the project into smaller tasks and ask
each person which one they want to do
Event Do
I will be more proactive by…
This week…
Habit 2: Begin With the End in Mind
Habit 2: Begin With the End in Mind
¨CONTROL YOUR OWN DESTINY OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL.
¨ I plan ahead and set goals. ¨ I do things that have meaning and
make a difference. ¨ I look for ways to be a good citizen.
Some famous Mission Statements
¨ To organize the world's information and make it universally accessible and useful?¤Google
¨ Passionately committed to providing personal mobility for people around the world.¤Ford Motor Company
¨ To bring inspiration and innovation to every athlete in the world.¤Nike
THE GREAT DISCOVERY
¨ A Personal Mission Statement will help you put together the pieces of this puzzle by opening your eyes to what is important to you.
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Mission Statement, Part 1:Write your name in a circle. Out from the circle, write
words that describe you as you are NOW.
Zaheer
kind
athleticartistic
social
Mission Statement, Part 2:Next think about what kind of person you WANT to be.
Make a list.
I want to be a:1.Hard worker2.Intellectual expert3.Kind person4.Rich, have all the good things in life5.Well travelled
Mission Statement, Part 3:Use the two lists to write a mission statement. This is a sentence or paragraph about the person you want to be. Here are some examples:
My mission is to:
•Laugh and bring smiles to faces around me•Learn like a sponge•Be kind and warm the hearts of those I interact with•Be in the best shape and physical fitness•Have a meal in every country in the world.
How does saying “no” sometimes help you with “beginning with the end in
mind”?
What things do you have to say “no” to?
I will say ‘NO’ to…
This week…
Habit 3: Put first things first
Habit 3: Put first things first
¨WILL AND WON’T POWER.¨ I spend my time on things that are
most important. ¨This means I say no to things I know I
should not do. ¨ I set priorities, make a schedule, and
follow my plan. ¨ I am disciplined and organized.
Habit 3: Put first things first
ABC Prioritizer is a tool that helps you organize your time.
¨ A: ¤ Things that are Urgent and Important
¨ B: ¤ Things that are Important but not Urgent
¨ C: ¤ Things you could do if you had time after
doing all the A’s and B’s
ABC Prioritize the following list:
¨ Call your grandma; it’s her birthday today.¨ Watch a TV show.¨ Work on a project that’s due next week.¨ Babysit your little sister after school.¨ Go to a movie with a friend.¨ Play video games.¨ Do homework for tomorrow.¨ Practice for rehearsal on Friday.
Steps to Planning
1 Identify your big rocks.
2 Block out time for your big-rock activities.
3 Schedule everything else.
I will do the following 3 big rocks…
This week…