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GOD’S PROMISETO PROVIDE
B Y C H A R L E S F . S T A N L E Y
The Lord provides for our needs and evencares about our desires—but He won’t bless
a disobedient spirit.
EARLY LIGHT
This month’s devotions fromDr. Stanley’s sermons can help us
reflect on our indebtedness to God.
EXCEEDINGETIQUETTEB Y T O N Y A S T O N E M A N
Writing thank-you notes can be a tiring
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Rethinking the American Dream B Y J O A N B A L L
She traded the stability of a life focused onherself for the uncertainty of a life surrendered
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SOLVING PROBLEMS
Her Blessing B Y L A U R I E R U S S E L L
Jealousy made it onto God’s “Thou Shalt Not”short list. Here’s why.
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Daddy’s ShoesB Y B E T H F O R T U N E
When we grieve the loss of a loved one,material things left behind often hold
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Grateful for God’s GiversB Y A L L E N H A R R I S
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It Is Good To Give Thanks>>Thanksgiving Was an Important
Part of Israelite Culture
Every morning and evening, the Levites sacrificed
a thank offering to the Lord. This was to keep
the people’s focus on their true provider—God.
Psalm 92:1-2 tells us, “It is good to give thanks
to the L and to sing praises to Your name,
O Most High; to declare Your lovingkindness in
the morning and Your faithfulness by night.”
We would do well to imitate the Levites in this
way, giving thanks in the morning and evening.
When I think of what I am grateful for each day,
two things immediately come to mind: I am alive,
and I am saved. If I think of nothing else to be thankful for, I can always
praise God for these things.
But thanking the Lord goes far beyond appreciating what He gives us and
does for us. When we thank Him, we honor Him. A humble attitude of
gratefulness refocuses our attention on the
things that really matter in this life. When wehave this mindset, our gaze moves away from
self-centered anxiety to genuine contentment.
The apostle Paul knew this well. He writes,
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by
prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let
your requests be made known to God. And
the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts
and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:6-7). Thanking the Lord each dayrefreshes our relationship with Him and reinforces our faith.
So how do we express our thankfulness to God? By simply saying “Thank
You.” Prayers of appreciation are a blessing to our Father. “He who offers the
sacrifice of thanksgiving honors Me; and to him who orders his way aright I
shall show the salvation of God” (Ps. 50:23). We can also demonstrate gratitude
by singing, praising Him in public, giving generously, and living a godly life.
Even if you never get anything in return, you can honor God through
actions in your everyday life that demonstrate thankfulness for His incredible
generosity to you. In doing so, you will experience closer intimacy with Him.It’s my prayer that you emulate the Levites in this way—and receive the
blessing that comes from a grateful heart.
When we thank[God] . . . ourgaze moves awayfrom self-centeredanxiety to genuinecontentment.”
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Thanksgiving is a special opportunity to express
our gratitude to God for His provisions and
blessing throughout the year. But let me ask you
a question. Are there any needs in your life that
have not yet been met? Maybe after months of
looking for a job, you are still unemployed. Orcould it be that you are facing a lingering health
issue that is still unresolved? Perhaps you are
longing for a spouse, but the Lord has not yet
led you to that special person.
I often meet Christians who tell me they have
prayed about a certain matter, asking God to
provide for their need, but He hasn’t done it.
They are confused and wonder why the Lorddidn’t answer their prayer. After all, doesn’t He
say in Philippians 4:19, “My God will supply all
your needs”? If you find yourself in the same
situation, do you think the problem is with you
or with the Lord?
The ExpectationTo gain some understanding of this dilemma, let’s
consider the basis for our expectation that Godwill supply every necessity. First of all, we have His
promise, but its validity depends upon His ability
to fulfill it. Does the Lord have the power to pro-
vide for you? Yes, He does. Everything in heaven
and on earth belongs to Him (Ps. 50:10-12).
Since He is able to keep His promise, then
we have to ask another question. Does He have
the integrity and willingness to do what He said?Again, the answer is yes. He is always faithful
to His Word and wants to give us what we lack
(2 Cor. 9:10).
Therefore, since we have a God who is inter-
ested in every area of our lives and has the ability
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and willingness to fulfill His pledge, the
problem of our unmet needs must rest with
us. Let’s consider some common mistakes
we make.
Our MistakesSometimes we fail to distinguish between
needs and desires. First of all, I want to
clarify that having a desire is not necessar-
ily a sin; however, some things we want are
not really essential, and many times, they
may not be good for us. What gets us in
trouble is expecting God to supply things
we long for which are not necessities in
His eyes.
When I can’t tell the difference, I
surrender my desire to the Lord, asking
Him to show me if it’s important. Because
I don’t want anything outside of His will, I
ask Him to take away my longing if it is
not from Him. Whenever I do this, He
replaces it with something that is His will
for my life.However, some things we yearn for do
line up with God’s plans for us. Whenever
we want something that will contribute to
the development of a Christlike character,
He delights in giving it to us. That’s what
Psalm 37:4 is all about. “Delight yourself in
the L; and He will give you the desires
of your heart.” Our goal should always be
to take such delight in our relationship
with the Lord and in His plans for us that
we want only what pleases Him.
A second mistake we make is isolating
a scripture from its context. Many people
will claim the Lord’s promise of provision
in Philippians 4:19 but fail to take into
account the context of that verse. This
guarantee was given to believers in Philippiwho were actively involved in supporting
Paul and his ministry: “I am amply sup-
plied, having received from Epaphroditus
what you have sent, a fragrant aroma,
an acceptable sacrifice, well-pleasing to
God. And my God will supply all your
needs according to His riches in glory
in Christ Jesus” (vv. 18-19).
The principle of God’s faithfulness in
providing for those who give generously
is found throughout Scripture in both
the Old and New Testaments. Andaccording to verse 19, He’s going to meet
our needs “according to His riches in
glory in Christ Jesus.” We cannot afford
to overlook the context, because it gives
the background of the promise and reveals
that His resources come to us as a result
of our relationship with Christ.
God’s ConditionsLet’s look at the requirements that the
Lord has established as boundaries around
His promise to supply all our needs.
Obey. We cannot live in sin and disobedi-ence to almighty God and expect Him to
give us everything we request. Psalm 84:11
says, “No good thing does He withholdfrom those who walk uprightly.” Those who
walk uprightly are not sinless or perfect, but
rather, their hearts are bent toward the Lord,
and they want to please Him.
God assumes full responsibility for
meeting the needs of those who obey Him,
but sin blocks His blessings. He will not
support the sinful lifestyles of His children,
because that is not in their best interest
and will not bring Him glory. Sometimes
for their own good, He lets them do with-
out in order to bring them back to Himself
(Luke 15:11-24).
Ask. Be willing to ask God to supplywhat you lack. What is your first response
when an unexpected problem arises? Do you immediately bring it to the Lord, or
do you resort to worrying, maneuver-
ing, or trying to figure out how to handle
it yourself? We are told repeatedly in
the Scriptures to come to God with our
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shows that our attitude is one of humble
dependence and not prideful self-reliance.
Even if we have the resources to take care
of ourselves, we should still recognize that
everything we have comes from Him.
Believe. Jesus often spoke about askingwith faith: “Therefore I say to you, all
things for which you pray and ask, believe
that you have received them, and they will
be granted you” (Mark 11:24). Christ wants
us to be so confident in the Father’s prom-
ise to meet our needs that we count it
as already accomplished before we even
see the answer.However, I want to caution you about
trying to use this verse to get whatever you
desire from God by simply “having enough
faith.” Prayer must always be initiated with
pure motives, or it is worthless. James 4:3
says, “You ask and do not receive, because
you ask with wrong motives, so that you
may spend it on your pleasures.”
Also, the requests that we offer must
be in accordance with the Father’s will
(1 John 5:14-15). Remember what I said
about context. Never take one verse of
the Bible and try to make it say what you
want. Only by considering the whole
counsel of God can we gain an accurate
understanding of His promises. When
faith stands upon truth and works itselfout in obedience, then we have the full
assurance that He will grant our requests.
Participate. God is not going to doanything for you that He has equipped
you to do. Suppose I decided to trust the
Lord to provide a sermon for next Sunday,
but I put in no effort during the week to
study and pray. Do you think the Lord
would just drop a message into my head
on the following Sunday morning? No. He
has work for me to accomplish, and Heexpects me to do it.
Laziness does not merit any blessing
from God. If He has given you the capabil-
ity of earning a living, He expects you to
work. I am speaking not about those who
want to work and can’t find a job, but
about those who expect the Lord to supply
their income while they make no effort to
support themselves.
Wait. God not only knows what we need;He also knows when to give it. Some of
the things we’ve requested have already
been answered by the Lord and are simply
awaiting the ordained time for delivery. He
has every provision planned and settled in
heaven and is never late or early. He always
knows the best time to grant our petitions.
If you become impatient and try to rush
ahead of Him by doing things your own
way, you’ll miss all that He planned to give
you. According to Isaiah 64:4, He “acts
in behalf of the one who waits for Him.”
Although it may seem that He’s forgotten
you, if you keep trusting and waiting, He will
move heaven and earth to take care of you.
Accept. God’s way of meeting your needsmay not be what you envisioned or hoped.
Have you ever come to the Lord in prayer
with an urgent request and found yourself
telling Him exactly how He should inter-
“DELIGHT YOURSELF IN
THE LORD; AND HE WILL
GIVE YOU THE DESIRES
OF YOUR HEART.”
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vene? We must be open to whatever way He
chooses to provide. His path of intervention
may make no sense to us, but by trusting
in His omniscient perspective, we can often
look back with amazement at the wisdom
of His divine strategy (Isa. 55:8-9).
Prioritize. We must keep our eyes on theLord, not on our needs. The proper focus
is found in Matthew 6:33: “But seek first
His kingdom and His righteousness, and all
these things will be added to you.” Our top
priority in life is spiritual in nature—not
material or physical. If our main concern
is what we need, then we are not seekingthe kingdom of God. In fact, we can reverse
this divine order by trying to use God to
get what we desire instead of placing all our
requests under His authority, acknowledg-
ing His right to give or withhold.
Since the Lord’s priority in our lives is
spiritual, we can know with certainty that
He is working in the unseen realm evenwhen we don’t see anything changing
in our outward situation. Sometimes the
externals have to wait while He accom-
plishes internal work in us or others.
Although He is committed to meeting all
our needs, He always does so in a manner
that contributes to His ultimate goal of
transforming us into the image of His Son.
Remember, our greatest needs are not
the most obvious ones, but those that
have to do with the development of godly
character, selfless attitudes, renewed minds,
and surrendered wills. That’s what we
should be seeking and asking the Lord to
produce in us.
This Thanksgiving season, spend some
time thanking God for His less obviousblessings in your life. For example, even
though He may not have given financial
prosperity, He might have produced trust
and contentment within you. Instead
of healing physically, perhaps He taught
you that His grace is sufficient in your
Trust God to provide.
It’s sometimes easy toconfuse a want with a
need. Dr. Stanley’s four-CD set explainsthat the Lord always
supplies the believer’snecessities according to His purposes.
weakness. And through loneliness, maybe
He gave you the comfort of a closer rela-
tionship with Him. By focusing on the
Lord’s spiritual provisions, you will gain a
new understanding of His ways, and your
gratitude will overflow.
Questions for
Further StudySince the apostle Paul, through the inspiration
of the Holy Spirit, wrote the promise recorded in
Philippians 4:19, let’s examine his life and see if
he really believed the Lord would supply all his
needs. As you read, look for ways God providedwhen it seemed as if He wasn’t doing a very
good job of taking care of Paul.
1. Material Needs: Read Philippians 4:10-13.
What was Paul’s attitude toward seasons of
deprivation? How did he cope? What valuable
spiritual provision helped him endure (v. 13)?
2. Physical Needs: Read 2 Corinthians 12:7-10.
Describe Paul’s physical condition. Why
didn’t God do what he asked? What spiritual
provisions did He give instead? What was
Paul’s attitude about the Lord’s answer?
3. Emotional Needs: Read 2 Corinthians 1:8-11.
Describe Paul’s emotional state. What impor-
tant spiritual lesson did he learn (v. 10)? How
did others help him during his difficulty?
4. Relational Needs: Read 2 Timothy 4:9-18.
List the various needs Paul experienced at
the end of his life. What did the Lord do for
him when others failed him? Where was his
hope placed—on his present situation or
future blessings?
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SRemoving Self fromSelf-Righteousness>>Unmasking the Invisible Sin
Self-righteousness is one of the most difficult sins to recognize within ourselves,
because it disguises itself as obedience to Scripture and firm convictions about
the truth. That’s why Christians are particularly prone to its deceptive lure; after
all, we know right from wrong and have a genuine desire to obey the Lord. This
“invisible sin” is overcome only through exposure and repentance.
The Pharisees were glaring examples of self-righteousness. By examining
their lives, we can glean an understanding of the inner workings of this mani-
festation of pride that still entraps many believers today. Let’s strip off our
blinders and allow God’s Word to reveal any
false righteousness in us (Heb. 4:12-13).
Characteristics:uThe self-righteous are blind guides who lead
people astray. They are quick to point out
the sins of others but can’t see their own
(Luke 6:39-42).uTheir focus is on good behavior, not on a pure heart. They appear outwardly
righteous but are inwardly full of hypocrisy (Matt. 23:25-28).
Dangers:uThey reject God’s purpose for their lives by refusing to repent (Matt. 3:1-11;
Luke 7:29-30).uTheir hearts are far from
the Lord (Matt. 15:1-9).u
They will be judged by theirown standard (Luke 6:36-38).
Remedy:uAsk the Lord to search
your heart and reveal any
hidden self-righteousness
(Ps. 139:23-24).uConfess your arrogance
(1 Cor. 8:1-3).uIn repentance, humble
yourself (James 4:6-12).uPursue an intimate relation-
ship with Christ, not your own
righteousness (Phil. 3:3-16).uExtend grace, not judgment, to others (Rom. 14:1-13).
Self-righteousnessis overcome onlythrough exposureand repentance.”
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Questions for Reflection
1. Does your familiarity with Scripture or success
in obeying God lead you to compare yourselfwith others who are less knowledgeable or who
struggle with certain sins? If so, why do you
think you do this?
2. Are you more prone to find fault with others or
to extend mercy and grace? What does Christ
mean when He says that you will be judged by
the same measure that you use for others
(Luke 6:38)?
3. Are you reluctant to ask the Lord to examine
your heart? What do you fear He may find?
What are the benefits of bringing hidden areas
into the light?
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After that, I searched for ways to avoid
writing the dreaded notes. Wouldn’t a
simple phone call suffice? I could call
my friends while driving to work in themorning and leave messages on their voice
mail if they didn’t pick up. “Hey, Ruth.
Thanks for the . . . terrific gift. I really like
it. Okay, call you later. Bye.” I could send
e-mail. Draft one message and fill in the
blank for each different benefactor. Risky,
though: offended hostesses might forward
it to everyone in the family instead of
merely embarrassing me in front of a fewpeople. I could just not say thanks—a lot
of people do this. It’s implied, isn’t it? But
I remember my sister-in-law telling me
why she decided to withdraw her name
from the family Christmas gift swap—
nobody ever thanked her for her presents.
My husband adheres to tradition, so
we buy thank-you cards whenever we’rein a gift shop and keep a healthy supply
on hand. We send dozens of them out and
never know what their recipients make of
them. And I rarely receive any, even when
I spend a good amount on birthday gifts
for other people’s kids.
Still, I have come to appreciate the
importance of this tried-and-true display
of etiquette. I remember watching an
interview with Princess Diana in which shesaid that, as a child, she sat down to write
thank-you notes immediately after opening
her Christmas presents. That inspired me
to pack the cards when we travel during
the holidays, or leave them out on the
breakfast table the night before Christmas.
I think what discourages us from send-
ing these notes is that most of us don’t
know what to say. “Thanks for the blueand green sweater, Grandma,” sounds so
trite. And there’s the underlying feeling
of guilt—maybe we don’t even like the
sweater to begin with. But the point is, it
doesn’t really matter how eloquently you
state your gratitude. The simple act of
saying thanks is enough.
When we take a moment to express ourappreciation, we acknowledge the efforts
of other people who give generously when
they don’t have to. And this is no small
thing. When we do it, we bless the giver
in return. And sometimes that blessing
comes back and blesses us twofold.
When I got married, I had to write several hundred thank- you notes. The endeavor took me nearly six months. A year after the
wedding, my husband and I visited family friends for dinner, and our
hostess retrieved one of those notes to share with everyone present. She
read the simple message: “Thank you so much for the lovely . . .” and
paused where I had left a blank space to insert the appropriate gift. At
some point in the grueling process, I had begun churning out the notes
en masse and had neglected to run hers through the second phase.
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A friend recently shared an example of
this with me. She’d read an article urging
readers not to wait for a eulogy to sing
praises of the deceased. The author pointed
out the advantage of expressing gratitude
while there’s still time for the recipient tohear your appreciation.
“Miss Wetherell immediately came to
mind,” my friend told me. “My 12th grade
French teacher was ‘old school’ figuratively
and literally—her style was traditional and
authoritative, and she’d been teaching for
ages (my father had been her student). She
had high standards, both for her students
and for herself, and learn French we did!
I’m sure she wouldn’t have tolerated any
funny business in her classroom, but she
commanded so much respect that no one
ever even tried.
“Motivated by the article, I looked her
up and made the pleasant discovery that
she’d moved to the suburbs and lived
about three blocks from our new home.My call—thanking her for insisting on
and inspiring excellence—resulted in a
delightful visit, with many more to follow.
Over tea and her famous meringues, we’d
reminisce, share stories about our families,
and discuss something we discovered we
had in common: a love of Scripture. She
took me on tours of her garden, her sister’s
artwork, and her collection of antique and
international bells. And she invited me to
the senior center, where, at 90, she led an
exercise class in swinging Indian clubs.
“When I moved out of state, visits were
replaced by the occasional phone call, and
Charlotte remained a sharp conversation-
alist right up until her death at 102. The
African cowbell she gave me reminds meof that great lady—and how blessed I was
by saying ‘Thanks.’”
I’ve found the same thing to be true in
my life. About ten years ago a Bible study
leader encouraged our class to go beyond
the traditional thank-you notes for gifts
received and catalog our thankfulness
for everything. She gave each of us a
brown paper bag with the words “Bag-o-
Blessings” written on it. We were to keep
it for one year and then go through the
bag on Thanksgiving Day.When the following year rolled around,
my family delved into the bag and was
positively regaled with blessings: Thank
You, God, for sparing us in our car acci-
dent. Thank You for a healthy baby. Thank
You for a new job. Thank You for money to
replace appliances. Thank You for friendly
neighbors. Thank You for a wonderful eve-
ning with good friends. Thank You for my
favorite song on the radio. Thank You for
allowing my son to score a goal—he needed
that today. On and on the list went. By the
time we finished, I had no more words. My
tears told God how truly thankful I was.
But our next challenge was to put the
pen to paper and begin actively thanking
the people who had made a differencein our lives. In doing this, I discovered
a wonderful tradition called Boxing Day.
This public holiday is celebrated in the
United Kingdom and various other
countries on the day after Christmas.
It involves giving money or gifts to those
in service positions.
Have you ever left a present on yourgarbage cans to thank the guy who takes
away your rubbish every week? Ever drop
by the police station and thank the cops
for keeping you safe on the highways and
patrolling your neighborhood at night?
What about the custodian who vacuums
your office and cleans up the bathrooms?
Have you ever stopped to thank them?
Do it, and see what happens.In my years of writing these missives,
I’ve learned to really enjoy the process.
And as time goes by, more people come
to mind. I currently need to thank my
high-school English teacher. She taught
me to love Shakespeare. I need to thank
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a man named Larry Mason.
He saved my dad’s life
in Vietnam. Without
his selfless act, I
wouldn’t even
be here. I needto thank the
woman who
taught my chil-
dren to sail. I
can already tell
this activity is
going to be a huge
part of their lives.
When I stop to think
about it, I owe thank-you
notes to a lot of people.
It has been said that actions
speak louder than words, but sometimes
words are necessary. The right words are
an action in and of themselves. We see
this often in the Bible.
Paul routinely let those around himknow how much he appreciated them. He
told Timothy, “I thank God, whom I serve
with a clear conscience the way my fore-
fathers did, as I constantly remember you
in my prayers night and day” (2 Tim. 1:3).
David wanted to express appreciation
to the men of Jabesh-gilead who had
buried Saul. So he sent messengers saying,“Now may the L show lovingkindness
and truth to you; and I also will show this
goodness to you, because you have done
this thing,” (2 Sam. 2:6).
Boaz did not hesitate to thank Ruth
for working in his field: “May the L
reward your work, and your wages be full
from the L, the God of Israel, under
whose wings you have come to seek refuge”(Ruth 2:12).
Daniel thanked the Lord for enabling
him to interpret the king’s dream. “To You,
O God of my fathers, I give thanks and
praise, for You have given me wisdom
and power” (Dan. 2:23).
Even Jonah thanked the Lord from the
belly of the whale: “But I will sacrifice to
You with the voice of thanksgiving. That
which I have vowed I will pay. Salvation isfrom the L” (Jonah 2:9).
And Jesus certainly was not remiss in
thanking His Father: “So they removed the
stone. Then Jesus raised His eyes, and said,
‘Father, I thank You that You have heard
Me’” (John 11:41).
What we learn from these great stories
is that people did not merely thank theLord or others because it was polite or
socially expedient to do so. Gratitude
was an innate part of their lives. And we
see clearly in the Scriptures that humble
thankfulness yielded blessings. David
became a King. Boaz married a wife.
Daniel got promoted. Jonah was released
from the whale.
So how can we take a cue from ourbiblical ancestors? Establish a daily prac-
tice noticing the gifts and grace that you
receive. Set aside time to recall those
moments and your appreciation of whoever
is responsible for them. And, by all means,
take the time to write thank-you notes.
fEstablish a daily practicenoticing the gifts and grace that you receive.
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“But how did you know it was God?” I paused for a moment, wondering how
it was possible that another person who’d
been a Christian since childhood could be
asking me, a former atheist, about hearingand following the leading of the Holy Spirit.
“Well,” I said, “I knew and I didn’t know . . . ”
This certainly wasn’t the first time
I’d found myself sitting in a coffee shop
describing the haphazard journey my
husband and I had embarked upon in the
years since my unanticipated conversion
to Christianity. Still, it was hard for me to
understand why so many Christians were
surprised and fascinated by our decision to
sell our home, leave our careers, and pur-
sue this uncertain path in the heart of our
prime earning years. Granted, our radical
change of lifestyle was out of step with
the arc of the American Dream we’d been
successfully traveling, but when amazing
grace blew in unexpectedly, it rocked ourworld and changed everything.
Despite my rather abrupt conversion to
Christianity in 2003 at the age of 37, the
change of life that followed didn’t happen all
at once. I’m not sure how eager I would’ve
been, had I known what taking one obedient
step after another would result in: a major
transition from the stability of a life lived
for myself to the uncertainty of a life sur-
rendered to Jesus. Thankfully, I was spared
knowing the end from the beginning, as Godlaid out His plan in bite-sized pieces—one
challenge or sacrifice at a time. And then,
we woke up seven years later with a new life
we’d never dreamed of having.
Sometimes, the changes we were
prompted to make in the weeks, months,
and years that followed my conversion
appeared to make sense. Walking away
from a hard-earned 15-year career in public
relations (something I never thought I’d do)
coincided with my teenage son developing
serious health issues. If God was really
behind such a huge lifestyle change, I could
see the wisdom in it; considering that He
was up to something important behind the
scenes made it easier to pull the trigger.
But there were other times, when fol-lowing the Holy Spirit seemed to make
no practical sense. Like when I woke up
in the middle of the night and told my
husband that we were supposed to sell
our 4,000-square foot dream home with
no idea why (or where we’d move). Only
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by faith
because Martin was so convinced that my
conversion of faith and these subsequent
promptings to make changes were real was
he willing to go with it. A few years later,
we were similarly compelled to open the
doors of our home and sell everything wedidn’t truly need. We ran ads, posted flyers,
and watched while strangers—from soon-
to-be-married couples to empty-nesters—
snatched up and made offers on furniture,art, jewelry, and other cherished treasures.
At the time, it just seemed nuts. Yet later,
we eventually saw that these experiences
were exercises in letting go and recognizing
that everything we owned was a gift rather
than a right.
Hence, my friend’s question in the cafe.
Howdid
we know it was God? Why woulda reasonable, rational couple with three kids
choose to trade comfort for an unknown
future—with nothing more to go on than
an intangible but firm sense that it was
what He wanted us to do?
I can’t blame her or anyone else for
questioning our decisions. Before all this
happened, I’d scoffed at the suggestion that
Jesus be my Lord and Savior, not to men-tion that He was actually hearable. Sure, in
my early 30s, I’d traded the rabid atheism
of my 20s for the possibility that there might
be something out there. I’d even come
to believe that it might be to my benefit to
learn more about this “something” and its
potential to help me live a more sane life
in a program of recovery. But this “power-
greater-than-myself” certainly wasn’t going
to have a hand in my pocket—much less
decide where I lived! Yet then came my
unexpected, unsought, and supernaturalencounter with an unseen Father, Son,
and Holy Spirit, which radically changed
my faith in an instant. I was not only ready
to listen; I was desperate to know what it
meant to truly follow Him.
Aside from the Ten Commandments,
Christmas, and Easter, I had no context
whatsoever in the early days of my
journey for what it meant to follow
Jesus. All I knew was that I felt absolutely
compelled to read the Bible. Perhaps
“reading” is too tame a word. I was like a
castaway bellied up to a sumptuous buffet—
reading multiple translations side-by-side
and breaking down passages using dictionar-
ies to translate the original Hebrew, Greek,
and Aramaic text. I cut my spiritual teethon stories of ordinary men and women who
went beyond a Sunday-morning kind of
religious routine and put their lives on the
line to do whatever extraordinary thing they
were called to do on moment’s notice. Along
with Jesus Himself, these biblical heroes
were my first models for what it meant to
live a genuine life of faith, and their storiesprompted me to question everything. And
that included asking myself what success
might look like through the Savior’s eyes. It
seemed clear that I should find out what
it would mean to offer my life as a “living
sacrifice” (Rom. 12:1) in suburban New York
in the 21st century.
So I was confounded when I discussed
these stories with Christians who told methey felt a call on their lives but were wait-
ing for the time to be right, the money to
be there, or their kids to graduate from
college before they’d consider pursuing it.
That made no sense to me. If God was the
same yesterday, today, and forever
I was desperate to know
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(Heb. 13:8), why would He operate differ-
ently just because we had laptops and cell
phones? Why would the God who called
people out of the mundane and into the
extraordinary suddenly view our comfort
to be more important than building Hiskingdom? It didn’t add up.
I was eager to learn more, but when I
turned to the Christian community for help,
my questions multiplied. The more I con-
nected with spiritual leaders (I talked with
everyone I could) or read their writing, the
more I saw that “following Jesus” meant very
different things to different people within
the body of Christ. For some, social justice
and serving the poor were paramount.
Others stressed the importance of “family
values” and moral teachings. There were
those who felt it was about discovering one’s
unique purpose and embracing a calling;
still others said it was a matter of practicing
“spiritual gifts.” I was fascinated to find that,
according to the Bible, each group was“right,” at least in part.
So I kept reading, watching, and listening
to anything and everything I could get my
hands on. I was a sponge for any insight I
might glean from the faith experiences
of others—from the ancient patriarchs
to modern megachurch pastors. Digging
into Scripture, I prayed Proverbs 1:1-7,
asking God for “prudence, knowledge, and
discretion”; I requested that He help me
attain wisdom and discipline, equip me
to understand words of insight, and show
me how to discern what was “right, just,
and fair.”
That’s when the Holy Spirit began
nudging me with questions about my day-to-day life—and got deep into my business.
I began thinking about things like, How
much house is enough house? How much
money do I really need to spend on a car?
Are expensive music lessons for my child
top priority, or should I be factoring in the
family across town who badly needs food?
As I explored these questions, I could see
I’d stumbled into a supernatural treasure
hunt. No ten-step to-do list for living the
Christian life, particularly through my own
power, could replace surrender to realtransformation in the hands of the living
God. My prayers shifted from “help me,
give me” to asking that I be changed from
the inside out—that every desire would
be conformed to His desire (Rom. 12:2).
Instead of praying around my desired out-
come for things, I prayed for doors to open
and close however He wanted. That I’d feel
contentment only when I was pleasing Him
and be agitated when off-track. Slowly, I
began to welcome a “no” as much as a “yes.”
I began to understand and accept that He is
God and I am not, and that the “fear of God”
(which is “the beginning of wisdom”) is
about awe and worship, not fear of punish-
ment or condemnation. I prayed for faith
to trust that He would help me recognizeHis answers to these prayers—and for the
courage to follow with complete abandon.
And then I let go, choosing to follow the
Lord wherever He might take me.
Years later, I am living a different
“American Dream.” One in which who
I’m becoming means more to me than
where I’m living. One in which the peopleI’m impacting matter more than my title
or salary. One in which I’m fulfilled and
content, even in the face of disappointment
or difficulty—and know I’m loved even
when circumstances say otherwise.
So, how did I know it was God? At the
time, I both knew and didn’t know. But
now, I can say this: My life and my state of
mind are nothing like they once were. Andonly God can take away our most prized
dreams for our lives and replace them with
a reality infinitely better.
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solvingproblems
God was using me in my work and min-
istry, but I wanted to be part of that kind
of blessing.
The battle of emotions tugged and tore
at me. I didn’t like feeling this way. As
Tammy’s sister in Christ, I knew I should
be excited that God was using my friend
and happy to see His hand working in her
life. And I was . . . kind of.
I didn’t want to appear “unspiritual,”
so I pretended to be happy for her, boasting
about her performance to my husband. Butbeneath the façade, jealousy circulated
through me like poison, making its way to
my heart. I tried harder, praising her with
a fake smile that I hoped would neutralize
my emotions. Maybe if I faked it enough,
I could sincerely be happy for her.
n IN AMAZEMENT, I looked from my seat.Was that really Tammy? A few years ago,while visiting my family back home, Idecided to attend my old church in thecity. Up on stage, leading worship in front
of thousands of people, was my old friend.
How did she get there?
When we were younger, Tammy and
I were part of a coffee group that met
together twice a month. Back then, she
dreamed of leading worship and signing
record deals. As I watched her sing, it wasobvious that God was using her to do both.
One part of me wanted to celebrate and
praise God for allowing her to fulfill her
dreams. But another part of me, a darker
part, was less than excited. I found myself
wondering, Why not me?
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No such luck. The more I bragged about
her to my husband, the more I thought
about it. The more I thought about it, the
more it ate away at me. What was happen-
ing? Jealousy was destroying my joy.
JEALOUSY CRAVES STATUSI wasn’t jealous of Tammy’s stuff —her
clothes, her house, or even her talent. My
battle wasn’t a desire to be the one on the
stage leading worship. It was her blessing I wanted.
I was living out a modern day version of
Jacob and Esau. God had blessed my sister
in Christ with an incredible ministry, and
I wanted it. I wanted to be the one chosen
by God. I craved a glamorous calling that
met all of my specifications. Why was God
fulfilling Tammy’s personal requests and
not mine?After the service, I spoke with Tammy.
As we caught up with each other, I was
tempted to exaggerate what was going on
in my life and ministry. I felt the need to
“one up” her, to let her know I was doing
something special too.
Jealousy often seeks to self-gratify. And
in the process, someone else is diminished.
John the Baptist modeled how to respondto this temptation. His ministry was to
prepare the way for Christ. For a season,
he drew the largest crowds. However, when
Jesus began His ministry, life changed for
John and his disciples.
In John 3:26, John’s disciples expressed
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their concern for his drop in ratings. They
were upset that the people preferred to
be baptized by Jesus instead of John.
The faithful disciple could have fought
the shifting tide of popularity in order to
stay in the game. He could have yelledlouder or fasted from locusts to gain more
attention. But he understood his true pur-
pose. His job was to prepare the way for
the Messiah. He was not the Messiah, and
he knew when it was time to step back. So
to his fellow disciples, he replied, “He must
increase; but I must decrease” (John 3:30).
A covetous heart craves status and fights
to maintain it. John’s heart was committedto promoting God rather than himself. So
when the time came for him to step down,
he was able to humbly do so.
JEALOUSY DISTORTS REALITYAs Tammy led worship, I enjoyed the
music and sang along. However, I was just going through the motions. Instead
of focusing on God and His greatness, my
attention was on Tammy and her success.
I thought about her upbringing, school-
ing, and support system. It angered me.
It felt as if everything had been handed
to her with ease while I had continually
worked and waited.
These thoughts snowballed, and before
I knew it, I was a victim of circumstance—or
at least that’s how I perceived it. In reality,
none of this was true. Tammy worked hard
and gave her talent completely to the Lord,
and therefore He was able to use her.
James warns us, “But if you harbor bitter
envy and selfish ambition in your hearts,
do not boast about it or deny the truth.Such ‘wisdom’ does not come down from
heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the
devil” (3:14-15 ).
This “wisdom” of being a victim does
not come from God. The Enemy uses this
subtle tactic to provoke us to shift our
focus from the Lord to self. Envy skews
our vision, preventing us from seeing the
truth. But when I am honest enough to
focus on God and get my heart right with
Him, I see clearly the numerous ways He’s
blessed me and used me.
JEALOUSY STEALS JOYThe irony in this story is that, at time of
this incident, my husband and I were mis-
sionaries home on furlough. One of my
greatest joys as a missionary was watching
others follow Christ and serve Him with
their talent. This was Tammy. It baffledme that seeing her ministering in this way
triggered jealousy instead of joy.
Jealousy is one of those intruders that
can begin as a random thought and within
minutes spread to infect our minds and
hearts. If we stop it before it takes up
residence, we can win the battle. If not,
evicting this no-good trespasser will be very difficult. I know from experience.
Rather than delight in my friend’s success,
I harbored begrudging feelings, which grew
within me. What took only a moment to
begin required days to overcome.
I cringe as I write this—it’s not one of the
“missionary stories” I enjoy sharing with oth-
ers. However, it’s a struggle that continues to
re-emerge, so I must learn to how to fight it.
Proverbs 14:30 () warns, “A heart at
peace gives life to the body, but envy rots
the bones.” And unfortunately, it doesn’t
take much time for the “rotting” to begin.
To defeat the green-eyed monster, we
must go on the offensive and think positive,
praiseworthy thoughts. Philippians 4:8 ()
encourages us with this: “Finally, brothers,whatever is true, whatever is noble, what-
ever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is
lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything
is excellent or praiseworthy—think about
such things.” Paul’s prescription is the
perfect anti-venom.
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A pom b Nchoa Smara This poem by Nicholas Samaras reminds us that nothing rises to the measure of God’s glory.
Not even pious speech or reverent silence can adequately express or contain the fullness of
Him who is wholly other. In His great mercy, the infinite Lord makes Himself known to us,
receiving the lowly offering of all we are, good and bad mingled together. How else can we
say “thank You” but with our very selves?
Offering the Vast and the Mere
My Father in Heaven,and Lord Jesus Christ,
I have reviewed my whole life,every moment, every praise,
every mistake, every willful ignorance,every amnesiac forgetting.
All I can offer is the totality ofmy longish life to You, in gratitude.
All I can offer is the totality of myself,without the mereness of words, to You who arebeyond words and beyond silence.
You are beyond summation,further than description.
All language to You is mere.I am every human language that fails to fully express. All I can offer is my soul,cleansed of myself in death,
cleansed of my willful ignoranceby Your breathless compassion and mercy.
All I can offer—my breathsinging over my vocal chords.
All I can offer—my breath and visionupon this mere page.
N S is the author of Hands of the Saddlemaker —winner of the Yale Series of Younger Poets Award. His individualpoems have appeared in numerous publications.
reading tip If reading poetry
feels foreign to you, here’s a little
help: Try slowing down, read thepoem aloud a few times, and let
the words simply make impres-
sions on your heart and mind.
Eventually, as you reread, you’ll
find that layers of meaning you
didn’t notice before start coming
into focus. And don’t worry—a good
poem never means just one thing.
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My dad’s side of the closet wasfilled with shoes that reflected his love
of life. He had polished wingtips for walk-
ing the pavement of many cities, office
buildings, and textile plants at home and
around the world. The golf shoes came out
on weekends or any other day he could
sneak away to the course. If he wasn’t
playing golf on a Saturday, he could be
found wearing his mud-caked brogans
while working in his showy flowerbeds—
which were the envy of our neighborhood.
Docksiders were worn when the weather
was good for fishing, and hunting bootswere always dug out from under the pile
when deer season began. In his earlier
years, he also wore basketball high-tops,
cleats for baseball or softball, and boating
shoes for our many picnicking, skiing, and
tubing trips at the lake.
But then the call came. “Daddy went
to the doctor today, and they have found
a spot on his lung.” An awful weight bore
down upon me, and the room began to
spin. Everything around me felt different,
and I wondered if the earth had just rotated
off its axis.
In the months that followed, Dad’s side
of the closet stayed full and disheveled with
a dozen pairs of shoes, but some began to
collect dust. After his June diagnosis, the
effects of chemo kept him from going
on a much-anticipated hunting trip with his
buddies that fall, so the sportsman bootswere the first to fall into disuse. Although
he continued wearing his wingtips, they
no longer travelled pavements around the
world. As he grew weaker, they covered
only a small area of the parking lot where
he still worked—especially after a new sign
D ADDY S SHOESMementos of l i fe , and a g l impse beyond
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was added near the entrance: “Mr. King’s
Parking Spot.” Forever the optimist, Daddy
put on his brogans and tried to keep the
weeds out of his once pristine flowerbeds.
He even carried his golf shoes to the course
in an effort to play. But those, too, soonbegan collecting dust.
We eventually bought him a pair of slip-
pers to accommodate his new sedentary
lifestyle. He wore them as he shuffled
down the hall where, years before, he had
chased us as children.
And then, on a very ordinary day in
March, a hospital van drove through
our circular drive to deliver his new bed.Daddy no longer wore any of the shoes
that had been his companions through the
years. Now only thick socks kept his feet
warm as they were gently placed on small
white pillows the hospice nurse brought
to the house for his comfort.
The week before Daddy’s death, I sat by
his bed, cradling his feet, and thought ofthe scripture that reads, “How beaut-
iful are the feet of those who bring good
news” (Rom 10:15). I knew my father’s
feet were beautiful because whatever life
brought him, whether joy and happiness or
the pain and suffering he now endured, he
continued to share his testimony and
the good news of Jesus Christ
with family and friends.
My father had no need of
shoes the spring night he
died. He slipped peacefully
away from the voices
of his loved ones
whispering, “Daddy,
we love you” to
the sound of
Jesus saying, “Well done, good and faith-
ful servant ” (Matt. 25:21). No shoes were
needed as his feeble cancer-ridden frame
was replaced with a new glorified body.
The dust-collecting array of shoes in
his closet bore testimony to an active and vibrant man who lived his life well. As
I looked them over, a startling thought
occurred to me: They were just a temporal
covering for his journey here on earth. He
had reached his final destination—heaven.
And streets of gold require no shoes at all.
Daddy left behind his earthly possessions,
but more importantly, he left something I
can carry with me as I continue my journey.
He taught me as much in his dying as he
did in his living—especially, how to trust
God in all circumstances, even difficult
ones like cancer (Prov. 3:5-6). He also dem-
onstrated that only God can give us “peace
. . . which surpasses all comprehension”
(Phil. 4:7). And he showed me in a tangible
way that “to live is Christ and to die is gain”(Phil. 1:21). I look forward to the time when
I can walk hand in hand with him again. For
one day my shoes will also collect dust and
be left behind.
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GRATEFULFOR GOD’S GIVERS
Pau l c ra f t s the pe r f ec t thank -you no te .
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here’s an old story that goes some-
thing like this:
There was once a devout believer
whose home was endangered by
a flood. Let’s call him Tom. Early that
morning, Tom heard a radio announcerbroadcast an urgent message instructing
all residents to abandon their homes
and seek safer ground. Tom replied with
quiet confidence, “Leave? No, I’m going
to stay. God will take care of me.”
At noon the storm was raging, and
giant puddles had formed all over neighbor-
hood. The local sheriff drove his squad
car to Tom’s house, knocked on the door,
and offered to drive him to safety. Tom
replied, “No, I’m going to stay. God will
take care of me.”
By 3:00 p.m., rainwater had completely
covered the ground, and a strong current
was raging down the street. A neighbor
paddled by on a boat and pleaded with Tom
to come with him. Tom replied, “No, I’mgoing to stay. God will take care of me.”
As of 6:00 p.m., Tom’s house was all but
submerged. He had retreated to his roof,
where he sat watching the water rise even
higher. A search and rescue pilot spotted
Tom from his helicopter and swooped down
to get him. Tom shouted back, “No! I’m
going to stay! God will take care of me!”At 8:00 p.m., Tom drowned. When
he came face to face with the Lord, Tom
was shocked and heartbroken. He said,
“Lord, what happened? I lived in complete
confidence that You would take care of
me. Why didn’t You help me?”
The Lord replied, “I gave you a warning
on the radio, a car, a boat, and a helicopter!
Didn’t you recognize Me?”
MAKING SENSE OF GOD’S PROVISIONThis imaginary story demonstrates an
issue many believers struggle with: how
and when to accept the help of others.
Oftentimes, we seem perfectly willing to
bother our neighbors with every tiny favor
we can think of, from borrowing a cup of
sugar to sharing babysitting; however, we
aren’t as willing to trust our neighbors with
bigger, more significant needs.
It is almost as though there is a dividingline in our progression of needs. We’ll trust
a friend to make us dinner when we’re sick,
but if our car breaks down and needs a
$3,000 repair, that size request belongs to
God alone. No friends allowed!
The truth is, it sometimes seems as
though we simply don’t know how to
view God’s provision coming through our
friends. He provides the cup of sugar; He
provides the $3,000 gift a friend may give
for a car repair; He provides the helicopter
to save us from a flooded rooftop. He
provides all these needs, big and small.
And He often chooses to meet those needs
through other people. Why don’t we see
His hand in all of this provision? And, why
do we struggle to accept His help whenHe’s using someone else’s hands?
AN UNCOMFORTABLE EXCHANGEIf that question stings you a bit, if you think
you may have trouble receiving God’s help
through human hands, then take heart—
you’re in good company. Some scholars
believe that even the apostle Paul struggledwith how to respond to God’s provision
when it is offered as human help.
What we find tucked away at the end
of Philippians is a surprising inner conflict
as the apostle tries to conclude his letter
to one of his favorite churches. What is the
problem? His friends have given him a gift,
and He is trying to say thanks. Why in
the world does he have such a hard timewith that?
Paul enjoys a special relationship with
the Philippian church. They have stuck
with him during good times and bad. As
Paul writes this letter, he is experiencing
some hard times. He’s been imprisoned
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during his missionary journey, and his
Philippian friends have responded by
sending him a generous gift through their
messenger, Epaphroditus. One of Paul’s
chief reasons for writing this letter is to
thank them. However, he can’t seemto just say thanks.
If you read Philippians 4:10–19 with
this in mind, you’ll notice something
surprising. Paul actually gets caught
in a loop of essentially saying, “Thanks.
I don’t need it. Thanks. I don’t need it.”
He goes back and forth four times! First, he
thanks them, but then he tries to explain
that God’s provision was enough for Him.
Even Paul struggled with God bringing
comfort through other people!
THANKS, BUT I’M CONTENTIn verses 10–13, Paul offers his first
attempt at thanks by saying, “I rejoiced in
the Lord greatly, that now at last you have
revived your concern for me.” Even here,we can see Paul’s primary concern: He’s
thankful that they have been led to give, not
necessarily for the gift they sent .
It may seem rude that Paul doesn’t spe-
cifically thank them for whatever they sent,
but it represents a sensitive inner conflict
for the apostle. Throughout his life, he
refuses to accept payment for his ministry
work (although he believes churches have
a responsibility to pay ministers well). He
makes the decision for himself to earn
a living by a trade—making tents—and
provide his pastoral care at no expense.
Therefore, when presented with such a
large gift by the Philippians, it seems as
though he doesn’t know how to thank
them without setting an expectation forother churches to give him money.
So, Paul is quick to sidestep the
appearance of impropriety with a subtle
redirection: “Not that I speak from want,
for I have learned to be content in whatever
circumstances I am.” From there, Paul
presents one of the clearest, yet shortest,
lessons on contentment in the Bible.
For Paul, contentment is a way of life. It
is his declaration that he will never be mas-
tered by outward circumstances. Whether
he is in the loftiest palace or the lowliestdungeon, Paul’s contentment comes from
the Lord he serves. As such, no enemy can
steal it—and no friend can add to it.
Like many disciplines, contentment is
a spiritual reality with social consequences.
He genuinely appreciates the gift, and
he doesn’t want to be rude to his friends.
As such, Paul takes great care to express his
gratitude while still directing his real thanks
to God, thereby honoring his Philippian
partners and teaching them why his per-
sonal contentment never seems to ebb and
flow with outward circumstances.
THANKS, BUT IT’S BETTER FOR YOUWith the issue of contentment resolved,
Paul again thanks his friends in verse 14:“Nevertheless, you have done well to share
with me in my affliction.” He then makes
the bold claim that no other church has ever
cared for him as much as the Philippians.
But then again, starting in verse 17, Paul
interrupts his messag