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@Network4Good #nonprofit911

Dos and Don’ts of Acquiring Major Donors

Audio for this event will be available beginning at 1 pm ET

via your computer speakers or headphones

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How to Make a SUPER

Successful Call on a Major

Donor Prospect

Gail Perry MBA CFRE

firedupfundraising.com

twitter: @gailperrync [email protected]

© Gail Perry 2015

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Who Am I?

• 25+ years (yikes!)

• Blogger, coach, consultant

• Duke University and UNC-Chapel Hill fundraising

• Author, “Fired-Up Fundraising: Turn Board Passion

into Action” (Wiley)

• International speaker and workshop leader

• email: [email protected]

• facebook: firedupfundraising

• twitter: @gailperrync

• Hashtag for today #firedupFR

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Our Agenda

• How major gift strategy is different

• How to get in the door

• Your objectives for every major donor visit

• 10 tips for handling the visit itself.

• Power questions!

• My personal secrets and techniques that have

helped me raise hundreds of millions.

•#firedupFR

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A Question for You:

How much money do you think

is out there for your organization

BUT

You don’t have the time, resources or

organization to go out and get it?

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It’s a Very Specific Strategy

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5 Major Gift FundamentalsFive Major Gift Fundamentals

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Major Gift Fundamentals

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DO: Focus on the Long Run

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Major Gift Fundamentals

Don’t: It’s Not About Selling

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(That means it’s not really

about money!)

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Major Gift Fundamentals

DO: It’s About the Relationship

The Relationship is More Important Than the Ask

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Do You Kiss On

The First Date?

How fast can

you go with

donors without

turning them off?

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Major Gift Fundamentals

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DO: Take Your Time or You Will Insult

Your Donor

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DO: Tons of TLC and Personal

Attention!

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Major Gift Fundamentals

DO: Focusmon the FEW at the TOP

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You Can’t Chase

Everybody!

DO: narrow down your focus.

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Steps in Major Gift FundraisingDo: Go Thru the Process

THANK THANK THANK AGAIN

CULTIVATE ANDINVOLVE

ASK FOR SUPPORT

IDENTIFY

PROSPECTS

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Major Gift Fundraising TIME AND ENERGY INVOLVED

in each step of the cycle

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Question:

What is your biggest challenge in

raising major gifts?

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What’s Holding You Back From

Raising Big $$?

• Can’t get out of the office?

• Urgently need more funding?

• Not sure what to say or do?

• Don’t feel like you are prepared?

• Feel awkward?

• Feel unorganized?

• Nervous and maybe a tiny bit afraid?

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• Meet donor at an event.

• Board member introduces you.

• Call to ask for a visit.

• Call to say thank you.

• Call to invite them to an even.

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Getting the Appointment

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My Favorite Ways to Get In the Door

• Ask for help.

• Are we a fit for your interests?

• Can I run an idea by you?

• Ask about another donor or fundraising strategy.

• Touch base about a project.

• I’ll be in your area can I drop by?

• Ask your advice on something.

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Get To Know You As A Donor

DO: Use These Power Questions to

Get The Appointment

• “I’d love to hear why you chose to

give.

• “What inspired your gift?

• “Would you be willing to have coffee

with me, I’d love to understand your

story.

• “Mr. Jones, you’ve been a donor all

these years. My job is to know our

patrons . .

~Eli Jordfald, Senior Major Gifts Director, Lineberger

Cancer Center, UNC Chapel Hill

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Your Donor Actually May WANT to

See You!

• He really, urgently cares!

• He wants to change or save LIVES.

• He wants to make a difference in

the world.

• He has a family member or friend

with experience re your issue.

• He’s interested in you and your

issue.

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Don’t Say:

“I want to update you

on

what WE are up to.”

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Do: Listen for Clues on The Phone

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Smiling? Frowning? Complaining?

Happy?

Irascible?

Nice? Polite to You?

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1. Mindset

2. Research and Reconnaissance

3. Objectives

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Preparing For Your Visit!Do: Prepare for Your Visit!

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1. Mindset: The Intimidation Factor

Far, far away . .

high up on the

hill?

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DON’T Mindset:

Will This Attitude Change the World?

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Mindset:

Don’t Be Scared

of Rejection

Its a

Numbers Game

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asks

result in a gift

3 out of 4

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Don’t Be Scared of Rejection

It’s NOT About YOU!

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It’s About Your Donor and What He

Wants to Accomplish!

Tell me about your interest

in . . .

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Do: Keep

Your

Energy up

Contagious Enthusiasm!

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Mindset: The Power of Abundance!

Not Scarcity

Do Keep Your Expectations Positive!

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DO

Stand in the

Place of Vision

and Possibility. . .

That’s Where the

Power Is.

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Best Major Gift Fundraising Mindset:

Do Be Cheerfully Aggressive!

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5 Types of Do Your Reconnaissance!

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1. What Do We Know About the

Donor?

Who’s been in touch with the donor

recently?

Have they made a recent gift?

Attended anything lately?

Birthdays?

Kids? Honors?

Vacations?

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2. Do Research Online

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3. Local Networking

Do Be Out and About In Your

Community!

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4. Do Read the Paper

Do Your Research!

Be Well Read on Current

Events

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5. Hearsay: Do Listen to Local Word of

Mouth

Comments from friends and associates

useful, relevant, timely!

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“Boomer and older women are more likely to give to charity and give more than their male

counterparts . . .

when other factors affecting giving are taken

into consideration.””Women Give 2012”

Women’s Philanthropy Institute at the Center on Philanthropy at

Indiana University

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Don’t Forget Older Ladies #1 Donor Demographic

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Who’s Giving? The Ladies!

A study of affluent older adults

found that

for every $100 men gave,

the women in the same

economic circumstances

gave $258.”Women Give 2012”

Women’s Philanthropy Institute at the

Center on Philanthropy at

Indiana University

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Almost every visit with a prospect is a

“discovery” visit.

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Do Set Overall Objectives When You

Make a Visit

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3 Overall Objectives

#1. A long term FRIENDLY relationship.

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Overall Objectives

#2. Do Find out where the prospect

stands.Hot buttons?

Likes or dislikes your project?How far is he away from making a gift?

Timing? Interests?Competition?

Family or financial pressures?Level of interest in YOUR project?

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Overall Objectives

3. Do get a next step with your prospect.

Can you call her again? Do you have a reason to follow-up?

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The True Purpose of This Visit

is

To Get a Second Visit!

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So . . . You Are All Prepared:

1. Positive Mindset

2. Prepared with Background Research

and Recon

3. You Are Clear on Your Objectives

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And you

walk in the

door. . .

10 Tips for Handling the Visit Itself

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Tip #1: Do Charm

The Receptionist

• Be charming

• Make him a friend!

• Ask her for advice

• Ask her for info

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Tip #2: Do Launch

Immediate

SMALL TALK

Right when Ms. Big Says “Hello There!”

Very first step of every visit!

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First Impressions Count!

• Posture?

• Handshake?

• The hello kiss?

• Look ‘em in the eye.

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Tip #3: Do Show

Up As a Likeable

Person

• The delicate dance.

• Watch for cues.

• They will tell you.

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Tip #4 Do Use Your Radar

• Their body language will tell you more than any words.

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Tip #5: Get your

donor to do most

of the talking . . .

You are watching and reacting to the donor.

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Your Donor Expects to Do the

Talking

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I love being listened to!

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• You are probing

• Find out where the prospect stands

• Tell me more about . . .

What are your impressions?

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DO: Listen Your Way to the Gift

Gail’s major gift fundraising motto:

“When in doubt, shut up!”

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Advice Visits

• If you want money,

ask for advice.

• If you want advice, ask for money.

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Power Questions:

1. Do Ask for Advice

• Tell me what you think about. . .

• Please give me your guidance on . . .

• Can we brainstorm this idea?

• What should I do?

• How could I pull this off?

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Power Questions: 2. Do Probe Their Interest

• I’d love to hear about your philanthropy. . .

• What drives your philanthropy?

• What causes are you most passionate about?

• I’d love to know why you are interested in our cause?

• What are your top three philanthropic priorities?

• What would it take for our organization to become one of your priorities?

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Power Questions: 3. Do Ask Their Opinions

• What is your opinion of our organization?

• What do you think about this big project we are considering?

• Do you support our initiative? Why or why not?

• Tell me what you think about our strategy . . .

• How do you think we can accomplish this goal?

• Do you think we can raise the money?

• Who might be interested in supporting this?

• Who else should be involved?

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Advice Visits Work!

“Gail, we had a call scheduled with our top major

donor the very next day after your webinar.

Thanks to you, we changed our plan with him.

We threw out our presentation and instead asked for

his advice.

He committed to match $1.5 million over five years,

starting with 200k now!!

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Tip #6: Do follow social customs

and rules of business etiquette.

Be nice to everyone.

Be engaging.

Be cordial.

Be kind.

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Business Etiquette: Caters to Who Has The Most Power and

Influence

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Tip #7: You Don’t Need Fancy Materials Pssst: They are Really For the Volunteer!

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Tip #8: Drip by Drip Presentation

Share a little and

stop….

Share more and

stop.. …

Only proceed where

he is interested.

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Tip #9 Don’t Use PowerPoint

• Guaranteed to put them to sleep!

• Unless . . .they are actively engaged and asking questions.

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Tip #10 Do Get Out On Time

• Ask for a short appointment

• Get out on time

• Then they will be willing to see you again!

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Our Agenda

• How major gift strategy is different

• How to get in the door

• Your objectives for every major donor visit

• 10 tips for handling the visit itself.

• Power questions!

• My personal secrets and techniques that have

helped me raise hundreds of millions.

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How I Can Help You • Major Gift Coaching – next cohort starts in

January

• Friday Newsletter w/ Practical Tips

• INSIDERS: My Online Fundraising Training Program

• Capital Campaign Coaching

• Appeal Letter Makeovers

Just email me at [email protected]

or

go to www.firedupfundraising.com

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More Resources at FiredupFundraising.com

• Top 10 Things to Understand About How Fundraising Really Works Today

• 3 Important Goals for Every Major Donor Visit

• The Fundraiser’s Kiss of Death: Talking too Much!

• Top 10 Trends: How Major Donors are Changing & What to Do About It

• 5 Insanely Successful Ideas for Getting the Appointment With Your Major

Gift Prospect

• My #1 Secret to Raising Major Gifts

• Mastering the Soft Skills of Fundraising: 5 Important Tips

• The Advice Visit: Easy Way to Open The Door To Your Major Gift Prospect

• Show Me the Money: How To Move From Friendraising to Fundraising

• How Major Donors are Changing and What To Do About It

• Board Members’ #1 Job: How to Be a Personal Advocate for the Cause

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