domestic violence: it's all about power and control

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IF YOU NEED HELP National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233 National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673 National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline 1-866-331-9474 Domestic Violence It’s all about power and control USING INTIMIDATION Making her afraid by using looks, actions, gestures - smashing things - destroying her property - abusing pets - displaying weapons. USING EMOTIONAL ABUSE Putting her down - making her feel bad about herself - calling her names - making her think she’s crazy - playing mind games - humiliating her - making her feel guilty USING ISOLATION Controlling what she does, who she sees and talks to, what she reads, where she goes - limiting her outside involvement - using jealousy to justify actions. MINIMIZING, DENYING AND BLAMING Making light of the abuse and not taking her concerns about it seriously - saying the abuse didn’t happen - shifting responsibility for abusive behavior - saying she caused it. USING CHILDREN Making her feel guilty about the children - using the children to relay messages - using visitation to harass her - threatening to take the children away. USING MALE PRIVILEGE Treating her like a servant - making all the big decisions - acting like the “master of the castle” - being the one to define men’s and women’s roles. USING ECONOMIC ABUSE Preventing her from getting or keeping a job - making her ask for money - giving her an allowance -taking her money - not letting her know about or have access to family income. USING COERCION AND THREATS Making and/or carrying out threats to do something to hurt her - threatening to leave her, to commit suicide, to report her to welfare - making her drop charges - making her do illegal things. One in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime. --National Coalition Against Domestic Violence STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Get Involved. Save a life. LO VE SHOULDN’T HURT http://blog-web-content-marketing.com Check out our blog - Professional Blog Writing - Small Business Web Design Presented by Source: domesticviolence.org We feel that every small business should do everything possible to promote pubic awareness of the domestic violence problem. BLOG- WEB-CONTENT- Marketing .com Chances are that if you belong to a civic or professional organization, a church or simply go to work every day, there is someone around you who is currently experiencing or has experienced a violent relationship. Domestic Violence

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This infographic of domestic violence is a way of looking at the behaviors abusers use to get and keep control in their relationships. Battering is a choice. It is used to gain power and control over another person. Physical abuse is only one part of a system of abusive behaviors. Domestic violence prevention and awareness should be a priority for all states, communities and every citizen. Domestic violence is at epidemic levels in the United States, with surveys from the U. S. and Canada indicating that domestic violence occurs in 28% of all marriages. The experts feel this estimate is too low, since most domestic violence incidents are not reported. Until we stand up in one clear voice and tell our local, state and federal lawmakers that domestic violence will no longer be tolerated in a free society, it will continue and women will still be abused and murdered. We must stop accepting alcohol, stress, or drugs as justification for any man to commit violent acts against his partner. Chances are that if you belong to a civic or professional organization, a church or simply go to work every day, there is someone around you who is currently experiencing or has experienced a violent relationship.

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Page 1: Domestic violence: It's All About Power and Control

IF YOU NEED HELP

National Domestic Violence Hotline1-800-799-7233

National Sexual Assault Hotline1-800-656-4673

National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline1-866-331-9474

Domestic ViolenceIt’s all about

power and control

USINGINTIMIDATION

Making her afraid by using looks, actions, gestures - smashing things - destroying her property - abusing pets - displaying weapons.

USINGEMOTIONAL

ABUSE

Putting her down - making her feel badabout herself - calling her names - makingher think she’s crazy - playing mind games- humiliating her - making her feel guilty

USINGISOLATION

Controlling what she does, who she sees and talks to, what she reads,where she goes - limiting her outside involvement - using jealousy to justify actions.

MINIMIZING,DENYING

AND BLAMING

Making light of the abuse and not taking her concerns about it seriously- saying the abuse didn’t happen- shifting responsibility for abusive behavior- saying she caused it.

USINGCHILDREN

Making her feel guilty about the children - using the children to relay messages- using visitation to harass her- threatening to take the children away.

USINGMALE

PRIVILEGE

Treating her like a servant - making all the big decisions - acting like the “master of the castle” - being the one to definemen’s and women’s roles.

USINGECONOMIC

ABUSE

Preventing her from getting or keeping a job - making her ask for money- giving her an allowance -taking her money - not letting her know aboutor have access to family income.

USINGCOERCION

AND THREATS

Making and/or carrying out threats to do something to hurt her - threatening to leave her, to commit suicide, to report herto welfare - making her drop charges- making her do illegal things.

One in every four womenwill experience domestic violence

in her lifetime.--National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

STOPDOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Get Involved. Save a life. LO

VE SH

OULDN’T

HURT

http://blog-web-content-marketing.com

Check out our blog -Professional Blog Writing - Small Business Web Design

Presented by

Source: domesticviolence.org

We feel that every small business should do everything possible to promote pubic awareness of the domestic violence problem.

BLOG-WEB-CONTENT-Marketing .com

Chances are that if you belong to a civic or professional organization, a church or simply

go to work every day, there is someone around you who is currently experiencing or has

experienced a violent relationship.

DomesticViolence