developed by mara j. briere, ma cfle pending [email protected] work-life balance
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Opening Activity
Worksheet
Please put your name and address on the envelope inside the self-addressed and stamped envelope with my name and address! Pick a date for next week and write it where the stamp should go…
Objectives
Define termsIdentify issues related to balancing rolesExplore options for improving role effectivenessSelect one strategy to experiment withImplement and evaluate
Work-Life balance is…
The Association for Work/Life Progress (AWLP) defines work/life in the following way: “The term ‘work-life,’ in the broader sense, defines ‘policies, programs, services, and attitudes within a company that are specific to fostering the well-being of its employees through the effective management of work, family, and personal life.”
What is Work-Life Balance?
The Work & Family Connection has developed this definition. “Work-life is the practice of providing initiatives designed to create a more flexible, supportive work environment, enabling employees to focus on work tasks while at work.
It includes making the culture more supportive, adding programs to meet life event needs, ensuring that policies give employees as much control as possible over their lives, and using flexible work practices as a strategy to meet the dual agenda – the needs of both business and employees.”
Benefits to Employers
reduced staff turnover rates becoming a good employer or an
employer of choice increased return on investment in training
as employees stay longer reduced absenteeism and sick leave improved morale or satisfaction greater staff loyalty and commitment improved productivity
Spillover…
Work-family spillover is defined as the extent to which participation in work impacts participation in family (DeGenova, 2008, p.223).
Strengths from your family provides you with strengths in your work and vice versa (Steward & Olson cited in Appel & Kim-Appel, 2008, p.222).
How do you define your own work life balance?
What are your Values? What’s important to you? What makes you happy ? What did you write down earlier?
What are the Barriers? time, stress, dual career family, lack of support
from family, supervisor, peers
Work
Relationships
Self-Care
Work Life Triangle
Work ( what we do, careers, housework, chores, etc)
Relationships (personal, friendships, partners, spouses, children
Self-Care (spiritual, physical, intellectual, emotional, health, wellness, exercise)
Pros and Cons of Work & FamilyDeGenova (2008)
Work fulfillment & the family Work, stress & the family
Multiple roles can be beneficial for the overall health and well-being of families
Job stress affects family relationships, i.e. role strain otherwise called “role overload”
Parent has a sense of well-being & success
Difficult to attain family or work goals
Added income Employee well-being declines, including physical health
Social support Separation from family due to travel, long hours
Satisfying work yields positive outcomes for the family
Less cohesive marital & family relationships
Coping Strategies Positive Self-Talk Simplify your life Be self cognizant– schedule time for
yourself Plan Ahead / Prioritize
“If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” Write a mission statement / contract
(Covey handout ) Ask for WHAT you need… (from family,
work, friends etc) and Delegate!
Strategies Avoid “can’t” when you mean,
“won’t” Time manage Learn to say, “NO!” (You CAN say,
“I’ll get back to you & buy yourself time to think.)
You can also say “NO” by saying “Yes!” to something else. Be positive
Appreciate Use your slogan cards
More Coping Strategies Personalize your workspace
Eat nutritiously
Try something new
SLEEP – (8hrs/night)
BREATHE deeply and often
More thoughts… Look at your expectations. Are they
reasonable? Deal with problems as they appear. Let it GO! Make time for FUN! Develop & maintain supportive
relationships Stay healthy!
Avoid!!! Should
Ought
Must
Have to
Serenity PrayerGod,
Grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And the Wisdom to know the difference.
Serenity Prayer Grid
ACCEPTANCE Things I cannot change…
How can I accept the things I cannot change?
COURAGE Things I have control over…
The steps I can take are…
Give yourself permission and accept that…
Some things are out of my control Life happens… It’s not all or nothing We are not meant to be perfect
Be willing to be willing!
Live your life one day at a time. Make today the best day!
One thing I will do to improve my work life balance…
Today…
Tomorrow…
The next day…
Adaptive Strategies
1. Value family2. Strive for partnership, i.e. equality &
partnership including division of family labor including housework, child care, decision-making, respect, appreciation, interpersonal support.
3. Deriving meaning from work4. Maintaining work boundaries
More Adaptive Strategies
5. Focusing & producing at work6. Prioritizing family fun7. Taking pride in dual earning8. Living simply9. Making decisions proactively10. Valuing time
Adaptive Strategies (Haddock et al cited in DeGenova, 2008, p. 224)
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