Have to Choose to

“You will give the people of Earth an ideal to strive towards. They will race behind you, they will stumble, they will fall. But in time, they will join you in the sun, Kal. In time, you will help them accomplish wonders.”Jor-El

Have to Choose to

How do they make you feel?What is the impact on you?

How do they make you feel?What is the impact on you?

Have to Choose to

I choose to

Circle of controlAcceptance

Responsibility

They made me

Circle of influenceJudgement

Blame

Positive experienceNegative experience

OwnerVictim

Benefits of Victim1.Sympathy, Attention2.Avoid Responsibility, Excuses, Blame3.Protect My Image, Justify My Behaviour

Cost of a Victim1.No growth or learning2.Lose credibility, respect, confidence, trust3.No transformation results

In pairsWhere am I playing a victim? If I were to take ownership, what new choices, options, actions would be available

for me? What commitments will I

take to BE THE CHANGE?

When you change the way you see the world, you change the world you see.