david steele harville hendrix, ph.d. and helen lakelly hunt, ph.d. “conscious dating provides a...
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David Steele
David Steele
David Steele
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D.
“Conscious Dating provides a new concept for dating and insightful advice,effective exercises and useful illustrations that will help anyone who uses them make their journey to love successful. We recommend this book to anyone looking for love.”
“Radical Marriage provides clear ideas, easy to follow strategies, and a ‘radical’ new paradigm for creating the relationship of your dreams.”
Dating has Changed
Dating has Changed Fewer marriages-
51% of U.S. adults
Dating has Changed Fewer marriages-
51% of U.S. adults 44% believe marriage
obsolete
Dating has Changed Fewer marriages-
51% of U.S. adults 44% believe marriage
obsolete Cohabitation rate
+1200% in last 30 years
Dating has Changed Fewer marriages-
51% of U.S. adults 44% believe marriage
obsolete Cohabitation rate
+1200% in last 30 years
Cohabitation increases risk of failed marriage
Relationship successstarts when you’resingle
Problem:
Finding soulmate
feels like locating
needle in a haystack
Solution:
Radical Dating is like using an electromagnet.
Solution:
Radical Dating is like
using an
electromagnet…
It can happen very
quickly when you’re
clear about what you
want and how to get it.My story- From single to soulmate in 5 months: www.darleneanddavid.com
5 Principles of Radical Dating
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved Sabotages us when we
don’t believe it.
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved Sabotages us when we
don’t believe it.
We end up pleasing,
settling for less, or
giving up.
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved Sabotages us when we
don’t believe it.
We end up pleasing,
settling for less, or
giving up.
It’s self-fulfilling.
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved Sabotages us when we
don’t believe it.
We end up pleasing,
settling for less, or
giving up.
It’s self-fulfilling.
You must learn how to
love yourself.
5 Principles of Radical DatingPrinciple #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment
5 Principles of Radical Dating
What might interfere with commitment?
Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment
5 Principles of Radical Dating
What might interfere with commitment?
If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.
Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment
5 Principles of Radical Dating
What might interfere with commitment?
If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.
Recreational vs. Committed Dating
Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment
5 Principles of Radical Dating
What might interfere with commitment?
If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.
Recreational vs. Committed Dating
Role of the Law of Attraction
Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements
Needs – physical, functional and emotional
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements
Needs – physical, functional and emotional Boundaries and
Assertiveness
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements
Needs – physical, functional and emotional Boundaries and
Assertiveness Wants
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements
Needs – physical, functional and emotional Boundaries and
Assertiveness Wants Role of habits/patterns
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance You can’t hide in a
relationship
o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance You can’t hide in a
relationship Your authentic self is your
best attraction tool
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck If it’s scary, you’re doing it
right
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck If it’s scary, you’re doing it
right Yes, Yes, Hell No!
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck If it’s scary, you’re doing it
right Yes, Yes, Hell No! Real intimacy is scary and
exciting
5 Principles of Radical Dating
Principle #5: True Love
Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck If it’s scary, you’re doing it
right Yes, Yes, Hell No! Real intimacy is scary and
exciting Radical Dating
Radical Marriage
Strategies of Radical Dating
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Sorting
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Sorting
Screening
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Sorting
Screening
Testing
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Sorting
Screening
Testing
Screening In vs. Screening
Out
Strategies of Radical Dating
Getting into action:
Scouting
Sorting
Screening
Testing
Screening In vs. Screening
Out
You can achieve anything with the right support
Radical Dating
What’s Next?
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