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CONVERSATIONAL LANGUAGE Learning Target: I can have a comfortable, casual conversation

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CONVERSATIONAL LANGUAGE

Learning Target: I can have a comfortable,

casual conversation

CONVERSATION

Interactive and spontaneous

communication between 2 or more people

Natural give and take of topics

Most people find it pleasant and like the

company to pass time

CONVERSATION

Affects every other sort of behavior in which we

engage:• Personal relations• Efforts in the workplace• Initial impressions

ELEMENTS OF CONVERSATION

Discussion -- sharing opinions on subjects that are thought of

during the conversation. • The subject usually changes before discussion becomes

dispute

Subject – conversations based on their content (often a

combination)• Ideas• Objective facts• Other people (usually absent)• Conversations about oneself

Functions – conveys information to achieve a goal • Small talk • Banter

POLITE CONVERSATION

Conversations follow rules of

etiquette

Conversations are social interactions,

and depend on social convention

Failure to follow the rules ends the

conversation

Awkward turtle.

HOW TO MAKE POLITE CONVERSATION

Step 1: Think of a topic. What will you talk about

today? Every conversation has a subject, or topic.

Some of the popular conversation topics are;

music; opinions; "Have you ever...?" sentence

starters and topics; shopping; clothes; sports;

television and movies, school, celebrities.

HOW TO MAKE POLITE CONVERSATION

Step 2: Start off your conversation with something

interesting. • Ask a question• Be brave!

Step 3: Actively Listen• Give them your full attention• Don't let your eyes wander

HOW TO MAKE POLITE CONVERSATION

Step 4: Do not interrupt them. • Listen to what they have to say!• Don’t just think about what you want to say next• Listen to where the conversation is moving

Step 5: Answer in detail • Yes and no are boring and don’t promote conversation• Give your opinion on a subject and analysis and

evidence• We often avoid talking about ourselves, but the other

person WANTS to know

CONVERSATION STARTERS

Books

Movies

Television Shows

School, education

Travel

Family

Puppies

TOPICS TO AVOID

Politics

Religion

Money

Uncomfortable topics (dating)

Inappropriate Humor

AWKWARD SILENCE

Uncomfortable pause in a conversation or presentation

Associated with feelings of anxiety as the participants

feel pressure to speak but are unsure what to say next

Remedies: • Summarize what was said and thank them for their

contributions• Conversation pieces (artwork, music, etc.)• Ice breakers • How about them Bears? Nice weather, eh?• Puppies

LET’S TRY IT!

Brainstorm conversation topics

and/or questions to ask

Don’t just talk to your friends!

REFLECTION

You as the SPEAKER:

Name of the person(s) you conversed with:

Summary of the conversation: How did the conversation flow? Was it easy or difficult to

maintain conversation? What would you do differently? How

did the conversation end?