contamination of adult
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Contamination of Adult
Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar
School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala,India.Phone – 9744551114
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Contamination of Adult• The clear thinking of the Adult is
often spoiled by contamination.• Contamination can be thought of
as an intrusion of the Parent ego sate and / or the Child ego state into the boundary of the Adult ego state.
• Contamination occurs when the Adult accepts as true some unfounded Parent beliefs or Child distortions and rationalizes and justifies these attitudes.
I am in parent contamination when I
mistake parental slogans for adult reality.
These are taught beliefs that are taken as
facts. Berne call this prejudice. When a
person is speaking about herself and say
you instead of I, it is likely that the
content of what follows will be parent
contaminated.
• The world is a bad place.
• People cant be trusted.
• If at first you don’t succeed, try,
try, try again.
Parent Contamination
“ The difference between a conviction and
a prejudice is that you can explain a
conviction without getting angry.”
Samuel Butler
• Parental contaminations often
involve considerable emotions and
are likely to occur in relation to
specific subjects such as food,
religion, politics, race, class and
sex.
• At times, large segments of society
agree with prejudiced ideas.
• Contaminations often intrudes on
the laws of society.
Parent Contamination
• Take two minutes to write down all the
slogans and beliefs you remember hearing
from your parents and parental figures.
• Look through you list of parental slogans
and beliefs. Check whether each one is a
statement of reality or a parent
contamination.
• If you decide there are any you want to
update to fit with grown up reality, strike
them out and substitute your new version.
Activity
When I am child contaminated, I cloud my
grown up thinking with beliefs from my
childhood. These are fantasies, evoked by
feelings, that are taken as facts. Berne used the
word delusion to describe the kind of belief
that typically arise from child contamination.
When the content of a child contamination
comes from earlier childhood, the delusion is
likely to be more bizarre.
• People just don’t like me.
• There is something wrong with me.
• I cant stop smoking.
• I was born fat.
Child Contamination
• One for of child contamination is the
delusion of grandeur. In its extreme
form, a person may believe that she or
he is savior of the world or the ruler of
the world.
• Another common delusion is feeling
persecuted – being poisoned, spied
upon or plotted against.
• In its less sever forms, a person whose
Child contaminates the Adult has
distorted perceptions of realities.
Child Contamination
• Take a piece of paper and head it : “ I am the
sort of person who….”
• Take two minutes to write down all the ways
you think of to finish the sentence.
• At the end of two minutes, relax, breathe and
look around the room for a while.
• For each of the ways you finished the
sentence, check whether it is a statement
about reality or a child contamination.
• If you decide any of the statement about
yourself do come from child contamination,
think what the reality of the matter is. Strike
out the child contamination words and put in
the adult updates.
Activity
It occurs when the person replays a
parental slogan, agrees to it with a child
belief, and mistakes both of these for
reality.
• People cant be trusted
paired with
• I can never trust anyone.
• Children should be seen and
not heart
paired with
• To get by in the world, I have to
keep quit.
Double Contamination
Thank You
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