compliments, personal idioms, & gifts
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COMPLIMENTS, PERSONAL IDIOMS, & GIFTS. WHAT THINGS GET COMPLIM ENTED?. Performance Attire/Appearance Personality/Whole Person Possessions. COMPLIMENT FORM. DIRECT GENERAL NO COMPARISONS LITTLE LIKELIHOOD OF AMPLIFICATION. REPLIES TO COMPLIMENTS. RITUALISTIC/PLEASED ACCEPTANCE (53%) - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
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COMPLIMENTS, PERSONAL IDIOMS, & GIFTS
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WHAT THINGS GET COMPLIM ENTED?
Performance Attire/Appearance Personality/Whole Person Possessions
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COMPLIMENT FORM
DIRECT GENERAL NO COMPARISONS LITTLE LIKELIHOOD OF
AMPLIFICATION
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REPLIES TO COMPLIMENTS
RITUALISTIC/PLEASED ACCEPTANCE (53%)
ACCEPTANCE WITH AMENDMENT NOT ACKNOWLEDGED DENIAL
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WHO GIVES & GETS COMPLIMENTS?
SAME AGE GROUP (56%) SAME SEX (64%) SAME STATUS (71%)
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REASONS FOR GIVING COMPLIMENTS
DESERVED (66%) NORMATIVE MANIPULATIVE
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FUNCTIONS OF PERSONAL IDIOMS
BUILD RELATIONSHIP COHESIVENESS
IDENTIFY & NEGOTIATE BEHAVIORAL NORMS FOR THE RELATIONSHIP
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TYPES OF PERSONAL IDIOMS PARTNER NICKNAMES EXPRESSIONS OF AFFECTION LABELS FOR OTHERS OUTSIDE THE
RELATIONSHIP CONFRONTATIONS REQUESTS AND ROUTINES SEXUAL REFERENCES & EUPHEMISMS SEXUAL INVITATIONS TEASING INSULTS
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GIVING GIFTS
TIMING IS IMPORTANT– The unexpected gift– The forgotten gift– The too frequent gifts– The “make up” gift
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TAILORING THE GIFT IS IMPORTANT– Give to other’s needs & relationship needs– Stress relationship needs on anniversaries
NEGOTIATION IS IMPORTANT– Norms for when they are expected, costs,
etc. THE RESPONSE IS IMPORTANT