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How to Understand your Emotions and be the BOSS of YOU!

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How to Understand your

Emotions and

be the

BOSS of YOU!

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S T R E S S I S A P H Y S I O L O G I C A L E X P E R I E N C E F R O M C E R T A I N C H E M I C A L S T H A T Y O U R B O D Y C R E A T E S , I N O R D E R T O G I V E T H E B O D Y T H E E N E R G Y A N D P U S H T O C O N T I N U E T O D O S O M E T H I N G … .

I T C A N B E N E G A T I V E O R P O S I T I V E .

A S A P O S I T I V E I T M O T I V A T E S ( E U S T R E S S ) .

A S A N E G A T I V E I T S T O P S U S .

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5000 .....

South Africa

Netherlands

Greece

Belgium

Denmark

Sweden

Lithuania

UK

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A…B…C…

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THE PROCESS OF LEARNED BEHAVIOUR

• We learn from our environment

Think

• We then start to behave by doing

Do

• We become... I am

Be

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THE WORLD CAN’T REPRESENT A PROBLEM

When you look out of your

window there is...

• no happiness

• no love

• no sadness

• no problems

...just nature at it’s best

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PROBLEMS ARE CONSTRUCTIONS OF THE MIND

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HOW DO WE LIVE…

• You live according to your values system and you expect

that others will also live by your value system.

• How you fill your space is determined by your values

system.

• How you sort out your money and your energy is

determined by your value system.

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HOW DO YOU LIVE?

• What do you think about most of the time.

• What do you dream of?

• What does your internal dialogue say to you?

• What are you conversing about - with yourself and with

others?

• What things do you react to?

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• Most people live for what they think they should be and

as a result they live according to someone else’s value

system. This causes internal conflict.

• What ever supports your higher values you will call good

and what you support on what is lower down you call

bad.

• If people support your value system… you will think they

are good and you will probably like them… if they don’t

you will label them bad and you won’t like them.

• When our values don’t match we think they need fixing.

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THIS IS WHAT MY LIFE MEANS….

• So we give our life meaning by the experiences that are

around us.

• Things that we see, hear, feel, touch and smell become

part of our experiences.

• As humans we have a need to judge in order to give

meaning to things so that we know what to do with them

and how to feel about them.

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SO HOW DO WE DO CREATE OUR PROBLEMS???

T-F- A=RResul t sAct i onsFeel i ngsThought s

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WHAT EMOTIONAL JUICE ARE YOU MAKING?

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EVERY THOUGHT BECOMES A CHEMICAL

• This chemical

travels through the

body and gives it

information

• That is how the

body knows how to

behave

• It does not judge or

has a preference

• It just is

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• We feel them by our emotions

• You recognize them by the way you feel

• Good Brain Juice-good emotions

• Bad Brain Juice-uncomfortable emotions

YOU GET TWO TYPE OF BRAIN JUICE

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GOOD BRAIN JUICE

Joy

Happiness

Confidence

Love

Laughter

Peace

Calm

Relaxed

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Anger

Jealousy

Sadness

Anxiety

Guilt

Depression

Hatred

BAD BRAIN JUICE

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• Science has shown that bad brain

Juice, attacks your immune system.

• If you make a lot of bad brain juice and

not enough good brain juice, you are

more likely to get sick.

• Even if you are right, it is not worth it.

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• Ask yourself

intelligent

questions…

• Do I know for sure?

• Is this true?

• What is my

evidence?

• What can I do about

it?

SO WHAT TO DO???

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WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO DIFFERENTLY?

Turn to the person next to you and tell what

you will do as a result of what you have

heard here!!!

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Q&A

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