church of our lady of peace, fords, nj
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Fords, New Jersey�
Mailing Address: P.O. Box 69, Fords, NJ 08863�
Email: [email protected]�
February 28, 2021~ Second Sunday of Lent
PARISH OFFICE HOURS �
MONDAY � FRIDAY�
9:00 a.m. � 4:00 p.m. Evenings by appointment only. �
Closed weekends & Federal holidays.�
HOLY SACRIFICE OF THE MASS�
Saturday aernoon: 5:15 p.m.�
Sunday: 8:00 a.m., 10:00 a.m., and 12:00 noon�
Holy Days of Obliga on: �
See Bulle�n prior to Holy Day�
Weekday Masses: Monday�Friday: 8:00 a.m.�
Saturday: 8:00 a.m.�
Last Tuesday of the month: 7:00 p.m.�
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SACRAMENT OF PENANCE�
Saturday: 11:00 a.m. � 12:00 noon; 4:00�4:45
p.m.�
PARISH PHONE NUMBERS�
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Parish Office: 732�738�7940 �
Parish Office Fax: 732�738�3848�
Religious Educa�on: 732�738�7940 ex. 27�
Knights of Columbus #9199: 732�277�9673�
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An Act of Spiritual Communion�
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My Jesus, I believe that you are
present �
in the Blessed Sacrament. I love You
above all things, And I desire to
receive you into my soul. Since I
cannot at this moment receive You
sacramentally, come at least spiritually
into my heart. �
I embrace You as if You were already
there and unite myself wholly to You.
Con!nually give me the grace to make
a worthy Confession.�
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Amen�
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MASS SCHEDULE�
March 1 ~ Monday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. † Robert Resetar from Virginia�
March 2 ~ Tuesday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. † Dennis Medvetz from Family�
March 3 ~ Wednesday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. † Charles Ball from Barbara & Sarah DeRollo�
March 4 ~ Thursday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. * For Our Parishioners from Our Pastor�
March 5 ~ Friday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. † Leon Wriolie from Friends�
March 6 ~ Saturday ~ Lenten Weekday�
8:00 a.m. † Sharon Shevlin from JoAnn Grandal�
5:15 p.m. † Bob For5n from Family�
March 7 ~ Third Sunday of Lent�
8:00 a.m. † Mary Flanagan from Joan Flanagan�
10:00 a.m. † Altar Rosary�
12:00 noon † Cecelia & Joe Anders from Helen Rader�
WEEKLY SCHEDULE�
MONDAY ~ March 1�
7:30 p.m. Miraculous Medal Novena ~ Church�
TUESDAY ~ March 2�
7:00 p.m. Blue Army Devo5ons ~ Church�
WEDNESDAY ~ March 3�
Virtual PREP Classes�
SATURDAY ~ March 6�
11:00 a.m. Confessions ~ Heritage Room�
4:00 p.m. Confessions ~ Heritage room�
SUNDAY ~ March 7�
No Ac5vi5es�
THURSDAY ~ March 4�
No Ac5vi5es�
1:00 p.m. Bap5sm ~ Church�
SUNDAY ~ February 28�
7:00 p.m. Sta5ons of the Cross�
FRIDAY ~ March 5�
Please visit our Website:
www.olpfords.org �
PRAYER TO SAINT JOSEPH FOR �
EMPLOYMENT�
Dear Saint Joseph, you were
yourself once faced with the
responsibility of providing the
necessi'es of life for Jesus and
Mary. Look down with fatherly
compassion upon me in my anxiety over my
present inability to support my family.�
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Please help me to find gainful employment
very soon, so that this heavy burden of
concern will be li-ed from my heart and that
I am soon able to provide for those whom
God has entrusted to my care. �
Help us to guard against bi/erness and
discouragement, so that we may emerge
from this trial spiritually enriched and with
even greater blessings from God. Amen. �
RECOMMENDED READING�
SEVEN LAST WORDS
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The Seven Last Words�by Bishop
Fulton Sheen, was wri�en
eighty years ago. Few books can
match it for either retreat or
Lenten spiritual reading.
Christ's statements on Calvary, as
recorded in the Gospels, are reflected
upon and prayed over. This is a work of
devo$on meant to s$mulate one another
ever more heroically. The truly cosmic
implica$ons of the sha�ering events of
Calvary are brought to the fore in these
s$rring reflec$ons. �
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WEEKLY COLLECTION ~ February 21, 2021�
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Offertory Collec�on……………..$ 6,570.00�
Catholic Press………….…………..$ 759.00�
Ash Wednesday…………………..$ 2,182.00
� Total:…..……..$ 9,511.00�
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Online Giving 1/25/2021�2/19/2021…$ 6,368.84�
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Stewardship of Treasure�
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Thank you for remembering your parish with
your Stewardship of Treasure when you are away on
vaca�on or when weather prohibits your a:endance at
Mass. Your con�nued financial support is essen�al and
much appreciated by our parish community. �
AFriendlyReminder�
Please remember to use social distancing
during Mass. Please do not congregate in the
Church or on Church grounds before,
during or after Holy Mass.
ONLINE GIVING�
Forget your envelope? �
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Use ONLINE GIVING to keep up on offertory.�
Go to www.olpfords.org and click on the�
ONLINE GIVING LINK, its quick and easy.�
Your support throughout the year�
helps sustain our church.�
Ministry Schedule for March 7, 2021�
8:00 a.m. Mass�
Eucharis$c Ministers: Kenneth Egan, Alan Nygard,�
Barbara Sinko �
Reader: Anthony Ferrazzano�
10:00 a.m. Mass�
Altar Servers: Brandon Chung�
Eucharis$c Ministers: Nora Devane, Mary Prumos,�
Angela Chundak�
Reader: Anna Mutuc�
12:00 noon Mass �
Altar Servers: Micaella Turner�
Eucharis$c Ministers: Irma Adan, Frank Heelan,�
Lorraine O’Prandy, �
Reader: Corinne Ambrosi�
5:15 p.m. Mass�
Altar Servers: Chris$an Lansang�
Eucharis$c Ministers: Karen Senatore, Agnes Gorzka,�
Barbara Balog �
Reader: Gloria DeMarzo�
Station of the Cross Booklets
Due to Covid-19 you must buy the booklet and keep it.
No one will be permitted to borrow a booklet and put it
back in the box.
The booklets will be available on Fridays
right before Stations begins.
Booklets will be sold for $1.00.
STATIONS OF THE CROSS
COME AND JOIN US
EVERY FRIDAY DURING
LENT AT
7:00 P.M.
REMEMBER - ALL FRIDAYS DURING
LENT ARE DAYS OF ABSTINENCE
(NO MEAT.)
Volunteer to Make Pocket Rosaries for Law
Enforcement
The Office of Family Life is pleased to
announce the creation of the Blue Rosary Guild.
The purpose of the Guild is for community
members of all ages to make pocket Rosaries for
law enforcement officers, providing them with
support and spiritual strength and promoting
devotion to the Rosary among all the faithful.
All materials and instructions will be
provided and a Zoom virtual tutorial will also
be scheduled. Anyone interested should contact
Cristina D'Averso Collins Director of the
Office of Family Life at
**ATTENTION**�
Please park only in designated parking places
when parking in the church parking area. Parking
in other areas impedes traffic, poses a safety risk
and possible vehicle towing. Thank you for your
coopera�on.�
Jennifer Balint, Daniel Balog,
Diane Cowhey, Donna Ferrara,
Maria Fortin, Gloria Korneski,
Maria Lavid, Margaret Muzikar,
Mildred Schmatz, Camille Wasilewski
Prayer For Strength & Confidence
Heavenly Father, Giver of life and health: comfort
and relieve Your sick servants and give Your power
of healing to those who minister to their needs, that
they may be strengthened in their
weakness and have confidence in Your
loving care; through Jesus Christ our
Lord. Amen.
HOTLINE NUMBERS:
∗ Alanon/Alateen: 1-888-425-2666
∗ Narcotics Anonymous: 1-800-992-0401
∗ Alcoholics Anonymous: 1-888-568-1112
∗ Domestic Violence: 1-800-572-7233
∗ NJ Gamblers Anonymous: 1-855-222-5542
∗ Suicide/Crisis: 1-800-999-9999
∗ Life Choices/Pregnancy Center: 1-888-678-4437
∗ Courage: 1-732-562-2476
∗ EnCourage: 1-732-248-9460
PARISH ORGANIZATION & MINISTRIES�
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ALTAR�ROSARY SOCIETY: 1st Sunday of the Month�
BAPTISM PREPARATION: 2nd Thursday of January, April, July,
& October. Contact the Parish Office. (Must Register, no Walk�
Ins)�
BLUE ARMY DEVOTIONS: Tuesday at 7:00pm�
COLUMBIETTES #9199: 2nd Thursday at 7:00pm �
HOLY NAME SOCIETY: 2nd Sunday of the month. Contact�
Alan Nygard 732�986�3199.�
KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS #9199: 1st & 3rd Wednesday of the
month at 8:00pm�
MIRACULOUS MEDAL NOVENA: Monday at 7:30pm�
PRE�CANA MINISTRY: 2nd Saturday of March & 3rd Saturday
Of October. Contact the Parish Office.�
FOCCUS: 1st Thursday of the month at 7:30pm (excluding�
June, July, August) Reserva4on Required. Contact the Parish
Office.�
R.C.I.A.: All persons seeking instruc4on or more informa4on
about membership in the Roman Catholic Church are invited to
call the parish office. Catholic adults who have not been
confirmed in the Catholic Faith are invited to call about
receiving the Sacrament of Confirma4on.�
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION (P.R.E.P.): Grades K�8. Register at the
Parish Office or online at www.olpfords.org.�
ROSARY: 1st Sunday of the Month following 8am Mass�
SOCIAL CONCERNS MINISTRY: meets as scheduled�
EVERYDAY STEWARDSHIP - RECOGNIZE GOD IN YOUR
ORDINARY MOMENTS
When Sacrifice Becomes Mundane
It seems to happen every year, like clockwork: we drag a bit, as
we enter into the second week of Lent. On Ash Wednesday, we
feel a bit like soldiers banging our shields, rushing into battle.
“We’re ready, God!” our hearts cry out. “Transform us through
sacrifice! Your will be done!”
But by now, these Lenten resolutions are no longer novelties —
they’ve joined the ranks of everyday inconveniences, which
somehow are the hardest to bear. Because transformation, in real
life, happens in inches, just as a battle is won slowly in the crash
of one sword against another. It’s not always a dramatic thing, to
the naked eye. It’s the perseverance in prayer despite weariness, or
the continual denial of some pleasure even though there’s that
nagging voice in our minds saying: go ahead, God doesn’t really
mind.
It’s a week when we all need a shock to the system — and
wouldn’t you know it, this Sunday God gives us a double-
whammy of dramatic sacrificial scenes. We picture Abraham, who
also cried “Ready!” when God called, never imagining what He
would ask: the surrender of his long-awaited son. We see Christ
himself transfigured, as God shows us what He is ready to give up
for love of us.
We must remain committed, persevering daily in acknowledging
that everything belongs to God. What we sacrifice, we simply give
back to Him. If God is for us, who can be against us? Can we still
reply, “Ready!” when we hear the call of God?
Tracy Earl Welliver, MTS
Food Assistance
For a complete listing of food
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more information please visit
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GOSPEL MEDITATION �
ENCOURAGE DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OF SCRIPTURE�
February 28, 2021 2nd Sunday of Lent
A pregnant woman was walking in the store and met an
old friend. Her friend exclaimed, “You are absolutely
beaming!” The new life God placed in her womb
radiated throughout her body. It was brightly visible on
her face and in her eyes. Transformation and change
usually happen from the inside out. It is very rare that
simply imposing structure from the outside does any
good. Yes, it is true that routines and habits can change
when things are done differently. But, for this change to
last there has to be an interior renewal and
metamorphosis as well. Simply regulating behavior and
bringing someone into conformity with accepted
protocols doesn’t mean their heart and soul come with
them.
Peter was a homeless man who lived in a very remote
and rudimentary tent community. He was happy to make
his daily trip to McDonald’s and always welcomed a gift
card or two so that he could buy some coffee and
something to eat. A generous advocate worked to secure
him an apartment in hopes of moving Peter out of his
makeshift housing and into something safer. Peter
finally got the grand tour of his new “digs,” received his
own key, remarked how wonderful the place was, closed
the door behind him when they left and never returned.
He preferred his tent. No matter how much things
changed on the outside, Peter was happy where he was.
A poignant lesson was learned that day.
How is your Lent going? By now you ought to have a
sense of whether you’re really “into it” this year and
something transformational is happening. For many, it’s
only the stuff on the outside that changes for a few
weeks and then they return to business as usual. For
others, there are some real inner changes happening that
are deepening their relationships with God, others, self,
and creation. If we are serious about moving to a new
place and radiating with the presence of new life and
joy, then we have to clear the way to listen for God’s
call. Then, there is God’s request to change things up a
bit and order our lives differently. After realizing we
have been called and given a mission, we have to trust
that this is where we need to be. And then, after all of
this hard work we are asked to act. The fruit that is
revealed will indicate whether our journey is authentic.
The brilliance of conversion will begin to shine on our
faces as we contemplate the One to whom we are asked
to listen.�
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**PARISH REGISTRATION**
To enable us to better serve you, all parishioners
should register at the Parish Office.
If you are a new parishioner, or a current parishioner who has moved or
changed phone numbers,
please contact the Parish Office.
Family members 23 years or older should register separately as
individuals even if continuing to live with their parents. You must be a
registered parishioner to be a Confirmation Sponsor or a Godparent.
*GODPARENT/CONFIRMATION SPONSOR
REQUIREMENTS*
♦ Must be an ACTIVE, REGISTERED parishioner, who attends Mass
weekly, and contributes to the support of the Church, in accordance with
one’s means.
♦ Must have received all the Sacraments of Initiation.
(Baptism, Holy Eucharist, and Confirmation)
♦ If married, must be in a marriage recognized as valid by the Catholic
Church.
♦ Must live a Christian life consistent with the role of godparent or sponsor.
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**REGISTRO PARROQUIAL**
Para permitirnos servirle mejor, todos los feligreses
deben registrarse en la oficina parroquial.
Si usted es un nuevo feligrés, o un feligrés actual que se mudó o cambió de
número de teléfono,
por favor contacte a la Oficina Parroquial.
Los miembros de la familia de 23 años o más deben registrarse por
separado como individuos, incluso si continúan viviendo con sus padres.
Debe ser un feligrés registrado para ser un Patrocinador de Confirmación
o un Padrino.
* REQUISITOS PARA SER PADRINO/PATROCINADOR DE
CONFIRMACIÓN*
♦Debe ser un feligrés ACTIVO, REGISTRADO, que asista a misa
semanalmente y
contribuya al apoyo de la Iglesia, de acuerdo con los medios de uno.
♦Debe haber recibido todos los sacramentos de iniciación.
(Bautismo, Eucaristía y Confirmación)
♦Si está casado, debe estar en un matrimonio reconocido como válido por la
Iglesia Católica.
♦Debe vivir una vida cristiana consistente con el papel de padrino o
patrocinador de confirmación.
The Pastor's Pen�
Dear Friend,�
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Think how many temptations we might face in an
ordinary day.
Growling at the breakfast table - the temptation to
unkindness.
Arguing over who should change the baby this
time - the temptation to selfishness.
Starting work late without permission - the
temptation to slothfulness.
Losing your temper when a co-worker crashes
your computer - the temptation to impatience.
Refusing to speak to a person who has hurt you -
the temptation to malice.
Repeating a juicy story of your neighbor’s
misfortune— the temptation to gossip.
Lying awake at night thinking sensual thoughts -
the temptation to impurity.
Taking your anger out on the children after a hard
day - the temptation to cruelty.
Binging on food or drink - the temptation to self-
indulgence.
Firing off a hasty letter to a friend who hurt you -
the temptation to revenge.
As we begin Lent it is a good idea to put our daily
lives into perspective and consider our strengths,
as well as, our weaknesses.
Temptations are not a sin, only giving in to
temptation is sin. Remember what St. Paul says,
God's Grace is sufficient, if we are willing to
embrace Grace and not the temptation.
Regular Confession and Holy Communion have
always been powerful in the lives of the saints �
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Let us pray always and never lose heart.
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Father Matthew
SACRAMENTS�
THE SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM: The Sacrament of Baptism is
celebrated at Our Lady of Peace on the 4th Sunday of each month at
1:00 p.m. We ask couples who are contemplating having their child
baptized in the Catholic faith to contact the parish office to register for
the Sacrament prior to attending the required Baptism Preparation
Class, which is held the 2nd Thursday of January, April, July and
October.
THE SACRAMENT OF MARRIAGE: The bride or groom must be
an active-registered member of Our Lady of Peace in Fords NJ, with
weekly Mass attendance and involvement in the life of the Parish for
one year before the marriage preparation process. Please call the
Parish Office for more information. According to the Common Policy
of the five Latin-rite (Roman Catholic) dioceses of New Jersey, there
must be twelve months of marriage preparation for each couple who
desires to be married in the Church. Please do not make any
wedding arrangements (including reception hall) until you have met
with a parish priest and he has approved the wedding date with you.�
LOS SACRAMENTOS�
EL SACRAMENTO DEL BAUTISMO: El Sacramento del
Bautismo se celebra en Nuestra Señora de la Paz y cuarto domingo
de cada mes a la 1:00 p.m. Pedimos a las parejas que están
pensando bautizar a su hijo/a en la fe católica que se comuniquen
con la oficina parroquial para inscribirse en el Sacramento antes de
asistir a la Clase de Preparación para el Bautismo, que se lleva a
cabo el 2nd Jueves de enero, abril, julio y octubre.
EL SACRAMENTO DEL MATRIMONIO: La novia o el novio
deben ser un miembro activo registrado de Nuestra Senora de la
paz, con asistencia semanal a misa y participación en la vida de la
parroquia durante un año antes del proceso de preparación para el
matrimonio. Llame a la oficina parroquial para obtener más
información. De acuerdo a la Política Común de los cinco de rito
latino (católico romano) diócesis de Nueva Jersey, debe haber doce
meses de preparación matrimonial para cada pareja que desee
casarse en la iglesia. Por favor no hagas ningún arreglo de boda.
(incluida la sala de recepción) hasta que se haya reunido con un
sacerdotre y ha aprobado la fecha de la boda contigo.
Parochial Ministry�
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Rev. Matthew R. Paratore, S.T.L., J.C.L., Pastor
Rev. Dario Endiape, Parochial Vicar
Rev. Sebastian Kaithackal C.M.I., (In Res.)
Deacon John A. Raychel
Parish Services
Rev. John J. Zec, Ph.D., Music Director
Candida Gonzalez, Coordinator of Religious Ed.
Lourdes Hnath, Organist
Parish Staff
Eileen Castillo, Business Administrator
Sharon Salinas, Assistant Bookkeeper
Dawn Aube, Parish/PREP Secretary
Trustees
Joan C. Deyak
Paul B. Coleman
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