Characteristics and Impacts of High Conflict

DivorcesBy Miriam Galindo

With 25 years of experience caring for at-risk children, adolescents, and families, California-based clinical psychologist Miriam Galindo, PsyD, specializes in social work and family therapy services. Dr. Miriam Galindo provides child custody evaluations, family therapy, reunification, and co-parenting counseling in high-conflict divorce cases.

Introduction

Although not the norm, high conflict divorce is a growing problem. It is characterized by ongoing conflict, hostility, restraining orders, unnecessary police involvement, allegations of abuse, and the inability to communicate with the other parent about even the simplest of matters. High conflict divorce can is harmful to children and may lead to substantial trauma for children, adolescents, and adults. Ongoing litigation exceeding two years is one hallmark of high conflict divorces.

About High Conflict Divorces

Couples involved in high conflict divorce usually fight over finances, parenting choices, and unresolved emotions resulting from the dissolution itself. Child support and spousal support also come into play, or disagreements about parenting styles and household rules. Additionally, many parents wish to prove, legally or otherwise, that their parenting approach is superior. They may also want to control or manipulate aspects of the other parent’s life. Emotions can increase when a new romantic interest enters the picture.

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