by dr nadeem abidi success coach © 2008-2010 new horizons institute of success
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NOW YOU CAN TOO: READ PEOPLE LIKE BOOKS
LEVEL 1By Dr Nadeem Abidi
Success Coach© 2008-2010
New Horizons Institute of Success
www.SforSuccess.com
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Some Questions:
What is Body Language ? Is Body Language Important? Is it same for all nations of the world?
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GESTURES
1. OPEN GESTURES
2. CLOSED GESTURES
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OPEN GESTURES GROUP1
1. OPEN HANDS PALMS UP2. UNCROSSING ARMS & LEGS3. MOVING FORWARD4. UNBUTTONING JACKET5. HANDS ON HIPS WITH FEET APART6. OPEN PALM ON CHEST7. RUBBING PALMS
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OPEN HANDS PALMS UP
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UNCROSSING ARMS & LEGS
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MOVING FORWARD
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UNBUTTONING JACKET
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HANDS ON HIPS WITH FEET APART
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OPEN PALM ON CHEST
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RUBBING PALMS
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GESTURES OF CONFIDENCE GROUP 2
1. DIRECT SIMPLE EYE CONTACT2. STEEPLING3. TOUCHING GESTURES4. MOVING CLOSER IN A RELAXED MANNER5. HANDS IN JACKET THUMBS OUT6. HANDS ON BELT THUMBS IN7. HANDS ON THE SIDES OF HIPS8. HANDS BEHIND THE HEAD
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DIRECT SIMPLE EYE CONTACT
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STEEPLING
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STEEPLING
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TOUCHING GESTURES
CALM RE ASSURANCE
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MOVING CLOSER IN A RELAXED MANNER
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HANDS IN JACKET THUMBS OUT
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HANDS ON THE BELTS THUMBS IN
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HANDS ON THE SIDES OF HIP BONES
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HANDS BEHIND THE HEAD
LEGS CROSSED LEGS UNCROSSED
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EVALUATION GESTURES GROUP 3
ALL HANDS TO CHEEK GESTURES ARE EVALUATION GESTURES
1. HANDS TO CHEEK2. STROKING CHIN3. BOREDOM
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HAND TO CHEEK
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STROKING CHIN
LEANING FORWARD LEANING BACKWORD
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BOREDOM
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CLOSED GESTURES GROUP 1
CROSSED ARMS CROSSED LEGS & ANKLES CLENCHED FISTS HIDDEN HANDS BUTTONED OR CLOSED JACKET TURNING BODY AWAY LEG OVER ARM OF CHAIR SITTING WITH BACK OF CHAIR IN FRONT FEET ON THE TABLE HOLDING NECK WITH PALM RUNNING FINGERS THROUGH HAIR WRINGING HANDS JABBING INDEX FINGER
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CROSSED ARMS
RELAXED HANDS CLENCHED HANDS
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CROSSED LEGS & ANKLES
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CLENCHED FISTS
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HIDDEN HANDS
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BUTTONED OR CLOSED JACKET
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TURNING BODY AWAY
SIDEWAY GESTURES
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LEG OVER ARM OF CHAIR
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SITTING WITH CHAIR BACK IN FRONT
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FEET ON THE TABLE
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HOLDING NECK WITH PALM
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RUNNING FINGERS THROUGH HAIR
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WRINGING HANDS
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JABBING INDEX FINGER
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DOUBT & UNCERTAINITY
ALL LIGHT RUBBING & SCRATCHING GESTURES
1. NOSE2. BEHIND OR BESIDE EAR3. EYE4. HEAD & HAIR
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LIGHT RUBBING & SCRATCHING
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DOUBT TO SUSPICION
WHEN DOUBT IS CONVERTED INTO SUSPICION, PEOPLE RELATE TO US SIDEWAYS
1. LOOKS2. SPEAK3. MOVE BODY(COLD SHOULDER)
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RESTLESS GESTURES GROUP 3
TUGGING & FIDGETING
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NERVOUS GESTURES
CLEARING THROAT(OFTEN) SPEAKING WITH HAND COVERING MOUTH BITING PENCILS PLAYING WITH OBJECTS
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CLEARING THROAT
IF DONE OFTEN
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SPEAKING WITH HAND COVERING THE MOUTH
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BITING PENCILS
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PLAYING WITH OBJECTS
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NERVOUSNESS WHEN CONSCIOUSLY CONTROLLED
BECOMES ACT OF SELF CONTROL1. LOCKED ANKLES2. CLENCHED HANDS3. HANDS GRIPPING WRIST
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IMPATIENT GESTURES DEMANDING ATTENTION
TAPPING FEET JINGLING MONEY IN THE POCKET DRUMMING FINGERS
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TAPPING FEET
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JINGLING MONEY IN POCKET
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DRUMMING FINGERS
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IMPATIENT INTERRUPT IF UN NOTICED
RAISED HAND TO EAR TO LIPS TUG AT YOUR SLEEVE
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WHAT DOES THIS GESTURE MEAN?
Sure I’m Sure & then rubs his nose lightly. If my boss is leaning back in the chair, looking
at me sideways & stroking his chin. Is he impressed with my idea?
Uzma clears her throat a lot, when she speaks to me on the road. What does this mean?
Amjad is leaning over the table, gripping his wrist.
Saad always puts his finger on his lips when I’m speaking. Is he trying to tell me something?
What does it mean if a person has the palm of his hand on the back of his neck?
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GESTURES IN GROUPS
RELATED GESTURES CONFLICTING GESTURES
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Related Gestures
Group of gestures expressing the same things or similar related things or attitudes:
Example: Your daughter sits down clenches fists
crosses arms and feet, “I can’t clean my room right now as I promised Ayesha that I’ll help her with her assignment.”
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CONFLICTING GESTURES
CONFLICT B/W GESTURES & WORDSNervous laugh: Nervous Arms & hand movement
& then the whole body shifts & maybe he or she hides her hands in the pockets at the end
CONFLICTS B/W GESTURESAshraf is ready to deliver a speech sitting with
hands behind his head & legs crossed, leaning the chair back against the wall. When the stage secretary asks him, “Are you ready?” He stands up with his hands on sides of his hips & feet apart, “Sure anytime.” Then he lightly rubs his nose.
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Find related & Conflicting Gestures
Refrigerator salesman smiled at me, “Of course you’ll get delivery on Sunday.” He opens his feet, palms up & shrugged his shoulders & then he buttoned his jacket.
“Can we get it written on the bill as a part of the Sale?”, I asked. “Sure, anything you want sir.” Crosses his arms on the chest now his hands were clenched. “The customer is always right, Is not it right?” , He said & then laughed loudly & twisted his body & then put his hands in his pockets. Looked at me sideways,” Don’t you worry about a thing sir.” He assured me & then he turned his back on me.
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ACTION STEPS
Watch for your own gestures.(Only openness gestures will help you get what you want)
Check your defensive gestures when you are in a stressed situation.
Set aside 10 minutes everyday noting other people’s gestures.
Watch Television with sound turned off & in every 5 minutes, Turn on sound to check that your observation is right.(Interview & Discussion programs)
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