bullying workshop
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Julian Middle School Presentation On Bullying and Internet SafetyTRANSCRIPT
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With
Joseph Smith, MSWSchool Social Worker
And
Nathan MurawskiSocial Work Intern
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Intentional Repeated Hurtful acts Name calling Teasing Threats Exclusion
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WORDS HURT! EASE THE TEASE.
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DIRECTDIRECTFace to faceFace to face
VerbalVerbal
Insults/Flaming, Insults/Flaming, putdowns, teasing, putdowns, teasing,
harassmentharassment
PhysicalPhysical
Shoves, pushes, Shoves, pushes, hitting, assault, hitting, assault,
sexualsexual
PsychologicalPsychological
Rolling eyes, dirty looks, taunting, making Rolling eyes, dirty looks, taunting, making threats, making people feel badthreats, making people feel bad
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Relational AggressionRelational Aggression
Telling people not to be Telling people not to be friends with a personfriends with a person
INDIRECTINDIRECT
Behind someone’s backBehind someone’s back
ExclusionExclusion
Leaving out, Leaving out, shunningshunning
GossipGossip
Lowering people’s opinion about a Lowering people’s opinion about a person, cyber bullyingperson, cyber bullying
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Physical: 22% Verbal: 29% Sexual: 14% Relational: 17% Cyber: 18%
39 % of Julian 39 % of Julian students students surveyed surveyed reported that reported that they have they have been bullied been bullied since winter since winter breakbreak
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Who are the Bullies
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1.1.Stay calm and confident, be assertive, Stay calm and confident, be assertive, don't show the bully that you're sad or don't show the bully that you're sad or mad.mad.
2. Ignore the bully and walk away. 2. Ignore the bully and walk away.
3. Remember: Fighting back can make 3. Remember: Fighting back can make bullying worse.bullying worse.
4. Remember: A lot of kids have to cope 4. Remember: A lot of kids have to cope with bullying. You are not alone. with bullying. You are not alone.
5. Your school social worker can help you 5. Your school social worker can help you with strategies, and coping skills.with strategies, and coping skills.
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NATIONAL STATISTICS:
JULIAN SURVEY RESULTS:
•56% of US students witnessed bullying last year.•2007 Illinois raked 3rd for worst state to live in to avoid bullies•Each day 160,000 students miss school
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•Speak Up, Stand Speak Up, Stand Out!Out!
•Don’t participate in Don’t participate in rumorsrumors
•Create a distractionCreate a distraction
•Be kind to the Be kind to the victimvictim
•Tell SomebodyTell Somebody
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The difference is your intentThe difference is your intent
Snitching/TattlingSnitching/TattlingGetting someone in troubleGetting someone in trouble
ReportingReportingKeeping your classmates safeKeeping your classmates safe
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Being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material using technological means;
Also known as: ‘Electronic Bullying’ & ‘Online Social Cruelty’
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E-mail Cell phones Text messages Instant messaging Personal web sites (My Space Page) Chat rooms
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“Flaming’: Online fights using electronic messages with angry and vulgar language
“Harassment”: Sending offensive, rude, and insulting messages
“Cyber stalking”: Sending messages that include threats, on-line activities that make a person afraid for his/her safety
‘Dissing’ Sending or posting gossip or rumors about a person to damage his or her reputation or friendships
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Officer Jennings, Oak Park Police Department
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Criminal Law Limits Speech that can lead to arrest & prosecution:
Making threats of violence to people or their property
Making obscene or harassing phone calls Harassment or stalking Hate or bias crimes Creating or sending sexually explicit
images of teens Taking a photo of someone in place where
privacy expectedGeneral (Willard, 2005)
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Oak Park River Forest 2010
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WORDS HURT! WORDS HURT!
EASE THE TEASEEASE THE TEASE
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“THAT’S SO GAY”Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered
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o LGBT adolescents often face harassment because of LGBT adolescents often face harassment because of their sexual orientation. their sexual orientation.
o Within the school setting, this frequently includes Within the school setting, this frequently includes bullying and intimidation.bullying and intimidation.
Verbal, Physical or Mental abuse directed at people who may or may not identify themselves as being:
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgendered
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5-6% of American students are LGBT
Over 80% of LGBT students report, verbal harassment
84% heard remarks such as “faggot” or “dyke” at school
42% had been shoved, or pushed
21% had been punched, kicked or injured with a weapon
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WORDS HURT! WORDS HURT!
EASE THE TEASEEASE THE TEASE
“THAT’S SO GAY”
“QUEER”“FAG”
“HOMO”
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Carl Walker-Hoover 1984-2011
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Carl Walker-Hoover 1984-2011
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Dr. Victoria ShartsAdrienne Court
Kevin Love, Brooks Middle SchoolCarrie Doyle, LCSW
Officer Jennings
Nathan MurawskiJoseph Smith, MSW
Julian Middle School 2011