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How to Stay POSI +IVEin a

TOUGH Work E nvi ro nmen t

By G Sathesh Kumar MBA.,PGDPM &IR., CM.Nlp., M.Sc ( Applied PsychologyCertified Member National Federation for Neuro Linguistic Psychology,USA


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The EnvironmentThe Environment

YOU

B e war e th e Bull e ts! B e war e th e Bull e ts!

Negative WorkEnvironment


PastExperiences

PastExperiences

Ouch!


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- D og eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead- No one appreciates your contributions

- Too much work . . . not enough help- D eadlines are unrealistic- L onger hours . . . additional work- B udget Constraints

- Competition is eating us alive- Poor management / direction- J ob insecurity




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Other PeoplesB ehavior

Other PeoplesB ehavior

BulldozersBulldozers

SnipersSnipers

ExplodersExploders

ClamsClamsClamsClams

Patronizers

Complainers

Controllers

B ackstabber s

Walking Wounded

Negatives

G ossips

G ossips

B rown Nosers SLUFFERS SLUFFERS

Wh ine rs


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CHAN G E . . .CHAN G E . . .Ch allenges our paradigms

Alters t h e way we t h ink

Makes life more difficultfor a w h ileC auses StressIs an ongoing fact of life

Ch allenges our paradigms

Alters t h e way we t h ink

Makes life more difficultfor a w h ileC auses StressIs an ongoing fact of life

ChangingEnvironment

ChangingEnvironment

T h e o n l y p e rso n who a l waysl i k e s cha nge i s a w e t baby


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PastExperiences

PastExperiences

Ouch!

Ouch!Ouch!

Ouch!Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch! Ouch!


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G ENETIC : My Grandparents did it to me.(Inh erited traits)

PSYCHIC : My Parents did it to me.(Upbringing)

ENVIRONMENTAL

: My Spouse, my Boss,th e C ompany, t h e Economy, etc.. is doing t h isto me. (Surroundings)

D eterminismTheory

D eterminismTheory


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Choose the Right L uggageChoose the Right L uggage


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Y o u r e g o ing to ge t h i t!

The Problem With D odgingB ullets

The Problem With D odgingB ullets


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Choice #2Choice #2Wear B ulletproof Armor Wear B ulletproof Armor


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Bulletproof ArmorComes from

SELF CHANGESELF CHANGESELF CHANGESELF CHANGE


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P utting on theArmor


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How to Change Your AttitudeHow to Chang e Your Attitude

ATTITU D EATTITU D E

ATT I TUD E ATT I TUD E

Changes happenpersonallyfrom the

INSI D E OUT!

Changes happenpersonallyfrom the

INSI D E OUT!


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I am responsible . . .

. . . for who I am

. . . for what I have

. . . for what I do

So . . . Accept ResponsibilitySo . . . Accept Responsibility


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Negativeworld view

YOU

FROM THE INSI D E . . . OUT!FROM THE INSI D E . . . OUT!ATTITU D EATTITU D E

Step #2 Take ControlStep #2 Take Control


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How to Change Your ThinkingHow to Chang e Your Thinking

T HINKING T HINKING

Changes comefrom observingl o gi ca ll y in

every situation

Changes comefrom observingl o gi ca ll y in

every situation


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Observe Your ThinkingObserve Your Thinking

THINKIN G

T h is is all veryinteresting

Tomorrow it willlook very different.


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This is going to bea wonderful day!

This is going to

be a crappy day!

Manage Your Self -TalkManag e Your Self -Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Cant

YOURE RIGHT! Henry Ford

THINKIN G


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How to Change Your B ehavior How to Chang e Your B ehavior

B EHAVIORB EHAVIOR

B EH AV IOR B EH AV IOR

Changes taketrue assessment,determination &discipline

Changes taketrue assessment,determination &discipline


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Choose Your B ehavior Choose Your B ehavior REACTIVE

R e spo n s eR e spo n s e

RESPONSI BL E

MyResponse

MyResponse

MyChoice

MyChoice

B EHAVIORB EHAVIOR

Stimulus

Stimulus


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Steps Toward ChangingB ehavior

Steps Toward ChangingB ehavior

1. Unconscious Incompetence1. Unconscious Incompetence

2. Conscience Incompetence2. Conscience Incompetence

3. Conscience Competence3. Conscience Competence

4. Unconscious Competence4. Unconscious Competence

B EHAVIORB EHAVIOR

The New YOU!The New YOU!


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Add POSI + IVE B ehavior Add POSI + IVE B ehavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT!

Sprinkle some positive on the negativesFocus on the good of each dayStay out of the feeding frenziesSay please and thank youPractice EMP AT H Y Evaluate Y O U R behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement

Spread a SMI L E around

R e p l ac e th e B AD H A B I T S! R e p l ac e th e B AD H A B I T S!

B EHAVIORB EHAVIOR


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More POSI + IVE ContributionsMore POSI + IVE Contributions

1. Is it true?2. Is it harmful?3. Is it necessary?

Keep promisesHave a forgiving view of peopleKeep an open mind with changes

Count to 1000 if necessarySee criticism as opportunity to improveCultivate your sense of humor

1. Is it true?2. Is it harmful?3. Is it necessary?

Keep promisesHave a forgiving view of peopleKeep an open mind with changes

Count to 1000 if necessarySee criticism as opportunity to improveCultivate your sense of humor

B efore you say anything to anyone, askyourself three thingsB efore you say anything to anyone, askyourself three things


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Watch your definitions - they become thoughtsthey become thoughts

Watch your thoughts - they become wordsthey become words

Watch your words - they become actionsthey become actions

Watch your actions - they become your destinythey become your destiny

Remember to . . .


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The Choice is YOURSThe Choice is YOURS

With a B ad attitude

you can never have a positive day

With a Positive attitude

you can never have a bad day


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Choose POSI + IVE L ivingChoose POSI + IVE L iving


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