BUILDING BUILDING HEALTHY HEALTHY

RELATIONSHIPSRELATIONSHIPSMRS. LIEBMRS. LIEB77THTH GRADE GRADE

HEALTHHEALTH

OBJECTIVESOBJECTIVES

DEFINE AND BUILD HEALTHY DEFINE AND BUILD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.RELATIONSHIPS.

EXPLAIN THE DIFFERENCE EXPLAIN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN VERBAL AND BETWEEN VERBAL AND NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION.NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION.

GIVE EXAMPLES OF BOTH VERBAL GIVE EXAMPLES OF BOTH VERBAL AND NONVERBAL AND NONVERBAL COMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATION

Journal Entry #1Journal Entry #1What are the different What are the different ways of ways of communication? Give communication? Give as many examples as as many examples as you can, for how people you can, for how people communicate everyday.communicate everyday.

Journal Entry #2Journal Entry #2 Think of a time when a Think of a time when a

friend didn’t understand friend didn’t understand what you were trying what you were trying say. Describe the say. Describe the situation.situation.

RELATIONSHIPSRELATIONSHIPS CONNECTIONS YOU HAVE CONNECTIONS YOU HAVE

WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND GROUPS IN YOUR LIFE.GROUPS IN YOUR LIFE.

3 WAYS TO BUILD HEALTHY 3 WAYS TO BUILD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS:RELATIONSHIPS:– COMMUNICATIONCOMMUNICATION– COOPERATIONCOOPERATION– COMPROMISECOMPROMISE

What is Communication?What is Communication?

CommunicationCommunication-the exchange of -the exchange of information through the use of information through the use of words or actions.words or actions.

Every communication needs 3 Every communication needs 3 parts:parts:– SenderSender– ReceiverReceiver– MessageMessage

WHISPER DOWN THE LANE!WHISPER DOWN THE LANE!

AS A CLASS WERE WE AS A CLASS WERE WE ABLE TO ABLE TO COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY?EFFECTIVELY?

2 Types of 2 Types of CommunicationCommunication

Verbal Communication:Verbal Communication: Expressing feelings, thoughts, or Expressing feelings, thoughts, or experiences with words, either by experiences with words, either by speaking or writing.speaking or writing.

Nonverbal Communication:Nonverbal Communication: getting messages across without getting messages across without using words. Using body language using words. Using body language such as postures, gestures, and such as postures, gestures, and facial expressions.facial expressions.

Speaking SkillsSpeaking Skills Think before you speakThink before you speak Use “I” messagesUse “I” messages Avoid being rude or Avoid being rude or

insultinginsulting Make clear, simple Make clear, simple

statements, and be specificstatements, and be specific

Listening SkillsListening SkillsUse body language to Use body language to show your listeningshow your listening

Take advantage of Take advantage of pausespauses

Do not interruptDo not interruptMirror what you hearMirror what you hear

Writing SkillsWriting Skills

Notes/LettersNotes/LettersEmailsEmailsText MessagingText Messaging

Journal Entry # 3Journal Entry # 3How many family How many family members are in your members are in your home? How well do home? How well do you communicate and you communicate and deal with everyday deal with everyday issues with your issues with your family?family?

FamilyFamily *Everyone Is Part of a Family**Everyone Is Part of a Family* Family- basic unit of society Family- basic unit of society

and includes two or more and includes two or more people joined by blood, people joined by blood, marriage, adoption, or a marriage, adoption, or a desire to support one desire to support one another.another.

TYPES OF FAMILYTYPES OF FAMILY

Couple Couple NuclearNuclear Single ParentSingle Parent ExtendedExtended BlendedBlended

Caring For Family Caring For Family MembersMembers

Physical NeedsPhysical Needs Mental NeedsMental Needs Emotional NeedsEmotional Needs Social NeedsSocial Needs

OBJECTIVES-LESSON #3OBJECTIVES-LESSON #3

Define FriendshipDefine Friendship Define AcquaintanceDefine Acquaintance Describe Traits of a good Describe Traits of a good

friendfriend Difference between Difference between

Positive/Negative Peer Positive/Negative Peer PressurePressure

What are differences between What are differences between friendship and acquaintances?friendship and acquaintances?

FRIENDSHIP- FRIENDSHIP- a a relationship relationship with someone with someone you know, trust you know, trust and regard with and regard with affectionaffection

ACQUAINTANCE ACQUAINTANCE – someone you – someone you see occasionally see occasionally or know or know casuallycasually

Traits of a Good FriendTraits of a Good Friend

TRUSTTRUST CARINGCARING RESPECTRESPECT LOYALTYLOYALTY

What is Compromise?What is Compromise?

When both sides in a When both sides in a conflict agree to give up conflict agree to give up something in order to reach something in order to reach a solution that satisfies a solution that satisfies everyone.everyone.

Peer Pressure-Peer Pressure- the influence that your the influence that your peer group has on you.peer group has on you.

Negative Peer Negative Peer PressurePressure

H.E.L.P.= H.E.L.P.= Healthful, Ethical, Healthful, Ethical, Legal, Parent Legal, Parent ApprovedApproved

Positive Peer Positive Peer PressurePressure

JOURNAL #5Two friends are planning to go to the movies. One wants to see an action movie; the other wants to see a rated r comedy. How can you compromise? Why is compromise an important part of friendship and how can it stop you from giving in to negative peer pressure?.

Creating a Skit On Peer Creating a Skit On Peer PressurePressure

Form Groups of 3-4 peopleForm Groups of 3-4 people Choose a Scenario for your skit Choose a Scenario for your skit

dealing with peer pressuredealing with peer pressure Write a script for you to act out Write a script for you to act out

and perform for the classand perform for the class Practice your scenarioPractice your scenario Perform you scenario for you Perform you scenario for you

class class Answer questions on the different Answer questions on the different

types of peer pressuretypes of peer pressure

Journal #4Journal #4Write a brief Write a brief paragraph describing paragraph describing someone you know someone you know who is a good friend who is a good friend to others.to others.