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Book of Body Language Summary(self.seduction)

submitted 2 years ago by T3hJ3hu

Hey guys,

Somebody posted a link to a body language

book yesterday. It was pretty big and therefore

hard to manage, but it caught my interest. As I

was going through, I took notes. I thought you

guys might be interested, so here it is.

I've mostly kept them in order of appearance,

but I stripped out a couple of the key sections

and put them in this post. I'll put the rest in

another post in this thread.

-The attraction process typically has five steps:--1. The woman makes eye contact for a few

seconds, then turns her head. The man checks

back for more looks. Usually she has to look at

him three times for him to realize what the fuck

is happening.

--2. The woman gives a quick smile, which is a

green-light. Many men fuck it up here.

--3. The woman begins preening, revealing her

neck, playing with her hair, or sitting up to

emphasize her tits. She might also lick her lips or

straighten her clothes. The man usuallyresponds by expanding his chest, sucking in his

gut, and straightening his clothes. Both are

pointed toward each other.

--4. The man approaches her to talk, usually

with something canned or easy.

--5. The woman will initiate some light touch on

the arm or hands; repeating the same touches

shows that she's comfortable with how things

are. Hand touches are morepersonal than arm

touches. Brushing or touching the shoulder

shows that she cares about his health orappearance.

-Women commonly use 13 gestures during

courtship:

--1. The head toss and hair flick shows interest

and that she cares about her appearance

around you.

--2. If her lips are wet and pouting, it's a sexual

invitation meant to mimic her genitals (blood

swells in the lips, breasts, and genitals when

aroused, which is also why red lipstick became

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--3. If a woman slowly and sensually touches

her neck, thigh, or throat, it means that if a

man plays his cards, he could touch her in the

same way. She's effectively imagining him

touching her there.

--4. Allowing her wrist to go limp shows

submission, which is of course hot to dominant

men.

--5. Fondling a cylindrical object lets you know

what's on her mind.

--6. Women will expose their wrists more as

interest grows, as the wrist is considered one of

their more erogenous zones.

--7. A sideways glance over her shoulder lets

her feel like she's peeping, while also making her

shoulder mimic the appearance of her tits.

--8. Rolling of the hips is something that only

women can do, making it an effective tool for

looking sexy.--9. The pelvic tilt makes her hips look bigger,

which is an obvious plus (waist-to-hips ratio is

most optimum at 70% btw). It highlights her

ability to bear children, which we find hawt.

--10. If a woman puts her handbag close to

you, it shows that she's comfortable with you

since it holds the majority of their livelihood.

She may fondle her purse if she's particularly

attracted.

--11. If she tucks one leg under the other, the

direction her untucked knee is pointing in is thedirection of who's most interesting.

--12. Dangling the shoe on the end of the foot

shows relaxation while implying fucking via

repetitive thrusting movements.

--13. Placing one leg over the other so that

they're parallel signifies that she's ready to

screw. Women will also cross and uncross their

legs slowly, occasionally stroking her thigh with

her hand, to indict a desire to be touched.

-People lean against things (or other people) to

show ownership or a terroritorial cliam.-As a general rule, the higher someone is socio-

economically, the less gestures they use.

-Less movement shows confidence, especially

while under pressure -- it's how to "keep your

cool." Jim Carry displays the opposite effect.

-The six secrets of attractive body language

--1. Have an animated face and a smile; be sure

to flash your teeth.

--2. Be expressive with your gestures but don't

overdo it. Keep your fingers crossed and below
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your chin, and avoid arm or feet crossing.

--3. Use triple nods when talking and a head tilt

when listening. Keep your chin up.

--4. Give the amount of eye contact that makes

everyone feel comfortable. Lean forward when

listening, stand straight when speaking.

--5. Stand as close as you feel comfortable. If

the other person moves back, don't step

forward again.--6. Subtly mirror the body language of others.

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[] T3hJ3hu [S] 51 points 2 years ago

-Try to shake hands with your palm facing downward, to show dominance. An "equal" handshake

occurs when both dominant players "struggle" to an equal outcome with palms to the sides.

-Women smile at men they are attracted to.

-Crossing your arms in front of your body makes you seem less credible/more aggravated, andshows a defensive posture.

-Women will keep their arms more open around men they're attracted to, but crossed around

aggressive or unattractive men.

-Touching someone's elbows or hands will make them more likely to give you what you want, and

will make you more memorable.

-Those of British or German heritage are more easily swayed by elbow/hand touching.

-People are more likely to remember what someone said if they were using hand gestures.

-If you're going to rub your palms together (as when saying, "This'll be fun"), do it quickly --

slowly rubbing your palms shows creepy self-interest.

-Extended gazing into someone's eyes vastly increases the generation of intimate feelings.

-Clenching your hands reveals frustration, signaling that you're holding back a negative or anxious

attitude.

-When someone's arms or hands are clenched or crossed in front of them (signalling a negative

attitude), get them to hold something so that they break their defensive posture and assume

calmness.

-Touching your finger tips together shows confidence (called The Steeple).

-The Steeple should be avoided when persuading someone or winning someone's confidence,

because it displays arrogance.

-Tilting your head back during the Steeple shows increased smugness/arrogance.

-The higher someone raises a gesture toward their face, the more emphasis it has in determiningsomeone's attitude.

-Women are likely to place one hand on top of the other and then their chin on top of that in a

sort of "Face Platter". It's the green light for flattery and basically says, "please admire me."

-Chin up, chest out, and one hand holding the other behind you signifies superiority, confidence,

and power.

-That same stance but with one hand holding the other's wrist shows frustration and an attempt

at self-control.

-Allowing your thumbs to protrude shows assertiveness and dominance; when attracted to a

woman, men will use protruding thumbs around her.

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-Thumbs protruding from a pocket shows that you feel you are in a superior position.

-Hand to Face gestures indicate lying. The most common gestures are: the mouth cover, the

nose touch, the eye rub, the ear grab, the neck scratch, the collar pull, fingers in the mouth.

-Supporting your head with your hand shows boredom; supporting your hand with your cheek

shows genuine interest.

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[] [deleted] 7 points 2 years ago

How do you support your hand with your cheek? And do you mean if someone does this they

are genuinely interested or if you do it you appear genuinely interested?

Also this is a great read, thanks!

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[] T3hJ3hu [S] 7 points 2 years ago

It would mean that your fingers are resting on your cheek. If you start putting any weigh

on your hand, that's a sign of disinterest.

Placing it properly will make you appear interested, but one common point of the book is

that changing someone's body language oftentimes changes their attitude. By forcing it,

you might actually make yourself a bit more interested.

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[] Box-Monkey 6 points 2 years ago

outside affects inside affects outside

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[] metal_rings 3 points 2 years ago

This one hurts my brain. >.

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