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Beth El
Family
Hanukkah PartyTuesday, December 4th
6:00 - 7:30 pm
Cloud 9 Trampoline Park825 Greenbrier Circle
Chesapeake, VA 23320
Admission is FREE for all Beth El
children with one toy per child to be
donated.
Menorah lighting in the party room!
Pizza and soda too!
Grip socks for every jumper!
RSVP to the Beth El office
**Please note that all guests must sign our waiver
prior to entering the trampoline arena**
Shabbat Morning
with
Rick
Saturday, December 1st
Congregation Beth El
422 Shirley Avenue
Norfolk
9:30 AM - Shabbat
morning service followed
by kiddush lunch
Latkepalooza and One Happy Camper’s Camp
Extravaganza as part of the Simon Family JCC’s Lee &
Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival present:
Rick Recht LIVE - Free To Be Concert Tour
Sunday, December 2nd
Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus
5000 Corporate Woods Drive, Virginia Beach
12:00 - 3:30 PM Latke lunch, visiting authors
& visiting Jewish sleepaway camp activities.
All events are FREE (unless noted otherwise) and open to the
community with RSVP required.
For more details on the weekend contact Lisa Rosenbach,
PJ Library Coordinator at [email protected] or 757-452-3182
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Sharing Good Fortune – The Greensboro Pulpit Exchange By Rabbi Jeffrey M Arnowitz
When it comes to Jewish history, it is easy to get stuck looking at it as a
series of misfortunes and tragedies, assaults and insults. Especially after a deadly
attack like the horrifying one at Pittsburgh’s Tree of Life synagogue last month, it
is tempting to become mired in the morass of tragic events. However, when we
look at Jewish history as a series of unfortunate events we are doing a terrible
disservice to an amazing story of a great people - a people who not only survives
whatever the world throws at us, but who thrive and bring ethics, values and
knowledge treasured by people the world over. You can look at the story as a
tragic tale of woe, but the truth is it is an amazing story of triumph, of success against all odds.
One of those remarkable Jewish ideals is that when a Jewish person or the Jewish people
experience good fortune, we share it. It is why when a Jewish person gets a little money, they share a
bit of it with someone who might need it more (it’s called tzedakah) and it is why when God gave us
the great gift of Torah, we decided to share its wisdom and values with the whole world rather than
keep them to ourselves. When Jews have good fortune, we share good fortune – it is who we are.
This month I am interpreting that principle in a new way. Some of you may remember that last
June I traveled to Greensboro, North Carolina to participate in the installation ceremony of my dear
friend and study partner of over twenty years, Rabbi Joshua Ben-Gideon. Josh and I have been
studying together since our first year of Rabbinical School and over the phone or on Skype for the
fifteen years that have followed. Tami and I are also close with Josh’s family, especially his wife, Rabbi
Rebecca Ben-Gideon. We danced at each other’s weddings, shared more Shabbat dinners together than
we can count, and have been celebrating life’s ups and downs, our triumphs and tribulations, over these
many years. It has been my good fortune to be able to learn with Josh and from him, and to cultivate
a close and enduring friendship over the pursuit of Torah. As of last year, it was also my good fortune
to have the Ben-Gideons move to a congregation on the East Coast. Now, during the weekend of
December 14th -16th, I am looking forward to sharing my good fortune with you.
I cannot express all the ways that I have benefited from learning Torah with the Rabbis Ben-
Gideon and now you will get a taste of it too! The Rabbis Ben-Gideon will be visiting our
congregation, teaching three times over the course of the weekend on their general theme of “Jewish
Values as a Tool for Facing an Uncertain World.” On Friday evening, December 14th, our regular
service will begin at its usual time of 5:45 pm, but it will be abbreviated and Rabbi Ben-Gideon will
present “Blessing Our Week, Our Children, Our Life.” On Saturday morning the 15th, both the Rabbis
Ben-Gideon will speak during the sermon time, presenting “He said, She said – Two Rabbinic Takes
on Leadership.” And Sunday morning the 16th, they will present a program for our parents (obviously
the time is conducive to our Beit Sefer Shalom parents, but all are encouraged to attend) called “Raising
Mensches in an Uncivil Society.”
I am so excited to share my friends, colleagues and teachers with my Beth El family and so excited
for them to meet all of you. In February, I will be completing the exchange by spending a Shabbat with
their congregation in Greensboro. I hope you will join us for at least a couple of opportunities to learn
with these wonderful rabbis and people. It promises to be a meaningful, warm and uplifting weekend.
Rabbi Jeffrey M. Arnowitz
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Dear Beth El families,
Hanukkah is here! There are so many ways to make this holiday and indeed,
the entire holiday season more meaningful. This season is full of magic possibility,
gratitude, and miracles. All of these are constantly present, however; for some
reason during this time of year, our consciousness is more attuned and we are more
open to recognizing the miraculous that surrounds us!
Hanukkah is also about rededication. A main theme of the Hanukkah story is
to take that which has been ruined, tarnished, or destroyed and rededicate ourselves
to making it better. With the new year coming, we take stock of ourselves and our world, and with a critical eye
we look at what needs renewed attention and dedication. We use the magic found in the air to dream big and to
reimagine our world, personally, communally, and globally. We formulate goals, and plan for a better, more
productive year where all our dreams and desires will come true.
However, at some point during all our dreaming, we realize that to make these dreams come to fruition, we
must be willing to put in the work to make them happen. This is frustrating, because we are an instant
gratification society. We must have what we want NOW and no later. This attitude is pervasive. We want the
weight gone now; we want to speak that new language now; we want to be magically more organized and a better
person; we want solutions and an end to world strife, hunger, and global warming and we want it all to happen
NOW, if not yesterday.
Well, I believe that miracles can happen...they just sometimes need a little help. Another valuable lesson
to learn from the Hanukkah story is that what looks insurmountable and impossible to conquer can be overcome
by the efforts of even just a few individuals who believe with all their hearts that they can make a difference.
Because here is the truth: we have no idea how many peoples’ lives we touch on a regular basis. Through daily
encounters - social media, phone calls, etc.; we are interacting with others on a regular basis, much more than
we ever have in history. What we say and do CAN make a serious impact! We are all part of each other's social
consciousness. Imagine what we could do if we took that seriously? The Rabbi and I take the time and effort
in these bulletin articles and in our weekly emails to formulate messages that we hope will inspire. We take these
seriously because we want to help and to motivate, to educate and move people to action. You, each of you, have
no idea how many people look to you as an example and as someone to emulate. So many more people see you
than you think. It is time we, as a society and as individuals, accepted that our voices and our attitudes carry
weight and we cannot take that responsibility lightly.
As we light our Hanukkah candles each night this year, let us dedicate each light to a new action we will
take to make a difference. As the great rabbi, Abraham Joshua Heschel, once wrote, “Pray as if everything
depends on God, but act as if everything depends on you.”
Below are a couple of websites which contain ideas of ways to make Hanukkah more meaningful to you
and your family. Please look through them. They cover everything from different ways to think of gift giving,
to activities to do with your family that can be fun and also create a deeper impression of the holiday and its
purpose.
8 Insights for 8 Hanukkah Nights - https://ncsy.org/8-insights-8-nights-Hanukkah/
8 Ideas for a meaningful Hanukkah - ( skewed to adults)
http://www.reclaimingjudaism.org/teachings/eight-ideas-meaningful-Hanukkah
Enjoy and may the joy of sharing the lights in our lives cause us to glow ever brighter!
B'ahava rabah from ALL the Fried Family!
A Note from Cantor Wendi
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FROM OUR SYNAGOGUE PRESIDENT
Dear Friends,
As I contemplated the writing of this message, I had a really hard time
trying to figure out how to begin. The past month has been so full of
extraordinary experiences that I cannot just pass it by. I feel that the impact of
the attack in Pittsburgh on our innocent brothers and sisters will be with us
always. It is another “Never Forget” event! The fact that anti-Semitism has
been allowed to raise its ugly head and allowed to flourish in our beloved
country is undeniable and unforgiveable. We as Jewish people must reject any
kind of hate-oriented behavior against anyone because of race, creed, gender or
sexual choice. We are all God’s children and deserve to live our lives in freedom
and acceptance. The outpouring of love and concern from our community and
from those around the country was so comforting. They let us know that we are not alone! We must
continue in our mission of Tikun Olam – to repair or perfect the world. Kindness should be our
watchword!
The mid-term election campaign was going on during all of that and the continuous barrage of
horrible advertisements simply made it difficult to take our minds off of the times in which we live.
I want to let you know because of all that has happened, Beth El’s Security Committee has begun to
review and investigate any changes that will need to be made to insure our safety and the safety of our
buildings and grounds. We are working with experts in the field and will adjust our plan to meet any
required changes. You will be kept informed.
On a brighter note, there were some wonderful programs in November from both the Sisterhood and
Men’s Club, as well as a lovely Progressive Shabbat Dinner planned by Jody Alperin. I know that those who
were able to take part in them had a wonderful time. Thanks to all who gave of their time and volunteered.
Hopefully, Thanksgiving gave us a time to reflect, enjoy being with family and friends and to relax!
Now for December: I hope that you will take advantage of the wonderful program going on the first
weekend of the month with Rick Recht. Please see the previous bulletin and the weekly e-mails for details.
There are Friday Shabbat services and a dinner at Ohef Sholom Temple and Saturday Shabbat services and
kiddush at Beth El, as well as a Sunday component for our students. Shortly after that, there are two
Hanukkah celebrations. One, a family celebration at Cloud 9 on December 4th and to follow, Latkes on Tap
at 58 Deli on December 5th for adults. Remember to RSVP.
If you plan to be away for winter vacation, I wish you all a safe and happy journey as well as best
wishes for a very happy and healthy 2019. I look forward to seeing you at Shabbat services.
At the basis of yoga stands the idea of unity. Mind, body and soul come together through
movement, postures and breath. This idea is not foreign to Judaism. "Nefesh bria'a b-guf bari"
(Healthy soul in healthy body.) is a famous dictum by Rabbi Moshe Ben Maimon (the Rambam),
which shows that yoga and Judaism cross paths. Come to explore this dialogue between two,
millennia old traditions with Anna Mirkova, a certified yoga teacher and a Beth El member. Anna
will hold an introductory meeting on Sunday, January 6th, 10:45 - 11:45 am. Bring your mat
(or let us know if you need one) and let's begin a journey together.
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I love covering myself with a talith from the cabinet in front of the sanctuary, particularly because they are
not personal but belong to the shul. These taliths symbolize to me that we come to the service as a community
rather than as individuals. A few Sabbaths ago, as my family was taking our habitual seats in the sanctuary, my
daughter suddenly turned to me and asked with a lack of tactless typical to rising teenagers, “Daddy, what is this
bad smell here? Where is it coming from?” “I don’t know,” I answered, “I don’t smell anything bad.” Then my
daughter took the edge of my talith and sniffed it quickly. “Ahh, this talith smells really bad,” she gave her
verdict. I got quite offended. I didn’t think that the talith smelled bad. Yes, it smelled old and used, but it wasn’t
dirty. This particular smell of fabric was actually one of the things that gave me the feeling of a communal ritual
associated with home. My family was not an ardent synagogue goer, but we had a collection of taliths for High
Holidays, bar mitzvahs and other Jewish lifecycle occasions. Additionally, my father was an upholsterer and a
curtain maker. As a child I used to take naps in his warehouse improvising a bed with rolls of fabric.
Then an understanding came to my mind. My daughter thought that the talith smelled bad because the
sensory experience of thaliths (as well as Torah scrolls, prayer books, tefilin etc.) was unfamiliar to her. We
joined Beth El only a couple of years ago. Beforehand, we did not practice a lot of Jewish rituals, mostly only
Passover seder and Hanukkah. And so, this smell was not imprinted in her during her early childhood. The smell
of old taliths is like the smell of mothballs or French cheese. Most people will most likely judge them as stinky
and awfully. But for me, the smell of mothball take me back to my childhood’s closet of off-season clothes; the
smell of French cheese takes me back to my post-military service trip in France.
This smelly talith incident was quite brief. My daughter may have already forgotten it. I didn’t. Actually,
it came to my mind again when some of our Sunday school teachers have recently initiated class sessions that
involve all the five senses: smell, sight, sound, touch, and taste. Shoshana Good and her 6th graders started
rearranging the shul library, which they use as their classroom. Shoshana is also going to start cooking lessons
for her students. The first task is going to be sufganiyot (Hanukkah doughnuts) made from scratch for the entire
school. Bill Nossen and his 3rd graders and Ina Leiderman and her 7th graders tidied up the sanctuary after the
healing service that we had in early November. Betsy Karotkin and her team taught our 4th and 5th graders how
to create clay Hanukkah menorahs. Cantor Wendi chants Shaharit prayers with our 6th and 7th graders every
Sunday morning. She also constructed an entire Hebrew curriculum from K-7 based on the musical power of
liturgical chanting.
By no means are these “fun activities” but serious learning of Judaism through the senses. A famous Israeli
song, “In our Village Todra” (Etzlenu bi-Kfar Todra), tells how teachers in a Moroccan Jewish community
introduced the Hebrew alef-beth by asking the kids to lick letters drawn on a board with honey. “May the Torah
in the mouth be sweet like honey;” the teachers imprinted love to the abstract concept of Torah on children’s
minds by using a strong positive sense impression of sweet honey. The pedagogy behind this practice is to
cultivate Judaism not as the absolutely right religion, but as our religion, meaning, our home, our family, our
land, our history, our heritage. And the most effective way to hold this idea is by making everything Jewish
connote with our sense data, both things we judge as pleasant or unpleasant. In so doing, we learn to connect our
entire life to Judaism, because, at its utmost life is experienced through the senses.
Eran Livni, Head of School
Beit Sefer Shalom and UHS 2.0
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Beth El Mussar Discussion Group
If you loved ‘Torah on Tap’ you’ll love this too…
Join us for a casual exploration of the “mussar” tradition in this open, easy setting. Mussar is the ancientJewish practice of living the best life for your spirit and its wisdom has the ability to inspire us on our ownspiritual paths. Using texts from modern books and ancient manuscripts we will unlock some of that wisdomtogether and explore how it can help each of us on our unique spiritual journeys.
This group will meet monthly in the home of Michael Levinson (across from the Cavalier Hotel) on thesecond Wednesday (except December) of every month from 7pm to 8:30pm. Following the discussion, all areinvited to join us for drinks across the way at the Cavalier Hotel.
When: 7-8:30pm on 12/11, 1/9, 2/13, 3/13, 4/10 and 5/8Where: Home of Michael Levinson, 4076 Harlow Street in VA Beach, next to the Cavalier Hotel
All are welcome, bring a friendAnd please RSVP to the office at 625-7821!
Lunch & Learn
December 5th & 12th
No Lunch & Learn on December 19th & 26th.
Beth El Lunch and Learn is a vibrant group of fressers (eaters) and learners who come together weekly
for good food and stand alone discussions led by Rabbi Arnowitz, Rabbi Ruberg, and Cantor Wendi. We meet
every Wednesday from noon to 1:30 pm. Cost: $5.00 per person
ADULTS: LEARN HEBREW THIS FALL with Miriam Brunn Ruberg
Sunday mornings - Follows the same schedule as Beit Sefer Shalom through December 16th
(December 2nd at the JCC)
Hebrew for Beginners l1:00 am to 12:00 pm
Learn letters of the alphabet, vowels and how to decode in order to read the siddur
(Only cost is buying the text book)
Intermediate Hebrew 9:45 am to 10:45 am
Continue reading specific prayers in the siddur while also learning "key" words, their meaning and
understanding those prayers
If you are interested in either class, please call the synagogue office at 625-7821.
Save the Date
Latkes on Tap
(Latkes are on us!)Wednesday, December 5th from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
The 58 Deli
4000 Virginia Beach Boulevard #156 Virginia Beach, VA 23452
We’ll enjoy each other’s company, learn some Torah and enjoy a frosty beverage(alcoholic or not, your choice).
All are welcome!
Please RSVP to Sandy or Noelle in the office (625-7821) or on Facebook.
Bar/bat Mitzvah Center
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Simone Leah Nied will
celebrate her Bat Mitzvah on
December 24th in Jerusalem,
Israel. The service will take
place at Robinson’s Arch, the
south end of the Western Wall.
She is currently a 6th grader at
Norfolk Academy. Simone
enjoys playing the piano,
tennis, field hockey and lacrosse. Simone is the
daughter of Emily and Joel Nied and the
granddaughter of Renee and Stephen Caplan and
Thelma and Bob Nied of Jacksonville, Florida.
Julia Wainger is the
daughter of Jill and Brian
Wainger and the sister of Erin
and Caroline. She is an 8th
grader at Norfolk Academy
and plays piano, field hockey
and soccer.
She will be celebrating
her Bat Mitzvah in Israel on
December 27th.
Jonah Zuckerman is
the son of Megan and Steve
Zuckerman and Chloe's
brother. He is a 7th grader at
the International Baccalaureate
Middle Years Program
Advanced Academy at Plaza
Middle School. Jonah is a
huge sports fan and enjoys
playing basketball and tennis.
He will be celebrating his Bar Mitzvah at
Beth El on December 8th and then will celebrate
again on December 27th in Jerusalem.
SUMMER SCHOLARSHIPS
WHERE WILL YOUR CHILDREN BE THIS SUMMER?
Many opportunities exist for Beth El students to
participate in Jewish enrichment programs during the
summer, and the Scholarship Committee is looking
forward to providing funds for Beth El youngsters to
attend these wonderful activities. Information on
programs, such as Camp Ramah, USY on Wheels, and
trips to Israel are available through the synagogue and
the Federation.
Beth El’s Men’s Club and Sisterhood provide
scholarship subsidies. In addition, the Cherin and Polis
Family Trusts, and the Sharon Spitalney Scholarship
Fund were established specifically for this purpose.
Funds are available from these sources for the children
of members in good standing (i.e., those whose financial
obligations to Beth El are current).
Apply for scholarship funds by submitting the
following application by March 15, 2019, to:
Beth El Scholarship Committee
c/o Dorothy Spitalney
2421 Ocean Shore Crescent, Apt. 402
Virginia Beach, VA 23451
Child’s name:_________________________________
Age:________________________________________
Address:_____________________________________
Phone number(s):______________________________
Parents’ names:________________________________
Name and sponsor of activity:____________________
Cost of activity:_______________________________
Length of activity______________________________
Other scholarship funds available to the
applicant:_____________________________________
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SISTERHOOD HAPPENINGS
Sisterhood is winding up an
eventful 2018. We are in the process
of purchasing new equipment to
update the Beth El kitchen and are
planning to once again help the Park
Place School celebrate their holiday
season. We need unwrapped gifts for
boys and girls ages 5-12, as well as
assistance for the holiday party. Please
check the weekly email for additional
details. Sisterhood is planning a fun
2019 and details will be announced in
the near future. Our first Open
Meeting will take place January 22nd.
Sisterhood Shabbat is scheduled for
March 16th, and a Paid-Up Member
dinner will take place next September.
TORAH FUND
Have you finished YOUR Hanukkah shopping? I hope you will consider
making your loved one a Torah Fund Benefactor for this year. The pin is one of
the most striking ones that we have ever seen, and everyone is commenting on
how lovely it is. It is titled “ATID”, which means FUTURE in Hebrew. Every
dollar we raise goes to the Jewish Theological Seminary and their constituent
agencies to help train rabbis, cantors, Jewish educators and others who will help
provide a positive future for our Conservative Judaism in our communities and
around the world.
We have contacted all but six of our previous contributors. Don’t be shy.
Call us if we haven’t called you! Benefactors are $180; Guardians are $300;
Associate Patrons are $600. You have until May 15, 2019 to pay your pledge. (Although you might want
to do it before December 31, 2018!) You may pay by check (made out to TORAH FUND) in one lump sum
or throughout the year. You can also put it on your credit card so you can accumulate those points! (We
take VISA, MASTERCARD, DISCOVER and AMERICAN EXPRESS.)
We look forward to hearing from you.
Barbara Abraham & Ina Mirman Leiderman
Torah Fund Co-Chairwomen
BETH EL GIFT SHOP
Hanukkah!
Last minute shopping...
Menorahs - traditional and ceramic children’s.
Chocolate Hanukkah gelt, nut free
Hanukkah candles - standard and deluxe
Hanukkah shortbread cookies
Dreidles of all sizes.
Perfect for your child’s class. Stock up now!
Jumbo inflatable dreidles
Hanukkah wooded bead sets
Games
Menorah drip trays
Hanukkah gift bags,
Beautiful gift items including
The Artistry of Janis Weisberg
and
the Linda Gissen Collection
MEN’S CLUB NEWS
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TO COME: Save the date: (co-chaired by Mark Kozak and Norman Soroko) The Ben Gordon Family Bingo
night is Saturday, February 2, 2019. Practice your daubing and remember to observe the “bingo fast” (i.e. no
hotdogs, potato chips, pickles, popcorn or brownies for 24 hours prior to the event).
GOODNESS AND WELFARE: Ron Gladstone is home and recovering from heart surgery at the Cleveland
Clinic. Looking forward to the return of our club’s Veep, steak connoisseur and head grill-maven so we can
observe the much-heralded “Scotch and Steak” event. Date and time to follow as soon as we know.
MITZVAH TIME: Shomrim committee: One of the highest mitzvot. A few hours of meaningful solitude while
you sit in the parlor of a funeral home to honor the deceased prior to the funeral. Call Norman Soroko to
participate: 451-8505.
Emeritus wheeling: How often do you get to push around a rabbi?! Do yourself a favor and have the joy of
schmoozing one-on-one on anything from sports to ethics. Those of us who “wheel” get to experience Shabbos
in an above average way. And Miriam is no slouch either.
Minyan: Especially Monday and Thursday mornings at 7:15am. Pick one day a month. It’s a Jewish thing.
Families needing to say kaddish will be grateful.
Beth El to house the homeless - N.E.S.T.January 23rd - 30th
When we open our house to those without shelter, not only are we helping them but we are also allowing
our own light to shine forth. The NEST program is Beth El’s way of opening our home to the poor and sharing
our bread with the hungry. It has long been our premier social action project – the program that allows our “light
to burst through like the dawn.”
This year, Congregation Beth El will again open its doors to the homeless of our community for a week
beginning Wednesday, January 23rd. For the twenty-third year, Beth El will join churches and area synagogues
in hosting and feeding the homeless throughout the winter months as part of the efforts of NEST (Norfolk
Emergency Shelter Team).
In the past, Beth El has depended on the commitment of its members for this important mitzvah.
Volunteers are needed again to register guests, prepare and serve meals and to be available during the night and
early morning hours to monitor the program. Contributions are greatly needed to fund this program. Those who
can are encouraged to send a check to Beth El with the notation that is for the homeless program.
If you would like to donate to this program or volunteer, please see the form below. We would like to
request warm hats and gloves or packages of white crew socks and hotel/travel size toiletries.
I WANT TO HELP THE HOMELESS
Listed below are the dates and times that we need volunteers. Please choose a time that you would like
to volunteer and call the Beth El office at 625-7821. If you would like to make a donation to the Homeless
Fund, please mail your check to:
Congregation Beth El ** 422 Shirley Avenue ** Norfolk, VA 23517
with “Homeless” in the memo section
Evening Shift
6:30 pm - 10:00 pm
qWednesday, January 23
q Thursday, January 24
q Saturday, January 26
q Sunday, January 27
q Monday, January 28
q Tuesday, January 29
Late Shift
10:00 pm - 5:30 am
qWednesday, January 23
q Thursday, January 24
q Saturday, January 26
q Sunday, January 27
q Monday, January 28
q Tuesday, January 29
Morning Shift
5:30 am - 7:30 am
q Thursday, January 24
q Friday, January 25
q Sunday, January 27
q Monday, January 28
q Tuesday, January 29
qWednesday, January 30
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We are grateful for the generous contributions of those who support Beth Elby remembering and honoring their friends and loved ones.
PEARL K. ALECK
LIBRARY ENDOWMENT
IN MEMORY OF
Harold Knof
Warren & Helen Aleck*
IN HONOR OF
Bernice Moses’ special
birthday
Warren & Helen Aleck*
SPEEDY RECOVERY TO
Helen Aleck
Joyce & Bert Legum (B)
Ron Gladstone
Warren & Helen Aleck*
TEMPLE FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Sally Ambrose
Joyce Greif*
Peter Fried
Rick & Janice Foleck*
Ed & Betsy Karotkin**
Mark Goldstein
Mark & Brenda Kozak*
Larry & Jill Smith*
Jimmy Legum
Harold Pollack
& Jerry Pollack
Albert Nelowet, Jr.
Manny & Judy Smith*
Bete Anne Turok
Paul & Vivian Turok**
Arlene Wolfe
Jeff Chernitzer*
Dorothy Wyron
Irma Kopelove & Family
Marvin & Marsha Merkle
& Heather Umberger*
Stanley & Linda Samuels*
IN HONOR OF
Alan & Janet Arnowitz’s
anniversary
Rick & Janice Foleck*
Mark & Betty Greenspan
Raymond Norton (G)
Neil Rose’s Barron F. Black
Community Builder Award
David & Jody Laibstain*
Karen Samuels’ engagement
Barbara Rosenblum*
Hubert & Brenda Shapiro’s
anniversary
Larry & Judy Dobrinsky
Sam Stromberg’s bar
mitzvah
David & Jody Laibstain*
Sam Werbel’s good health
Eric & Joan Joffe*
SPEEDY RECOVERY TO
Ron Gladstone
Allen & Barbara Gordon*
Ed & Betsy Karotkin**
Ellen Harris
Larry & Judy Dobrinsky*
Jonathan Harris
Larry & Judy Dobrinsky*
Jim Steiger
George & Amy Ginsburg
FRED & BEVERLY
HANDEL MEMORIAL
FUND
IN HONOR OF
Neil Rose’s Barron F. Black
Community Builder Award
Dan & Sylvia Leland*
RABBI ARNOWITZ
DISCRETIONARY FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Arlene Wolfe
Keith & Laura Goldstein (B)
Dottie Wyron
Dorothy Zimmerman
CANTOR
DISCRETIONARY FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Peter Fried
Allen & Barbara Gordon
JAY BARR ART FUND
SPEEDY RECOVERY TO
Marcus Friedman
Clay Barr
SHARON SPITALNEY
SCHOLARSHIP FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Rebecca Arnowitz
Kenny & Barbara Rossen
Peter Fried
Kenny & Barbara Rossen
SPEEDY RECOVERY TO
Ron Gladstone
Ron & Dorothy Spitalney*
Mannie Smith
Ron & Dorothy Spitalney
CARE FUND
IN MEMORY OF
Sonya Fine
Richard & Nancy Rosen*
Jimmy Legum
Richard & Nancy Rosen*
Ronnie Zedd
Richard & Nancy Rosen*
MINYAN FUND
SPEEDY RECOVERY TO
James Steiger
Burt & Patsy Barr*
Condolences to
Manuel Wyron on the loss of his wife,
Dorothy Wyron of blessed memory.
REMEMBRANCE DONATIONS
* = Chai = $18
** = Double Chai = $36
B = Bronze = $19 - $49
S = Silver = $50 - $99
G = Gold = $100 or more
Minyan Service Times
During the month of December evening minyan will be
at Beth El. (No Saturday evening services.)
All morning services and Saturday morning Shabbat
services will be at Beth El.
Mornings: Monday - Friday, 7:15 am at Beth El.
Minyan on Sunday mornings is at Beth El at
8:00 am and 9:15 am.
Friday evenings are at Beth El at 5:45 pm
Saturday minchah service immediately following
Kiddush lunch.
As always, Sunday evening services at 5:45 pm at
Temple Israel
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December YahrzeitsWe record the sacred memory of the following departed members of the families of our congregation on the occasion of yahrzeit.
The names of our beloved departed are read from the pulpit at each evening minyan.
DECEMBER 1
Morris Blumenthal
Isaac Fine
Anna Frieden
Moses Glasser
Helen Greenspan
Leon Harris
Margaret Hirsch
Esther Hirschfeld
Gertrude Kent
Milton Kruger
Rhoda Mazur
Sadie Miller
DECEMBER 2
Samuel Balaban
Louis Mand
Samuel Mantinband
Isidore Rosenfeld
Tillie Waller
DECEMBER 3
Harold Benas
Molly Benson
Morris Cohen
Pauline Crockin
Sophie Familant
Rachel Glasser
Shirlee Glazer
Ethel Goldblatt
Howard Good
Jennie Kravitz
Jack Laskin
Bar-yochai Mahgerefteh
Louis Nathan
Dorothy Petock
Dorothy Sandler
Henry Schloss
Anna Schwartz
Theodore Woodman
DECEMBER 4
Samuel Baum
Myer Blumenthal
Raymond Cohen
Selma Gottlieb
Isadore Katz
Gladys Lehman
Morris Mirman
Isaac Myers
Ruth Zedd
DECEMBER 5
Sheila Colby
Isaac Evans
Sam Forman
Sara Kaplan
Frances Keller
Celia Pollock
Benjamin Rippe
Benjamin Schloss
DECEMBER 6
Benjamin Harris
Sarah Mendelsohn
John Mullen
Joseph Smith
Harry Weiss
DECEMBER 7
Minnie Barr
Herman Bodner
Byron Cohen
Leon Familant
Howard Kruger
Barbara Siegel
DECEMBER 8
Burnley Friedman
Millicent Levin
David Levy
Morris Pekarsky
Anna Rosenbaum
Abraham Rosenbaum
Harry Samuels
Samuel Stein
DECEMBER 9
Anne Amelson
Louis Bass
Rosalee Familant
Betty Gottlieb
Joan Griff
Esther Kirshon
Rose Kittner
Gertrude Levin
Herman Sacks
Wolf Weber
DECEMBER 10
Marion Baydush
Esghel Dayanim
Albert Epstein
Joseph Goldblatt
Herbert Kanter
Ida Leon
Adolph Lombart
Rose Rafal
Stanley Rosenberg
Clara Zahler
DECEMBER 11
Leon Cohen
Beatrice Goldman
Julius Kurtzwile
Isaac Leibowitz
Lillie Mand
Lena Richter
Marta Ruiz
Norma Waranch
DECEMBER 12
Samuel Adelston
Shmuel Cahana
Hyman Cohen
Steven Eichelbaum
David Frank
Asher Friedman
Irving Kantor
Lillian Sonnenberg
DECEMBER 13
Lena Abraham
Frederick Baydush
David Dobrinsky
Helen Martin
Ann Monas
Barney Peipert
Michael Robins
DECEMBER 14
William Haines
Bronia Hendler
Morris Janow
Lena Krause
Phillip Leibowitz
Celia Levine
Arthur Rose
Bessie Streen
Max Unger
DECEMBER 15
Fannie Cohen
Louis Frank
Barbara Goldstein
Beatrice Myers
Sol Novak
Libby Rossen
Leah Slomowitz
Sadie Tabakin
DECEMBER 16
Victor Altschul
Morris Fleishman
Bertie Geffen
Pauline Hillman
Edna Levin
Abe Shames
Ilene Soroko
Tillie Weisman
DECEMBER 17
Morris Bass
Adam Caplan
Max Friedlander
Harry Goldstein
Mollie Gordon
Mack Marcus
Edith Mitnick
DECEMBER 18
Mary Bomell
Julian Colby
Louis Holzveig
Clara Kerpelman
June Kramer
Gerald Lavenstein
Samuel Rosenblum
Samuel Streen
DECEMBER 19
Peyser Abraham
Ida Brown
Minnie Elias
Matilda Hainer
Sidney Katz
Arthur Klavans
Max Kurtz
William Lannik
Augusta Lazarus
Rose Levinson
Norman Prince
George Rowe
Edith Shorr
Hyman Sonkin
Bluma Taplin
DECEMBER 20
Shirley Beder
Harry Berlind
Samuel Brownstein
Helen Feldman
Israel Galumbeck
Harold Groh
Al Heller
Alan Mand
Jennie Novak
Eliezer Saunders
Ida Silverman
Simon Sonnenberg
Morton Traub
DECEMBER 21
Irving Albert
Max Aron
Susan Bordon
Meyer Cohen
Herman Dorf
Moses Fox
DECEMBER 22
Jacob Banks
Israel Broudy
Lois Ginsburg
Benjamin Hurwitz
Lena Kreger
DECEMBER 23
Bernard Batleman
Loretta Cohen
Lenore Dubroff
Frances Epstein
Pauline Foote
Minnie Goodman
Jeanne Spector
DECEMBER 24
Jeanne Baum
Ray Bloom
Rosalye Fried
Eugene Kamer
Abraham Levine
Betty Morris
Samuel Myers
Ida Rafelman
Dora Swersky
Jesse Swersky
Hyman Zfass
DECEMBER 25
Barbara Golsen
Leah Gordon
Mary Hirschfeld
Isaac Ossen
Harry Rosen
Sylvia Saunders
Sharon Sperling
Arlene Stein
Helen Weintrob
DECEMBER 26
Harry Clark
Oscar Coplon
Dora Mirman
Melvin Ornoff
Frances Smith
Samuel Weisberg
DECEMBER 27
Joel Abraham
Ida Berman
Miriam Gordon
Murray Kantor
Nathan Katz
Bernard Landau
Charles Littman
Bernard Martin
Stanley Martin
Milton Morewitz
Frances Moskowitz
Reva Sprung
Samuel Steingold
DECEMBER 28
Frances Barr
Max Bass
Sacharia Finestone
Abe Galinsky
Samuel Ganderson
Irwin Goldstein
Lenore Holsveig
Bessie Hurwitz
DECEMBER 29
Bertha Brownstein
Dora Galumbeck
Adele Gilbert
Toba Katz
Rachel Ossen
Fannie Reich
Alfred Schulman
Isadore Schwartz
Arthur Siegel
DECEMBER 30
Lewis Barber
Hanna Konikoff
Hannah Myers
Irwin Waranch
DECEMBER 31
Ida Frieden
Rachel Higger
Esther Horwitz
Herman Laibstain
Eliot Landau
David Mervis
Joe Reshefsky
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Save the Date
Rabbis in Residence Weekend
December 14th - 16th
A special treat, December 14th-16th we will host Rabbi Arnowitz’s close
friends Rabbi Joshua and Rabbi Rebecca Ben-Gideon. The Ben-
Gideons will serve as our Rabbis-in-Residence for the weekend,
teaching, preaching and sharing their unique wisdom and spirit. The
schedule for the weekend:
Friday evening, December 14th - Service and talk “Blessing Our Children, Our Week Our Life” followed bya community Shabbat dinner – $18 per adult/$10 children 4-12/FREE 3 and under. Service begins at 5:45 pm.RSVP to the office at 625-7821
Saturday morning, December 15th – During sermon time both Rabbis Ben-Gideon will present: “He Said,She Said – Two Rabbis’ Take on Leadership.”
Sunday, December 16th at 11am – Refreshments and discussion for parents: “Raising Mensches in an UncivilSociety.”
This program is part of a pulpit swap arranged by Rabbi Arnowitz. He will visit Greensboro, North Carolina
as the Rabbi in Residence in February.