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‘What if……?’ cards The cards can be used as a game or for discussion Using ‘One-Step Removed’, this strategy can enable a child to talk about a situation without it feeling personal and help them practice some helpful problem solving skills There are no right or wrong answers although we can ask o How might the person be feeling? o What other choices might there be? o Would that be a safe choice? o Who could they talk with?………….. Families Feeling Safe Ltd 2015 www.familiesfeelingsafe.co.uk

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‘What if……?’ cards

• The cards can be used as a game or for discussion

• Using ‘One-Step Removed’, this strategy can enable a child to talk about a situation without it feeling personal and help them practice some helpful problem solving skills

• There are no right or wrong answers although we can ask

o How might the person be feeling?

o What other choices might there be?

o Would that be a safe choice?

o Who could they talk with?…………..

Families Feeling Safe Ltd 2015

www.familiesfeelingsafe.co.uk

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