attitude khera
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It's all about Attitude
From Shiv Khera
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You can win!
Winners dont do different things
They do things Differently
Confidence, Passion, Innovation,Determination, goal setting (futureoriented), dedicated, positive thinking &attitude, time management, learn frommistakes, disciplined, hard-working,persevering, cooperative , helpful,
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Factors that determine attitude
Home, School &Work: Positive orotherwiseenvironment
Environment alongwith Experiencebuilds our attitude
The formal orinformal educationwe have adds to it
Attitude
Environment Experience
Education
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High self-esteem doesnot mean big ego
Understand yourself
Know yourself
Value yourself
Know yourself
Wants
Predispositions
Ambitions
Desires
Responsibility
Discipline
LoveValue yourself
Confidence 2
Rights
Duty
Understand yourself
Values
Beliefs
Whys
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Eight Steps to Attitude Change
Change focus: Look forthe positive
Build a positive self-esteem
Make a habit of doing
it now
Stay away from
negative influencesDevelop an attitude ofgratitude
Learn to like the thingsthat need to be done
Get into a continuouseducation program
Start your day withsomething positive
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Success
Success is progressive realization of a worthygoal (Earl Nightingale)
Success is measured by knowing we have
done a job well and achieved our objective It is not measured by our position in life but
by the obstacles we overcame to get there
Lifes battles dont always go to the stronger
and faster man, But sooner or later the manwho wins is the man who thinks he can
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Our Strengths (for success)
PreparePrepare PlanPlanBe disciplinedBe disciplined
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Motivation
External (Money, incentives, societalapproval, fame, fear)
Internal (Pride, sense of achievement,responsibility, belief)
How does it work? Which one is moreimportant?
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Different types of Self-esteem
HighTalk about ideas
Caring attitude
Humility
Respects others
Courage of convictionConfidence
Concerned about character
Assertive
Accepts responsibility
OptimisticSensitive (willing to learn)
Discuss
LowTalk about people
Critical attitude
Arrogance
Rebels against authority
Goes along to get alongConfusion
Concerned about reputation
Aggressive
Blames the whole world
FatalisticTouchy know it all
Argue
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To cope with anger:
Distance yourself; dont take others angerpersonally
Understand cause of anger by listening andobserving carefully
Say little or nothing until anger has dieddown
After calm achieved, demonstrateunderstanding by acknowledging others
viewpoint (not same as agreeing) Negotiate a way forward or walk away
(Dena Michelli, 2007)
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Contrast between:
Negative behaviors
Ego, Arrogance,
Conceit Selfishness
Jealousy
Aggressiveness
Close-minded
Irresponsible
Positive behaviors
Pride
Self-interest
Envy
AssertivenessOpen-minded
Responsible
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Giving Critical feedback
Be considerate & private
Have confidence in what you want tosay
Take responsibility for the feedback
Make sure feedback is based onbehavior you want to see changed
Use positive body language
(Dena Michelli, 2007)
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& Receiving Critical feedback
Attend carefully to what is being said
Judge for yourself if it is valid; if not,
disregard it and move on
Do not argue you will only drawattention to your vulnerabilities
(Dena Michelli, 2007)
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Creating a positive first impression
Pay attention to the email/letter ortelephone which is the first contact andwhen you meet, take care of:
Appearance Mobility
Handshake
Body language
Voice, accent, speech pattern, tone
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And lastly, Be kind to yourself
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Bibliography
Khera, S. (2002). You can Win. NewDelhi, India: McMillan.
Michelli, D. (2007). Assertiveness in aweek. London, UK: Hodder &Stoughton