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    TartalomBevezet ..........................................................................4

    Az nbizalom megrtse ..............................................5

    Az elmd ereje ...............................................................12

    Testi nbizalom ............................................................31

    Viselkedj magabiztosan ..............................................36

    Kszts terveket, s rd a cljaidat ............................54

    Bnj jl magaddal, rezd jl magad ........................69

    J kls, j rzs ........................................................86

    Egyl, hogy magabiztosabb legyl ...........................100

    Mozogj az nbizalom fel .......................................117

    Pihens .........................................................................135

    Kezelsek s terpik ...............................................148

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    BEVEZET

    Az nbizalom abbl ered, hogyjl rzed magad a brdben,s hiszel a kpessgeidben. Olyanelmellapot, amelyet a hangoddal,

    a testbeszdeddel, a viselkedseddels a cselekedeteiddel adsz msoktudtra. Az nbizalomhiny

    jelei lehetnek az nbrlmegnyilvnulsok s a ktelkedsnmagunkban, amely visszatarthatminket, s megakadlyozhatja,hogy elrjk a teljes potencilunkat.Fontos megjegyezni, hogybr a magabiztos emberek isktelkedhetnek magukban idrlidre, k nem hagyjk, hogya flelmeik meglltsk ket abban,hogy elrjk a cljaikat. Sok embernem ismeri fel, hogy az nbizalom

    akkor nvekszik, ha hasznljuk,mint egy izmot. A magabiztosgondolkodst s viselkedstlehet gyakorolni, s idvelszokss vlhat. Ezek a knnyenkvethet tippek segtenekmegrteni, hogy mi befolysolja

    az nbizalmat, s hogy hogyanfejlesztheted az nbizalmad s aznbecslsed egszsges szintre.

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    AZ NBIZALOM

    MEGRTSE

    Az els lps a magabiztossgjavtsa fel az, hogy megrted,milyen befolyssal van rdaz nbizalom hinya, s hogyleginkbb milyen helyzetek miatt

    rzel gy. Nagyon ritka, hogyvalaki az let minden terletnnbizalom-hinyos. Br lehet,hogy kevsb vagy magabiztosa munkahelyeden vagy nagyobbtrsasgban, mgis magabiztoslehetsz ms terleteken,mint a fzs, a sportols vagya pnzgyek.

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    Amikor mr egy ideje vezeteda napldat, vlheten szrefogsz venni pr mintt.Lehetsges, hogy vannak olyanhelyzetek, amelyek cskkentikaz nbizalmad, vagy feltlt,ha egy bizonyos bartoddalbeszlsz. Azokat az emberekets helyzeteket nevezzk kivltoknak, akik vagy amelyeklehzzk az nbizalmad szintjt,s az egyik legegyszerbbdolog, amit tehetsz, hogymegtrd ezt a krforgst,

    hogy elkerld ket. Az olyanbart, aki miatt rosszul rzedmagad, nem igazi bart;az olyan ra vagy esemny,amitl rosszul rzed magad,nincs pozitv hatssal az letedre.Ha nem tudod teljesenelkerlni a kivlt okokat,akkor hasznld a kvetkeztippeket, hogy megbirkzzvelk, s fokozatosanmegvltoztasd ket.

    ISMERD A KIVLT OKOKAT

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    Kszts

    terveket,

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    rdel

    cljaidats

    a

    Nha tl nehznek tnhet, hogy kpbenlegyl mindennel, ami a munkahelyen

    s otthon folyik. Vedd vissza az irnytstazzal, hogy terveket ksztesz, ssszeszedett maradsz. A clok kitzses a feljk halads a teljestmnyrzett kelti, amely csodkattehet az nbecslseddel.

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    lnken kpzeld el, hogymilyen lenne az leted, ha mr

    eleve magabiztos lennl mostis. Milyen lenne a testtartsod?Hogyan mozognl? Milyenlenne a hangod? Mit mondanlmagadnak? Mit kpzelnl elaz elmdben? Ha mr tisztaa kp, kpzeld azt, hogy ez azember vagy. Lpj az helybe,

    s lsd a vilgod az szemvel;rezd, amit k reznek. Haezt gyakran csinlod, elfelejted,hogy csak megjtszod magad,s az nbizalom szokss vlik.

    VISELKEDJ GY,

    MINTHA HATALMASNBIZALMAD LENNE

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    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Your friendasks you to go out,saying you will enjoy it. You

    know that what you really wanttoday is to stay at home and watcha film. Instead of going out toplease your friend, talk to themand let them know that you are

    not in the mood, and that youwill see them soon for anotherevent. The likelihood is that theywill appreciate your honesty.

    Afnkdmegkr, hogy

    vllalj el egy j projektet,holott mr gy is tlhajszolt vagy,s tudod, hogy nem fogod tudnimegfelelen elvgezni a munkt.Ahelyett, hogy elvllalod, mertez tnik helyesnek, magyarzd

    el a helyzetet a fnkdnek,hogy megoldst talljatok.

    Abartodelhv bulizni, szerinte

    biztosan lvezni fogod.Te tudod, hogy egyszeren csakotthon akarsz maradni s filmetnzni. Ahelyett, hogy elmennlbulizni, hogy a bartod kedvretegyl, beszlj vele, s monddel neki, hogy nincs kedved

    hozz, majd ksbb elmszvele egy msik programra.Nagy valsznsggel rtkelnifogja az szintesged.

    PRO, BA, LD KI

    EZEKET AZ

    EGYSZERU,,

    HELYZETEKET:

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    A boldog, mosolygs arcokfertzk! Ha pozitv, tmogatemberekkel tltd az idt, az rdis hatssal lesz, s a te gondolataid

    is pozitvabbak lesznek. A bartoksegthetnek a fejldsben, sjavthatjk az nbizalmad saz nrtkelsed. A bartoktmogatnak minket a cljainkelrsben nneplik a sikereinket,s letrlik a knnyeinket, amikora dolgok nem a tervek szerint

    alakulnak. Meghallgatjk aztleteinket, s rtkes vlemnytnyjtanak cserbe. Sajnos nemminden bart tmogat. Ha

    valaki a trsasgodban inkbbleszv, vagy sokszor elszomort,akkor valsznleg itt az

    ideje j bartokat tallni!

    Keresda pozitv emberek

    trsasgt

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