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THE VOW OF

PURITY

GENESIS 2:24–25

“For this reason a man will leave his

father and mother and be united to his

wife, and they will become one flesh. The

man and his wife were both naked, and

they felt no shame. ”

TWO PEOPLE LEFT

THEIR FAMILY TO

FORM ONE NEW

FAMILY.

NO SHAME

TOTALLY INNOCENT

TOTALLY TRANSPARENT

NO EMBARRASSMENT

VERY INTIMATE

THAT’S WHAT GOD MADE

MARRIAGE

EMOTIONALLY

TRANSPARENT

SPIRITUAL

INTIMACY

PHYSICAL

INTIMACY

GOD CREATED SEX AND IT WAS

GOOD BUT IT MUST BE DONE

WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF

MARRIAGE , ENJOY IT, HAVE FUN

TO IT, AND IT IS A GIFT FROM

GOD TO COUPLES.

HERE WE WILL BE

TALKING THAT SECRETS

AND SHAME SEPARATES US.

GENESIS 3:7–10

Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and

they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig

leaves together and made coverings for

themselves. Then the man and his wife heard the

sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the

garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from

the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But

the Lord God called to the man, “Where are

you?” He answered, “I heard you in the garden,

and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid .”

SATAN PLAY A SHAME

GAME TO MANKIND.

YOU EXPERIENCE

SOMETHING DEEPLY

PAINFUL OR SINFUL.

YOU CONNECT WHAT

HAPPENED, WITH WHO

YOU ARE.

YOU BELIEVE THE

ONLY WAY TO BE

SAFE IS TO HIDE.

THE COUPLE THAT IS VERY

INTIMATE BEFORE, NOW THEY LIVE

ON SHAME. BECAUSE OF

SATAN’S SHAME GAME.

WHEREVER SECRETS LIVE,

INTIMACY DIES; WHEREVER

INTIMACY

LIVES SECRETS DIE.

AS A REVIEW WITH

THIS SERIES:

VOW OF PRIORITYVOW #1, I promise that God will be

my number ONE priority and my spouse

will be number TWO

VOW OF PURSUITVOW#2, I promise to always

pursue my number TWO.

VOW OF PARTNERSHIPVOW #3, I promise our marriage

will be about WE and not ME. I

will partner with my spouse.

VOW OF PURITYVOW #4: I PROMISE TO

CONFIDE IN YOU AND

NOT HIDE FROM YOU .

IT MEANS WE SHOULD BE

PURE WITH OUR SPOUSES.

WHAT ARE YOU HIDING?

IT COULD BE PROBLEM IN YOUR HEALTH,

IT COULD BE PROBLEM IN YOUR JOB,

IT COULD BE SPIRITUAL PROBLEM,

IT COULD BE YOUR PREVIOUS

RELATIONSHIP, ETC

WHEREVER SECRETS LIVE,

INTIMACY DIES;

WHEREVER INTIMACY

LIVES SECRETS DIES.

HOW CAN WE BREAK THE FEAR

OF THE PAST?

EPHESIANS 5:8–11

“For you were once darkness, but now you are

light in the Lord. Live as children of light

(for the fruit of the light consists in all

goodness, righteousness and truth) and find

out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do

with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but

rather expose them.”

DEFEATING THE

DARKNESS WITH GOD’S

LIGHT

CONFESS YOUR SECRETS.

RECEIVE ANY CONFESSIONS

WITH GRACE.

PRAYING TOGETHER

COMMIT TO THE HEALING

JOURNEY TOGETHER

“Therefore confess your sins to each

other and pray for each other so that you

may be healed.”

JAMES 5:16