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R C I ’ S “ R E A L - T I M E ” L E A R N I N G
POWERFUL COMMUNICATION TIPS TO GET ALONG WITH OTHERS
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R C I ’ S “ R E A L - T I M E ” L E A R N I N G
introductionWelcome! We are delighted that you are taking this course. We believe, “if you increase your learning, you will increase your earning.” We have designed RCI’s “Real-Time” Learning in four niches:
★★ Leadership
★★ Customer Service
★★ Sales
★★ Personal Development
Most modules can be completed in approximately 30 minutes or less to give you the help you need when you need it. Each contains practical and proven value that you can apply today. Sound learning theory supports each competency. Each is organized in three parts:
1. Self-assessment (5-8 minutes)...measure it!
2. Article (5-6 minutes)...study it!
3. Video and Application questions (10-15 minutes)...reinforce and apply it!
We encourage you to engage our other modules. All the skills and approaches in a niche reinforce one another. All learning, to be useful, must result in positive behavior or strategy changes. At the end of this module, review the other resources available. We wish you the best of success...now accelerate your career!
Positively,
Rick Conlow
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C O M M U N I C A T I N G P O W E R F U L L Y A N D A U T H E N T I C A L L Y
assessment➜ INSTRUCTIONS: Check your approach to your job with the assessment below. It doesn’t
matter if you are an employee, or a manager. Use a scale of 1-5 Mark a 1 if it is veryinfrequently like you, 5means it is very frequently like you. Answer as you think your othersexperience you, not how you would want to be.
YOU...
1._____ listen well to others.
2._____ ask sincere questions to better understand another person’s point of view.
3._____ make an effort to have a positive facial expressions.
4._____ are genuinely interested in knowing more about others.
5._____ are conscious how your voice tone fits the situation.
6._____ eliminate distractions and pay attention to others when you talk to them.
7._____ work at using words that resonate well with the situation and person you talk to.
8._____ go out of your way to help others when they are in need without being asked.
9._____ ensure that your body language sends a positive message not a negative one to others.
10._____ are sensitive to the needs of others (not just yours) particularly in stressful situations.
11._____ make every effort to give genuine compliments or praise to others.
12._____ take the initiative to follow-thru on what you say-you keep your commitments.
12._____ honestly like most people and treat them with respect, care, dignity or love.
Select your top 3-4 strengths.
Pick two areas for improvement where you rated yourself lower .
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R C I ’ S “ R E A L T I M E ” L E A R N I N G
POWERFUL COMMUNICATION TIPS TO GET ALONG WITH OTHERS
Someone once said, “Career success is simple, just do the right thing at the right time in the right way.” Getting along with other people is a key part of this equation. This doesn’t always mean you have to approve or agree with what others do or say. Rather, it means working effectively with others towards common goals.
People have an innate desire to get along with others
by communicating well. Once, at a conference with
about 500 people in attendance, the speaker asked for
any member of his audience to stand up that couldn’t
get along with other people. No one stood up. The
speaker issued the command again and still no one
stood up. After a little silence, finally, a man stood up at
the back of the group. The speaker said, “Sir, you mean
to tell me you can’t get along with other people.” The
guy replied, “Sure I can. But, I felt sorry for you standing
all by yourself.”
Though everyone may want to get along with others
this doesn’t always mean they do successfully. The
lack of these communication tips appear in
any given day. They show up when you open
the newspaper, go online or watch the news
there are countless stories of burglaries,
murders, divorces, business strife and family
problems. Sources say at any given time there
are over 40 wars in the world. The caustic
rhetoric of political campaigns demonstrate
the lack of collaboration in government. It is
also highlighted ed everyday in the workplace.
In fact, the #1 reason people leave a job isn’t
money, it’s because they either dislike their
boss or the people they work with. This begs
the question, are people really getting along?
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HOW TO GET ALONG WITH OTHER PEOPLE
Author, businessman and motivator Bob Conklin
had a unique way of looking at relationships. He
said, “Help other people be successful and you will
be successful.” Motivational speaker Zig Ziglar has
a similar approach as he adds, “Give other people
what they want and you will get what you want.”
Religious philosophers have written similar ideas.
Too often we lose the wisdom of the ages in our
frantic effort to succeed or take care of ourselves.
It often comes down to these values: follow the
golden rule and love thy neighbor as thyself.
Take a second to notice the structure of the ideas
of each of these statements. First, help others be
successful or get what they want. Second, you will
be successful or get what you want. Most of the
time we hear the opposite, first, it is “I” or “me” then
usually as an after thought the needs of others are
considered. Too many people follow the axiom,
“Look out for number one.” However, this kind of
selfishness destroys relationships at work and at
home.
7 COMMUNICATION TIPS
Being concerned about the needs of others
is a thought process. It is an other-centered
focus to life. With this focus you can begin
to take actions that create positive working
relationships. With the right attitude the right
actions will follow. What are the right actions
to get along with others? Consider these
seven quick, but powerful, communication
tips.
1. Listening effectively
2. Asking questions for ideas or input
3. Smiling
4. Paying attention to others when
talking-really
5. Being genuinely interested in others
6. Giving compliments or praise
7. Offering assistance to others without
being asked
In business, people who can get along
with others are invaluable to organizations
because they build high performing teams,
COMMUNICATE.
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peers. Consequently, the bottom line impact to all of these
communication tips are priceless.
THE DR. OF LOVE’S ADVICE
A number of years ago a popular song said, “What the world
needs now is love sweet love that’s one thing there is just too
little of.” The late Leo Buscaglia, also known as Dr. Love said
people have forgotten how to care for or love others. During his
career he wrote books and spoke to thousands and encouraged
them to love and hug one another more. His fundamental
message spoke not just to loving one another but more basically
dealt with these communication tips for getting along with other
people, and expressing your love.
We don’t really need Dr. Love to tell to love. Care,concern and
love of others are natural emotions. We need to communicate
better and express these emotions more. As we do our
relationships will improve. Then, a marvelous thing will happen
as a result; we feel better and receive more of what we want in
life.
Samuel Smiles said it eloquently, “It is one of the most beautiful
compensations of this life, that no person can sincerely try to
help another person without helping himself.”
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C O M M U N I C A T I N G P O W E R F U L L Y A N D A U T H E N T I C A L L Y
training videoThis leadership video will give you the key often hidden tips to communicating better. Rick has taught
these techniques to many people. You will learn:
• 3 keys to your overall communication impact
• How ensure that you are genuine in your message
review questions
1. What have you learned or relearned in this module these powerful communication tips?(Review your learning with one other person)
2. What are you prepared to do differently and better in future situations? What will you dotoday?
“Communication is the master emotional intelligence skill for all relationships and leadership.” RICK CONLOW
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about rick conlowI’ve been in your shoes, I was a manager just like you may be now. I wanted to succeed just like everyone. I wanted to make a difference. The first company I worked for believed in training, with this opportunity and my desire to learn, I attended over 100 training programs and conferences in a little over fifteen years. My results improved and I moved from teaching and selling to executive, with five promotions. Eventually, I founded Rick Conlow International. Our purpose is to bring out the best in others and make a positive difference in peoples’ careers. Throughout the years we have partnered with many fine companies and managers to achieve:
• 48 quality service awards including JD Power, Ford’s President Award, and Canada’s Consumers Choice Award.
• Record-breaking sales year after year: 30%, 48%, 52%, 75%, 122% gains in sales.
• 15-20 points on customer experience surveys.• 12-14 points on employee engagement surveys.• Author of 20 books, including the best seller, SuperSTAR
Leadership.
You can do this and more. Exceed your potential today. I’ll show you how.
Ford’s President’s Award Canada’s Consumer Choice Award
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