parents check your progress

Check your progress

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In arts it is what?In science it is why?1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com2

Differ Why and What1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com3

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com4First, they ignore you. Second, they laugh at you. Third, they fight you. Finally you win.1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com5

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The Purpose of ParentingTo protect and prepare childrento survive and thrivein the kind of societyin which they live.1/12/201411ashokpcare@gmail.com

IS YOUR CHILD A GENIUS? Financial Intelligence is not about how much money you make, its about how much money you keep and how hard that money works for you.

Different types of genius:Verbal-linguistic Numerical Spatial Physical Intrapersonal Interpersonal Environmental

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com12HOW MANY WINNING FORMULAS WILL YOUR CHILD NEED?

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com13WILL YOUR CHILD BE OBSOLETE BY 30?

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com14WILL YOUR CHILD BE ABLE TO RETIRE BEFORE 30?

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com15KIDS LEARN BY PLAYING

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com16WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR CHILDS FINANCIAL IQ

1/12/2014ashokpcare@gmail.com17Communication BlocksCOMMANDINGCRITICIZINGDistractingAdvisingInterrogatingBeing SarcasticMoralizingPychologizingPlacatingBeing a know-it-allAny words, tone of voice, or body languagethat influence a person sharing a problemto end the communication.1/12/201418ashokpcare@gmail.com

Active Communication1/12/201419ashokpcare@gmail.com

Active Problem Solving1/12/201420ashokpcare@gmail.com

Undue Attention-SeekingGOALPositive ApproachUnderstanding and Redirecting Misbehavior Negative ApproachContact / BelongingContributing/CooperatingPower struggles: Dont fight and dont give in

ParentChildTTFFDACTIVEPROBLEMSOLVINGChoose a solutionIdentify theproblemShare thoughtsand feelingsBrainstormsolutionsFollow upRebellionRevengeUndue AvoidanceThrill SeekingPowerProtectionWithdrawalChallengeIndependenceAssertiveness/ForgivenessAppropriate AvoidanceSafe Adventures1/12/201421ashokpcare@gmail.com

Overprotecting & PamperingStimulating IndependenceFocusing on MistakesExpecting Too LittleExpecting Too MuchBuilding on StrengthsShowing ConfidenceValuing Child As IsDiscouragingEncouragingDiscouraging & Encouraging Influences1/12/201422ashokpcare@gmail.com

O.T. 46 Leaders Guide: Page 148Screen out negative influenceswhen we canBe positive and encouraginginfluences ourselvesAccept their feelingseven negative ones.Encourage them to identifyand listen to their feelings.Teach them to expresstheir feelings respectfully.Use respectful formsof discipline.Help them build positivevalues and character.Encourage positive beliefsand dispute mistaken ones.DoEventThinkFeelHow Can Parents Help?1/12/201423ashokpcare@gmail.com

FINAL WORDSThe most important job in the world is for parents and teachers tokeep the light on, to guide a lost child out of the darkness and let him find his own unique path to success.

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