my mother is having an affair

My Mother Is Having An Affair

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Question: • I am a teenager • My mom and I moved to this

country a year ago • My dad stayed behind because

he could not get a visa

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• We were still at the airport when I saw a love message on my mom’s phone – from another man back in our country

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• Then I discovered this man had also moved to our new country and he lives nearby

• My mom did not tell me but I know they meet often

• My dad knows nothing

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• My dad still does not have a visa • What she is doing is against our

culture and religion • What must I do?

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Answer: • Marriage is meant to last forever • But people change • This even happens in a culture

where the dream of a life-long happy marriage is cherished

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• Do not judge your mother • People tend to have an affair

long after the marriage broke down

• The husband and wife each carry 50% of the marriage

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• Both are equally responsible for any breakdown

• Your mother may feel she has no option other than to have an affair

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• Rather observe how both your parents deal with the situation

• Then decide what is right for you

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• Once you have decided, you may later change your decision based on your own life experiences

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• Your parents both love you and want the best for you

• Don’t blame or judge either of them

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