lesson 55 obscenity to vanity. obscenity: this means to speak indecently as an insult, habit, or...

Lesson 55

Obscenity to Vanity

Obscenity:

This means to speak indecently as an insult, habit, or because of bad upbringing.

 Ostentation:

Ostentation is to seek a position in the view of people,

by showing off one’s good qualities.

Ostentation is hypocrisy, and is a kind of disbelief. 

Performing deeds in secret rescues the self from showing off, especially acts not commanded by the Lawgiver to be apparent, unless publicity of the act serves a legitimate public interest.

Talebearing:

It is to inform a person of the insulting words that were said about him by

another, so as to sever their relation.

Talebearing is worse than backbiting because it spreads hatred

and cuts off blood relations.

Talebearing is only permissible to ward off evil, or as a warning for the sake of some

legitimate public interest.

A talebearer is a corrupt person who is not permitted to give witness.

 Vanity and arrogance:

Vanity is pride and haughtiness because of self admiration , so it leads to self-conceit.

It afflicts a person when he deceives himself concerning his positive attributes .

Among the forms of vanity are being proud of:

- one’s physical appearance, - one’s genealogy, - one’s kinship, - one’s wealth, - one’s knowledge and opinion.

Evidence From the Qur’an and Sunnah

Obscenity:

The Prophet (SAWS) said:

“Allah hates obscenity.”

(Reported by Abu-Dawud).

The Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said:

“A believing person is not that one accustomed to slander, calling curses down, or using obscene language or

indecent manners.”

(Reported by at-Tirmidhiyy)

The Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said:

“When two persons abuse each other, the first one will be the sinner as long as

the oppressed does not exceed the limits.” (Reported by Muslim)

The Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said:

“Abusing a Muslim is an act of wickedness, and fighting against him is

an act of disbelief.”

(Reported by al-Bukhariyy and Muslim)

The Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said: “And if a man abuses and shames you for

something which he finds in you, then do not shame him for something which you

find in him; he will bear the evil consequences for it.”

(Reported by Abu-Dawud)

Ostentation:

Allah says:

ع�ن * ﴿ ه�م� ال�ذين� ل�ين� لل�م�ص� ي�ل� و� ف�اء�ون� * * ي�ر� ه�م� ال�ذين� اه�ون� س� م� الته ص�

اع�ون� ال�م� ن�ع�ون� ي�م� ﴾و� : [7-4الماعون]

This means: “So woe unto those performers of Salah (prayers) (hypocrites), Who delay their Salah (prayer) from their stated fixed

times, Those who do good deeds only to be seen (of men), And refuse (to give)

Al-Ma'un (small kindnesses e.g. salt, sugar, water, etc.).”

(Al-Ma`un: 4 - 7)

The Prophet (SAWS) said: “If anyone wants to have his deeds widely

publicized, Allah will publicize (his humiliation). And if anyone makes a

hypocritical display (of his deeds), Allah will make a display of him.”

(Reported by al-Bukhariyy and Muslim)

The Prophet (SAWS) said, "Indeed what I fear most for you is the lesser shirk

(polytheism)." They said, "What is the lesser shirk O Messenger of Allah?" He

(SAWS) said, "Ar-riya' (to show off) !

Allah (Glorified and Supreme be He) would say to them on the Day of

Resurrection, when people are rewarded (or punished) for their deeds, 'Go to

those to whom you used to show off in the worldly life and see if you can find any

reward from them.‘” (Reported by Ahmad).

Talebearing:

Allah says:

﴿ * اء# م�ش� از# م� ه� ين# م�ه ال�ف# ح� ك�ل� ت�طع� و�ال� * ب�ع�د� * ع�ت�ل/ ثيم#

� أ ع�ت�د# م� ي�ر لل�خ� ن�اع# م� يم# بن�منيم# ز� ﴾ذ�لك� : [13-10القلم]

This means:

“And obey not everyone who swears much, and is considered worthless, A slanderer, going about with calumnies, Hinderer of

the good, transgressor, sinful, Cruel, after all that base-born (of illegitimate birth).”

(Al-Qalam: 10 - 13)

The Messenger of Allah (SAWS) said:

“A talebearer will not enter Paradise (unless he is punished for his evil deeds).”

(Reported by Muslim)

The Prophet (SAWS) said, "Shall I tell you about the most evil

amongst you? (They are those) who ever-walk about with talebearing (to cause

dissension), who (accordingly) spoil (the relation) between the lovers, and who

seek to distress the innocent".

(Reported by Ahmad )

Vanity and arrogance:

Allah says:

ل�م� ﴿ ف� ت�ك�م� ك�ث�ر� ب�ت�ك�م� ع�ج�أ� ذ� إ ن�ي�ن# ح� ي�و�م� و�

> ي�ئا ش� ع�نك�م� : ﴾ت�غ�ن [25التوبة]

This means:

“And on the Day of Hunayn (battle) when you rejoiced at your great number but it

availed you naught.”

(At-Tawbah: 25)

Allah says:

بغ�ي�ر ﴿ ض ر�األ� في وا ت�ك�ب�ر� اس� ف� ع�اد� ا م�

أ� ف�ال�وا و�ق� ق� ال�ح�

ال�ذى الله� ن�أ� ا و� ي�ر� ل�م� و�

أ� ة< و� ق� ن�ا م Nد ش�أ� م�ن�

م� ه� ل�ق� خ�ة< و� ق� م� ن�ه� م Nد ش�

أ� و� ﴾ه� : [15فصلت]

This means: “As for 'Ad, they were arrogant in the land

without right, and they said: ''Who is mightier than us in strength?'' See they not that Allah, Who created them was

mightier in strength than them.” (Fussilat: 15)

Allah says:

ال� ﴿ ق� إال� ن�ذير# م�ن ي�ة# ر� ق� في ل�ن�ا س� ر�أ� ا و�م�

ون� * ر� ك�اف به ل�ت�م� س ر�أ� ا بم� ن�ا إ ا وه� ف� ت�ر� م�

و�ال�د<ا أ� و� و�اال< م�

أ� ك�ث�ر�أ� ن� ن�ح� ال�وا و�ق�

ع�ذ�بين� بم� ن� ن�ح� ا ﴾و�م� : [35-34سبأ]

This means:

“And We did not send a warner to a township, but those who were given the worldly wealth and

luxuries among them said: "We believe not in the (Message) with which you have been sent. And they say: "We are more in wealth and in

children, and we are not going to be punished.''”

(Saba’: 34 - 35)

Allah says:

ن<ا ﴿ س� ح� آه� ر� ف� له ع�م� وء� س� ل�ه� ي�ن� ز� م�ن ف�أ�

م�ن دي ي�ه� و� اء� ي�ش� م�ن Nل ي�ض الله� إن� ف�اء�   ﴾ي�ش�

: [ 8فاطر]

This means:

“Is he, then, to whom the evil of his deeds made fair seeming, so that he considers it

as good (equal to one who is rightly guided)? Verily, Allah sends astray whom

He wills, and guides whom He wills.” (Fatir: 8)

Allah says:

اتك�م ﴿ د�ق� ص� ت�ب�طل�وا ال� ن�وا آم� ال�ذين� ا يNه�� أ ي�ا

وا�أل�ذ�ى : ﴾بال�م�ن�  [ 264البقرة]

This means:

“You who believe! Do not render in vain your Sadaqah (charity) by reminders of

your generosity or by injury.”

(Al-Baqarah: 264)

The Prophet (SAWS) said: “But when you see niggardliness being obeyed, passion being followed, worldly

interests being preferred, everyone being charmed with his own opinion, then care

for yourself.” (Reported by at-Tirmidhiyy)