leadership compassion

Compassionate Leadership SoulPresence Agota Eva Ruzsa SoL Hungary, aruzsa@solhungary.hu „ In order to make anything change, just create the space.That is not created by our actions but by our

presence." P.Senge

ComPassion

• Compassion is not a relation between a person in pain and the comforter, but between two people of equal rank. We can be Present in others’ dark places, if and when we

have already „ burnt ours”, ie. We have become the „

wounded healer”. We need to fully experience all that connects us within the human experience. (Christ as Jesus ? ) ‎PemaChödrön

• Music: http://www.beinsa-

douno.com/music/Paneurhythmy/Beautiful_day.mp3

Vaclav Havel

„ I think there are good reasons for suggesting that the modern age has ended. Today, many things indicate that we are going thorough a transitional period, when it seems that something is on the way out and something else is painfully being born. It is as if something were crumbling, decaying, and exhausting itself, while something else, still indistinct, were arising from the rubble.” (1994)

Transcending our selves

In this postmodern world, cultural conflicts are becoming more dangerous than any time in history. A new model of coexistence is needed, based on man's transcending himself.

Mindwalk film on the seashore

EONS László Ervin

– Mythos MYTHIC WORLD, BELIEFS, » MAGIC WHOLENESS WITH SOCIETY EMBEDDED IN NATURE

– Theos Heroes and Gods

» Cities in the great river valleys , pyramids, great-structured empires: the state

– Logos since B.C.1500-Indoeuropean dominance-,

» IRON!!!-measure is the MAN

» Christianity, Logos is of the Creator

» Industrial rev. Logos is of Man,

» Nature embedded in sociaty

» Spirit and body devided: Cogito, ergo sum

– Holos 3C:

» Connections,

» Communication,

» Cognition-Consciousness

Mechanistic systems Living systems

Old Paradigm New Paradigm

things

Newtonian

Org. as machine

Hierarchies

Structure

Boss

Action

Teaching

Capital growth

Info technology

Market share

Conquer Nature

Ideas, knowledge

Quantum

Org. as living communities

Networks

Process

Facilitator

Interaction

Learning

People growth

Interaction‎« human‎technologies”

Mind share

Harmony with Nature

G.Carstedt & A. Ruzsa

Knowledge

“ Knowledge is coordinated action

emerging from consensus.

Knowledge is not an object or data

you can own, it is a process

inspiring participation. “ (Humberto Maturana)

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douno.com/music/Paneurhythmy/The_Joy_of_the_Earth.

mp3c/Paneurhythmy/The_Joy_of_the_Earth.mp3

The New Culture is a culture of the heart, which leads

people to fraternization, to brotherly lives. Love will

manifest itself through the Heart. In the old Life Love

started with joy, and ended with sorrow. In the new

Life, however, Love starts with sorrow and ends with

joy. Beinsa Douno

Relations - LOGOS

? ?

1 x 1 = 1

1 - 1 = 0

1 : 1 = 1

1 + 1 = 2

„As we know the 1, we assume that 1+ 1= 2 and that we know the 2. „

But to know it, we must master the essence of +. (sufi id. M Wheatley,)

Relational DiaLogue

Systems thinking Dialoguegic-participative processes

Paradigm shift

Old mental models Newtonian

Org. as machine

Hierarchies

Structure

Boss

Action

Teaching

Capital growth

Info technology

Market share

Conquer Nature

New Mental models

Quantum

Org. as communities

Networks

Process

Facilitator

Interaction

Learning

People growth

Interaction technology

Mind share

Harmony with Nature

Competition and Cooperation

„It seems that the only real sustainable

advantage in our fast changing world

depends on how quick and deep our

learning can be in organisations and

in the whole of society.”P.Senge,

Learning

• Is not to aquire information on what we already know,

• Not even to master the skills of how to do

It means to create a generative space for the unknown to emerge. Learning is sweaming in the flow of meaning.

Leadership

Logos age

Power over&under

protect and order

Holos age

• Power with

• Include and participate

Connecting

lUnderstanding lSystems

The World cafe

A space to let

meaning emerge

Click on any stamp for more information on that

principle and how to use it.

What if?

What if

Martin Luther King, instead of saying

“I have a Dream”

had said

“I have a nightmare!”

Organizing principle

From

What is good for our company?

How can we use environment and society?

To

What is our company good for?

How can we be of use for the environment and society? ( G.Carstedt)

Vows!!

I vow to develop my compassion…

I vow to develop understanding..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DH4WME0-y_8&index=2&list=PL0XFuL_cOs5adG32Y408UDmih_nTIGF7O Neva Sanzu

Inter Are

Tiep Hien Order

of Interbeing Tiep– being in touch

- aware of what is

- to continue

Hien- the present time

- to make real, to manifest

Love and Understanding be made real in living In one sheet of paper we see everything else, the cloud, the forest, the logger. I am, therefore you are. You are, therefore I am. ( Ubuntu) . We interare.

Do not try to save the whole world or do anything grandiose. Instead, create a clearing in the dense forest of your life and wait there patiently, until the song that is your life falls into your own cupped hands and you recognize and greet it. Only then will you know how to give yourself to this world so worthy of rescue.

Martha Postlewaite

God is Love in Action

head through the heart into the hands

will is powerful action imbued and tendered by loving understanding

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„ In order to make anything change, just create the space.That is

not created by our actions but by our presence." P.Senge

Pope Francis on Evolution