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A Great Time to Be Alive!
Do you feel lucky to be alive?
You should. You should feel incredibly lucky that you weren’t born in 1860 or 1350 or
whenever?
Why? Because in 1860, if you were the Czar of Russia or the Prince of Wales, you didn’t
have the opportunity to meet as many stunning women from as many different cultures
as a reasonably successful American or European guy can today.
The Internet allows you to meet the most amazing women from around the world,
regardless of where you live, and low cost international air fares makes traveling to meet
your dream girl in person a realistic option.
You don’t have to simply settle for “the girl next door” like most men have done from
time immemorial.
You are lucky enough to be moving into a global society in virtually every facet of our
lives, so why shouldn’t romance be included?
Unfortunately, many men miss out on potentially meeting an amazing foreign woman
because of some common myths that are floating around about international dating.
You’re about to learn the truths behind the most common myths associated with
international dating, so you can make an educated decision on whether or not
international dating is for you. You may be surprised by what you’ll learn in the next few
pages.
Okay, let’s get to it!
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Myth # 1 – The Girls Just Want a Green Card - These Marriages
Never Last
Many people make the uneducated assumption that marriages that have resulted from
international dating don't last, but that is simply a media fiction. The sad truth in our
society today is that heartbreak and horror stories sell a lot better than stories that touch
the heart, so “Green card bride” stories sell a lot better than stories about the thousands
of happy marriages.
Sure, there are isolated cases where some girl cons some poor guy out of some cash and
then takes off once she gets her papers, but the reason you hear about these things is
because they sell newspapers and get ratings on TV. This sort of thing is NOT happening
all the time. There are millions of sweet, sexy, and caring young women that truly want a
long-term relationship with a Western man.
In fact, the best official estimates in the United States and the European Union show
that marriages that start on international dating sites are actually more successful
overall than other marriages.
Dr. Robert J Scholes, in an official report to the United States Congress, noted...
"...marriages arranged through these services would appear to have a
lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole; fully 80 percent of these
marriages have lasted over the years for which reports are available."
One explanation for this might be the fact that both the bride and groom have a real
expectation to make this work. After all, if a person is moving halfway around the world
to be with someone, they’re typically going to be serious about the relationship.
There’s also the fact that there’s a lot larger pool of potential pairings when you venture
outside of your community. With international dating you’re putting yourself out there
to meet people all over the world, so statistically your odds of finding someone
compatible are much higher than dating only locally.
Many people will say that these women are only interested in marrying foreign men
because it improves their standard of living. There is some merit to this, but keep in
mind, “improving one’s circumstances” is part of the “dating ritual” with domestic
dating as well. In a way, being able to offer these women an opportunity to live in a
society that doesn’t degrade women, but rather gives them unlimited opportunities is
just one of the many things that you contribute to the relationship.
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Lisa Simmons, whose dissertation is easily the best academic study of the modern mail order bride phenomenon, and her discussion of why women around the world are seeking out Western men deserves to be quoted at some length.
She wrote that…
"In addition to believing that marrying a foreigner would contribute to
financial security, all of the women in my sample strongly articulated the
belief that an American man would make a better emotional partner
than would a man from their own country. They felt that a marriage
should be based on mutual love and respect; and they wanted a man who
would be able to provide the sort of emotional support that they felt was
not easy to find among their own countrymen. The emphasis on quality
of relationship was an unexpected finding because this aspect of
international marriage has not been the focus on much media coverage.”
Divorce rates must also be considered when it comes to this myth. When you look at
domestic divorce rates in the United States estimated at 48-54% and divorce rates in the
EU not trailing too far behind that, it’s quite refreshing to see data that suggests that
marriages that result from international relationships have divorce rates that track
significantly lower.
In fact, Switzerland reported that marriages between Swiss men and foreign women were
approximately 10% less likely to end in divorce than marriages between Swiss men and
women.
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Myth #2 - Foreign Dating Is Only For Losers Who Can't Get a
Date in Their Own Country
This one is incredibly FALSE! First off, foreign dating agencies are just like
domestic dating services. If you will remember back a few years, there was a stigma
about using online dating sites like Match.com in the beginning, but now the concept of
finding a partner online is WIDELY accepted. Millions of people utilize online dating as
a resource to find the "loves of their" lives, and there are countless success stories of
people who have met lifelong partners online.
International dating simply takes the idea of online dating and moves it to the next level.
In fact, Match.com even offers an international dating service now, so they can
obviously see the benefits of international dating. Instead of only having access to
women in your country, you can now meet women from around the entire
world. It increases the odds of finding “the one” and allows you to expose yourself to
various worldwide cultures.
Think about it for a second... With almost 7 billion people on the planet, is it really
logical to think that everyone's soul mate lives in the same city, state, or even country?
Of course not. Just 100 years ago, think about how difficult, time consuming and
expensive traveling around the world was. Now, the world is literally at your
fingertips. With cell phones, the internet, cheap and even free international calling,
supersonic jets, and relatively inexpensive travel expenses, making global connections is
easier than ever.
You can literally make meaningful romantic connections with anyone anywhere in the
world. Geography is no longer a boundary to consider when it comes to
meeting that special someone.
It just makes you wonder how many people missed out on truly meeting their soul
mates in generations past because they were unable to travel easily on an international
scale. Perhaps that’s why we see a higher divorce rate in domestic marriage
relationships? When you don't limit love to your backyard, you have the potential to
truly meet the love of your life.
With international dating you can also get away from the mundane. When you meet and
cultivate a relationship with someone from another part of the world, you get to learn all
about a culture other than your own. This can be rewarding for both you and her on so
many different levels. When you look at everything foreign dating has going for it, it
certainly seems MUCH more appealing than just meeting that boring girl next door...
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Myth #3 - International Dating Agencies Are All Just Scams
While there are a lot of scams out there, that could certainly be said about almost
anything these days. What most people don't realize is that using an international dating
agency is just as safe as making a purchase at a well-known online retailer. Just like
online shopping, you must deal with reputable international dating agencies.
Helping people stay safe and not get scammed is incredibly important to us, so here at
ILS, we've researched all of the sites that we've featured girls from to weed-out as much
of the risk as possible and provide you with a pleasant dating experience.
Not only do we watch out for the scammers for you, but we also give you the scoop on
shady operations, or anything else that we deem to not be on the up-and-up.
We want your quest for finding the love of your life to be as risk-free and enjoyable as
possible. Unfortunately, scams can never be completely eliminated, but if you use a little
common sense just like you do when you're shopping or paying bills online, you can
avoid almost all of the online dating scams out there.
Here are some tips to keep your quest for love on the right track:
This is a big one... Never send money to a girl! NEVER! Now, this rule
sounds pretty easy to follow, but you'd be surprised at how many guys end up
sending money even though it goes against their better judgment. So, if you're
going to send money, at least wait until you have been communicating with
someone for six to eight weeks. This will minimize your risk substantially.
Make sure the girl you're corresponding with is replying with direct answers to
your questions. Watch out for copy/pasted replies and/or "form letters". These
types of responses are a huge red flag that something is not right.
Don't propose without meeting the girl. Again, this sounds like common sense,
but a lot of guys propose before they even meet the person they've been
communicating with. You wouldn’t do this offline, so it’s best to avoid doing this
online as well. If someone is trying to pressure you into a rushed decision
regarding marriage or anything else, you need to take a step back and evaluate
the situation.
Use a reputable agency and read the information about the agencies you're
considering working with very closely because the level of service you'll
experience will vary widely from agency to agency. One of the big reasons many
men believe they've been scammed is because they didn't fully understand what
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the agency they were working with was actually offering. Some agencies make it a
habit to make you "dig" to get ALL of the information. Although this isn't a true
scam, it's something to watch out for. Know what the fee structures and
costs look like going in and budget your spending wisely.
Just because you got your heart broken, does not mean you got scammed.
Heartbreak occurs in all walks of life whether you're dating domestically or
internationally. Sometimes things just don't work out, and you have to be
mindful of the fact that even under the best circumstance most relationships
don't turn into lifelong romances. Make sure your expectations are realistic going
in. Can you find the love of your life through international dating? You bet! Will it
be the first person you start talking with... Who knows? That's one aspect of
dating that doesn't change regardless of the venue.
The big thing to take away from this is to do your homework and use common
sense.
Surely Those SUPER-HOT Girls Can't Be Real?!
One of the things most guys notice when they start looking at
international dating sites is all of the beautiful women. While
it's true in the old days of foreign dating many of the profile
pictures were of “Natasha” but the emails were actually coming
from “Boris”. This is typically not the case any longer if you're
working with a reputable agency.
Although the reputable agencies do everything they can to
prevent scams, they're not perfect, and it goes back to having a
little common sense and paying attention to the tips we've
mentioned above. You greatly minimize your risks by being
smart AND working only with reputable agencies.
To help you to stay safe and avoid being scammed by the less
than ethical agencies out there, we've compiled a list of
legitimate international dating agencies that you can use in
your search.
You can find the list of Agencies in the Appendix at the end of this report.
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Myth #4 - Foreign Dating Is Only For Rich Guys
One of the big reasons most men don't attempt to date internationally is the myth that
doing so requires you to be rich. Many men believe that these beautiful young women
are only interested in money and nothing else.
This can't be further from the truth. Sure, many of these women may look at
international dating as a means to meeting someone and potentially moving to a country
with more opportunities, but many of these women are interested in foreign dating for
the exact same reasons you are. They are truly looking for their soul mates and if they
can find their soul mate in a place that also offers them social and financial advantages,
what’s wrong with that?
It is true that some of the women that you'll meet will be after money and rich guys, but
how is that any different than dating domestically? Motives for trying to date someone
vary from person to person... There are hundreds of reasons why someone would be
looking to meet someone, but you’ll run into the same good things and bad things
whether you’re dating locally or internationally.
Like you, a lot of the women you’ll meet dating internationally are looking for a solid
connection, someone interesting, and many are looking for their soul mate, “the one”,
and true love.
But keep in mind, everyone is different and has different goals, dreams, and aspirations.
Even though the dynamic of international dating is a little different than domestic
dating, ultimately it’s about getting to know someone to see if your paths align. There
are plenty of regular guys that aren’t millionaires that have been highly successfully with
international dating and have met some really amazing women. If you find that a girl is
just after your money, if that’s not the type of girl you’re looking for, you can simply
move on to the next girl just like you would if you were dating locally.
“Ok, so the girls aren’t all “gold diggers”, but isn’t
international dating expensive?”
It can be, but once again, domestic dating can be expensive. Everyone has different
tastes and different levels of income. If you want to go jet setting around the world,
you'll need to have plenty of money and flexibility in your work, but there are tons of
girls out there that you can meet through international dating agencies that don't expect
you to drop everything and come see them after the first conversation. (This isn’t smart
anyway…)
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You simply need to set a budget and stick to it. These days, if you plan your trips in
advance and book your lodging and airfare wisely, you can often travel internationally
for very reasonable rates. I have regularly seen international airline tickets that were the
same price or even cheaper than domestic tickets depending on when the flight was
booked.
Myth #5 - I'm Too Fat, Old or Ugly to Do This
Many men with an interest in international dating begin to get self-conscious and think
that they wouldn't be successful due to their physical appearance or age. This type of
thinking is incredibly flawed.
A lot of beautiful women are looking to date internationally for reasons much deeper
than finding someone young and attractive. If that's all they were looking for, they could
easily find young and attractive men in their own country and bypass the trouble, effort,
and time involved with dating someone in a different country.
These women are looking for a man that will treat them right and provide them with
companionship and things that don't have access to in their home countries. Sure, part
of the reason they're looking to meet someone in another country is the opportunity that
it brings.
As you may know, in many of the countries where international dating is more popular
for women, these women are often not given the same rights as men. Just like girls that
you’d meet and date domestically, foreign girls are looking for a man that will treat
them with respect and provide a safe environment for them. They want to be
loved and find someone to love. Your age and the way your look are just a tiny piece of
the puzzle.
As you begin to correspond with these girls, you’ll get to learn about them and they’ll
learn about you. In a way, international dating provides a component that you can’t get
when you date locally. You get to work on your relationship and get to know someone
long before you meet them when you date internationally. You both get to know each
really well on a personal level which helps to establish a stronger bond that makes your
looks and your age less relevant than if you were dating locally and you met in person on
the first date.
Many older men and men that our culture might not consider to be the most attractive
have had tremendous success with international dating.
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Okay, sure… if you’re 80 you’re gonna have to work a little harder than a 30 year old,
but we’ve seen tons of profiles from attractive, intelligent women who are willing to take
guys up to 99. One profile I read recently even put 57-104 in her “acceptable age range”
on her dating profile!
Don’t let your age, looks, or the amount of hair on your head prevent you
from taking the first step toward meeting the girl of your dreams.
Conclusion
Dating internationally can be extremely fulfilling, and it’s a great way to meet some
amazing girls. If you’re interested in learning more about dating internationally you may
want to sign up for our mailing list (if you haven’t already done so). Here’s that link
again:
http://www.internationallovescout.com/newsletter/5myths-subscribe.html
And be sure to check out some of the agencies we’ve listed in the Appendix below. They
all have FREE sign-ups so you don’t need to spend a dime to poke around their sites for
a while and get the feel of things.
Thanks alot for Reading…
Ed Orton
“The International Love Scout”
Goto The Next Page to See a List of International Dating Websites.
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Appendix A - International Dating Sites
Below is a list of International Dating Sites you might want to take a look at. There are
literally thousands of dating agencies out there on the web, some of them are downright
shady. We’ve included the ones below because they are the best known, biggest and are
generally considered to be the most legit of the bunch.
Russian and Eastern European Dating Agencies
A Foreign Affair
RussiAmore
Elena's Models
A Pretty Woman
Anastasia
RussianEuro
Latin Dating Agencies
A Foreign Affair
Amolatina
Brazil Cupid
Dominican Cupid
Colombian Cupid
Asian Dating Agencies
A Foreign Affair
Cherry Blossoms
Asian Beauties
Filipino Cupid
AsianDating
Japan Cupid
Vietnam Cupid
Thai Love Links
African Dating Agencies
Africa Beauties
Afro Introductions
Ethiopian Personals
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International
If you just can’t make up your mind and want to contact women from all over the world
these sites are for you:
A Foreign Affair
International Cupid
We have reviews of many of these agencies on our website over at website:
http://www.internationallovescout.com/dating-site-reviews/
Check ‘em out.
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