A PRESENTATION ON THE TOPIC

AGGRESSIVENESSIN

STUUDENTS

CONTENT INTRODUCTION PAGE

CONTENT DESCRIPTION TERM- ‘BEHAVIOR’

TERM- ‘ GOOD MANNERS’ TERM- ‘ARGUMENTATIVENESS’

REAL DEFINATION OF IDEAL STUDENT TERM- ‘AGGRESSIVENESS’

TERM- ‘VERBAL AGGRESSIVENESS’ AFFECTS OF AGRESSIVENESS ON HEALTH OF A PERSON

AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR IN STUDENTS AGGRESSIVENESS IN STUDENTS;A PROBLEM FOR SCHOOLS

CAUSES OF AGGRESSION IN CHILDREN CURE OF AGGRESSION IN CHILDREN

SUGGESTIONS TO CURE AGGRESSION IN CHILDREN A BLOG ON AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR BY SHASHANK

CH. THANK YOU PAGE

WHAT IS CALLED TERM ‘BEHAVIOR’?

HUMANS ARE THE SOCIAL ANIMALS WHO ARE HAVING A VERY SPECIAL ABLITY TO BE SOCIAL AND TO BEHAVE WITH OTHERS.

EVERYBODY IS HAVING ITS OWN BEHAVIOR TO OTHERS LIKE SOME ARE AGGRESSIVE ,SOME ARE POLITE,SOME ARE VERY HELPING, SOME ARE VERY ANNOYING ALSO etc..

BEHAVIOR OF A PERSON IS NOT ONLY DEPEND ON ONE BASIS…THERE ARE MANY REASONS ON WHICH OUR BEHAVIOR DEPENDS…LIKE SCHOOL ATMOSPHERE,FRIENDS CIRCLE, TEACHING OF ELDERS,FAMILY STRESS,etc..

IN OUR SOCIETY, A PERSON WHO IS MORE FRIENDLY AND HAVING A POLITE NATURE IS MOSTLY LIKED BY ALL…

AND AGGRESSIVE & RUDE PEOPLE ARE DISLIKED BY OUR SOCIETY… MISBEHAVIOR OF A PERSON DIRECTLY AFFECTS HIS PERSONALITY.. IF A STUDENT IS VERY GOOD AT STUDIES BUT NOT HAVING A GOOD

BEHAVIOR THEN HE CANT BE CLASSIFIED AS AN IDEAL STUDENT.

WHAT ARE GOOD MANNERS AND WHY THEY ARE IMPORTANT?

Since we have born, the importance of good manners have been taught by their parents, teacher, elders and living atmosphere . in a person, good manners and good behavior is not only needed to create powerful interaction between people of our society but they also throw a good impression on others and our self respect also increases... In this modern world of advance generation, students are becoming more aggressive and misbehave and their good manners are becoming bad manners. An identity of a bad mannered person is that he must be having lack of respect towards elders

These good manners are considered as ‘SANSKAAR’ which need not to be erased by this evil of aggression.

WHAT IS ‘Argumentativeness’?• “A predisposition to recognize

controversial issues, advocate positions, and refute opposing positions”.

• Argumentativeness in school children viewed as a personality trait which affect their performance in class activities.

• Argumentativeness is considered as subset of “assertiveness” which is a serious issue.

Who can be considered as an ‘Ideal Student’ in opinion of Teachers?

A student can considered as a ideal student only if he/she is having a respect towards his elders and teacher.

Teachers are being supposed as a supreme in a human life after our parents in the religious epics of Hinduism. They are the ‘GURU’ and a student respecting a guru is a ‘AADARSH SISYA’. So a aadarsh sisya is a real ‘IDEAL STUDENT’….

If we really want to become an ideal student so we must be so polite and aggressiveness should not be their in our minds.

WHAT IS AGGRESSIVENESS?

‘AGRESSIVENESS IS A TERM USED FOR THE PERSON WHO ARE HIGHLY TEMPERED AND EASILY GET ANGER.AN AGGRESSIVE PERSON CAN HURT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS BY TEASING HIM OR HER AOR BY USING ABUSE.NOW-A-DAYS AGRESSIVENESS IN LOW AGE STUDENTS IS A BIG THREAT TO OUR SOCIETY

-SHASHANK

What is ‘Verbal Aggressiveness’?

• Verbal Agressineness is a predisposition to attack the self-concept of others or we can say ‘to hurt others feelings in a aggressive way’

VERBAL AGRESSIVENESS

(continued)• Aggressiveness is generally considered a negative, destructive form of communication and this can lead to bad affect on the personality image of someone..

• Individuals who rely on verbal aggressiveness are viewed as less credible, have less satisfying relationships, and resort to physical aggression more often and People does not like to talk with aggressive person which can lead to severe hostility and lack of self respect of a person…

AFFECTS OF AGRESSIVENESS ON

HEALTH OF A PERSON• Aggressiveness is a result of angry behavior and a habit of easy rudeness…and as we know that Anger in human can lead to some diseases related to blood pressure problems (B.P.). So we should keep ourselves cool-minded and a respect toward s others feelings should be their in our mind.

• As we know that an aggressive person is generally boycott by our society and this can lead to the mental harassments which can lead to some physiological diseases…

AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR IN CHILDREN/STUDENT

• Aggressive behavior children show distress and upset, and are often hard to calm. It is difficult to sooth them and assist them in managing their behaviors. These behaviors contribute to problems for the aggressive child. He is often written off as "naughty" or "bad" and punished.

• Whenever the term aggressive is used to describe a student's behavior, images of physical injury to another automatically come to mind. Aggression is the most serious of inappropriate behaviors and has the most serious consequences for both the student and those in his or her environment

AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR IN CHILDREN/STUDENT

(CONTINUED)• Some children exhibit aggressive

behaviors that are less extreme or problematic, but worrisome nonetheless. They may slap or poke other children or pinch them. Some children throw small objects or bang and break things when they are angry and upset 

• Some children are verbally aggressive. They call other children names, they threaten and tease them or they use emotional control to victimize and push other children around.

AGGRESSIVE STUDENTS :A PROBLEM TO SCHOOL AUTHORITIES

• As in last slide we came to know that aggressive students do some aggressive activities like banging and breaking of objects etc….So many aggressive children do such activities in their schools or college which lead to breaking of school authorities’ furniture and other object…This type of aggressiveness should not be there..

• Many aggressive minded students are not able to concentrate on their studies which result into bad studies performances and become a problem for school’s reputation among others…

What Causes Aggression in Children?

• Children do not behave aggressively because they are "naughty or "bad." Their aggressive behaviors may result from brain patterns that have been shaped by prior experiences.

• Ongoing and unrelieved stress.• Unfair friendship• Lack of appropriate problem solving and coping strategies.• Limited experience with role models (e.g. peers, family

members, TV. & computer games) who value and provide examples of non-aggressive behaviors.(mostly seen in the students who live far away from their mentoring parents)

• Family stress, disruption and conflict.(also affect on studies)• Ragging in colleges

HOW TO CURE AGGRESSION IN CHILDREN?

(Remember, behavior change takes time. It requires

consistency and follow through.) Be on the look out for small

changes. Small steps make a difference and will lead a aggressive child toward a

positive outcome. The following suggestions in

next slide can help aggressive behavior children. Try those that

apply in such situation.

TRY SOME OF THE FOLLOWING SUGGESTIONS AND HELP AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR CHILDREN.

a) Avoid Physical Punishment: Harsh, punitive punishment is associated with aggressive behavior in children. Remember parents and other adults are role models for their children. If parents respond with aggression, their children are likely to do the same. In countries like India in most of the cases seen that many children learn abusive from their aggressive family members/role models.

b) Anger Management: Talk openly with your child about emotions. Help them to express their feelings in an appropriate and healthy manner and consider appropriate ways to handle anger.

SOME SUGGESTIONS TO HELP AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR CHILDREN(CONTINUED)

c) Enhance Parenting Skills: Parents may Take parenting courses, refer to relevant books, or seek professional support to help you enhance your parenting skills and move toward the kind of parenting style that works.

d) Adopt a Warm, Supportive, Assertive Parenting Style: Avoid parenting patterns that contribute to aggression in children (e.g. authoritarian, controlling, harsh or coercive parenting style; permissive, overindulgent parenting style; rejecting parenting style).

e) Teach your Children Appropriate Behavioral Skills and Model these Yourself

SOME SUGGESTIONS TO HELP AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR CHILDREN(CONTINUED)

F)Avoid reinforcement of aggressive behavior: teachers and parents may inadvertently reinforce aggressive behavior through attention. Nagging or punishing children for acting aggressively can reinforce aggressive behavior. Some children feel that any attention is better than no attention. Consequently, negative attention can reinforce aggressive behavior. Praise, even the smallest attempt at appropriate behavior. Do your best to ignore negative behavior.

G)Reward appropriate, non-aggressive behaviors: when you notice your child behaving in an appropriate and non-aggressive manner, notice and appreciate their behavior. Tell them how proud you are on their non-aggressive behavior.

A BLOG ON AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR BY SHASHANK

Since the born of humanity ;our behavior was a very important subject in case of social respond and a term aggressiveness was a ultimate threat to this behavior..And when the term stereotype born this threat gained more power..If in our society of many types of people if two are well-behaved and one of them is aggressive in behavior ,then there are many chances for second one to become aggressive. This is the only problem of our society. This problem is spreading like a virus(such as aggressiveness is passing from father to son in form of stress which become a cause for aggressiveness) if we want to stop this problem so we need to establish a change in ourselves…

-SHASHANK CHOUDHARY

THANK YOU

A PRESENTATION ON THE TOPIC- AGGRESSIVENESS BY

SHASHANK CHOUDHARY FOR MY CLASS 7th A OF AFS