Adapting to change-Emotional Intelligence
Post on 08-May-2015
DESCRIPTIONAdapting to Change is a workshop designed to help you think about Change. The concept of Emotional Intelligence is introduced as an essential tool to help you through the process of change.
- 1.Adapting to Change Dr Funke Baffour www.drfunke.co.uk
2. Outline for session What is change? Why do people avoid change? Why can change be difficult? Emotional Intelligence (EQ/EI) What helps us through change? Questionnaire Open Question: What is your definition of Change? 3. What is change?Any kind of modification or transition that happens in our life, work or environment. 4. What is change? Whenever something happens in our personal world that isinconsistent with the way we feel the world should be. 5. Why do people avoid change? Change can cause: A sense of loss Fear Also ... It requires you to compromise. It demands of you commitment and effort. It takes up energy which you would rather not use. 6. Why can change be difficult? 1. Our brains expect certain things to stay the same. 2. We seek out People like us to avoid change. 3. We dont like to feel that we have wasted our Time and Effort. 7. Our brains expect certain things to stay the same. In theory, change should be simple. We run into a roadblock, suddenly information we trusted has broken down. What we don't know tends to scare us. Therefore change creates a lot of things we don't know. 8. We seek out People like us to avoid change New information troubles ourbrains. We find friends and form groups that support our beliefs.When many people agree its easy to discount the opinions of others.Therefore it is easier to avoid change . 9. We dont like to feel we have wasted our Time and Effort. Change can involve a significant loss -our brains dislikes loss.When we invest ourselves emotionally in anything -harder to change.For e.g. Letting go of a relationship we know deep down will fail.Time is never wasted but our brains like to see the entire time as a loss rather than just a part of the inevitable conclusion. 10. Why can change be difficult? Continuum between positive and negative. So not all change can be coded as good or bad. Negative changes can yield positive results Important factors such as Emotional Intelligence (EQ) need to be considered. EQ determines how a person conceptualises theirexperience of change . 11. Emotional IntelligenceThe ability to sense, understand and effectively apply the power of emotions. 12. Emotional Intelligence IQ VS EQ With a high IQ You get hired You get promoted You do your daily school routine But with a high EQ You can thrive during times of CHANGE 13. What does EQ have to do with change? Its not what happens that matters but how you respond to it. EQ gives you the ability to distinguish. Being aware of your responses means you can make changes that benefit you. EQ is your scaffolding that supports your responses to change. 14. What helps us through Change? Whether it is: Moving to a new area Starting university The death of a relative Re-sitting your exams Coming into a new and unfamiliar environment Breaking up with your partner .... 15. What helps us through Change? It will involve you: Being flexible Believing in your self worth Having a plan and keeping focussed Asking for help Having an open mind to face new challenges 16. What helps us through Change? How to develop your Emotional Intelligence. 1. Reduce stress in the moment. 2. Use emotional awareness todeal with issues (such as relationships). 3. Nonverbal communication. 4. Resolve conflict positively. 17. If you are not riding the wave of change youll find yourself beneath it. 18. A bend in a road is not the end of the road..unless you fail to make the turn. 19. Thank youDr Funke Baffour Adapting to change