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Why do we accept the things we can change?TRANSCRIPT
In life, acceptance has to be given in order for you to move forward
into your destiny. If you do not accept the things that you cannot change, you
will be stuck in that moment. Allowing certain situations to perpetually happen to
you, is no one’s fault but your own. What lessons have we learned? What golden
nuggets are we going to use from this situation to aide us in the next? If truth is to
be told, we will engage this situation again, especially if we do not accept what has
happened. How do we move forward? From experience, moving forward is taking
the time to reflect on the issue of what happened. Whatever lessons have been
learned, write them down. Pinpoint behaviors in you, the individual or the circum-
stances that point out that this is a perpetual situation. Then, instead of nipping it at
the bud…pull that thing from the root! Pull it from the root so that after it has
healed, it will never sprout up again!
On the other hand, there are situations we cannot accept what has been given!
These are those situations, where we just have to knock the walls down and break
forth. These are those situations where we have heard, “You can’t do that”, “That
doesn’t make sense?” or the best one, “Nobody else is doing that, why are you?”
We come from a people who did not accept any and everything.
They were faced with obstacles some of us could never endure! But, they stood
the test of time and weathered the storm in order for us to be where we are today!
Whatever the naysayers or statistics say, we cannot accept anyone else’s view of
our lives but ourselves. We have to dig deep within and listen to that powerful
voice that speaks. GOD has given us the power to be who HE has called us to be.
So, we should not accept anything else but greatness in our lives!
In this issue of IMPACT Magazine, we are highlighting individuals who do not
accept the status quo! On the Cover Page, we take a look back in time when our
ancestors did not sit back and let the media or the people around them to dictate
their everyday lives…they did what they had to do to make change happen! In
addition, we focus on Trevon Molder! I met Trevon at a “Minding Our Business”
entrepreneur session in which I was the speaker for the evening. He was attentive
and all of the participants had drive and initiative! Read his story on who he is and
how he has gotten started. We also show you, Abayonomi of Abayomi Tools!
This gentleman engineered a tool that test the water pressure! In our “Be Inspired”
section, we highlight Kimberly Harris, Owner/CEO of BCM Federal. Kim wrote
her first grant while entering grad school. After writing and being approved for the
$50,000 grant, Kim found the passion for helping others get approval for grants and
scholarships. Her company, BCM, has a 100% approval rating. IMPACT also
highlights, Yolanda Alexander-Smith who is the Owner of the “Thick is the New
Sexy” group. Thick is the New Sexy is an organization dedicated to promoting the
positives of being a plus-size woman. To learn more about these individuals, con-
tinue to read on through these pages!
No matter the situation, test, or storm, we all have to accept or not accept our situa-
tions! If we stride towards getting the job done, sacrifice and servitude…in the
end, the outcome will be what it supposed to be! It is
up to us to choose to accept to stay in or to move
forward in acceptance to get out!
Be A Blessing To Someone Today!
Tunisha C. Brown Editor-In-Chief
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Hello, my name is Trevon
Molder, founder and C.E.O of
Tick’s Toy & Things. I am 15
years old and in the 9th Grade
at Trenton Central High
School West Campus and am
taking honor courses that will
help me with my career choice
of an engineer. Academically,
I hold a GPA of a 4.2. I am a
member of the TCH debate
team and I volunteer in my
community as well. In the
beginning, my company’s
vision was to sell toys that
kids could build themselves,
like an engineer and then the
customer could play with
them. I found out very quickly
that not many kids I knew
agreed with that idea. So the
vision I hold now comes from
when I was younger and was
in a toy store with my Nana
and I realized how expensive
toys were. I wanted to sell
toys to kids that were inexpen-
sive and still fun.
I have been running my
business successfully since
June 2006 when I was only 11
years old this is when I started
in the Spring Minding Our
Business program. This
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the 5th to 8th grade how to start
and run their own businesses.
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in front of large crowds,
learned that networking is the
key and many other things that
are keys to good business and
the proper education.
The very first year that I was in the program, at age 11, I was the young-
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Spring Market fairs, John E. Harman, President and C.E.O. of
MTAACC, Trenton’s Mayor Douglas Palmer, Tracey Syphax C.E.O. of
Capital City Contracting, Steven Baker form Giant’s football player, and
MOB Board members and more!. Throughout this time I have been in
several news paper articles, local TV and radio shows and an internet
blog radio show twice! When I met Mrs. A’Drienne Dixon and found out
that she was an entrepreneur of a faith based toy company (Train Up A
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Inventor, Abayomi, is 37 years
old African who grew up in
Trenton, New Jersey. The
Abayomi company has been
up and running for two years.
He installed his first electrical and plumb-
ing lines when he was ten years old.
Abayomi made an income from contract-
ing and then made the transition to an in-
ventor. He says he is fortunate to have
been on all sides. It has been five years all
together since his envisioned the dream of
obtaining a patent from the United States
Patent and Trademark Office (USPTO).
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Abayomi says it was worth it. He was met
with a lot of resistance from people that
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and came out on top.
Abayomi had to learn a lot of things to
enable him to obtain his patent. He tried
filing for a patent from the United States
Patent and Trademark Office on his own,
but he experienced numerous problems
from the USPTO. He took it with a grain
of salt, because he knew anything worth
having, is worth fighting for, working for
or having patience for.
A long time mentor, Teddy Ganges asked
Abayomi to solve a problem of extremely
low water pressure at one of their rental
properties. He started working diligently in
pursuit of a remedy to solve the issue of
extremely low water pressure. The
pressure testing tools that were on the
market gave him limited capability to find-
ing out the problem. At the current time
there were only two water pressure testing
tools on the market, which were of no help
to him. He knew there had to be a better
way. He needed to find out what was the
water pressure all over the house, at
various locations. That is where he created
the tool called the Abayomi Tester Body
(ATB). The Abayomi Tester Body gave
him the features he lacked in the other two
testers, which were readily assessable,
soldering free and durable. Teddy's advice
to Abayomi was to take the invention
home, so that no one would get the oppor-
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that Abayomi contacted the patent office
so he could follow the appropriate chan-
nels to attain a patent. With the aid of
friends, desire and dedication to see the
patent go through, the Abayomi Tester
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