6 tips for well-behaved kids at restaurants

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I've been impressed with my kids in other restaurant outings as well. They've had to patiently wait 30-some minutes for a table, haven't ran out of their seats mid-meal, and keep to themselves without bothering other patrons. One reason could be that my kids just love eating, and any chance to make a celebration out of it by going to a restaurant means they're too excited and happy to cause mischief. But I also think there are certain things parents can do to help prepare their kids for restaurant outings. So that going out to eat isn't the hassle it sometimes is, but something enjoyable for everyone—the kids, the parents, and the others at the restaurant. How? Take a look at the slideshare I made below and see how you can make your next restaurant outing a success. http://sleepingshouldbeeasy.com

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Taking kids to a restaurant doesn’tjust have to be about surviving...

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You can actually find yourself enjoying a restaurant meal with your family.

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How?

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It starts at home.

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Have orderly, routine meals at home.

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Eat the same meal,At the same time,

On the same table.

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Well, most of the time.

(because, who are we kidding?)

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Hold conversations—about school, your family, your work, and current events.

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Don’t tolerate poor behavior, even if you’re just at home.

That means...

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No: Food-throwing

YellingScreen time

Leaving the table

or whichever behavior you don’t approve.

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And make mealtimes a fun, peaceful experience.

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And make mealtimes a fun, peaceful experience.

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Pick a good time to go.

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The best time? Right after a nap.

When they’re hungry... but not too hungry.

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And keep it short.

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Pick the right place.

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Your ideal setting?No long wait.Not too quiet.

Family-friendly.Booster and high-chairs galore.

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Don’t bring distractions.

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At least, not too many.

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Why?

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Toys, gadgets and distractionsdiminish the value of dinner.

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You want to engage your kids, notisolate them from the experience.

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Or if needed, stick to simple items like crayons or a quiet toy.

(Even better if you can draw them in: “Let’s write your name on the paper.”)

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And bring a light snack just in case the bread takes too long to arrive.

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Pick your battles.

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It’s really okay if he slurped his soup.

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Sometimes just going along with it can help avoid tantrums and outbursts.

(Plus, do you really want to cause a scene because he doesn’t want to eat the bell peppers?)

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Set expectations.

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Yours and theirs.

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Theirs: Describe the restaurant experience

so they know what to expect.

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Yours: Remember: They’re still kids.

What may seem reasonable to you maynot be developmentally accurate for them.

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That’s it.

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Here’s to a successful dinnerwith the family...

and yes, in a restaurant.